oceanized25:
Brother erm,your wife is right o...e be like you stingy small.
You give ur wife 20k n later 25k after many argument for the family upkeep...you guys are 4 in number,o wrong nau.
I am single,I don't consider myself as one who spends recklessly at all but uses 40k monthly...but somehow you feel you,wife,n kids should use 25k?
Try raise the money for family upkeep,I think 45k or 50 could be something for a prudent woman considering you don't have much.

TheAviator2000:
I really need wise counsel and will try to make this post as short as possible

My girlfriend and I have been together since 2015. I left Naija in 2017 and since then, our relationship has been more of long distance except for the one time I came back. While I truly love her and wish to Marry her, there are some things that are giving me concerns and I would like to hear other people's perspective:


1- When I met my girl in 2015, I was an unemployed graduate wrapping up my NYSC. She was a fashion designer/Tailor and didn't have any formal higher education (University Level).

2- Fast forward to 2021, I am a consultant in a fortune 500 company and have grown so much in any measurable aspect of Life. My girlfriend is still a fashion designer and not too long ago, I helped her get a shop in Lagos and Have been sending her steady allowance (at least average of 40-50k a month).

Here are the things that have given me a lot of worries:
1- I know everyone will not get a formal education and I am fine with that but my girl has not been hustling/pulling her weight in her chosen career despite my extra support.... I sometimes get the feeling that all she wants is to get married and get comfortable but I want an industrious woman. Formal education or not, I want a woman that can hussle!

2- Recently, I pretended to be unemployed because of Coronavirus just to see if she would send me some money (even if its 10k) or really, anything she can afford. Looking at the fact that I had always supported her month after month, I wanted to see if she would do the same for me.
I pretended to be unemployed for almost a month and did not receive any form of financial support from her. Even when I directly asked her to loan me small money, she would play it off by saying something like "I go write you check for 1 million sef".....

I am thinking of breaking it off at this point by slowly letting her go but before I do that, I want the perspective of people here.
Please, no insult! I am genuinely seeking your insight. Be kind!

ps. My family are doing really well and I support anything they do. I have never neglected my family in anyway, shape or form.

Fahdiga:
South west is a region known for their accommodating culture and Igboho is trying to deceive Yoruba youths to abandon their age long culture of accommodating strangers. Igboho's ass must surely end up in Hague for his crimes against humanity

BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage.. That's in God's presence, He that giveth the blessing in the marriage. Not in front of some ancestors in a traditional system. If some traditional elders are honored by presenting the intending couples before them, should God not get even greater honour?

najoke:

But past Govt never used disappearance of fuel queue for campaign...........so don't blame Nigerians for reacting to their campaign jingle.

aieromon:
Boring match...referee blow whistle make I go chop jare

halimaabi:
APC WITCHCRAFT BROOM CARRYING PARTY


The Schizophrenic sick Pa Buhari is a terrorist, deranged old brainless super clueless bastard
Apc is boko haram
Thiefnu.bu is a pedophile drug dealer and a cocain sniffer property seized in the usa for his drug deals.

Buhari can only be president in sambisa and shekau would hand over to him with his forged result.

Osinbajo is fake and a loafer

Amechi and Fashola are errand boys

Ambode new recruit errand boy

CLEARINGAGENT:
Why not start by FREEING CHIBOK GIRLS from BOKOHARAM, their parent miss them.

Bifwoli:
And col Ojukwu must be Igbo of the century.

The Igbo tribe is like the blood of Nigeria,they coarse thru the veins of Nigeria like no others.

deennest:
Hmm.. historical

Change2015:
This is how a leader should respond in this situation. Buhari is a man of sterling character, and this statement is timely and wise. We await a similar condemnation of the shooting of APC supporters in Rivers State from the pdp.

#change
#GMB
#APC

BlackHuman:
When S.Lamido was screaming about the missing $10billiion we thought he was joking shey?

redcliff:


I do not blame you Nigerians..its because you have suffered so much that any singular act of kindness from your masters is seen as a world wonder. Jonathan fixes a few rail system in the country and everubody sings halelluyah and forget the highlevel of corruption, looting and siphoning of funds been done by a single man and his cohorts..although i like this development however, i do not support jonathan because he is a thief. Quote me anytime.. Mr Goodluck Jonathan is a thief.. he is busy milking you dry while giving you peanuts. Is that the definition of a leader to Nigerians? I would not be suprised if he is relected in 2015 all these rail projects would fall apart

speaktome:
E

speaktome:
E

lasttimer:
I hope say this geh dey wen him dey hawk rat poison for street?
Smh