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jidegirl12: Think wella... Na who we agreed to dash you be that. Biola

But you cant give what you dont have.. mama jhyde...

jeffizy: Biola, o n le , abi?

I once heard of a certain m.k.o abiola with 26 wives.

Dont be different.

i no reach eh...

vivian..pls dont mind them

where exactly do u have in mind region? how far?in country or out..

armyofone: any good place in Ibadan for my parents, i mean sort of like a weekend away from home for them. how much will it cost in Naira for a weekend away from home for 2?

I dont know much about Ibadan but i hear that MIC resort in Adah, Osun state is swell

jidegirl12: Eee olę oshi.... keep running away from commitments. ma gbori duro, tafotafo master

ori mi duro kpa... mo wa pa
#i dey kampe

dayokanu: So its either Biolabee or your sit at home. Choose one

why una dey call my name... abeg o

i dey kampe

vivian chinaza: I plan on going getting away alone. I just need info on the price range of hotel accommodation.

where do u have in mind.. region? how far?

Pataki: https://i.imgflip.com/fqg5.gif

nice one..

dayokanu: Whom are you getting away with, I need to know o before person head begin break

If na my paddy biolabee then no wahala

abeg o... im ok ,, lol

Obudu is a cool place tho the major challenge is usually the to and fro

I planned to go there a while back but never got the time and one has to remove eye from the cost
20+k upwards for a chalet, chartered vehicle from calabar on a windy road to and from

There is a thread on nice destinations in naija.. those interested can check it out
Another nice place is Whispering Palms also

I hear there are some spots in Cotonou.. for those who dont mind over the border

https://www.nairaland.com/797725/most-romantic-honeymoon-destinations-nigeria

greatgod2012: did he asked you this while dating, if yes, then do not stop, if no, tell him your mind, even though im the type that kneeling for hubby doesnt really bother me as such, (only that hubby isnt always comffy with it), infact i do it alot, but since im comfortable with it, im ok, if you are not comfortable with it, humbly tell him, this is no big deal, kneeling or no kneeling shouldnt get to the point of thinking about divorce, however, if he insist, compromise and do it, he will soon get tired of it, or may soon feel ashamed about it, even, if i were you, i will always embarass him with kneeling down sef, anytime hes in the group of his friends, na so, i go just dey kneel like housegirl, everywhere and everytime hes in the midst of people, i will make sure i embarass him with my kneeling down, he is the one that will come and beg me to stop it when the shame becomes too much for him.


Secondly, never tell your friends what happens in your marriage, they can mislead you, beware of all those "i cant take it" friends, you will be amazed that most of them accept hundredfold of what they told you they cant accept, so, shine your eyes, no two marriages are the same, what works for you may not work for them and vice-versa.
Even, it is unhealthy of you to even be thinking of what people think or say about you, so be wise, keep your marriage, the best way you could and never allow other parties to rule your marriage for you.
May God help you and grant you the wisdom needed to keep your marriage........ Amen.

That is the koko..

- Great post as usual!

KazeKage1: You're very wrong bro. Obito's right side was crushed by the boulder that fell, the eye given to Kakashi was his left eye,no? The side Minato hit with a rasengan is the left side..we all saw what happened to his left arm.

This is interesting --> "BTW Obito can't choose which part of his body gets sent to Kamui dimension, he can only activate intangibility, so whenever an object overlap with his body in the real world, the overlapped part gets sent into Kamui dimension, he can't keep a part of body tangible while the other part intangible."

Strange I dont get what you are saying
In a chapter that naruto had been transported as a clone, part of his body was in the dimension while part was in the battle field

pls explain

coogar you are the lord of the gifs...

i should call u coogif....lolz

camelus: Exactly my tot,A Financial Institution using Dbanj as an Ambassador.Chei ! This Ms Evelyn Oputu has fall my hand.
Bunch of irrelevancies !

wetin we go do na... no lon tin

I am definitely inspired

Guk: Brand Ambassador is a marketing term for a person employed by an organization or company to promote its products or services within the activity known as branding. The brand ambassador is meant to embody the corporate identity in appearance, demeanor, values and ethics. The key element of brand ambassadors lies in their ability to use promotional strategies that will strengthen the customer-product/service relationship and influence a large audience to buy and consume more. Predominantly, a brand ambassador is known as a positive spokesperson appointed as an internal or external agent to boost product/service sales and create brand awareness.

res ipsa loquitur

Excellent post but what I don't get is how dbanj is meant to embody the values of an organisation that is supposed to stimulate industrial devt by loand to industries -textiles and others

Misplaced priority

SMH

See confusion wey dey this woman life because a man did not do the needful

Woman always suffer in this issue of single motherhood. always

OP please contact nikkykay https://www.nairaland.com/nikkykay and WAVixen https://www.nairaland.com/wavixen

You can also read more here https://www.nairaland.com/1202357/single-parenting-love-life-career

They may be able to give you advice

coogar: the shakara of an igbo woman....
ujujoan is playing hard to get - pataki is too impatient. whenever you see these 2 lovebirds, sparks must fly. they should convert this nuclear energy to romance energy abeg!

coogar pls give us a gif to capture this momentous conjoining

omodapson: Never knew Wigan had so many fans... But sorry, you gonna be disapointed tonight

More like anti-Gunnerz

Is it kneeling that is now the problem?>!

I think say na cheating or he impregnated the house girl or he stole your savings and wasted it or he is a chronic alcoholic


Be careful what you wish for

Aside from this kneeling is there any other problem

If none, why dont u kneel and miove forward with your life

You now bring it to NL to the land of people who will abuse you and call you a fool when at the end of it all, na only know wey the marital pinch for your shoes dey o...

Ok O

Personally insisting on this in this modern age is weird and threatening the marriage is even weirder
But my advise to you is this

You are a woman and woman use thier wiles to get what they want
The more you set urself against him, the more he digs in

ish

EWWWWWWWWWWWW


They don come again

Pataki and Uju abeg no be today, please make una no desecrate this thread o..

We aer still recovering from the last one on the Child Spacing thread

Biko, Ejowo....

Do a check everywhere around the house... for holes, roofs, corners or where scorpion may have laid eggs

Though at Icm it must be small or a baby

Can u upload the pix lets see...

i know scorpions are found in the bush area- saw a couple in boarding house but never in the city

Are uou sure its not a spider

Ujujoan: I'm really rooting for this couple. Wish they can sort things out. I'm not one of those hypocrites who believe cheating rights are strictly reserved for men.

They were both wrong, it's time for them to sit up and get their marriage back on track.

Life is too short to waste being unhappy.

I hope they also do too.. I used to be no no to female infidelity until a friend of mine whose wife had an issue and they resolved it

I give the guy all props...

They have to be ready to start on a clean slate totally hence the need for counselling
Anything other than that is a no no and shd be forgotten as the pain will be too great

#Team WhyMe Reunion ? - To be or not to be?


anyhow, one may be lucky.. she may meet a man that takes care of her and he also likewise so maybe its destiny

Me sef i weak o...

Insults too much..

GENERAL G2: Truth is I've been so faithful to this girl, that's why I feel sad. To whom much is given, much is expected.
I don't define myself by the size of my bank account. I have plans, prospects and vision.

I work hard in my little biz, and use what comes from it to cater for her needs and mine. I try to provide her school fees, pocket money etc. Fact is,I don't withhold anything from her as long as I can provide it.

Focus that capital on the biz and let it grow
Maybe your destiny is telling you you are not meant together

COYG!!

horny4u: Well Hillary was cheating too (was not blown).....check history

Interesting
I did not know

Coogar I like the super storm Sandy connotation

Ujujoan: I don't think she's out to be 'smart'. Agreed, NOTHING justifies infidelity. She made a mistake, and she's remorseful.

If she were a ma, people will applaud her for being sorry. Too bad she's a woman and it's affecting her.

Do you even think this could be her own sub-unconscious, helping her end her marriage. She might not be bold enough to leave her husband so she decided to make him leave her by cheating on him and telling him. She intentionally sabotaged her marriage knowing what the outcome will be.

I just think people shouldn't do what they don't want others to do to them!

Interesting hypothesis you have there... and it may be plausible considering one may want to push an unpleasant action to the next party\
I hear Katy Perry though wanting it, wanted her hubby to initiate the divorce so she will be seen as the one that fought for the marriage

betty.. the fact that there is a bit of societal license does not mean all men cheat
Lets hope the situation in this case gets better for the parties

jidegirl12: I didn't do the magnification oh ..... *point fingers* Biola did!! I'm outta here chei my eyes de hurt . Bye

See yourself.. Bai Bai.. we dont miss you
haba,,,, onijogbon rogbodiyan

debosky: The need to pass judgement is quite disappointing.

Even when the OP isn't asking for 'advice' or 'help' and is simply giving an account of what happened, the judgement crew still emerges.

Can't y'all just be happy for the couple and move on? They've resolved it - within their marriage - which is all that counts, not your views or judgements. No need to get all preachy here - there are dozens of threads on NL that can suit that purpose.

Back on track Baba Oyo.

Succintly put

Just a caveat - all due respect to Baba Oyo this may just be a romanticized account of what went down

We don't know what she had put him through as that may be very intimate details not suitable for a public forum

He is happy she has forgiven him. Why can't we be the same and not see evil in the shadow or accuse each other of hypocrisy or threatening poor folks here

The sekson sef na wire

Now I see why no one will want to put up details of his or her life for the 'sad too sees' and 'far i sees'
Always seeing bad and no good in others

Ish

naijababe: Oju wo lo wa nran nisiyin! No be you start all this megedefegede.

where is Baba Oyo jare? I hope the armchair psychologists have not chased him away.

Naijababe wetin be my own for the mata
I believe baba put it there to express his heartfelt appreciation of mama oyo's magnanmity especially knowing he may not be able to do the same

Please don't give mama jandon any mouth for my case..

coogar: you have a crooked mind.....
that a woman forgives her husband's infidelity does not mean she's cheating. uju, where do you get [b]these patience ozokwor mentality from? [/b]sometimes i wish someone should just take you to a market square and flog you repeatedly for hours.

witchy mama?

honey86: So it is now a bad thing for a woman to forgive her husband?. Na wa oh.

madam i tire o... from perfect wives to ogre chasers..
Baba's threads are always entertaining though

Even if mama Oyo did the wonderful and unbelievable, some can do it
Bill Clinton had a worldwide affair and Hillary stuck with him

I dont blame them sha...Women of nowadays now hold men to the same standards we hold them to
Most men will not forgive

jidegirl12: xxxxx....Family dey kampe , no shaking.

God bless you

Idowuogbo: Hmmm... A guilty conscience needs no accuser.

Oga bee, u sef dey do away?

I am kampe and nothing does me
AlL I said is that no one is infallible and it takes a lot to share this with anonymous people online and suddenly my own perosna is on the firing line?

Na today

There's one young lady who had an affair with a married man contrary to what she thought years before . See the same perfect stoners stoning the girl

Yes she did bad but she is trying to get back on her feet and we all are sinners

Anyone can type anything with their keypad - it's their prerogative

That is why I respect baba more, true or not he is bringing out realities of marriage and those who have purrfect/perfect marriages and singlehood.. Carry goooo

jidegirl12: Abeg leave the juvie alone, a perfect marriage is a shock to him, he needs a shock absorber, when you've worked so hard for years to enjoy your marriage, went through hardships and rocky roads during courtship , and people like him now see these women boast about their 'perfect' union then he starts to spew opata.

https://www.nairaland.com/1194956/good-marriages-relationships-taboo

The boy's crafty ways ruffles me I swear aghhh


Abeg I dey go back to bed jare, nighty nite

I no say you no fit change
Peace no dey your vocab
Carry gooo

If me I dey crafty,Mama jhyde. That is miles better than belligerence

Idowuogbo: Ghen! Ghen! Egbon Toks dey o! Awon Aunty Elenu razor.

razor razor...

For the perfect wives here.. We have heard

Baba carry on