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Popowaa: Lingering

Michky: Wait a minute. Which book tells you that its supposed to be one man one wife in the first place? Better stop getting yourself badly informed. You obviously know nothing about history and how they affect the present. SMH for you. I think its time i leave this ignorant girls to what they do best (confused crappy discuss).

miredia: Rooneyboy i am under intuitive compulsion to believe your piece resonates your present circumstance. There is nothing clumsy in having seperate rooms under healthy conditions that justifies a genuine need for privacy. However, where i fail to have an inkling is your defiance to rationale, selfishly gratifying your se*xual appeal damning her own appetite and feelings. This is utterly inhumane. Compounding this dastardly psyche is ushering her out upon ur satisfaction thereafter requesting for a joint account, that there depletes your machoism. I was worse off and for a long time always had subservient mates. I never wanted to be around a woman for too long or talk too much, a recourse was growing to be more empathetic. Sculpting a better rooneyboy will be according some regard to her and be more hearty and trust me when i say that union is engulfed in a lot of puerile and infantile tendencies. Cheers man

kulyie: you must be very stewpeed for attacking my person just to butress what wikipedia said.i dont blame you,its seun i blame for allowing both abnormal,semi normal and imbe,ciles to register on nairaland.it is people like you that will sow your oats around all the states in nigeria while your numerous s3x mates you call wives will wait for your death before they start killing themselves and your kids over property.arindin!

kulyie: of course i know it is not by force however it is human beings that changed adultery to polygamy.the difference is that they just legalised it with marriage and gave it a name the people of the bible you referred to experienced their own consequences too whether you choose to admit it or not.abi is it easy to marry 2 wives talkless of 7oo woves of which you wont know all of them after some time in your life and it is when you are about to die they will start identifying themselves

kulyie: its an exclamation revealing disgust for....

Michky: Interesting. Tell that to the 4 wives of Jacob Zuma, the 5 wives of Alico Dangote, the 3 wives of Atiku, the 32 wives of late Mko Abiola, to the 300 wives of King Solomon and to my 1500 prospective wives to be! Mofo!! Am gonna be marrying y'all in dozens till i lose all my teeth to oldage. Starting with you shythead!! Yes you!!! NO MERCY.

tintingz: you are a funny fello ...both are sin? Asin how?

Both can never be sin cuz first the husband had already introduce his second 'wife' remeber the word 'wife' which means marriage occurs

But as for having secret lover and your wife didnt know bout it that's what they call adultery(sin)...the man can even contact STD from his secret lovers


No where in the bible says polygamy is a sin or adultery...God did not even talk much about marriage in the bible...and marriage is do or die affair? what happen 'divorce' if the wife cant stand it or be patient why not quite the marriage and move on with her life instead of poisoning her hubby, puring acid and purchasing love portion
Murder is a case you know and a big sin before God

THE SEVEN LAWS THEY LIVE BY

1. Thou shalt have all the power in your relationships at all times even to your old age


2. No consequence is too much to maintain this control


3. Thou shalt justify all other acts of your kindred womenfolk who do same


4. Thou shalt not tolerate a manfolk talking back to you


5. Thou shalt not tolerate polygamy. This is the cardinal sin and it is punishable by death


6. Thou shalt not tolerate any form of violence against thee or thine kindred women


7. Thou shalt continually seek to subjugate menfolk by ALL MEANS NECESSARY

gentlegg: I hope that man of God warned you that you should never see her panties. Not after enjoying the unfortunate girl, then comes the man of God.

dommakavelli: Try to read extensively on ur course n relate it to your uncle's biz.
Since your uncle is into estate management, he may say that he wishes to go into construction of houses n all dat.
So, he want you to study risk management so dat u can b he's manager on industrial risk etc...
since he av a brilliant n promising broda, he want to send U abroad to study n acquire international knowledge(quality) cos na U fit handle his job wella instead of hiring a stranger.

N u sef go write am 4 ur SOP...

With dat, U've covered 2 tins...
1. y U uncle won sponsor u.
2. Home ties

Note read extensively on your course n how it wud b useful in estate mgt/construction..
Relate dem n come out wit a nice SOP

Dat is y CDHC said cases are treated differently.

chaircover: I understand exactly what you are saying but I remain firm. If everyone cant have a seat belt on in a car that i will drive, then someone is going to have to get out of the car. I dont care who gets offended and with time people got to understand my stance.

My daughters booster seat always travels with us and as far as I know, all airlines carry booster seats for free (they dont count it as weighed luggage, same as with pushchairs) and even if you want to put it in a suitcase, they are not heavy anyway but you hardly see any parents come off flights and picking up their kids booster seats from the conveyor belt. Perfume for uncle A and Ipad for aunty B is a more important item to pack for some people than a booster seat. It seems that the Naija sun turns us all into james bond the man who never dies

. . Also its not just good enough for kids to sit in the back seat, they must be strapped up as well, because in an accident they can actually fly out of the windscreen or even kill the front seat passenger with the force that they will land on top of the front seat passenger

All said and done, this was a tragic accident & I feel for the family. It was all down to ignorance and sadly they paid a very heavy price for it. Many of the people blaming this woman have sat in cars without seatbelts or have been in cars where kids have not worn seatbelts or sat in the front. No one is perfect and Lets just pray that we do not become lessons to other people.

this is what a Booster seat looks like & argos do them starting from only £7.99 - Please lets keep our kids and loved ones safe

RIP baby

tayoccu: Dude there are 2 dead Uchihas and 2 dead Senjus in the picture, and 1 dead body we can't identify (cos we can't see his entire body)

kulyie: can a man put coals of burning fire on his laps and not get burnt.meaning is that : if you look for trouble,you will find it and you will find it in abundance,much more than you bargained for.shikena!

obichijiokeobi: Make una dey der dey talk, I dey gø̲̣̣̥ collect my money 15k weh I win with 200naira.

tellwisdom: Is it that you guys don't see these women dragging roads with experienced drivers??…driving like there was never anything like accident in their book??

Whether kid in front or airbag--The speed was too much to have puffed out the airbag. Thats all i can say

Unlike crash tests into barriers, real-world crashes typically occur at angles other than directly into the front of the vehicle, and the crash forces usually are not evenly distributed across the front of the vehicle. Consequently, the relative speed between a striking and struck vehicle required to deploy the airbag in a real-world crash can be much higher than an equivalent barrier crash. Because airbag sensors measure deceleration, vehicle speed is not a good indicator of whether an airbag should have deployed. Airbags can deploy due to the vehicle's undercarriage striking a low object protruding above the roadway due to the resulting deceleration.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Airbag

kulyie: and may God save me and my nigerian sisters in and out of nairaland from promiscous,morally bankrupt,self centred men,wife beaters and men who lack self control from me and my entire house hold.infact may God not even allow us to cross paths.men hat will choose to reduce me to nothing because of unreasonability may they not come 1 million poles near my house,may men like him die a shameful,dishonourable and disgracful death in JESUS name amen!

kulyie: when the wife suspects he is having extramarital relationships before his death,why wont he die.anyway,those that have inner eyes and ears will learn from this man.NOT EVERY MAN GETS AWAY WITH POLYGAMY.african culture or society will not save you the day jugement befalls on you and it can take any form

tintingz: abeg help me ask them again...even the jews practise polygamy...the wise king Solomon had almost every woman on earth but yet God never condemn him...

But Isaac had only one wife lolz... but still what happen at the end

BluIvy: @Op, my dearest, I would heed Mr Globe's opinion on this. With Nigerian man you can never say never. Please see my topic on this. You would think you know him but you do not. He will tell you about the wife two to five years later. And you will still not believe how he managed to keep it away from you for such a long time and if you like me you would have searched all the search engines and not find any marriages listed. And he will will tel you he is not married and his family will agree with him. Please whatever you do, do not dismiss the chance that he is married.

I know why you specifically mentioning that he is Yoruba, its becouse we are all led to believe Yorubas are the credible Nigerians not like Ibos. They are more educated and in professionsl jobs unlike their counter parts whether that is true or not but dear when it comes to lies a Nigerian is Nigerian, period. Just saying!

Raymondenyi: Idiots, so yu re part of the persons physically assaulting Ladies? Anyday u mistakingly try dat wt any of my siblings, or guardians I'll kill u wt my bare hans, foool.
Well as for the post! I think the whole thing is coming 4rm poverty ignorance n illitracey, I know dat village in Phc n its mainly Low class dat stays der. N I'll also use ds opportunity 2 plead 2 Ladies, pleeease after marriage don't see urself as no need 2 look Good cus U already have a"standby" man, it kills home! Men re moved by wat they see. N U should always try 2 keep up wt the trend its mandatory as a lady, try 2 look good. Please. I can't stand it if my wife doesn't look trrendy n she knows it n she's always cute looking so I really got no business outside. Ladies please be warned,

Ivynwa: It all boiled down to how it started, abusing other posters because they don't agree with your own opinion.
What I was discusing with the other lady is "Why consider others that don't agree with her opinion as having mental issues?". It concerned you in no way, you jumped in querying and attacking me for having a different opinion to you. My opinion in my post that having separate bedrooms by couples is not such a bad idea have you boiling up all over the place because I must agree with you. Why do some people come to a public forum and want to enforce their opinion on others like I can't have a mind of my own anymore? Wow. A human being that goes about abusing others for their opinion is the same person here telling others that they have mental issues. #Ridiculousness
Stay here and be making a fool of your self. Don't stop, keep bringing it on. Try hitting your head on the cyberwall if you like. It will not make me have the same opinion with you but that may help you remember more vocabs to use as bullets in your gun that is pointed at Ivy. I use to avoid absorbing/reading vilewords and bullets being used in the internet by bullies like you but that makes your likes feel like the other persons cannot stand up for themselves. Ain't no internet bully getting me down. I am standing here with my Akpobi shield girl. Keep shooting --------Odeshi (Abeg make I laugh).

Heyi! You are actually feeling like a masquarade with a cane running down the roads of nairaland flogging everybody that disagrees with you on the threads. #The-Champion-lady-fighter-fights-on-and-on. Jeez!.
Just make sure that you entertain the audience and give them enough to laugh about. The floor is open for you again----A-c-tion. Don't tell me that you are not taking this bet? You know you can't resist it? Hehehehehe hahahahaha, you are so entertaining.

shymexx: Oh well, he's resting in peace... and it's better on the other side..

However, the woman will spend the rest of her life in prison eating baked beans and chips...

lastpage: It does not start in ONE DAY!
Today, he is not stupid to have another lover,
Tomorrow, he would likely be "stupid" and have another lover ...and you would know!

From your posts, you would definitely KILL HIM!

YOU are a MURDERER-in-waiting. You will certainly kill your spouse, one of these days, that l am sure of.
I hope he is reading and watching you closely?
Tru-dat.

lastpage:
Thank you for your "observation".
[Those women "dancing" about this issue are reminding us that they would do exactly the same thing, if their husband decides to marry a second wife!
I HOPE THEIR HUSBANDS/BOYFRIENDS ARE READING THIS, .....YOU ARE GOING OUT WITH A POTENTIAL MURDERER!

Back to the real issue:
[b]*The fundamental basis of any relationship, which is.... and should be "TO FREELY ASSOCIATE, WITHOUT COMPULSION", ....is being called to question here.

*Marriage is not about "exclusive ownership or property" .......since we humans are NOT COMMODITIES to be traded back and forth. You did not buy or own your partner. What you own is "Your own freedom" to walk away, if you want "out".

*Marriage is an "agreement to live together PEACEFULLY". If that condition can no longer be realized, or is no longer feasible or has become extremely cantankerous, then it is better (l said better, not the best alternative) for each party to go their separate ways.

*If one can then build a fulfilling (within limits of their circumstances) relationship from there-on, good.

*But when one partner thinks "I must kill the other one because he/she does not love me anymore", then it was NEVER LOVE in the first place!

*Killing your spouse also deprives the kids of their right to the "presence and love" of that other spouse!

*If what she did was right, why is she now running and dodging? For how long can she run? She will eventually be hanged or gassed to death. Those who kill by the sword MUST die by the sword.[/b]

In this age of rampant promiscuity, l hope all the women celebrating this murder will one day, expect their "man" to murder them if and when he discovers they have cheated on him,....how about that for thought? The same yardstick you use for others will be used for you, as well. Shikenna!

If you truly love something, set it FREE.....if it comes back to you, it is yours for keeps otherwise, it was never yours in the first place!

If you dont like a "situation", just walk away from it. It costs you nothing (and they did not build any home together because this is not a home, ab-initio! A "home" does not suffer this kind of violence.

Lastpage

LESSON: If you must eat with the Devil, please be prepared to "buy and use" a VERY LONG SPOON! Nothing should be taken for granted these days! be Guided.

shymexx: Thank you, brother...

Nigerian women are notorious for illegitimate children... The man probably found out that he's not the father of his kids and that everyone and their pops probably slept with his wife before they got married... We all know women are the biggest liars on this planet - and the man had to find himself another woman...

He didn't deserve to die like that...

adabeke12: DO NOT TELL ME HOW TO HAVE A CONVERSATION. I DO WHAT I PLEASE, YA DIGG? I DIDNT CUSS ANYONE I WAS ONLY GIVEN AN ADVICE TO STUBBORN PPL LIKE U. IF I CUSS U GO KNOW. LOOK BACK IN MY OLD CONVOS... THAT SHOULD TELL U SOMETHING

adabeke12: IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO. UNA NO WAN LISTEN... TUFIAKWA

kulyie: if he comes to the world again he will give rationality and deep thought for the consequences of his action a second chance before sowing his wild oats and if per chance he has a son,when he grows up and he is told of the circumstances surrounding his father's death,he will think twice before sticking his dck into the hole of anything that is not his wife[b] except of course if he wants to perish shamefully like his father[/b].at least even if you want to die,let it be a heroic death not because of vagina.this is a lesson to all polygamist in the making and men in general

kulyie: yes this happens when the wife is ok with it and she is aware.some women are cool with their husbands marrying other women but in this case he had been having extramarital relationship,wedded the girl and brought her home before he met his waterloo.the point is that if your wife is ok with it,fine but if she is not and you want to impose polygamy on her,it is perfectly natural she reacts but going overboard as to murder is what i dont subscribe to

adabeke12: you all don't make sense...sorry. NOT ALL AFRICANS PRACTICE THIS SO CALLED POLYGAMY. I DON TIRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
U MEN SHOULD GO AND EAT POLYGAMY ANY THING WEY HAPPEN TO YOUR BELLE AFTER EATING IT IS YOUR TORRO. OGBASARAM BIKO GA UNU.

shymexx: You lot need to start accepting the fact that polygamy is African, just as we've big lips and big noses...

And stop quoting the bible to buttress your myopic logic - you're not God, and there's no way you'll know if the man is going to "heaven" or "hell." The only one who looks like a sure candidate for the hottest part of "hell" is the ratchet woman that took an innocent man's life... Tired of women playing the blame game...

How about all your fellow women who have destroyed the lives of millions of men on this planet?? Didn't a report come out last year about 65% of all the first born in Nigeria are illegitimate children?? Most of you naija women are sl.uts and you lot need to be judged!!

You lot stay getting pregnant for other men and forcing their children on your husbands!! Go deal with that and stop misquoting the bible for your asinine thought process...

kulyie: it beats my imagination how some pro polygamists or polygamists in and out of nairaland assume they can be happy in a marriage at the expense of their partners hapiness.no matter how much you try to legalise and give polygamy a name,sin will always be sin and will be treated accordingly by God.when the bible said 'what God has joined together,let no man or woman put assunder' and he who destroys the institution of God,him will he destroy,they are all in your bible,that's if you care to read it.whenever any man or woman contravenes this covenant binded when you said i do before God and man and you were not coerced,God has stamped it,therefore any man or woman that tries to put asunder through infidelity that they call polygamy always faces the consequences.there is no escape route moreover God cannot be mocked whatsoever a man sows,that shall he reap.the stewpeed girl that went to get pregnant for a married man has become after one.i wonder which man will marry an after one and accept the baby even when beautiful,hot ladies that have not yet given birth has not seen husband,it is after one that they have shortened her market price that will see husband,2.the man has been murdered by his furious wife.straight to hell fire,no doubt about that because it is in the bible that all adulterers shall not inherit the kingdom of God,the woman that was murdered too will not be spared because there is something called temprance and self control.peace will elude her and she will be running from pillar to post even when no one is chasing her. Infact devil has taken over that lineage from that generation.

kulyie: a[b]ny woman,i repeat and quote me anywhere,any woman that is a single mother in this 21st century chose that way of life not because there were no men around her who she could have chosen[/b] but because 1.she chooses not to be 'an african wife,2.she can't put up with you men's wahala,3.she knows she is not submissive and is not ready to be,4.she wants to be a mother yet live as a single lady e.g partying,clubbing,travelling,attending one red carpet or the other.i have seen many ladies in their mid/late 2os and 3os who are happy living the life of a single mom.as long as you have the money to raise your kids and you are living well,what else do you need.infact just recently my friend was jisting me that single moms too have fvck mates,no commitments,no emotions,just fvck and go.more like buddy call.whenever they are Hot,they go to his house and if they dont want that,they get a vibrator,so they have options when it comes to s3x matters too,not all of them are s3x starved.ishhh!