₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,327,302 members, 8,430,284 topics. Date: Saturday, 20 June 2026 at 09:00 AM

Toggle theme

BlackBarbie007's Posts

Nairaland ForumBlackBarbie007's ProfileBlackBarbie007's Posts

1 (of 1 pages)

PhonesIphone 11 Pro Max Sim Unclocked Available by BlackBarbie007(op): 12:24pm On Aug 07, 2022
. 256gb, 80% ba3 and NFID. 230k

WhatsApp; 0 8 1 3 8 6 3 9 3 6 8
Only text if you have agreed with price. Not negotiable.

PhonesRe: Iphone X Without Face ID by BlackBarbie007(m): 12:15pm On Aug 07, 2022
ultim:
Someone wants to sell iphone x London Use to me but said the one with face ID is 155 and the one without is 115.

Pls what the essence of the face id thing. Is it that important ?
I’ll give you 11 pro max, 256gb without face ID and good battery health for 230 jale
PhonesRe: Iphone X Without Face ID by BlackBarbie007(m): 12:14pm On Aug 07, 2022
It’s just a security measure like your passcode and swipe on android. Nothing special but iPhone users have made it look like it’s a big deal
HealthRe: Help, I Have Painful Mouth Sores(graphic Pictures) by BlackBarbie007(m): 6:09pm On Jun 27, 2022
Herpes
NYSCRe: NYSC Announces Passing-Out Date For 2021 Batch ‘B’ Corps Members by BlackBarbie007(m): 8:55pm On Jun 22, 2022
Salvador1:
Congrats to me.


They should kuku pay us our double allawe.. no time.
Will they pay it for real?
NYSCRe: I Will Never Forget The Time A Girl Was Caught Having Sex In Camp by BlackBarbie007(m): 9:23am On May 31, 2022
21B Stream 1. I remember so well��
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Please Who Got This From TOPTECH ENGINEERING LTD? by BlackBarbie007(m): 2:46pm On May 26, 2022
Mighty976:
Hello, pls who has an idea on the test assessment. I got an interview with them on Monday
Please if you get a sample kindly share with me
Jobs/VacanciesRe: N100k Job In Ibadan Or N200k Job In VI Lagos by BlackBarbie007(m): 4:06pm On May 16, 2022
200k in Lagos.
CareerRe: Should I Stay In The Engineering Field Or Move To The Finance Sector by BlackBarbie007(m): 9:04am On May 11, 2022
Mikolky:
Good day guys and I hope God catapults us to our next Level in life

Please, I need advice...

This write up might be long but please bear with me and give your honest, critical analysis and mature opinion(s).

I am a graduate of Elect/Elect Engineering, graduated 2015 from a Nigerian Federal University.
Before graduating I have been doing some Secondary school teachings during holidays and ASUU strike periods.
After graduating, I did some little sales and maketing jobs and teaching as well as I was yet to get my school statement of result due to issues I needed to sort out so I could not go for NYSC
So after I sorted it out, got my result and went for NYSC 2017/2018..I served in an off-grid private electrical power generating company in Ogun state..
After NYSC, a relative who is a top staff(An executive director) of a nigerian tier-2 bank invited me to come work in the bank, so I grabbed the opportunity without hesitation because of the fear of unemployment that has plagued our nation and also considering the fact that I graduated with a 2.2, so I feared that I might experience difficulty getting a job in my discipline
I started with being a contract staff as a sales executive with little pay..he promised that he will help me get confirmed as a full staff in a year but after 1year I only got a little promotion to another job role still a contract staff with very little salary increase so after a few months, I got agitated and wanted to leave but he persuaded me to stay but after some months further I made a very big mistake and did something that questioned my integrity, so I was sacked, the man that promised to help me stopped picking my calls, I became very depressed and downcasted because I knew I had dissappointed myself, my family, my colleagues and even the management since they all saw me as an industrious lad who was doing very well in his role and meeting targets.

I wallowed in depression and self-pity for more than a month before I moved on with my life and got another Job in a Lending company as a Sales Analyst with a higher net salary of about 160k(more than ×2 of what I earn before) but the pressure in the company was too much and stress of going from mainland to Island everyday and this was early last year when 3rd mainland bridge was under repairs, the traffic was crazy.
Due to the pressure and toxicity of the company coupled with the fact that my girlfriend whom I thought was my source of happiness and was doing all I could to please her started seeing another guy, her colleague at the office(fear women).., my self-exteem and confidence dropped drastically so I had to resign from the company after three months just for my mental health...With the advise of friends, I started doing e-hailing(bolt) business but my car(nissan) high maintenance, police, lastma, taskforce etc... even 'agbero' wahala frustrated me and made me reconsider.

Now I am back to my engineering field which I got a job as a Sales Engineer for 75k salary 3months ago . Its a one-man business Electrical Engineering company. although the MD has promised to review my salary since I am doing well at my role..
During the interview, I said I would only accept a minimum of 120k as salary but he said he could only afford to pay me 85k since he was going to train me

Now my serious deliberation is this:

*Should I move back to the finance sector considering the fact that I now have about 4years+ experience or I should continue and grow in the engineering field that I only have a little over a year experience?*

The pay is very little with many expenses and responsibilities ...not in comparison with anybody though but I am 30 already and most of my mates are already married with kids. I am not getting any younger.

Honest advise please

Mods should please help move it to front page...Many thanks
Bro I’m gonna finish nysc in June. I studied elctrical/electronic engineering but with a 3rd class� I don’t have money to go abroad to further so I can compliment my first degree result. Getting a Job has been difficult for me cos most companies want 2.2 lowest. I have experience in customer service and I also have experience in fiber engineering. Should you decide to go back to finance, please refer me to your boss if he can train me too for the sales engineer role, I don’t mind the 85k salary, let me just get the experience and skills that matters. I am 27years and the first child.
RomanceRe: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by BlackBarbie007(m): 8:43am On May 11, 2022
PerfectStranger:
What are you doing in a relationship with a Nigerian girl when you could barely afford a house?
Sometimes na we dey use our hand cook breakfast give ourselves.
But she ain’t complaining about him not giving her money. She just wan ate him to get his own house and she said she’d help out too when it’s time. I think she’s a good one
RomanceRe: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by BlackBarbie007(m): 1:08pm On May 08, 2022
ogechchukwu:
Yes check Afro introduction
I’m on the site but I don’t have money to upgrade
CareerRe: 230k Job In Nigeria Or DAAD Scholarship In Germany by BlackBarbie007(m): 4:47pm On May 01, 2022
Go for your Msc
EducationRe: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by BlackBarbie007(m): 11:54am On Apr 27, 2022
You already got admission, why no try to get a scholarship before thinking of selling the house. There are tens of them in the UK that you might get one. Just try bro.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Cheated On Me What Should I Do? by BlackBarbie007(m): 5:20pm On Jun 30, 2021
mechanics:
Follow your mind but don't hurt her.
Segzy19:
Decision is yours to make.

1. Forgive her and accept her back but you must be able to trust her again, especially if she shows remorse and is willing to truly change

2. Forgive her and let her go if you think you can't trust her again or if she is not showing any remorse or regret.

But then review the whole thing to make sure that it wasn't due to your own faults or cause. This is important so that there wont be a repeat with her or with someone else Incase you decide to leave her...


Please, be calm and don't do anything stupid, violent or irrational. No be today, woman dey break person heart o. E dey pain like anything but in the end you will move past it and soon be sharing the experience as story
Best advice so far
PoliticsRe: Buhari Signs New Minimum Wage Bill by BlackBarbie007(m): 3:30pm On Apr 18, 2019
Old News
RomanceRe: Jane Mena Parks Her Jeep On The Road, Climbs On It And Twerks (photos by BlackBarbie007(m): 3:27pm On Apr 18, 2019
WilliamsChelster:
I’m really pained I didn’t get my opportunity with this girl while in school embarassed
Others bin dey collect?
FamilyRe: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by BlackBarbie007(m): 11:20am On Jul 29, 2018
Look bro, I was in this same situation this month, but luckily for me, she had a miscarriage or maybe she lied about it, I dunno and dont care, but when she told me she was pregnant, abortion seemed d best thing to do, I am 25 and she is 23. She never wanted to abort it cos she loved me dat much and wouldn't mind having my child BUT i had to make a decision, if I had told her to abort, she wud have but I didn't, she said she wanted to keep it and I said fine. the thought procreation, having my own child overwhelmed me, I was in a bittersweet situation, I thought about wen d child will b 4,5,6 years and I'll b playing with him or her and it excited me but now DAT d baby ain't der no more, I'm thinking about all DAT cud have gone wrong and am wondering if I would have been able to cater for this child.
my point is, let her do d abortion, its her decision remember, just make sure that there's a proof that u never wanted her to do d abortion.
EducationRe: Kuranga Aishat, Unilorin Student Missing (Photo) by BlackBarbie007(m): 8:51pm On Jul 26, 2018
Another ritual story loading........

1 (of 1 pages)