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Wow.. Such an enlightener you are

Why don't you leave the poor afrikan souls festering in darkness alone since you are the omniscient one

khiaa: UNBELIEVABLE!! Yes dog fighting is illegal, but so is MURDER. So the Nigerian justice system is corrupt, I don't believe that, I am sure the citizens deseve what they get, I'm sure they are guilty of every charge. Wow!! I sound just as ignorant as you do, and what the hell do you know about racism in America. Do you think Mike is the only person in America that has harmed an animal? Boy, you people are exausting, some of your mentality is really screwed uped when it comes to caucasians. I really wish some of you could come to the USA and recieve the welcome you deserve.

I hope she does not use the peper cane on the brickla

Oooo

Choi na wa for these arse wipes

@efexyz you sure say no be you be the erm.. Erm.. Monitor about town

Ah ah.. Wetin dey happen here?

ok.... i read your post well...

But no wahala....

That is why it is a marriage

You make compromises for strangers you meet everyday
Why not your spouse

If your point is a rejoinder that one should not lose his or her individuality that is good.
But if it's just to say making compromises is akin to lack of conviction well...

bukatyne: The 'no conviction' part was as regards the trousers; that is why it is a post script.

She said she stopped and later continued because the then fiancé said she should do so. She had no conviction to stop the trousers in the first place.

Interesting discourse

However I feel it's just an erroneous assumption to state that if I do something due to someone's persuasion I have no conviction

I decide to send my kid to a military school; my wife believes otherwise
The kid goes to altantic hall
Suddenly I have no conviction

If in your mind, discourse and compromise between married adults means that one party has no conviction then you can't have a realistic discussion on this issue; as to you, having an opinion and sticking obdurately to it is your test of conviction

bukatyne: The last I remembered, Marriage is built by both husband and wife. Sacrifice and compromise doesn't come from one party else there will be disappointment and bitterness. A lot of women are so bitter and caustic because all their lives they have sacrificed without getting anything in return.

Happiness is not necessarily getting what you want. Peace doesn't equate true joy either. If I were a slave, I can decide to do my master's bidding for peace to reign but I will never be truly happy

I said she doesn't have conviction because she wore trousers at her fiancée's insistence. I wonder what posters like Acidosis will say. Why did she stop in the first place?

A woman is NOT a zombie to follow her hubby brainlessly. If the hubby asked her to do something wrong, will she do it for peace to reign? Remember Ananias and Sapphira in The Bible. The first person to obey/respect is God.

My major problem is that the hubby was comfortable with it till after marriage. I dislike wicked people like that. He knows the woman is going no where and he starts saying don't do this, don't do that. What will he bring on tomorrow? And the woman keeps changing to satisfy him and when she becomes bitter, he will start complaining that she has changed.

bullies come in different forms, classmates, older cousins or brodas or even uncles
You just have to move

What use is confronting when u are obviously better off than them
Why hit a grone man who is already down.....

Thats not cool

My 2

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Sorry, I don't get you folks.

Why would anyone of you, having been bullied in your early, formative years by an insecure person (bully), now decide in your adult years to help the bully out? Did the bully solicit for help from any of you? You're talking about people who terrified you at one point in your life, probably took your money off you in addition to punishing you on top of all that. Yes, that bully had a hold over you THEN. But you've moved on in life, done better for yourselves, so what makes you think you still owe these bullies anything apart from scorn, if you don't mind my saying so?

Giving out more stuff or trying to 'help' these people, even when they never asked for it, shows they've still got that mental hold over you.

My suggestion would be, when you see such people later on in life, rather than skip around the issue or pretend nothing happened (like Kulyie's done - imagine, hugging a person who terrified her during her school days??), just be forthright and ask them straight on: WHY DID YOU DO IT? WHY ME?? And then hear what he / she has got to say for themselves.

We all agree bullying or picking on someone whose weaker (physically or mentally) than you can have far reaching and even dire consequences. If you really, really want to get closure on that chapter of your life once and for all, then it's best to take the bull by the horns and deal with it face-to-face, head on. No pu.$$.y footing around by skirting / trying to avoid the person. It won't change what happened. But you can make damn sure you feel better about yourself by asking them why they did what they did and showing them that you're now stronger and better off than them. Face them like the adults you now are and put an end to the matter for good!

If after having the direct confrontation with the bully and you still decide you want to help them, then by all means do so. But not before you've confronted them.[/quote]

hmm... all things are pure to him or her who is pure

eyoniggar: Wow naruto whining instead of analyzing, and wow again, sasuske buys time with susano for Minato, while naruto gazes in amazement.lol.

And that is difference between naruto and sasgay and sasgay n itachi and minato and the rest

This madmara is useless.. hin still want hin one on one

The chapter is alright... a new justu combining four chakras

tobito-juubi is really a heck of a fighting machine

Lets see how it goes

I like the exploding paper bomb jutsu,,, looks more interesting from konan;s

haha.. expensive mammies...

or napoli angling for higo with their new cash

^^^ So illuminating....

Thank Isis and Osiris you have seen the light in the West

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Sorry ma... i really feel u

Do you know that some people i know still suffer some trauma from their episodes in school esp secondary

Some become so agrressive, others had no self esteem up till they started working and making money, others bully others around them....

Bullying is so wrong and should not be encouraged at all in any form

bukatyne: She spoke her husband's her mind but clearly has no conviction

I dont agree with you on this comment

She is very wise keeping her home together

Too many smart but unwise ladies around.. using their own hands to destroy their own marriage

What use is happiness (getting what you want) without peace (true joy)

dare2think: If the death of a couple of 'white' children at Sandy Hook could not change gun laws in America, be rest assured that the death of a single black boy will change nothing.

Tragic


@khiaa

Dog fighting is illegal and has nothing to do with the race of mike vick

There are issues with any justice sysyem but I bet you most of the people in jail did the crime

You want us to talk about real injustice? Come to naija jails

I hope this will lead to changes in the neighbourhood watch system

Also with the amount of guns in the system (1 gun to an american), maybe people will see the danger of guns

Wow.. You are so forthhright to prefer murderous jihadists to stealing southies...

Of course there is no greedy stampeding up north where people are crushed for pieces of tuwo and kunu..

An utopia is that place they call northern nigeria
Am sorry for the south

Aggrippa: it is very clear that, the victims here are mostly from east, west and south, and these theft cases mostly occured on the east and west and south. i say again that you can leave your property with northerner and he will not steal it. the people on the other part of the country have a very serious problem of stealing other people property. this is not been smart, this is wickedness.

Wow

My case no reach this own

I say hi when I can
I give dem what I can afford

I move on

If you can help; help

Sorry ... Wow

He was a real son of a bish

Haba efexyz

Those were illustrations of what modern courting entails

Serious lifelong issues like religion, financial habits are all relegated to the background

You get?


[quote author=Efemena_xy]Choi!! All that for Oga biolabee? [/quote]

Haha

Popsies! They are the same anywhere in the world

nbright: Now you understand what I meant... My dad nearly frustrate me mentally with that routine... He never gave me not till I acted on that Bible passage that said the kingdom of God suffereth violence and the violent taketh it by force... I too more than what he would have given me that was when he realised that things have changed...

kulyie: before nko infact if dem no get matches,na me go help dem buy matches.i no dey spare thief o and if na woman,unclothedness straight,even if she be 6o year old woman she go waka round with the stolen property on her head and kids chanting behind her,straight to he husbands house where her kids and husband can see her and if shes single,straight to her parents house :p

Yepa ur own na ofin mose

Oju fun oju
Eyin fun eyin

nbright: I apologise for that... @Smartie... Maybe you don't know how some people behaves... My dad was once like that... "If you do like this, I promise to give/buy this thing for you", I will do it but he wouldn't buy it, but if I now do something wrong, that's when he will say.. "I had wanted to buy it next week o, now you won't get it again".. I don't know if you get what I am trying to say here?.

Ohhhhh now I get it
Thats a calculating young girl

Baddestguyp: u misunderstood, we r jst tryin to correct d guy's brain. Anyway, sasuke should hav died a lng time ago. Kishi is jst saving him. Even naruto, d main character wasnt dat LUCKY

Even white fanglet dey lucky
Hin don die before by pain
On top say na hin kill tobito

OP.. dont feel bad and let them get to u

This is NL

They delight in poking fun at people

It has happened, try to get over it