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[quote author=Lord_Reed]Oh really? You disrespect millions of Nigerians who are quite pleased with their choice to marry yet you are here whining?

Why are you taking panadol for someone else's headache? Instead of being an internet loudmouth, go out there and help people.

You are no better than the very people you seek to criticize if all you going to do run unnecessary generalizations over a matter you don't have experience in. As it stands I think you just as obsessed with the matter.[/quote]JUDGED!
[quote author=Lord_Reed]I didn't ask you, I already read your OP and the 1st page. You made a huge generalization that puts a slap on the face of millions of people, calling them fools for the choices they have made which you don't even have the gusts to make nor are you willing to face the realities of. To me you sound upset over nothing.

If you have successfully lived your life either as a single or married person you will see beyond the myopia of labeling people because then you'd have seen the different things that drive people.[/quote]Re- JUDGED!!!!

Hmm.. The great olaedo that stirred up controversy with the Beauty of NL woman thread

Hmm..strictly a trad marriage is binding as the woman has been handed over to her inlaws and the woman can move into her hubbys house but to be wise just do a court or registry for potential legal issues

nwando: It is cultural for Yorubas to have children out of wedlock since they are polygamous by nature
There is a high probability the boyfriend of yours was also born out of wedlock
In Yorubaland culture all a woman needs to attain the status of wifehood is to get pregnant for a man so this is no biggie
You are now an iyawo
The family will be very happy to hear the news of your pregnancy and the addition to the polygamous family and plans will be on the way for a huge celebration called naming ceremony.
Start picking out names
It doesn't matter what gender,the boys and girls bear the same names
There will be plenty of people in colorful uniforms and gigantic head gears gyrating for joy with plenty food to eat and drink on that naming ceremony day
Congrats
If the pregnancy is of twins ,shout alleluia anyhow,you have hit the jackpot
You should then get pregnant again to get an Idowu
You will occupy an important place in the family above the other subsequent baby mamas
Congrats and safe delivery

A lot of stereotypes here.. How do you get off writing this crap

My family is definitely not polygamous and we frown at children outside wedlock

You could at least have qualified with the word 'some' or 'some at least' then your thesis would at least make some sense

SMH AT NL TRIBALISTS

stillwater: Thank God it's a man's world.
I'm sure a woman's world would be betterrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
See chaos all around the world because of men. I wish God could start all over again.
See Nigeria, mostly men in important positions, look at how nonsensical, corrupt and underdeveloped the country is.
That is what you get when you put men in charge.
Seriously I'm very glad this dirty entity called earth is all a man's doing.
Count women out!

Wiki is still a quick credible source am not writing a thesis moreover the facts are generally right

Meanwhile don't get gaga there
A lot of the woes of this earth were caused by women's manipulations

Who taught jacob how to deceive
Who taught solomon his idolatrous ways
Who gave adam the fruit

Women have contributed immensely to the earths destruction

JUDGED!!!

oyinbogirl: hahahaha u think the guy no be for real? he seemed sincere, but ah well u could be right - who knows

Story...

[quote author=@kenyattaMoore]When you say you make visitors feel at home,do you mean white,indians and chinese?if that is what you mean I agree 100% with you ,but when it comes to your own african brothers and sisters I disagree.There is one thing I love about nigerians their solidarity outside nigeria,for example their community in China is one of the best,people envy that.
I am from central and east-africa ,congolese by birth.[/quote]Well you may be right though I've not heard much feedback from africans that much

Congo is another country I will love to visit
From what I hear they have lovely wildlife #Gorillaz lol

@seunlif no problem

Stomach rumbles when there is no food

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lastpage:
By nature, men are wired to "feel macho" and banding up against some whining and weird womenfolk is considered "denigration" on the menfolk.

This is why such calls hardly receive any attention from the suffering menfolk.

But the truth is that women have taken advantage of this "male mentality", to further isolate men and deal with them in the most outrageous manner, coupled with the fact that "society" has come to accept that men are "stronger physically and THEREFORE must be the AGGRESSOR" in any face-off!

ofcourse it is bunkum and B.S to the core.! You still wont find men coming together to support themselves, all the same.
Its a genetic-makeup thingy.
Just like wondering why "Men still run after another woman, after the first one showed him pepper? Its in the genes ...just like multiple-sex partners for men!

Too bad!

Lastpage!

PS: But if women think they are "catching-up" s per using violence on men, l think they should just remember that Men are actually physically stronger than them....... and in a game of violence, they would lose big-time! Just dont want them turning around and crying "He hit me, knowing that l am the weaker sex"!

I think from all that has been written here, "Younger men especially", and men in general, are beginning to "adjust and adapt" to the new reality,... which is, WOMEN ARE DEADLY and should not be taken for granted (weaker sex), as used to be the case before now.
Also, Marriage is not just becoming a "game of money" but also a "game of death", for most women.

MEN BE WARNED! MEN BE PREPARED!!

But why do they threaten us that marriage is not by force

dayokanu: The acne would go when he gets laid more often

kolo

Poking

FXKing2012: I told you they would pay once we get started with them. I had already listed them here: www.nairaland.com/1142530/list-known-scammers-nairaland-pls
I guess the heat was getting too much for them to handle.

Congrats bro!

good job fx!

Nice write up

Wanted to know who this visitor is

News which is good still warms my belly

jt2010:

Good man but seriously amazon is trying to have a bit of more physical everyday presence

jt2010: OP, Looking through my posts, and clearly quote me where i said Amazon has no physical-presence, what i said is no physical store been a business model... Please list Amazon physical store that you know and spare me the story about Amazon establishing physical store in the near future, it is an escape route-line

Ok..rechecked my bad

Speech birthed the world into existence

mabebe1: no tym bt i read 0,1,2,66,67 n dats all

LOL.. this is a thread for all single ladies to be themselves with any issue they feel is pressing
We guys just observe, chip in now and then

Soul is that which makes me who I am

Knowledge will save you in time of trouble

jt2010: Is physical store d same as physical logistics centre

The issue is that you claimed that Amazon has no physical presence
And FYI, Amazon will soon open stores in some cities in the US where customers can fulfill their orders similar to the argos model

mabebe1: i dont, wat abt it...dis thread is a crazy town?

HE HE HE
its a song

Theres a line from it

Come My baby Come Come my baby
You are my butterfly sugar

Your name reminded me of that song

The group was called crazy town lol

side hug again

[quote author=@kenyattaMoore]I heard that when you arrive in nigeria,as soon as they know that you are not nigerian you are in big trouble! !I am not surprised because you don't even like each other. It's sad![/quote]Not true in my hearing so far. Feedback from people ive met who have lived and worked here
Naija people are said to be one of the most hospitable people in Africa

We are very good in making visitors at home to the detriment of ourselves
But there are some bad people out there just as anywhere and i try to relate to people as i meet them trying to ignore stereotype

Are you kenyan if i may ask

mabebe1: hi, m a newcumer here, lets 4get abt d 4head-any hug/kiss 4 me?..am mabebedoll

welcome.. have a nice time here
Take side hug lol

Do you know any song called Butterfly by Crazy Town

[quote author=shy-mmex]I bet you're getting braggart because you've got a small willy having oyinbo guy running after you... Don't worry, you'll be back looking for strong Africa men in no time...

And who're these "moderates?" Don't tell me you're alluding to pseudo-free_thinkers...

Any black man that's "moderate" is either gay or a mangina, go figure...[/quote]100+ Likes

stillwater: I said Nigeria, not the world.

http://www.population.gov.ng/index.php/state-population

As per the evil acts women have perpetuated, I can only say we are just catching up with men. We've not even started yet. I think God knew the lengths the mind of women can go that is why he 'compensated' men with more brute force.


Interesting that men are more in naija... seems like an aberration [s]though i dont really trust the census figures anyway[/s]
Anyhow male mortality is more in this country as men live shorter lives

total population: 52.05 years
male: 48.95 years
female: 55.33 years (2012 est.)[quote]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_Nigeria


I asked a question earlier, if you women say marriage is not by force and you are well empowered nowadays, why cant you just leave the polygamic mad man in peace

[quote author=@kenyattaMoore]Nigeria and SA should definetely be on the list, most xenophobic africans I‘ve ever met [/quote]Well I dont think Nigeria is a xenophobic land.. It is a welcoming place
have you had any particular negative experience. can you share please


SA though theydont like naija people, at least they like our money #HonestPeeps

toofine765: Hm, why is it that when the woman's money goes into the man's family, no problem arises but when the man has to spend on any of the woman's relatives, it becomes a problem. It's not fair o, in as much as I support the lady getting a job for herself I still see nothing wrong in her man helping her siblings after all we are made to understand the both families become one.

You are right but not all in all cases
Some men feel they paid a small fortune to acquire their wife and thus they dont want to have anything to do with their family
Also if the man's side is struggling, he may resist the double burden as he is used only to his own side

If people really looked at the big picture, they will understand that helping relatives to stand on their own feet so you can rest is the best strategy
If you dont na your house dem go come camp
If you reject them, serious envy and bad blood could result


However the fact is this woman must get a job in case she is left out in the lurch

I agree there is nothing wrong in helping as they are now one

[quote author=SIR cum a lot]Kishi made the uchiha too weak na.not cool.[/quote]

Obinoscopy: Cuddling

badding

oyinbogirl: Seems like you think i might be a guy...

Oh you ... Not you
Theres one silly dude that says he will pay for the child's education to discourage abortion then backtracked with nonsensical conditionalities

bizprowess1: have you tried going to their warehouse? its in ikeja. no 2, olayiwola str, off billings way, oregun ikeja.

Why does he have to their ware house

People should have never have to go to any physical location except you choose Delivery Instore - Next
Or you want to return a defective item

Until we appreciate that a good business reputation is better than short term gains
E - Biz can never pick up