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Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Tuns20(m): 10:41am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Enugupikin: Yeah I know a family, they have 3 girls.. They're seventh day adventist church members..when the first daughter was getting married..the father said they can't live together until after their wedding in seventh day adventist church.. After traditional marriage.. I just wonder what the other two girls would face when it comes to their own marriage.. Well they don't marry outsiders so he no go hard the husband to be |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 10:41am On Jan 22, 2021 |
West2019: Where is it written in any book that one must stand before the traditional system and elders before it becomes marriage. If you can answer this, then I'll answer you |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by emerged01(m): 10:41am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity:You collected dowry you say make I no carry wife? For what? Mind you I am Christian. Tell me one wedding that was done in the church in the Bible. You can also educate me by quoting a scripture to back what you are saying. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by West2019(m): 10:42am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Tell your friend to propose the white weeding till 2030 I hate rubbish . |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Blackbody20(m): 10:42am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity:This is foolishness in case you're not told 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Sixfeetbelle: 10:42am On Jan 22, 2021 |
thatigboman: Why will I forget church? I'm a church person. If church did not certify my marriage, it's forbidden for me to act and behave married. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by naijadrivablog: 10:42am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Kuku marry your daughter naw. I know churches that practice such DOGMA. Let me ask you all, the wedding that Jesus Christ was recorded to have attended (when he turned water to wine), was it in the synagogue, church, mosque or in the father of the bride's father's house? Africans, na yeye de worry all of una |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by zedegit: 10:42am On Jan 22, 2021 |
mezico96: Our opinions don't really count if we tell ourselves the truth. The girl is a Christian and I want to assume the boy is which is in doubt given that this topic is in front page unless op is swallowing paracetamol on others' businesses. That is why believers are told to not be unequally yoked with those that don't understand. 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by 44Bulldog(m): 10:43am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: You've said it all The only meaningful comment |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Ashinze: 10:43am On Jan 22, 2021 |
The father dey Bleep the girl ni ? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 10:43am On Jan 22, 2021 |
emerged01: Who collected your dowry or bride Price. The traditional system or the Lord. The Lord doesn't collect, neither is it about feasting, it's just standing before Him to honour nothing more. It's for select few who know their God. You can have a marriage without going before God. Ba da mu wa. But for his select few, marriage starts from standing in His presence before Him to honour Him. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Fogman(m): 10:43am On Jan 22, 2021 |
The father is not wrong here. After I did my traditional marriage my wife church Redeem told us, we cant live together until after the church wedding. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by streetfabulous: 10:44am On Jan 22, 2021 |
I will not justify what her father did, but I urge your friend to tow the path of peace. Clearly, they both have different perspectives on the matter and so your friend can take a mature stand by not interpreting in terms of who is right or wrong. He is going to be his father-in-law for a long time by God's Grace and so two months is a little sacrifice to start well with his father-in-law. Be the peacemaker and let it be as her father wishes for the sake of future relations with him and your wife. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by naijadrivablog: 10:44am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Saao: Ticket wey go cut go cut. Leave that thing. Jesus attended a Traditional wedding not white/church wedding. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by zedegit: 10:44am On Jan 22, 2021 |
mezico96: You lie. Did you buy the daughter or you think dowry means buying? Is she a goat? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 10:44am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Blackbody20: Spiritual things are indiscernible and foolish to the worldly. You'll be fine. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by malele(m): 10:44am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity: I whose presence was the trad done ? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by naijadrivablog: 10:44am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity: Ticket wey go cut go cut. Leave that thing. Jesus attended a Traditional wedding not white/church wedding. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by ursamajor: 10:45am On Jan 22, 2021 |
In want to ask a question. If God is really everywhere, do you think they have to go inside a building for Him to actually witness the wedding? Humanoid01: |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by palsenator(m): 10:45am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: In a word , the white man's wedding is superior to our traditional wedding? Isn't that part of your insinuations? Remember both are traditional and one was introduced by the white man and it's NEVER SCRIPTURAL. The man is only being a slave to the white man and religion. The part where I agreed with you was the part where you mentioned he should have married someone who shares his view. He could have saved himself from all this brouhaha. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 10:46am On Jan 22, 2021 |
naijadrivablog: He was the institution. One doesn't cry when one has His father around. Different strokes |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Jessepaid(m): 10:46am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Hehehe... I wanted to skip but lemme comment... It's very common that some spouses stay a year or more than that after the traditional marriage.. Without doing the white wedding.. And the society we are now has been conditioned to think that there is more permanence in white wedding than in the traditional one... It's is easier to send a wife packing when only traditional marriage has been done... But it's somewhat hard to do so after the white wedding... Some churches like the roman catholic offer marriage courses to couples intending to wed in the order of holy matrimony.. So if you wanna play a fast one and throw your wife away, you have to deal with the church, the reverend father and might even be suspended from taking the holy communion.... Most ladies are becoming wiser now.. Now its marry me officially or I won't born for you... Men love challenges so they are always ready to seal the deal to reinforce their ego and respect... I personal know if someone who did white wedding after 20 years of marriage... But they're old folks... If you tried that now in this generation, you would be socially and mentally criticized and crucified... Needless to say.... The bride's father is just acting out of love to make sure his daughter is seen as a prize.. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Omezif(m): 10:47am On Jan 22, 2021 |
All parent are not thesame. the guy really went to the family that has principle. if he has money he should do the wedding either in a big or minimum way, or give up the marriage cause i see the father of the lady to take any challenges if the guy want to mess up. 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by malele(m): 10:47am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Softboy001: Am even surprised at people’s comments , my question to those people is , is there anything called white wedding in the bibble? Africans sabi make things difficult for themselves |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Ashinze: 10:48am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Yes oooo na true talk oooo. This is what bring problem the time of my sister and her husband. Na tradition for our place ooo. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by emerged01(m): 10:48am On Jan 22, 2021 |
zedegit:What has traditional wedding get to do with the issue of unbeliever? As a Christian if I decided to do a traditional wedding does that mean I have gone against the law of God? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Sixfeetbelle: 10:48am On Jan 22, 2021 |
palsenator: Nobody said any was superior to the other. It's a matter of preference. I prefer white wedding over traditional one and if the church didn't certify me married, I'm not. Simple. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by zedegit: 10:49am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Nazgul: So you mean they should be enjoying illegal sex, abi? What's your religious inclination? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by West2019(m): 10:49am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity:an driving I will reply you later |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Jackipapa: 10:50am On Jan 22, 2021 |
I think the father of the bride is just trying to teach them a lesson which will help, PATIENCE! |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by zedegit: 10:51am On Jan 22, 2021 |
emerged01: You don't get it. Every Christian believes in church wedding before conjugation or intimacy. Not that they don't do traditional wedding. Comprehension is your problem. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by palsenator(m): 10:51am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Chill bro/sis. The man obviously made one superior which was why we are all here. Hence, my initial assertions |
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