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Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Partnerbiz(f): 8:11am On Jul 29, 2018 |
okwusdidi: This is 2018, get sense small naa. He will be the one to find cure for Aids? what if he will be next Kabiri sokoto? Use another instance to buttress your point oga.. I am pro choice though 1 Like |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by nnamezie87(m): 8:14am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bro.... Tell your parents first, then tell her that You need to see her own people. If she refuses, then wash off your hand and tell her that you have nothing to do with d abortion if anything happens. Make sure that some of her friends are aware in case anything happens. Goodluck |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Abbaxxx(m): 8:18am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by asatemple(f): 8:25am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Marry her |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by ozallamike(m): 8:36am On Jul 29, 2018 |
praxs:are you a student too ? what do you do for a living ? |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by successtutor(m): 8:37am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Say no to abortion. It's a mortal sin cos it's intentional killing. Go and tell your mum. She will sort you out. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Katier00(f): 8:48am On Jul 29, 2018 |
praxs:send me her number, let me call her. Was faced with a similar experience, ten years ago, let me try to encourage her cos I know how she feels |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by roselynbas(f): 9:00am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Convince her to keep the baby, I have not seen anyone that aborted a child that has never regretted it. Marry her, it becomes legal, school will not rusticate her. If you are man enough to have sex, you should be man enough to meet her parents. The deed has been done, what else is there?! |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Anfieldboss: 9:03am On Jul 29, 2018 |
oolongtea: You're not considering the possibility of complications that can come with abortion. They should take responsibility for their actions. 1 Like |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Surulady: 9:23am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Zoharariel:You are a counselor pls dm your contact I need to talk to you personally God bless you @poster if you do any other thing contrary to this hmmmm May God help you 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Nobody: 9:25am On Jul 29, 2018 |
oolongtea:actually 22 and 28 is plenty adult and the day they were weak enough to have sex outside marriage was the day they altered their lives forever. Mr op, the choice is yours but doing the right thing is what will really work for you. Don't be surprised, if she eventually goes on with the abortion and complications arise, she will claim it was all your fault. That is double wahala Even condoms aren't 100 percent safe, please people, stay away from premarital sex and multiple partners |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by adetes: 9:28am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Lazy youth
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Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Nobody: 9:51am On Jul 29, 2018 |
pocohantas: Hmmmm.. very deep.. What's for lunch? |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by suraaj(m): 9:52am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Where do stay, if you are around Ibadan your problem would have been over because I will connect you with the dude that helped me when I was in your kind of situation,hire a fake white garment church member and he will pretend to come across your woman by accident and have a message for her, he will deliver a fake message that god sent him to her not to involve in anything about abortion for her or anybody close to her because he see sudden death. He will then pray for a minute and say ALAFIA FUN O ARABINRIN.she will offer small change he should not collect to make it more authentic. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Trybes(m): 10:05am On Jul 29, 2018 |
appsdope:Say NO to abortion. Nobody would wish he/she was aborted. No matter the circumstances don't take a life. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Positive13: 10:07am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Pls don't abort the baby.babies are gift from God,have bn trying to have one for the past 3 year being married 4 almost for years and here u are thinking of abortion. Okay if u feel u have no need for the baby.pls Lets have have a deal,give birth to the baby and sell to me for 2M.rethink and keep UR baby pls. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 10:09am On Jul 29, 2018 |
adetoroamos:she doesn't have to be raped to not want a baby. The highest number of abortions in Nigeria are carried out by married women. Go ask any doctor. People just don't want to keep children they don't want. Can't you understand this. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 10:10am On Jul 29, 2018 |
CSTR1005: She doesn't have to be raped to not want the child. Why do you care if she doesn't? Are you going to carry the child for her? |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Wonberi(m): 10:18am On Jul 29, 2018 |
talking from experience, no matter how you convince her, even with a ring, she will do it. then later regret it. even thou both of you are responsible for the consequence... praxs: |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by ennon92(m): 10:20am On Jul 29, 2018 |
MarieSucre:it all boils down to the clime we found ourselves, Nigeria as a case study is just not helping matters. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Nobody: 10:30am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Jazmiynne: Read the 10 commandments. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by pacificom: 10:55am On Jul 29, 2018 |
praxs: The aspect of parental concern is minor on this matter but you have to be sure that you both handle this situation maturely and that can really consolidate your love at the end. Meanwhile it is important that you both consent to the idea of having a child that you are prepared to care for, but not to push responsibilitIies on your parents. I will further advice that you should not force your girlfriend to keep the pregnancy. That can end up in her future regret and may lead to both of you separating prematurely after having a child in a relationship. Your girlfriend is still young and could be naive to comprehend to the idea of settling down with a man too soon. I guess what she has in her mind now is to focus on her study and I want you to respect her opinion provided you truly love her and want her for your future. Meanwhile make sure you consult an experienced doctor who can help you with a safe abortion. Make sure you also seek for advise on contraceptive to prevent unwanted pregnancy in a relationship. Please Bear in mind that pregnancy is not a pathway to marriage, but vise versa. You still have work to do on your relationship till you both mature into marriage. If the result of your laboratory test indicate pregnancy, you must act fast before it is too late. Good luck!! |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Nobody: 11:09am On Jul 29, 2018 |
MarieSucre:it is the married ones gan gan that go for abortions that are extremely stupid |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by CSTR1005: 11:12am On Jul 29, 2018 |
MarieSucre:I actually don't care. It was someone that brought the case here for other people's opinion. I don't care about deliberate idiots. The consequences of their idiocy are theirs alone to carry. And I am not asking her to keep the child either. My grouse is that she got herself pregnant for an idiot who doesn't care that pregnancy is not what is best for her. Don't misunderstand me, madam. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by aishatmusah(f): 11:12am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Ma2seater: The guy is looking for advice and some persons are trying to make the issue complicated. If na your blood d girl be and she happens to report to u that her bf whom she is pregnant for asked if he owns the pregnancy, Shebi u go happy? Ozuo |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by BlackBarbie007(m): 11:20am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Look bro, I was in this same situation this month, but luckily for me, she had a miscarriage or maybe she lied about it, I dunno and dont care, but when she told me she was pregnant, abortion seemed d best thing to do, I am 25 and she is 23. She never wanted to abort it cos she loved me dat much and wouldn't mind having my child BUT i had to make a decision, if I had told her to abort, she wud have but I didn't, she said she wanted to keep it and I said fine. the thought procreation, having my own child overwhelmed me, I was in a bittersweet situation, I thought about wen d child will b 4,5,6 years and I'll b playing with him or her and it excited me but now DAT d baby ain't der no more, I'm thinking about all DAT cud have gone wrong and am wondering if I would have been able to cater for this child. my point is, let her do d abortion, its her decision remember, just make sure that there's a proof that u never wanted her to do d abortion. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by 2odd(m): 11:25am On Jul 29, 2018 |
MarieSucre:Auntie !! It's early Sunday morning ,every woman will or may undergo childbirth ,not every one do an abortion, reason with your brain sometime, statically a large number of ladies die or have serious health complications like damaged womb during abortions. Guess you know that already |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by cyndyuc(f): 11:25am On Jul 29, 2018 |
As a lady, I feel your gf is scared of the stigma that comes with pregnancy outside marriage. If you are buoyant enough and ready for marriage then propose to her and have a low key wedding. If you're not ready for marriage yet, inform your parents about the pregnancy and let them take the necessary step of seeing her parents. Try and convince her to keep the pregnancy. So many women are married without kids. Pregnancy is not easy to achieve, let her count herself lucky to be pregnant. I believe God has a purpose for allowing that baby to be conceived. Dear poster, no abortion please....convince her....assure her you will support her and ensure she completes her education with good grades....... Its not going to be easy but if she aborts that innocent child, she will live to regret it...it's murder!!!! |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by jaybohi: 11:39am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Don't try to abort the pregnancy as nemesis has caught up with u guy. All things been equal,have faith the Lord will assist u |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Housing(m): 11:44am On Jul 29, 2018 |
MarieSucre: You sound like a prophet of doom I have read all your comments in respect of the subject matter and its all negative. You keep mentioning 22years, her education and her life as the abortion is a sure safe process. Your types believe she has not enjoy her life and have enough fun in her twenties, but most of your likes ends up in Shiloh and night of miracles. You think I am hash with my words, that will be the consequences of those your wrong, pessimistic ideas. Feminism is not about fun and be freedom. There is no total freedom in life, for any sensible, reliable and responsible individual. 1 Like |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Housing(m): 12:20pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
oolongtea: Please calm down, 28 vs 22 is one of the perfect age for a man and woman. You have analysed things to take into consideration and have seen a thread were the the op confirmed his new promotion on his present job. Few days ago we read about newly wedded couple both in their mid thirties complaint about expenditures. Life is about challenges, problems and solutions. As good as you analysed things to considered before marriage you've equally demonized early marriage in present day Nigeria. Whereas those that married late keep regretting wasted opportunities. I am forty plus, happily married over a decade with children. I have more than three friends who have encourages their then girl friends/fiancé to have abortions. Today all of them later married those particular girls and are still praying to have a child of their own. You can struggle and raised your hustle to make money, but making babies is a rare gift from God. You may talk of IVF, go and find out the cost and chances rates. I live in a neighborhood where we have some IVF clinics. Some friends and acquaintance are so patrons. It is good as you prepare the ops mind for the challenge, but is a good and better challenge to take on, compare to the only alternative which is abortion. 2 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by obekediamondfuto(m): 12:21pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
I actually rushed to see if twas peradventure Iamairforce. op nice one, own up and be a man |
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