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[quote author=baby_123]All these guys in the bible, being polygamous didnt favor them in the end. It is best to hand an agreement in the begining. But no woman will ever want to share what is for her and her sons with another woman. Please, never mistake that. At your death, most likely disaster and destruction of your legacy is what will happen.[/quote]Thank you!
Now you have come out and said it.. ITS ALL ABOUT MONEY AND INHERITANCE
I thought women of nowadays are working and are subversive to men becase they have their own money
So if the man decides to upgrade to a younger model, why is it a big deal since the first wife has her own money na
Leave the marriage abi
marriage na by force?
Is this not the religion around these parts
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shymexx: It's not silly, love.. That's the truth - some of these ratchet women need to be judged...

I live in a country where women have too much liberty and the law always take their side of the story when it comes to domestic violence... My pops told me when I was younger that I when I grow older I'll understand better... I thought the old man was just chatting some porkies... Do you know how many men are homeless out here after they go kicked out of their own houses by their wives? Do you know how many men are in prison, or have been to prison for domestic violence initiated by their scandalous wives??

I had a similar experience a few years ago.. This scandalous slu.t that I was checking did something asinine and I called her out on the phone for it... And just because she knows I'm the type that'll never beat a girl up - this scandalous byt.ch drove all the way from her house to mine at 2am... She got in and started breaking all my shyte including my laptops, game console, and TV... When I tried restraining her, I just noticed there was blood on my shirt - the psychotic byt.ch slashed the back of my head..

I got pissed of off and smashed her phone on the floor... Next thing, the byt.ch started screaming and she called the police on me... All my neighbours also called the feds... When the feds came, they didn't even listen to my side of the story - they just told me she acted in self-defense and arrested me for breaking her phone... I got released the same night - but I had to pay for the damn rubbish phone... And get my head fixed up at the A & E...

Muthaphuck these angry, scandalous, phony, psychotic, casted, and ratchet slu.ts - they need to be JUDGED!!!

so how did they explain off the broken laptops... Sorry dude
Now i understand why dk and sagamite have their views

Michky: I have been advocating a support group for married and yet to be married men, but am yet to receive enough encouraging feedback. The rate at which men are fast becoming extinct is alarming. Forget all these she-boys parading themselves as men because they've been lifting weights and taking girls to bed. We need more male role models to show our young ones the way to go. I pray for men.

Bros, no be only that, some of the she-boys are now looking for girls to bed here hence the ultra senstive babble they post
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COOLDUN: Some times i wonder the meaning of being Christians and children of God in this country. How is the killing of ones husband/wife the better option for solving marital problems? Marriage is for better or for worse when you are a real child of God and not when you are only a church goer.

This fooolish woman killed her husband for bringing in another wife , while forgetting that the woman in this case is already pregnant for her late husband, which makes her a legitmate member of the family. If the child is a male child he will be with her in the family for ever, if she is a female child , she will marry but still remains the daughter of the dead man.


Nigeria has been turned to a blood sucking nation, because the rulers are members/agents of the Devil and workers of iniquity. Human lives are no longer sacred in the country. The blood of the innocent slaughered citizens are on rampage nowadays that is why we see blood as ordinary water.

Men, too i blame you people for our woes in the hands of women, you will go with a sweet and honey cotted tongue and bring in a woman in as wife, within few years you will plan how to dump her for a new and fresh woman ,who will be happy to be used and dumped?

Women, killing your husbands is an act of cowardice , when a man tells you that without him that you can't survivie, as a child of God who knows the God you pray to, you only leave him and start another life, work harder and prove him wrong, than killing him and increasing your pains, agonies and punishment.

This wicked act of this woman is an everlsting stain on her children now, if she has. Anger when well managed brings joy at last, but when badly managed brings an everlasting frustrations.

GBAM!!

Michky: So many sick girls on Nairaland. If it was a man that was accused, you'll have seen an avalanche of anti-men rants all over. Now a woman killed a man and these zombies are still blaming the men. SMH.

In the eyes of the ultra-feminists, men can neever be justified
A lot of them was even supporting another woman who swindled a man of money saying the man scammed her broke her heart first

idupaul: GBAM !!!

This explains it all .. Murderous totoes on the lose on this thread

Really scary

Murderous, vengeful and demonic

Costa2000: So u are going to be happy if ur brother's wife killed him b/c he cheats?,can you tell ur family members nd friends that you are happy over ur brothers death cos he is a cheater?.Think twice.

Thanks you for that question

byvan: @Biolabee,I would probably have committed if I was married to you.Before you get married,make sure you know your woman's view on infidelity,if not....you fit make front pageooo brother.

I appreciate your honesty at least so a man knows what/whom he is dealing with

Cityguy: Life is about choices and when we make these choices, we should be ready to face the consequences. Why did she run away? At least going by what most nlanders have said, she has a cogent reason- the man invited death by going after other woman- and would have been acquitted. I believe in eye for an eye. This life sentence of a thing is not it for me. They say its for a second chance but why give someone a second chance he/she had deprived others? She sat and thought through her plans and if I were a relation of that man, I doubt I'll wait for any law to catch up with that devil of a woman.

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Since the Penal code has prescribed death for polygamists, she has no probllem abi


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needful: Its common amond men. Its obvious that the poor woman must have suffered a lot, trying to build her home with the man she luvs. In return, the idiot decided to pay her back by bringing in another woman. Why didnt that idiot marry this second one with the first one at once so that all of them will suffer together rather than re marrying because money has started flowing.

ur point is funny.. funny really though u have a point

Aggrippa: why wont they? because they dont hv wives or girlfriends....i am fervently praying the FG legalize gun ownership for we masses, so that a plethora of cascading reactions will be initiated...can't wait to see a reduction in the already overbloated population

Are u advocating for gun ownership as a means of population control

Aggrippa: why wont they? because they dont hv wives or girlfriends....i am fervently praying the FG legalize gun ownership for we masses, so that a plethora of cascading reactions will be initiated...can't wait to see a reduction in the already overbloated population

believe that and believe anything
Even pentecostal church pastors dey get second wife
Na when e kpeme, the secret comot
go to Nairaland e- rumor thread and read up on one of the people that is believed to have impregnated a small girl

[quote author=baby_123]It is, to a woman it is a serious slight and insult of the highest order. Some of them keep quiet and live for their kids, others it is even the second wife that kills off the first wife and kids. Some others just kill the man silently, to speed up the sharing of the property before he brings in 3rd and 4th wife. The first wife is mostly pained because 90% chance she married for love. The others coming dont care as the probably married for convenience and the money. Any woman that tells you she is ok with sharing a man she loves is a very big liar.[/quote]in that case, women feel bad i accept,, but polygamy can never justify murder
abraham was polygamous
david was polygamous
solomon was polygamous
jacob was polygamous

so why in these days suddenly polygamy is equal to death

[quote author=baby_123]You guys are attacking Byvan and turning logic upside down. Is it not glaring that the man is foolish and invited his own death? Even the neighbors knew they were having arguments over this issue. Why will you go ahead and bring a pregnant woman into that situation? The first wife must really be sh*it to him. No one is justifying the murder. Only pointing out the foolishness of the man. Know the difference. I am not going to argue back and forth. There are just somethings you dont do, and think no repercussions will come of it.[/quote]No one is arguing with her
She did not condemn the act of murder .. and stated that anythign you see when you marry a second wife is justified
The fact you marry a second wife does not mean the first wife is sh*t t to you

idupaul: Best man on earth FIRE!!! Except his mother does not pray .. No praying mother's son will be led into the snares of a murderous woman like U.. Better lock up in fathers house ooo

Amin ashe

byvan: Did I specifically state death as the penalty for cheating??Any consequence erupted by ones infidelity is well deserved,understand this(that's just my point)

This was the basis of my first question
When did polygamy become infidelity

Someone has said it monogamy is a female construct

[quote author=the_ripper2]Well, the nigga is dead and the woman Is living. Probably won't b caught even. Niggas should be wiser, women are actually more feral wen pushed to the wall.

I have seen acid-baths, broken bottle lacreation, stabbing and deep knife cuts caused by similar scenarios.

Not justifying the gruesome murder but some men are the architects of their doom.[/quote]Exactly but if it was a man that slapped his wife, you need to see the tsunami of condemnation against menfolk

Abuse by anybody or sex is wrong but how many women have condemned this act

Some guys are even licking a.rses by agrEeing to it

[quote author=baby_123]It is called temporary insanity. It does happen. Only a crazy man will bring in a pregnant woman into the house where his first wife is. A crazy and wicked man. The article doesnt say anything about the woman having a child. Who knows why she lost it. [/quote]Yes people have been known to lose their mind over envy and jealousy but still it does not justify murder in any way

fluxbush: There is nothing so dangerous in this world than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.

You my dear are the st.ewpid one
Masquerading your folly up and down with smiles

byvan: My hubby knows me wellaaa,am not his wife by default,so he will obviously serve the divorce papers before doing what the man above did.Screw around by all means but make sure you have served the divorce papers. As for the dick box,he doesn't need,birds of the same feathers flocks together.

At least I appreciate your honesty though you are a potential committer in the making

As you have rightly noted, marriage is not by force but in case you are of the do or die ilk, use the p.enis box pictured accordingly

It will give you piss of mind

byvan: I don't put any interest in Bf/gf cheating but when you make a vow,you should be ready for the consequences that comes with breaking it.If you are tired of your spouse,divorce him/her before you start sticking it all over.

All you wrote above is based on assumptions which am too tired to address now.

For your mind, the consequence of a man marrying a second wife is death?!


Really shaking my head now

idupaul: Then please don't marry anybodys son ... Just keep ur wicked soul in ur fathers house and kill him when he cheats on your mother !!!!

GBAM!!!

She has already accepted she's an animal anyway so don't bother

You better lock your husband's g.enital up so you dnt go to prison

[quote author=baby_123]Everyone is. It just depends on if the conditions are right. Everyone also has a threshold and a limit. Not everyone can walk away with their lives being trampled upon. Dont do to others what you cant take. Or wont want to be done to you. Shikena![/quote]By this logic, the woman can leave the union since she has been deserted by her man or stay and commit infidelity of her own

How did the man marrying a second wife become death that he should be paid back in the same coin

Agrika: Though am not in support of this devilish act, i must say there is something men have to understand about women. Women are naturally jealous and possessive , you dont for whatever reasons, bring in another woman into a woman's matrimonial home, it infuriates us, even if she pretends she is ok with it, believe me internally she is boiling, women consider thier home as thier "own space" bringing in another woman is like encroaching into that space, is more or less like challenging her "oya lets see what u can do about it". Moreover in this case, this woman came from a religion, where polygamy is frowned at, one could see why she reacted so negatively to the idea.
Had it been the man was wiser he could have made arrangements, probably hired a room, in another compound where the new wife could stay.

I agree with you and understand no woman will love to share her man
I still don't accept the price for that crime is death

[quote author=baby_123]Oh please. Only a foolish man that wants his own death will go and bring in another woman against the first wives wishes. The violence and anger behind that killing tells a lot. Who knows what the woman has been through with such a man. Now that soup is sweet, he wants to sh*it on her. The man invited his own death. Period.[/quote]Ok so if the first wife did not assent to the junior wife, the solution is death

freecocoa: This your reasoning na wa o.

So you won't even stop for a minute to think about what must have gone wrong in the marriage that would warrant the man taking a 2nd wife, okay maybe he was just being an a$$, so he should die?

There are so many what ifs to be asked my dear, how are you sure the man wasn't being blackmailed into the marriage or something? What if he was under the influence of juju like many people may believe?

Killing the man hasn't made things better, it only made it a lot worse, you that is even advocating death sentence can cheat, no one is a 100% sure of anything so stop talking as if you are infallible.

You are discussing with a potential committer
You will hear it first on this NL

toofine765: There is no justifiable reason why a woman should kill her own husband with her own hands. No woman supports her man taking a second wife but if he so chooses to, it's either you remain in the marriage and share him with the other woman or you pack your things and leave after all it is a free world they say.

Thanks Ma for your contribution

pro01: Meanwhile, it is laughable how these "modern" (by half) girls are equating infidelity with polygamy (even though they are not modern enough to share financial responsibilities with their boyfriends and husbands like the oyinbo women do). If you don't fancy the idea of polygamy and relaxed-fidelity for men, then you are at liberty to marry oyinbo men. Polygamy is a fundamentally African tradition, and any man in this part of the world is permitted to marry as many wives as his finances and libido can cater for. Any wife that is not fine with that should divorce her husband and go find happiness elsewhere. It is certainly not sufficient provocation in this part of the world to vent her murderous spleen on her husband.

Meanwhile, I don't hear too many women complain about the polygamous marriages of the likes of OBJ, Atiku, traditional rulers, northern governors, countless billionaire businessmen, etc; could it that you are allowed to marry many wives only if you're wealthy and powerful? Or why haven't these men been poisoned and stabbed to death by their jealous wives?

You are a Daniel come to this thread
Yet this are the self same women claiming they are economically empowered
Oya.. go on ya own na if you no want share

Abi marriage na by force
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rezzy: I wont,No, im not an animal.
He caused his death by bringing another lady into thier home.
Thats the new law of infidelity- death. If i were the woman, i would av killed him slowly. Put poison inside his food and let him go through pains for 3 months and he will join his ancestors just joking, cant kill a fly

You are truly an animal...

idupaul: Yeah I just saw that .. Sorry bout my error .

Good man