₦airaland Forum

stillwater: Rotflmao, I don't know why men like you are more concerned about the single motherhood than the women. I mean you have kids what else can a man give you, for real. Some even become time keepers to help women count their 'biological clock'. In Nigeria today, population wise there are more men than women. The crux of the matter, in comparison to those who are responsible, there are more men who are NOT responsible. You also have to put into consideration the ones that are into one fraudulent activity or the other. So it looks as if men are scarce in naija. Men are not o, we just have a high percentage of uncouth men than responsible ones. Most Nigerian women would have to lower her standards to marry most of you.

I have always said it, you women would want to lock us up as we are supposedly not good for anything
Please marry a non nigerian so you can dilute out the Nigerianness in you

Also there are more women than men anywhere in the world
Only in some states in China and India because of female infanticide

We love ourselves.. just that we cant do without all y'all azzes
Some of you gat some nice ones tho

MeGaStReEt: ARE YOU FREEKING SERIOUS??

One month is ok na.. check out some scammers have withheld money from clients for years on this same NL
Go to the scammers thread

stillwater: I dey laugh o. Upstanding and cultured to describe an African male?
I don't even wish real African men on my enemy. I would only date the 'moderates'.
I won't marry as per color of skin, but if he turns out to be White, yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!
You think I'm the type that do the whole 'oh I want my man dark like midnight' loll. Go check my history here and come back and tell me what you think.

stillwater: You guys have killed women physically, spiritually, emotionally for centuries, but we still dey here dey survive . So extinction of the male species can't happen.

What about the evil acts that women have inflicted over the ages as you said one sex does not have a monopoly of evil
We sef dey survive una
Chei.. men don suffer

You ladies should marry the non Africans since africans are not 'supposedly' cultured

beemix: I have never bought anything on any Nigerian online shopping site before cause to be frank,an still trying to come to terms with its reliability and avoid my account being compromised. However due to my banking experience in Nigeria and outside Nigeria. 1-5 days rightly means 1-5 Working days where Saturday and Sunday doesn't count. This 1-5 working days is the period it takes them to process your refund to your bank (account). Them your bank takes about a week or more to process it to reflect in your account. I worked in a Bank in the UK and shop every time online ; its thesame everywhere:amazon, monsoon, next, hawe and Curtis, Dorothy Perkins, little woods etc. Initially when I started shopping online i get very agitated not seeing my money within 5working days until they calling and they kept advising me to contact my bank. Minewhile there is little your bank can do cause its still in transit. However it always shows up @ d end. It may take 2weeks, 1week or 3weeks. I think there's, is to process it with 3-5 working days while it's the banks responsiblity to reflect it ASAP but due to the large volumes of wired moneys every especially online,it's takes longer to clear (just like a cheque been paid in) However, in jumais case. I suggest they might be in the same pattern and mode of operation nevertheless I still advise you follow up to ascertain some clarity on it.Lot of online call center staffs are also ill-experienced in explaining this to you in details. Like I said,have never shopped on their site to know how reliable. I hope this helps. Cheers.

The funds are taken from your card and put in holding pending when the retailer makes the request for it
If you cancel the order in sufficient time or the vendor cannot fulfill the order, they will inform the bank to return the funds
All they need to do is activate a refund request and the bank will return the funds back
My experience with online stores in the UK - they refund you in 3 days

The issue here is about business reliability and integrity

jt2010: Sister, not having a physical store does not make them scam, its a business model that has been use and proven to work. Amazon business model is base on this also and we all can agree that Amazon is a success and they keep to what they advertise unlike this fraudsters called

Amazon has physical logistics centers scattered around

stillwater: Seems a lot of Nigerian men are scared. Mission accomplished! See as they are hanging on the thread as if their lives depend on it. I would be too if I just realized I don't have a monopoly of violence. Our fore-mothers should have done this a long time ago, we wouldn't be struggling with this crap now. More responsibility would have been required from men in this age.
If you like scream culture from now till eternity, no problem, just get ready to be dealt with accordingly.

LMAO..... At least we agree no one has a monopoly of violence
Make una dey suck the blood
When una kill all the men finito, una go know

xynerise: . Tozo

bros how far LOL

jackbauersballs: Nacked the Housegirl...Nacked my older neighbour...tried to nack all the girls at my lesson...

Started smoking egbow at 13.Practically lived in Baba Seun's Gamecenter at PWD ikeja,

Tamo Molue and beg conductor for standing after spending my transport fare.

Sneaking into Pen-Cinema to watch Indian films and dodging the Ticket office guys.

Finally playing Monkey Post on Agege Motor Road(express) during the Sharia reprisals in 2001.

Good times growing up in Agege central. Lol

badt boy..

xynerise: Hung my self on a tree like Judas is carrot just because I saw a man in a movie commited suicide by hanging himself on a tree. I was just bleating like a christmas goat that day. My elder bro saved my life

antelope

oyinbogirl:

Hello?

byvan: The same reason why men can't stomach another man.

Traditionally and scripturally you are allowed to chase the adulterous woman out.

So why can't women leave the union on principle

mishoo... so as to not to be tagged a scammer do the needful

onpoint as always, ifyalways lol

ticklin: This really doesn't matter as the people at VAC will arrange it themselves.

Its helpful as it helps save time
It also ensures you dont forget anything

Organising is helpful

byvan: The most important is this,marry a woman who can condone it,shikena.This life is simple,if people can just be honest to each other.

biolabee: And this is the root of my odyssey
In the old days it was assumed this was due to money, inheritance etc bla bla bla
But now women are rich and have very rewarding careers potentially so why is it an issue if a man brings another wife in
Should you not just wish him good riddance moreover you can pay your bills so you will not starve

Please can you help with q above
Why cant women stomach another woman

Senny4lif is it possible to put up a thread on burkina faso, fun spots, beaches and how to get there

tintingz: crap! Women of the bible days are not same as the women in 21 century

Forget all those craps the oyibo white people started 'the one man one wife'... Polygamy is africa culture, the jews practise it, muslims practise it... but christians says it is a sin and many pastors are screwing their misstres outside...
I wonder where God condemn polygamy in the bible

I don't want to say too much because that will be too much fuel for the atheist crowd

There was one pastor that died and upon his death, a second wife and kids just show up from no where.

byvan: My hubby knows who I am,how I think,The goodies far outweighs the risk.There is nothing like being in Kafanchan and knowing that your pretty wife can never be caught dead or alive cheating.There is nothing like a woman that can be trusted 100per,I will sink and float with my man but the day you broke that vow....I just won't be responsible for my actions.He knows my stand on virtually every situation and he knows marriage is not a do or die for me.

I ll respect a man more for telling me,"I don't want you anymore"I ll move on gratefully than having you disgracing me with your infidelity.I hate clingy women,if he doesn't want and said so,just move on!

I appreciate your honesty. At least

kulyie: exactly.no matter how close a woman is to her friend,if she sees that friend starts sleeping with her man,that friendship will degenerate to intense hatred which can bring out murderous tendencies

And this is the root of my odyssey
In the old days it was assumed this was due to money, inheritance etc bla bla bla

But now women are rich and have very rewarding careers potentially so why is it an issue if a man brings another wife in

Should you not just wish him good riddance moreover you can pay your bills so you will not starve

byvan: U gat it now,I WILL NOT SHARE,that's the point.If you need a new wife,serve the divorce papers and settle her for breach of contract.Then you can go marry your whor*,Your ex wife will get a new life too.

At the least you are honest
Have you told your hubby this

#jezazzing

Murder was the case that gave they me

kulyie: i am only using that to illustrate a point,dont twist my words to suit your mischief,trouble finder thank you! Meanwhile it is only God that has the exclusive right to judge not you or any human being for that matter,ok?

My point is that just as you fEel men are the source of the world's problem, men feel the same way

Baba put something that will always attract us together or else humanity will have been extinct long ago

That's why everyone should join hands against same sex relationships etc


Remember the good book says we are gods so though Baba is the ultimate judge.. I will still judge una

JUDGED!!

Murder is not a fitting punishment for polygamy or even infidelity for that matter

That's why walking away is allowed

I always shake my head at girls that feel cool rolling with effeminate boys

Just as you can't do without us, I accept we can't do without you

byvan: Can't you get into to your head that most women can't share their manNo woman wants to share,just as no man will want to share.

It's what I've always said
Monogamy is the ultimate feminist weapon

Since men will not share, I will not share..

byvan: Infidelity gave birth to polygamy.

URBAN LEGEND!

kulyie: exactly.apparently many men are like dogs,they dont learn from other men's mistake,they still repeat exactly the same thing and get the same results.they keep going back to their vomit like a dog.

If men are dogs, I wonder why y'all love us
Remember what a female dog is called....


JUDGED!

byvan: Issues is a part of human relations,it is not exclusive to marriages.

Beautiful! So why the vehemence against polygamy

Is murder justified accordingly

From what I'm readin here, a woman prefers to be battered by her monogamic hubby rather than be pampered by a polygamic man

kulyie: including amassing of concubines whether you admit it or not

Bible no talk so ooo
The prophet condemned david for killing uriah because of his love for bathsheba

Before then he had married milcah, abigail so many sef

kulyie: while you need to learn the art of decorum and civility.you can make a point without attacking personalities.however i thought you were refering to me,if you weren't sorry about that!

Dear kulyie, I believe I have been civil so far and tolerant of your views but I still do not think murder is justified because a man wanted to marry another wife$that is the issue here not polygamy

I however did not call you names until you did

Sorry too

byvan: The only man I hold in disdain is the man who has proven that his ego is bigger than his brain,a dishonest,deceitful man,who thinks that being a man ordains him the chief Humper of the universe.

On the contrary,I have utmost respect for those who have proved themselves worthy of their manhood.The responsible and loving man,only he shall I adore.

By your book, loving and responsible is monogamy
So why do single unions also have issues

In this same NL Family section, eevryday na one story or the next...

kulyie: while nothing worthwhile can come out of a pit latrine mouth.you suck and irritate!

what is the reason for the unprovoked attack
I was not referring to you however i did not expect less than a lady like with also no home training
People like y'all need to be sent back home for proper training on how to talk

byvan: When a man speaks,it re-echoes in a thousand miles.It shall be well with you young man!!

If you actually taken time to read what others have said so far, it will have been good

No one here advocates polygamy as a lifestyle
I am not one and dont see myself as one
shymexx has said the same

Polygamy has its own issues because guess what!, you are getting married to a woman
all - gamies have a woman involved
But I will not accept that polygamy is infidelity except the law of this land forbids it
Moreover the murder which all y'all a.rses have not condemned shows the level of disdain you women hold men in

Bitterness is a bad thing

kulyie: as far as my own school of thought is concerned,once my own man says i do when i didnt force him to marry me,did not marry me under duress and no one put him under undue pressure to marry me,if he chooses to marry me on his own accord,especially when i did not throw myself at him,my marriage will be a do or die affair.if i cant marry him alone,no one else will,its either the thing (dck) that is making him feel like a man is removed over night or acid is poured on it.as gentle as a woman can be,they are also very vicious.anyway i know i won't marry an animalistic man but if he decides to misbehave,he too will meet me there.say anything you like,bash me all you can,i have said my own.women have 2 sides either the soft,feminine and loving side or the vicious,animalistic and mean side

kulyie: Ever wondered why men become so meek,gentle,fragile and harmless.take away the dck or money (as in a financially poor man) you have removed the man in him (ego) he becomes a woman in a man's body.men are nothing without these 2 things,so all their shouting will stop as soon as one of them is taken by the woman either through castration or fraud

If this is really how you women feel about men, i pity the menfolk

kulyie: even though he was described as a man after God's heart,the same God still said he will not be spared.he faced the consequence here on earth.his entire household turne upside down that he could not control the situation again e.g brother raping sister,son sleeping with some of his concubines under his nose etc

Read your bible, he was punished for murdering the husband of a woman he desired

Lol @2buff

So the baby will be called North West?

He he he ever since this guy's mum died, he has lost focus