₦airaland Forum

Smalldick123:
I suspect so

I guess your moniker is true down there.

donbachi:
I think alot of homosexuals and paedophiles hid under the name"catholic priest" to enable them carry out their evil acts...my thoughts though.

Very true
so many of them are serpent in sheeps clothing.

Strong and puffed up with all negativity drooling down her veins.

HRHQueenPhil:
Am dating one, hoping for our wedding pics to flood d front pages come Feb.2020

Happy for you both.
we'd support you with all the likes and shares and more of God blessings.

smart-hard work pays

Only people with misplaced piorities would want that.

boja28:
Yeah! I thought as much...are you based in the US?

Yeah, downtown cleaveland

NO!

rest on mama. death is indeed inevitable

Thats the club's policy as you claimed. why not check out other clubs in Abuja since its clubing that is your problem.

armadeo:
And here lies the crux of the matter.

What is cheating ?

A man just bleeps. He does that with his body. Once it's done hes gone. No feelings.

A woman has sex with her mind ( except for prostitutes).


An affair is when emotional feelings become involved. Where the man starts to care for another woman. That's the male definition of cheating.

A woman who cheats either lacks some form of emotional need that isnt been met or is just a plain LovePeddler.

So which category are we talking about

Please learn to call a spade a spade rather than been gulible as to what majority thinks its right...
A man is not a cheat to you because he cheat without emotion or whatever you call it. whereas you deem it fit to call a woman a cheat because she has her emotions tied to it?! Thats very absurd for u to think.
do not try to sugar-coat the word cheat for the men.. dont be misguided!

One thing have always miss about nigeria ever since is their rich native food (eforiro, amala, edikaikong, oha soup and ogbono infact)...
one time i remembered how i argued with an agbero and i could'nt stop laughing at my current state.

Chanchit:
Your own son nko?

lol they see everything as competition.

Ciaos:
Yeye man way no fit advise him wife well. Instead way he go knack the woman well make she happy, he say the woman dey feel bad because of one yeye rape way she enjoy with one man 20years ago... Dem come carry themselves come outside dey talk rubbish.. Yeye dey smell.

See as your mouth just dey smell for whole forum..
scallywagg

Praizenewstv:
eightded

nineded

boja28:
Your phrases sounded more like a JW, are you one?

Yes i'm one of jw... thats why i have a diff view

Mokason28:
Seconded

Thirded

He looks like both parent...
he'll grow to greater height i hope.

MrBrownJay1:
i would certainly forgive anyone who cheats on me (why carry grudges for someone who aint worth it?), but i certainly wont stay with them ever again.

Mr brown i do appreciate your view as regards this but not everyone will do likewise.

MrBrownJay1:
sadly, many people are blinded by "their" love for that person to even think straight... so they will accept any excuses given to them.
cheating is the complete opposite of love/care.



i am honest... i use to cheat (or be dishonest with women) when i was young, dumb and full of cuum but now i understand that i have to be honest to my #1 player (aka ME). if i dont love someone, i have absolutely no reason to lie to them OR no issues with telling them exactly that.



yes they do, and thats the moment they have to sit down and accept that they dont love that person any longer. you cant selfishly try to hold on to something that you have lost, in the name of "true love".

Love without forgiveness irrespective of what err has been commited should not be regarded as love...asides any criminal activity!

[quote author=franchasng post=84335161]Women by nature are wired to forgive a cheating partner while men by nature are configured not to forgive or easily forgive a cheating partner, it is all nature at work even though feminists and gender equality nonsense preachers are trying so hard to make it look otherwise, but we cannot cheat nature.

Hillary Clinton forgave Bill Clinton for cheating, I am sure Bill Clinton wouldn't have been able to forgive Hillary if it was Hillary that cheated on him to his knowledge, that is nature working.


Israeli President cheated on his wife with a staff of the Presidential villa, his wife forgave him and welcomed him with love, I am sure if it was the wife, he wouldn't forgive.

Its not because men don't value their partners but it is in their DNA, and we can only try to make them conform to societal standards created by man, but it will never work for majority of men.

Please louder!
thanks for your brilliant addition.

MrBrownJay1:
i could never cheat on someone and claim to love them... i would have to be honest with my own self to understand that if i did what i did then its obvious that A) i didnt love her and B) i could do it again and again.

why do you refuse to give an honest reply?

shogsman:
Sorry for your loss,you made a very good point.

Well appreciated

kingkakaone:
Birdeyeview how are you

I'm very well thank you! hope you're doing great.

MrBrownJay1:
you are talking about "your" love for that person without caring about what they do, while i am focusing on the person who claims to love you yet act contrary to it.

there shouldnt be any talk of forgiveness (to begin with) if the person in front of you loved you.
now, if that person could get up, chat up some babe, take her home, make love to her then lay back and smoke a cigarette, while not for ONE minute think about the love they had for you nor the hurt and damage that such unfaithful/deceitful act would create to you (and/or your relationship)... then i am sorry but that is closer to hate than love.

you CANNOT knowingly hurt your partner (and the relationship you guys have) by cheating and thereafter claim that you love them. its CONTRADICTORY

i guess, to each their own.

How would you have handled the whole situation if reversed was the case and you happened to be him...

MrBrownJay1:
with all due respect..... this has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with true love, and all to do with STOOPIDITY. if a man truly loved "you" he would respect you (and/or your relationship), and not going to hurt you (and/or your relationship) by going to sleep with other people. you probably loved him, but its evident that such man didnt love you.

true love would have stopped this man from cheating on you...FACT!

I honestly understand your own perpective of what true love mean to you...
as humans and imperfect we are all prone to err against eachother. so what's true love without forgiveness instead of habouring resentments..
everyone is entitiled to his/her opinion.

Rayhandrinni:
*MINNESOTA

well noted thanks!

who sang the song-DAVIDO
who gets the glory-DAVIDO
weda he wrote it or not there must have been an agreement with the songwriter nd the artist.
so OP sometimes you do let your instinct to be misguided by whats not factual.

some would say its their calling or perhaps God give and so shall he take... its saddening anyways

why do i find this to be very DISDAINFULL!