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shopclue: You figure since that 20K came because of pressure, I'd better see what I can push with the drawing.

This is my answer to you.

You're just so lucky you already got the N20K or you would have kissed that goodbye!

But still, am happy you got it and already spending part of it for internet usage on nairaland. It will soon finish, the goodwill in the money is what you've lost with my response to you here. You are not somebody to be trusted with confidential matters let alone an important project as building one's home.

On the other fees you mentioned with the 3D Image and unfinished drawing that you started, you can sell it to aigbe. He just bought a car from Fhemmy, so am sure next thing will be a house project, alter it a bit and repackage and sell to him.

You seriously think I'll touch you or mad enough to pay you for that picture that is clearly not what I wanted nor be used to build? You think I'd spend my money on a project knowing folks like you have blue print of my house for easy access to nairaland, aigbe and rest of your lots? You're dreaming, wake up! It's not going to happen.

She even abused aieromon for buying a car from fhemmmy

Dont worry God will restore to him what the cankerworm has eaten, double measure of wine and oil.
He will build his own mansion in due time

If this woman had her way....

adabeke12: THE WORDS I TYPED GOT TAMPERED WITH... DO U HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT? do not help me i do not need your help thank u

as long as you dont call me names...
we are cool

quality01: Plz am equally bankrupt.I served diz country in 2009-2010(NYSC) and since den no job,no income.plz I need a helping hand.

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victorian: I remember a Shehu , where I use to live married a very quiet pretty Muslim lady.. She is the first wife. They had 4boys and 3girls. After several yrs of marriage , the husband then realize he had to take another wife... The first wife was so bitter, but no one suspected anything... She accepted calmly when he told her, he is bringing in a second wife.. The children grumbled, the mother cried quietly most nights, praying the husband will not bring in another woman. One fateful day, the husband was served his meal , as usual by one of his daughters, within few minutes of eating, he shouted with pain, held tightly to his tummy, shouting for water.. His wife came out quickly, with shock and fear on her face, screaming for neighbors to come help her.. Before they could rushed him to the hospital , he died on the way..
The wife was crying uncontrollably, her children , neighbors were consoling her.., late at night when it was only she And her children.. She then confessed that, she added Love portion to their father's soup, never realizing that the spiritualist that gave her the love portion , gave her poison instead... And that she is so sorry, and see what she has caused... The children know their mum is not An evil person, but very caring , accommodating and loves too much... It was desperation that pushed her to do what she did...all she wanted, was her husband to Love her back...
The children were very unhappy, but they couldn't resent their mum, but forgave her..
The eldest son, was the one who told me of their story... That in such situation? Will they kill their mum or banish her from their home? No , they cant.... cause they love her so much and its all a mistake!..Their dad died at the age of 47 yrs... Their mother will be 70yrs by the end of this yr...the children are grown, and taking care of her..
So tell me, is that a wise decision on the part of the husband?

So this is a happy ending in your mind
Do you now see why some widows are disinherited because of witches like this who actually kill their husband

I will never forgive that woman for depriving me of a father due to envy
What is new under the sun

So now she prostituted herself to send her children to school, is that good
She sold her daughters to some kingpins so she can get the dowry ans survive ..is that good

SMH

Okontami: @OP, Get these facts into your skull.

1. Yoruba parents are very protective of their sons.
2. You will receive resistance from the guys parents if he is not a very independent person. I mean someone who at least have a shelter of his own and can conveniently take care of him self and some of his siblings.
3. If he is a very stable guy when it comes to financial independence, then the family resistance will now be more of morals and cultural assimilation of both of you
4. The stand and confidence of your boy friend really matters, as parents always have soft spot for their children , no matter what they might have done.He need to be able to convince his parents to have a better view of the issue , not minding the initial situation
5. Do not panic so that you dont loose that baby. Please dont hurt your self with the worries. Yorubas love children and our mothers will do everything to be sure our happiness is guaranteed. The initial resistance will vanish away with time.
6. Be very quick to assimilate into the Yoruba culture. The most important is respect and greetings. Please dont joke with this. A sign of respect is bowing and kneeling . These are very important ingredients to win the heart of any parent.
7. Be open minded and hope for the best
8. Finally...next time u wanna f*uck hard...use a condom

Baba GBAM!!!!

adabeke12: greattt... it is not by force for a nigerian man to get married at all. they should stop getting married bcuz they do not know the meaning of commitment.

Thats why Naija men are not marrying ur sorry a.rses no more
Even the ones from the village are worse

Are u not nigerian.. so because u were lucky to be born in yankee or u won green card some yrs back, u can now be spewing trash up and down
if naija pple annoy u u can go to [url]dollarland.com[/url] and get your yankee hunk there

Are these not senjus that died like fowls...

If the uchihas are crap like some people are saying, the senjus must have been rubbish

i see u ... texaco1 how far,, wats up

Richvkunt: Lets pray and hope she drops something on the 8th,but in reality it does not look good for Aigbes money. I bet this woman has another ace up her sleeve somewhere which she is going to spring on us all. The signs are all over the place.

bros we are praying that there will be a pleasant surprise

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freecocoa: Now I see why Coogar screams "hypocrites" at women at the slightest chance he gets.

Like seriously? Some people are making excuses as to why the woman lost it, I ask , is it impossible for the man to also have a reason for bringing in another woman?

We don't even know what has been going on in their marriage, a woman supposedly killed her husband in cold blood and y'all are making excuses for her, I can only excuse this woman if she killed him in self defense.

Na wa o, let's call a spade a spade and not a farming implement please.

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adabeke12: wtf is money. plzzz.... inherit wetin. Most of ya'll r broke

We like our 'brokeness'... Its not by force to get married to a Nigerian man or any man that matter

adabeke12: ain't callin u names?

I take offense to that as i know u meant it in a derogatory manner, pls modify and deal with the issuess
Name calling can get nasty

victorian: I can't kill.... I know myself . And I can never marry a man that has No conscience but only think with his dick..when it comes to marrying other women...it's extremely wicked and foolish of any man to marry another wife into the same house , he is co habiting with his first wife...but that's not mean I will kill... God will deal with him very well. .. God forbid, I marry such man!

what if he married her into another apartment, what do u think abt that

la furia: i wonder what the view of some ladies here is on posterous, south african murderer who killed his girl friend.
the girl friend deserves the murder.i believe she cheated on him. the guy was emotionally abused by his girl friend actions, got angry and carried out the action.

i remember a story last year about a lady that was killed by her ex boyfriend because she dumped him. i guess she deserves it too.

we shouldnt forget the popular story of the married female banker that was killed by her husband, she deserves it too.

there are stories of husband killing their wives (unfortunate). logically, the victims deserves it. if u are ready to accept the man in this case deserves it, why wont you accept that the female banker that was murdered also deserves it?. men do get very jealous as well. they are also humans but only decide to hide their emotions.

if u dont like a 2nd wife, simply walk out of the marriage. nothing justify murder xcept in self defence for me.

GBAM! GBAM!! GBAM!!!

adabeke12: WOMEN STOP LOVING THESE MEN WITH ALL YOUR HEARTS... YES THAT IS WHAT IT HAS COME TO, BE PREPARED FOR ANYTHING IF U WANT TO GET MARRIED. ALWAYZ HAVE A BACK UP PLAN OR STAY UR AZZ SINGLE. DO U HEAR ME??!!!!!!!! THE 21ST CENTURY MARRIAGE HAS TURNED INTO SOMETHING ELSE... NO MORE TRUST, PEACE, LOVE, SERENITY ETC. THE MAN U GET MARRIED TO SHOULD BE ABLE TO KISS THE GROUND U WALK ON. I UNDERSTAND THAT WHEN MOST WOMEN LOVE THEY LOVE HARD AND PUT THAT MAN RIGHT AFTER GOD, BUT SOME MEN DO NOT UNDERSTAND THAT. YOU CAN GIVE A MAN A TASTE OF HIS OWN MEDICINE WITHOUT KILLING HIM. I MEAN HE IS GOING TO WISH HE WAS DEAD AFTER U R THROUGH WITH HIM. LOVE BUT DO NOT LOVE WITH ALL UR HEART, ALWAYZ HAVE UR BEST INTEREST AT HEART. iF YOU CAN'T DO ALL THESE U HAD BETTER REMAIN SINGLE OR BE READY FOR A HEART BREAK.

BREAKING NEWS.. They never loved the men
Its all about the Benjamins
All y'all being talking about is who will inherit the money now hes gone

nitlad: You must think the legal system is in the pits for you to think it can be arm-twisted like that.
What evidence of abuse is there in the story?
Who says telling a ruse story of abuse acquits first degree murderers?


In case you missed this part

She poisoned him, to probably render him powerless or defenseless, then she brutally stabbed him to death!

100 lawyers with %100 records pespectively will not get her out of that quagmire!

all is fair in their book

adabeke12: plz go sit down nd don't get married

why are u calling me names..pls modify your post so we dont spar here
Name calling can get nasty

adabeke12: fuc.kkkkkkkkkkkkkkk trifling azzz nigerian men... who think that being a man means cheating!!!! ask the girl u wish to marry if she would love it if u cheated or brought home another woman and see what she sayz. Nigerians stop getting married y'all cant even keep marriage together. Do y'all even know the definition of marriage? Nigerian men do what Michael jackson did if u want to have a kid pay a woman to have your kid u stupPPPPid MUTHAFUUCKERRSS. STOP GETTING MARRIED YOU HYPOCRITES!!!!

I MADE A THREAD AS TO Y NIGERIANS LOVE TALKING ABT MARRIAGE ND I GOT LASHED FROM ALL OVER... WE ARE UPSEST WITH GETTING MARRIED. EVERY TIME MARRY MARRY MARRY... NOW LOOK. YOU CANT EVEN CONTROL YOURSELVES; CANT EVEN SURVIVE WITH ONE WIFE ONE HUSBAND. NOBODY DESERVES TO DIE LIKE THAT!!!!!! THIS REALLY PAINS ME BCUZ THE GUY TAUGHT HE CAN EAT HIS CAKE AND HAVE IT, NOW LOOK AT HIS PREDICAMENT . YOU MEN THINK IT IS OKAY TO BE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN WHEN YOU R IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIED. SOME WOMEN LOVE HARD AND HATE HARD, THERE IS A THIN LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE. SMH AT HIS DEMISE.

hmm...

babyosisi: Gbam!
My mother says the first wife came for marriage,the others have Something else in mind
How many men with many wives live to a ripe old age?
Almost all of them quench before their time
If poison doesn't get them,heart attack or stroke from the sleepless nights and worries of which wife wants to get them will get them
All the scheming and babalawo visits and love potions and hatred and competition to be the favorite
Tufia
It has no advantage whatsoever at least to the women and their children.

Thank God my father and all my maternal and paternal uncles modeled monogamy to my siblings and I
No polygamy or complicated family structure in my lineage IJMN
It ended with my grandfathers and ancient custom
We do better now that we know better

which lineage.. so your grandpa or great grandpa were not polygamous
Oh.. you included them guess they did not make it to old age since they married more than one wife

OBJ must still be a young man then since he is also a polygamist
Diya, Dangote are all young snce they are not expected to live long
Saraki must have been cut short in his prime.. oh what a pity


Pres Yaradua lived to a ripe old age since he only had Turai!!

One Turai is more than ten women

Also i remembered that monogamic women dont consult spiritualists o.. because it is against the tenets of monogamy

babyosisi: Yes ke?
Do you know how much she suffered with an unfaithful husband who probably taunted her along the way together with the other women in his life
If she were here in the USA,a good lawyer can get her out for temporary insanity
We didn't read that she was mentally unstable
She was provoked to anger and went out of the norm,it doesn't make her an evil person
She lost her mind momentarily

Temporary insanity
Women will continually bring up new stories to justify their actions and existence

But the man that slapped his wife and is being deported for abuse/or could lose child custody is a bad person
You women are so hypocritical....

In the book of women folk, a man slapping a woman is worse than a woman killing a man
shebi na man
they are beasts, they deserve it

babyosisi: The evil of polygamy
Anyone saying the first wife is happy at that living arrangement is deluding themselves
No woman prays to have co wives
Everyone is trying to eliminate the other,hatred from all quarters,the man fears poisoning by jealous wives, the new wife wants the older ones dead,continual war
I hope other men learn from this,your bed hopping ways may be your undoing.
She is an emotionally abused woman and was provoked to anger obviously,I hope the law puts that into account in her trial.
Mr Ovudah here just like the Alhaji we read about last month whose Hajiya set ablaze in Abuja would still be alive today if they had just one wife.

If i read right, men have not been killed by their wives in a 'monogamic' setting

babyosisi: No difference in the two

No further thing to say

[quote author=tpia@]i guess the man is rich.

since the wife is missing or dead, who stands to inherit whatever he left behind?

lord have mercy.[/quote]Does being rich justify being poisoned and murdered
God have mercy

adabeke12: Who ask u? Mr I check ur thread every 5 dayz. Abeg no check am again

Madam I troll my thread to generate traffic

I am just helping you na

wonlasewonimi: Deep down most of you don't want her to be to pay on Apr 8th..it would be be a thing of joy for y'all if she's not able to pay.

I pray she dissappoints all of you enemies of progress. Aigbe fingers crossed you'll get your money these people are enjoying this show for their selfish pleasure.

pray for her to pay o...
she dont harass t,ushbobo for the other thread - that one don forgo the money

This one may go metaphysical at this rate if she no pay o... [s]make she no enter market as per say na she curse first[/s]
The wise have been forewarned

OBA GHATOR'KPERE - ISE

ish

oyinbogirl: wow! nice guy

wash, another she-boy on the prowl on NL

mittithyah: . Yes it is if the first wife did not agree to this arrangement.

Sensible post
Unfortunately we will never know... as the man was butchered

shymexx: Don't mind them... And every time they put women in a position of power - they always mess up everything with their emotions and inability to make rational judgements when under pressure... A classic example is: Hilary Clinton...

You can NEVER please them and they'll NEVER accept that they're wrong even when it's glaring to Stevie Wonder that they're wrong... And they lie about basically almost every damn thing...

It's a crazy world, yo - we just can't do without them...

Bros we cant o...
Na Baba do am like that
Hin sef know say if that thing no sweet like that; we no go send them

We have to keep c.umming back for more

obi123: bull!!!

but it is better than the blood thirsty vampires who are baying for murder...

idupaul: Ofcourse bro its about money na .. U thinks say na love before? Most of these bad women like Baby-123 are driven by materialism na.. May the prayers of the mothers protect the sons

Thanks sir,

They have a default response for everything

My husband slapped me - DIVORCE
My mother in law is too clingy - Cut off your MIL before you marry and then abandon her. send $200 once in a while
My husband is jobless or lost his job- leave the marriage now since he will leave you on your own when he has used your money to make it in life
My mum is angry that i did not tell her of my pregananct - Cut her off, how dare the witch be angry

You can never win with them
Meanwhile these mothers sacrificed their life to raise up this son o...

I thank God for balanced commentators in the Family section that give wise advice to women that bring pressing issues

Meanwhile some of them are going through worse in their marriages o
May our mothers prayer continue to fight for the menfolk

shymexx: I had to buy new ones because once you fix a laptop, it's never the same again... I lost valuable programming stuffs and projects I had on the laptops as well... I'm not eve the type to judge women - because I believe everyone is different..

However, I just can't stand nutters taking liberties - and some stupid and [b]jobless pseudo-feminist apes [/b]are still blaming the innocent man for this savagely wickedness committed by a heartless soul that deserves to be blown into pieces... If it were a sane world - she would have been fed to the dogs for poisoning and killing the innocent man... She killed him TWICE!!

Women need to be JUDGED!! Fvck feminism!!

In their world, no man is ever right
If they had their ways, men shd be locked up in a prison and brought out only to impregnate them and then sent them back to their pit
Since men are the cause of the world"s problems

SMH