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Thanks for your response

Truly marriage fails for so many reasons but there is no justification for a system that glorifies, not destigmatises, there is a difference, single motherhood and destruction of the family unit

This is not about trayvon but the system that made his parents see him as a nusiance pushed from mum to dad back to mum as they saw fit

Adebolajo anyone?

armyofone: Not really, marriage fails because of so many reasons. We don't know the reason why Tray's mom left his father. The success of a marriage is in the hands of the man and woman. Notice I said man first.
You just have to work harder to make sure the foundation is strong (be strong financially and emotionally) before marriage.

i tire for d guy o

toshmann: If you are this bitter why don't you take your bitterness to the white man instead of coming here to curse out people who are debating.

Transferred aggression

excellent post
it all goes down to the family unit - that unit that the rabid feminists want to destroy

if the foundation be destroyed.. what can we do

toshmann: I hope you realize that if Zimmerman was convicted, and jailed for life, or even executed, THAT WOULD NOT BRING BACK TRAY FROM THE GRAVE.

You have no idea what you are up against. Go ahead, and encourage them to continue messing up their lives and expect nice treatment from whiteys. Give another 5-10yrs and there'll be another high profile racial case, then blacks will cry out for justice then justice denied, then they cry foul, some white supporters by their side, then life goes on, then give another 5-10yrs, we have another issue, same thing happens, then give another 5-10yrs . . . . . . .

FACTS:
1. The whiteys have the power, they rule, thy make the laws, they bend it as they seem fit.

2. They dont like you

3. You have a duty to sel preservation.

4. Education is the key. Why is it that MOST times (not all the time, but most of the time) this kind of stuff happens to people with either a) broken family units b) poorly educated c) low socio-economic background.

If the black community doesnt see these truths, then there is a big issue at hand.

50yrs since President Johnson passed the "Great Society" laws, and "Civil Rights" laws, what have we got?
a) blacks now completely depend of govt aid, b) voting rights act is under siege.

Eg, All the white man needs to do to stop blacks from voting is to ask for voter ID! Why would someone who was born here not have voter ID, and I, who just came a couple of yes ago hve got an Ohio ID?

In Ohio, they tried to cancel Sunday voting! That would have disfranchised many black voters! How? Bc they usually vote on Sundays after church. Church will take them to voting centers. So of church doesn't do that, thu can't take themselves to voting centers and vote? In elections that play a role in their lives?

See how easy it is to oppress them? Education can stop that. But I see you are more interested in name calling.

I won't engage you
Go on and fight for your rights, even those rights were given you by the whiteys. Produce bastard kids everywhere, have them grow into gangs, them cry racism. This is 2013, America is changing. Blacks are being left behind

toshmann: No, people like her would abuse Hillary for not divorcing bill.

While denying their offspring of a male figure or better still, dyking their way about

Preach bro

Un fortunately the blacks put themselves at the mercy of the crushing system

Blacks need to know the system and then play it

shymexx: No other race of people hate themselves more than black people. We killed all our own great leaders. Maligned those trying to fight for the survival of the race. Will always try our best possible to bring any black person making it down. Support stupidity and mediocrity etc..

The black race is a phucked up race and it deserves its rightful place at the bottom of all the totem pole for grading race. Do the right thing, black people - and stop thinking out of your ar.ses. Yes, slavery and colonisation happened - but that was time ago. Stand up and be counted, or stay down forever!

We can't keep sleeping forever, we've got the talents and resources to rule the damn planet - and we're the most unique race on this planet. Truth be told, no other race is as gifted as black people - physically and mentally. Add resources rich Africa(home of black people) to the list - yet we're messed up.

Wow shows you were close to the happenings

Good insight

Ayee Idris: I am very surprised at some of the comments being made here. Obviously many people did not follow the case and is basing it on racial sentiments. GZ was the neighborhood watchman. His neighborhood has been riddled with burglary. Two weeks before the incidence, two black teens were arrested. Its sad that no one really listened to the 911 call. If you had, you wont be saying all this(not the edited one by ABC that they withdrew and are currently being sued for). In the call, he reported that he has seen a boy on a hoodie acting suspiciously, stopping to check out houses (which is odd because it was raining). The 911 operator asked if the suspect was white, black or Hispanic. He said "he looks black". He was asked to stay there and he responded "This f******g punks always get away" Then he said "he is running" and the door was heard slamming. The 911 reporter asked if he was following him. He said yes. they said "we don't need you to do that" (that's not an order from the police. He has the right to follow. Its his job).
Wonderfully enough, Martin's wonderful girlfriend testified that Martin was already close to his father's fiancé house. why did he not go in? Why was he found almost 180 degrees away? and when he referred to Zimmerman (who is Hispanic,not white) as a "weird ass cracker", why is that not viewed as racist? The media only showed 12 year old pictures of him, not the 17 year man who looked thuggish with tattoos and gold teeth. They didn't allow evidence that Martin was currently in suspension from school for hitting a bus driver, that a few weeks before he was found with stolen jewelry. They disallowed the text from his cousin asking Martin to teach him how to fight. They failed to mention that the mother said in her initial interview that he was such a problem child that she had to send him to live with his father. All this was disallowed in court because he was a minor, which is understandable, but repressed by the media to what end? Because they wanted to portray the boy as an innocent kid and not a possible thug that he may or may not have been. Cos his record would show reasonable doubt.

Then the controversial 'help help' recording, which was taken by the neighbor who saw someone wearing red (Zimmerman) being beaten under and called 911. His testimony was never controverted or punctured in any way. GZ had even told the police that he had called for help before the existence of the tape was even known. Then Martin parents tried to claim that he was the one calling. Yet earlier Martin's father had told the police that it was not his son's voice. when he was cross-examined on that fact, he said that the police mis-interpreted him. You don't have to take my word for it. The whole trial is on Youtube for your viewing. the evidence are all online. Read them all and then decide, but not by listening to propaganda.

People saying that he chose to get out of his car. It was his job too. This is an Hispanic that has no racial prejudice history. For heaven's sake, the guy is brown. His papers identifies him as Hispanic since he was born. don't know when he became a white man. He was beaten up. His head has lacerations and his nose was swollen. Martin had no injury on him except d gun shot wound and a laceration to his knuckle. Self defence is not a crime. And hopefully will never be.

There was so many things wrong with the case. The police didn't see a crime and let him go until some people started a very false propaganda that I initially believed and supported to get him arrested. I was bitterly disappointed when the evidence started surfacing. Obama even had a federal team investigate Zimmerman for racial crimes and he was found not guilty. He did not just go and shoot a black kid walking. He shot a black man beating him up. How is he supposed to know if he was 17 or 18. Martin was way taller than him. As for his MMA history, the instructor testified that he was "horrible" and he had told him he only did it to stay fit and hopefully one day learn how to do it. Having some MMA training doesn't mean you cant be beaten in a surprise attack. There was no need to fight at all. If Zimmerman wanted to do James Bond, he wont bother calling 911. He would just trail the kid on his own, but he didn't do that.

You don't have to take my word for it. The internet is your friend. The trial was televised. Long and tedious hours to watch, but fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me.do your own research. His acquittal is beyond right

I really wonder why we try but we just have to

Her case is really pitiable
So far gone in her dogma

Patience jona is now the feminist torch?!

Where is fellis and crayola
Please come and help this your compatriot
She is falling una hand

toshmann: @99cents
Patience jonathan issue is not an isolated event. That you singles out a section of Soyinka's statement and used it to lambast the erudite scholar speaks volumes about your sense of judgement.

Instead of fighting for justice, you fight for "women's rights" even when those women are miles away from being just. Is it not the same patience that has been insulting an elected governor of Rivers State? How come you didn't notice the abuses and public humiliation he has suffered at the hands of Patience Jonathan. So bc he is a man he can be ignored and his case declared unimportant.

You see why people don't take feminists seriously. Even the Clinton you like to quote, while making a case for feminism in Beijing conference in 1995 was careful to align female rights with HUMAN RIGHTS. She legitimized female rights by bringing it under human rights. So if human rights work out fine, won't female rights be covered therein? But you don't care about human rights, do you? All you care is female rights( translate women getting whatever they wish) and so the governor of rivers state is unimportant, but Patience is a victim bc Soyinka said the truth about her? Abi the prof lie?
The office of the First Lady is a domestic appendage of power. Period. And it's unconstitutional anyways.
Truth hurts

Afam4eva: Do you understand Florida laws? If you do then tell us the part that was not followed. While i agree that there's a great deal of racism in America, but not every action must be seen in that light.

Finally someone using logic rather than appealing to bias

adaobi123: For shooting at a wall and she got 20 years?!?!

America is messed up !!

How come you missed the one of the white man serving 20 years for shooting at his daughter's boyfriend

Effing A+

A mad country where any tom slick and harry can get a gun

Na today

red jasper: Curious to how the NBPP is going to respond to this, I mean here you have a group of individuals that supposedly stand for the principles of the original BPP yet their track record has yet to measure up. I'm not sure the NBPP is even aware of the modernized social inequality that we black america receive in this 21st century. Maybe, just maybe, if these damn CIA agents would keep their nose to the ground here instead of South Africa where they like to infiltrate genuine revolutionary parties, we'd be at least somewhat less skeptical about this post - khalid organization. Sadly, the problem with black america is the same problem with Africa - Leadership.

Although this is good stuff really, I'm absolutely enjoying all the baffling antics by the all-american kumbaya crowd. This ought to be a good enough wake up call that whitey doesn't love your black butt no matter how many marsh mellows you toss on the fire. Whitey is upping the ante across the board soon enough these minor ailments could set the stage for cancer, with a booming hispanic population willing to work for less than half the normal wage it could get ugly for us american negroes.

I mean I just feel so completely bad for the young man, I have seen this one too many times and nothing sends me into a rage quicker than a young man with his entire life ahead of him having it cut down by some bastard cop or swine!

Trayvon should of had a gun. His parents did a bad job of enlightening him on how to handle said altercations especially with swine. First things first, swine approaches you in a confrontational way after sunset, you don't have a gun - RUN. There's no way an unarmed white man is approaching a young black man he has any clue about in a confrontational manner during the night. That should've been trayvon's red flag to high tail it! First things first, if you're a black man wearing a hood at night, please have yourself a gun. These stereotypes exist for a very good reason! Stereotypes are powerful and propaganda can birth a genocide! Lastly, if for whatever reason you might find yourself as a black man in that situation, you can certainly suspect your life is in jeopardy. In turn, if you ever have to raise a gun against swine YOU better plan on the realization of taking a life and moving swiftly before the law arrives! In between taking it to court and surviving the commotion once the law shows up could be akin to betting your life on the lotto!

If you want to survive out here as righteous black man in America and keep somewhat of a fragment of your sanity intact you better know the game Jack!

If the vice president which is constitutionally created is no more than the prez errand boy

How much more an unconsititutional role like the first lady

You have no point

She is just an appendage and needs to learn decorum first before she can speak for nigerian women


Get another format

99cent: excerpt that caught my eye:

https://www.nairaland.com/1358304/soyinka-chauvinist-bitterness-empowerment-women

^ what more can I say?



https://www.nairaland.com/1357171/soyinka-embarrassment-admirers-patience-jonathan/14

Of all people to carry your trump card for

Na a partially educated, grammatically deficient woman you dey call your feminist heroine

You are so laughable

Go anf read up on the excesses of this same woman and come back


You are such a joke.. 99cent

See the epitome of first lady ship
Michelle and sam cam

Did you see anybody make fun of her

Crappists..

It's just another (married?) Man bashing thread

100percent posts from you

E get one of my cozins

Dem don finish uni o

Na deir mama dey make amalan for them

Na she dey cook for dem

Dem no fit make soup sef


So that your broda's move was the best

DailyNews: Lol, Otikpoko, I don't like food much...I prefer to bird-eat...I eat strong food once in a while...and pls I am not wot they call ajebo o I just grew up not liking food, and my mama said she even forced me to learn to eat, so that's much I can eat.

Anyone that knws me well knws I hardly finish my meals...so for me to finish any, it must have been wonderfully cooked.

The problem ppl hve with hiring female cooks is their problem with romance. Small time, they wanna go on date with their lover or fiancee and leave u wen u dnt expect...but guy cooks do it for d money so they knw hw to separate their jobs from their romance life, trust guys

But seriously, if u cooked those stuffs, then u must be nice as a guy...how do u go abt gettin it ryt all d time

Bros they over try

To eat average food is not easy not to talk of good food

Big ups to our women

DailyNews: They do try honestly. I respect them a lot wen it comes to cooking n taking kia of kids. They have natural endurance and patience. Hw mny men can babysit a kid or baby for complete 12hours without getting pissed Hw mny men can cook randomly for years without gettin tired If only women understand hw we respect them for those things.

Otikpoko, u are making me feel hungry but who actually made those meals pls Confess...kulyie...I want to learn all...u tried for d peppersoup o

99cent: feminists do good work all over the USA and the world. at least u can't deny that. they introduce, encourage and support young girls to participate in STEM fields and continue to mentor the ones who show sustained interest. and that's just one small aspect of what they do.

kim ka-trash-ian is just a product of her environment. she is the dream of many anti-feminists.

Iceland's FEMALE president recently banned strip clubs and s.extapes that demean women. most anti-feminists are in uproar over this. they love their kim k fixes.
http://www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2013/02/28/173187642/icelands-plan-to-ban-online-porn-spurs-outrage

Hmm.. I comment my reserve....

kulyie: oshey jare man friend mi tori e pe.I don dey look for you tey tey.sho wa ok.shey iwona mo onje say with that your huge stomach

Me I no reach cook like proper african woman
But I dey grill fish, do stir fry with rice, pasta or noodles

But I no too like cooking

By the time u shred ingredients for stir fries time don go

Women dey try

otikpoko: Agreed.

Where that person wen say na egg i sabi manage fry?

Come see this one too when i manage cook

Ol boy see packaging.....

free2ryhme: na dog intestine be dis ooo

I swear you are correct!

Kuly I don show oooo

Good starting point

Smartie gurl: she has not actually apologised, but the mom have told her friend about it.......you ar right here, i will her to do this.

edoyad: Prepping for the " the return of Arsenal" .

Haha..

Hahahaa

Mgbeketoto being dealt with flavour

Testament of H-open marriage


Nabania

Mu che che che

good to know that spanking has been mentioned somewhere

Then take the child to apologisw to the shop woman

It's best it's tackled now ..

Persin wey dey lie na tif he go be

After tif na ashao

4llerbuntu: aswerigad.

I don't suppose he also knows how duduspace ended up.
we still looking for the nigga

Frankly where is duduspace

Went to the girlswhocode website

Very good work being done providing mentoring to young girls who show an interest in computer science

As I've always said the patriarchy (laughable innit?)is not the problem but people like kim kardashian west that fills these same girls with stewpid ideas of using sextapes to become celebs and look down on those going into these courses

74 pc of middle school funneling down to 0.3 pc in computer science

What of the other science courses like physics and geology or engineering and maths
Quoting stats with no context is senseless

Another feminist with an agenda of apocalyptic crap

Effing A+

So naïve and sounds wishy washy

Just like one poster some months back saying a married man was disturbing her and could not follow through when called to name and shame

Most likely she was the one even disturbing the guy for recharge cards and bb



Crappists

alutacontinua: I don't get what you're trying to say exactly but let's assume I have an idea.
With that your thread that you opened on the romance section, what exactly did you expect?
Did you think everybody on here are saints? Is this not supposed to be a reflection of what happens in real life?
You came on here to say you don't have friends, you're lonely, you're tired of being single, all your friends are gone, you go on dates alone and all that, you went ahead to drop your e-mail because the mail attached to your account isn't working and then you start quoting cynthia's case. I am not a man but I saw a bit of that might be what you wanted from your post. Now, if anybody made such advances and that wasn't your intentions, it's left for you to carefully explain that. But from your thread, there was an indication of you wanted something of such. About the married/not married, some people lie about their marital status here. Even if he's married, married guys hit on single ladies in the real world, don't they? So, why crying foul?

My point: You opened yourself up to whatever you get, it's left for you to deal with it!, Infact, i'll say if that wasn't your real intention, then, you're the naivest nairalander of the year. SHIKENA!




NOTE: i'm not always that harsh, if that sounded harsh, i didn't mean to offend you, was just trying to say it the way it is.

toshmann: MUST WATCH!!

Vital argument between biolabee and 99cents

http://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=related&v=05ro6fcj6Ek

Vital for understanding the spirit of feminism

Watched the video

So feminists despise other women this much

The patriarchy indeed....

Capitalism is bad?

Female sexist looking for money to advance their causes which they don't even understand

Accusing others of not letting others take up STEM courses yet deriding them as geeks n nerds

Plot


A seductive wife

A sex starved hubby

Tensions rise

Caustic tongued wife

Slaps start

Tensions boil


A hunting man

Probing wife

Tensions explode - cerebral breakages


May God help us

13 children??.......

Na wa ooo