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bukatyne: I am 100% certain you were not responding to my post you quoted.

What has feminism got to do with training your boys and girls properly? Where did I or 'my ilk' state that we look up to western men/boys? Who even brought western men or boys into the discussion?

The bolded is so hypocritical! Is it feminists that are training boys to be more sexually liberated or what the heck are you talking about?

Abeg, read my post wella before you quote me.

That is why women should be careful because the burden of an unwanted pregnancy usually falls on us
The man can walk away and continue with his life,the woman is stuck with the babies.

ileobatojo: Nope, makes no sense to me.

ileobatojo: GBAM!!

That's what I've been saying all along. The problem with high fiving your boy is that there is another parent's girl somewhere that will pay for it. I wonder why some people cannot see this as a problem?

bukatyne: I did not want to post but...

I believe it is the parents of girls that should even be clamouring for the boys to be well trained because it affects them directly. Do you plan to follow your girls to school, church or around? Wouldn't you be happy to find out that a boy that fancies your daughter has been properly trained and taught the importance of waiting for sex?

Does it make sense to you that the men your daughters will marry in future (let us assume they did abstain from sex) are currently been ill-trained and have unhealthy attitude towards sex and by extension the female gender because they are not affected by teenage pregnancy?

The truth if that if the boys are ill-trained or have unhealthy attitude towards sex, it is actually the girls that pay for it. Whether they abstain or not, they will marry these boys except you are gearing them to be lesbians.

Train your sons to be the kind of men you want your daughters to marry.

ileobatojo: As opposed to these kind, non snarky words from you?

Thorpe85: does anyone think Ferrer can upset Rafa? #TeamNadal

Seun: You should not visit this thread if you've not caught up with the series!!

jidegirl12: Ile , you wanna know why? From mom of Girls?

Girls are very delicate compared to boys.... once they ( girls) miss a step for example pregnancy, then that is it, not the end of it but her prime time is gone, mostly difficult to meet up with their peers.

Marriage wise, Most times , they have slimmer choice of men, I mean good men.

Boys however can pick up their lives and move on , marry someone else , good girl at that.

Does that make sense?

The only equality argument I can boldly make is achievements , whatever a man can do ( achievement context) a woman can and will beat him 1M times for sure, that I'm very very sure.

alutacontinua: Bukatyne, but you have to agree with me that a teenage girl getting pregnant and a teenage boy impregnating a girl are two different things, right?

This is not trying to be equal or unequal or hypocritical or play different rules, I think it's God himself that already planned the different rules in this situation. No matter how hard we try to make the female get over it, it can never be like for the male. I don't see this as playing different rules, it's facing reality and calling a spade a spade.

bukatyne: Oga, I am not spinning anything. Since you don't mind hypocrisy, don't get annoyed when our leaders think it's their right to steal us blind. afteral, different rules right?

Good morning.

yellowpawpaw: It is not,my bro.most gals r too vulnerable and not smart enof to know how to handle "things" hence d pregnancy.and d dude will go scot free looking for another gal to dent her image and reduce her pride price.
Its really sad and unjust

bukatyne: Which is?

Where did I blame the boys? Did they train themselves? Only few children get to retrain themselves.

yellowpawpaw: Let me ask a kweshion.WHO THEN WILL MARRY HER?

bukatyne: Biola,

If boys are not discouraged from indiscriminate sex, they will keep sleeping with girls who have been well 'brought up' except if you want homosexuality to increase.

Look at it this way:

If A doesn't train his son properly, his son might look for a smart way to sweet talk your well trained daughter into doing something wrong and vice versa.

yellowpawpaw: I saw him peein one day.also dat place always look big kind of anytime we r together.
My mum lvd dat guy very well but I told her why I can't marry him. C d gap ss3 and after uni but I still d fear.

ileobatojo: Consequences brought on by the actions of 2 people. If parents are equally circumspect with their boys as they are with their daughters, perhaps females wouldn't have to deal with consequences of se*xual indiscretions to the extent that they have to today.

If you are not comfortable with your 17yr old female child dating, you probably shouldn't be jumping for joy at your 17yr old boy dating. Afterall, it is someone else's 15-17 yr old daughter he will be dating. There is no other name to call it but hypocrisy.

yellowpawpaw: [
i did some schooling in nigeria and having a boyfriend/girlfriend is a junior secondary school thing. why are people pretending this isn't the norm in nigeria? these are the same people that would lie to their kids that they never came 2nd throughout their academic career - na first throughout!!


During my time,I was told if a guy hold ur hand,u don get belle be that o!so anytime me and mi friends c youngsters holding hand, we will start gossipin dat d gal is pregnant and they hv done that bad thing.I miss those days.so innocent I must say.
A guy gave me val card during my jss3,it happened dat he gave my galfriend to give me and instead of her giving me,she read it out loud in our classroom.I felt like d ground will open and swallow me. Till I left school I was nicknamed d guy's name.I wrote a letter insulting him and his generation for life.heard he was mad and said he will beat me up if he ever set eyes on me.na so I dey dodge him till ss3.then I hv known I fu*cked up.we made up and become friends. he traveld outa d country to study and is presently living there. sought me out after my uni and proposed.

I would hv agreed but...this guy is tall and big.his thing is equally too big.scared d hell outta me.I would hv wanted him to do d thing that time but what I saw made me wee on my pant.that put me on check as regards that part cos I concluded that all p were like that and there is no way that kind of thing will enter my body.he even tried,no way.I just
dey pity d wife.chei!

He was my first love.

CFCfan: Wow! That would surely cut down on the counting time.

CFCfan: how practical is ur idea?

2legit2qwt: The secret ballot could actually work as far as sorting goes but it may not help with people using alt accounts. Maybe someone can figure out another way to counter that.

Here's how:
Ask the voters to reply solely with whom their vote is being made for. Then set up rules in your mailbox for each contestant. Doing it this way actually gets you results in minutes as the sub-folder will show you the total counts first and instantly.

Not sure how this will help alternate accounts though but this will surely be good if you want to get results in faster and also saves you counting time.

gabbytabby: The unfortunate situation is can society afford to take the chance? and let him sexually assault another child? will an employer be able to let him work with any vulnerable group? its not only about whether he can change its about the safety of all. Once they take a particular path........


May God help us all.

TalkingToYaSelf: Omg Shara is crying......so sad

byvan: @Biola,coogar has a point too . There are many ways to punish an unrepentant woman,try sending her back to wherever she came from next time she goes establishing her so called business branches without your consent.Just do something,try not caring and see if that ll work.The woman no get regard for OP at all,i wonder how he lost his manly groove.She really acts as if you can't do sh*t about it,why don't you surprise her?