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toshmann:
Na wa o na so marriage desperate reach for my dear Naija?

me too i dey hear but i dont see these desperate people o...
all i see are empowered ladies who say they dont need males

Johnpaul88: He's never expected to join Barca.

It seems Valdes is staying for another season and now the club have stopped all attempts to sign another keeper. I just hate this. They're just postponing the doom's day for another season under the guise they need more time to find an adequate keeper. For me, replacing Valdes 'll not require a tough search. He's never the best keeper in the world. Just get another keeper who cannot concede from his near post and who does not make a school boy mistake. Shikinaa!

hahaha...

django1: We don't know, that's the thing. You remember what he says to death? "Not today"

ok... though i doubt it

Interesting I like the mum, s approach

django1: Okay! That guy was a magician of sort, I wish she'll go look for him now.

We didn't even know what happened to that her sword teacher back at kings landing, I think he was from the same place as that guy.

I Believe he was killed by the lannister royal guards

django1: Who's that?

the faceless guy that killed 3 people of her choice

damn.. im scared of this mother of dragons.... she is so ambitious and knows how to work the people.....

Mhysa......


Oya the long wait commences... s4

Arya don kolo o... but she don call the Faceless one...

mazaje: Marriage counseling is good in my opinion , but its effectiveness is yet to be seen, there are many marriage counselors in the US for example but their divorce rate is extremely high, the divorce rate in the US is about 50% and rising. . .Meaning about half of marriages conducted end of in divorce. . .

True! so the context is still key
Abroad are they counselling to break at any stress while Africa we counsel to stay at all stress?

Is Love the same universally?

Just felt like sharing this
You guys are great!


http://www.ucb.co.uk/rss/word-for-today

UCB Word For Today - A WORD TO SINGLE PARENTS 9th Jun Sun

A WORD TO SINGLE PARENTS


'...Love covers over a multitude of sins.' 1 PETER 4:8



Are you struggling to bring up your children on your own? If so, teach them these three principles. As you do, they'll be reinforced in you. You'd be surprised how many instructors learn while they teach.
So:
1) Teach them how to love imperfect people. Let them know that loving is a risk, but it's worth taking. Hearing you say that will help them to grow up and not become cynical because of what they've been through. Explain that when you love people, you must love what's good and accept what's still under construction. And it'll save them heartache if you teach them that sometimes we'll disappoint each other, and that God's remedy for this is, 'Love covers over a multitude of sins.'

2) Tell them that the future can be better than the past. We are fuelled by the past, but fuel only works when it's combusted into another form. So allow the pain of the past to fuel your future with compassion, wisdom and hope. Many of the people we admire have experienced failure. This year's winner was last year's runner-up. So learn from your mistakes and seize the new day. Once you do that, '...All things are possible' (Matthew 19:26 NKJV).

3) Show them how to adapt to change. When you get stuck in the past, it's always at the expense of the future. After the initial shock is over and your anger has subsided, start making plans. Draw closer to God and decide to live again. Don't get stuck in a stage that was just meant to be part of a process. This too shall pass - let it!

Sanboy25: Because dating and marriage are two things different to me.
Majority of the people on earth date people that they know they will NEVER marry...
If the guy is younger than me by many years, let's say 7, I would want to 'control' him, it's in my nature....
I'll see him more like a younger brother than a man..

appreciate ur honesty...

Generally we dont believe in talking to people we perceive are strangers
We are more comfortable with religious leaders, family members who are in positions of authority and mentors etc

They may not have the techniques of counselling as enshrined in western practices but some of them are truly practical and wise
Not all though....


There is chaos arising from traditional roles of provider played by men with the growing role women play as breadwinners
This has led to friction between the genders hence the rise of issues

With time, the counselling practice will become matured as civilisation progresses

Some years ago, party planeers, make up people were not really appreciated
Now they are it

R2bees: 10-11 BPL : With
Fabregas and Nasri = 68 ------------------------[size=16pt]4th[/size]
pts. 11-12 BPL : With van
Persie and Song = 70 ------------------------ [size=16pt]3rd[/size]
pts. 12-13 BPL : Without
all of them = 73 pts. ------------------------ [size=16pt]4th[/size]

Positions included....
It tells me though we are getting more points, we are still so far behind the big 2 or 3 in this year's case

Ujujoan: ewwww . .

It's also a prayer point for this generation oh . .

1. May God not let my daughters get pregnant/ or my son impregnate a girl b/4 marriage. .
2. May God not let any of my kids contact STDs, especially AIDS.
3. May God not let any of my kids turn homo . . .

Amin....

too much rage in the land

Ujujoan: I'll just be glad he's not into 'boys' . . . cos children of nowadays eh!

That will be a challenge and a new frontier for the traditional parents of the morrow whose kids are raised with the understanding that homo is not a syndrome but just a sexxual preference

Nothing to it... thats the motto nowadays,,, when Baba made beautiful women with undeniable assets...
men are still struggling being constrained to one.. then i leave my one and manage man nyansh,... Tufiakwa!!!

Really fuuny. I think he should get an ak47 also when his son turns 14 In the spirit of equality

[quote author=dara-mi]All of these arguments remind me of a guy in my class said that he’s going to get a gun because her daughter just turned 14years… very funny. [/quote]

@OP
I wish you all the best though...
As CC has said. only God get this one








funny the hard core feminazis and preachers of marital destruction are quiet
Seems the man not wanting the marriage is not what they want to hear
makes advicing the woman to leave sound like a hollow victory

Bros u said it all.... a big fool was Robb
Even Arya is smater
Killing the old man for killing the Lannisters was a NO NO
He was told.. even his wife told him

Good riddance

Sad though... the Lannisters always pay their debt

bigrovar: Robb was a fool, he is not worthy of being a lord talkless of a king.. he is selfish & immature... Catalyn Stark for all her fault give him good counsel but he was carried away by youth and felt too big to listen to his mother. He give his word and was duty bound to marry the Frey girl. The whole war, the north and the river land was reliant on that marriage. The Frey would guarantee him over 5000 men including mounted knights instead he throw all that away because of a woman. His father was a different Man. Ned Married Catalyn out of duty not out of love. He married her to keep the river land in support of the Robert rebellion.. He had to spun the love of lady Ashara whom he fell in love with in the tourney in Harrenhal as much as he was in love with her.. I never comprised his stand but went home to catalyn whom he was duty bound to marry.

Instead Rob lost Winterfel (for his strategic blunder of trusting the Iron Islanders.. as in seriously who in their right mind does that? Iron Island understand only one language.. War and Violence)

He lost his most loyal bannermen the Karstarks (who are the strongest allies of starks for 1000s of years) by not being sensitive to the mood of Karstarks catalyn's freeing of Kingslayer.

He lost the chance to finish off the mountain by not communicating clearly his strategy to his men

and he lost the frey and brought dishonor to his house by breaking his vow to marry a woman (whose family are bannermen to the Lannisters at least in the book)

Robb was reckless and showed no understanding of geopolitics in westeros, he was arrogant to the point of even chaining his wolf who tried warning him many times. I hate to say this but Rob had it coming.

Some battles are won with swords and spears, others with quills and ravens. Tywin Lannister

good to be here....

I feel you brah the same reason I did not come her until I had a lot of episodes to watch at the same time

I also deliberately avoided the online forumsso as not to be spoiiled

Will watch ep 10 tonight

gmyguy: i really wish i didn't read about the red wedding online before watching it last week. i've gotten lots of spoilers, no thanks to my wish to hang out with game of thrones fans, but some fans are just sadists.
i'm just happy, the cutting off of king slayer's hand was a big surprise to me....no spoilers and danearys triumphs, but i must say, the last time she freaked me out was in season 2, esp at the house of the undying.
my biggest suspense in season 3- cutting jamie's hand. i wish it had been the red wedding though

upgrader: It hard for me to get over what happened in last scene of episode 9, well have fasten my seat belt for S3 ep 10..

What is gonna happen next! I can't wait!!!!

damn damn damn,... i knew it
Lord Frey willl not forgive a slight.... his daughter missed being queen

Rob killed an innocent girl n died in the process......

gmyguy: you can say that again

the frey girls just wor wor mehnn.... the baron could not stomach his grimace
if dey give me for free, i will reject all of them


nothing like firm teets and a tight fit to lead to a nice betrayal.. mad man frey

Calm down...
Ep 8

Almost there.. Sansa marrying Tyrion


The red woman seducing barratheon bastard

horlajide: What's wif the "piecemeal overexcitement". Guy calm down jare.....go watch evrytin, infact go watch episode 9, if you no ss.hiit 4 body e go remain small

Katangora: you live in the past.. All eyes on tomorrow finale..
House,Will there be season 4?

i really respect u guys.. watching one by one... and waiting week by week

s4 has been commissioned already///

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Jeeedus! All Sorts!![/quote]Indeed... all sorts..

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Jidegirl the lioness!!!

Dude do you ever have a point?!!!

Like for real?!!! [/quote]*yawn.. only those who seemingly agree with you make sense.. aiit

gmyguy: stale gist

almost behind u...

love the ep 6 close..

chaos a ladder or a pit

geoffreys now a mad king.. using clubs to defile whores, now they are crossbow practice

dayokanu: Definitely a 20yr old male virgin should just go to a convent and monetize his lack of sex.

You mean at 14yr you didnt have anyone to experiment with even though you might have a little trouble finding your way around

sorry not me .. i meant when i entered unis, 20 year old virgins were already getting extinct....

jidegirl12: you're clamouring / usual campaign for equality treatment when it comes celebrating first dates?

i think its more of equality for equality's sake

36 and 44 points gap on FA and Kimi respectively

SV just needs to be consistent and be in the points and he may yet get no 4


Driver Standings updated https://www.nairaland.com/1205552/formula-one-f1-2013-official/2#14795228

MRbrownJAY: too fast indeed... but great drive from Massa. as for Bottas finishing 14th, what were they expecting really?

hahaha.. good experience for bottas though...
massa did well

Kimi now has 24 consecutive point finishes....equalling schumi

biolabee: as long as lewis tries no stunts

FA will end up in top 3
he starts well

My predos yesterday after qualifying

The Red Bull is too fast

excellent drive by kimi to still end in the points,...

did they touch?