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red101:
And this is why the world sees us as barbaric. Are you a primitive animal? Do you realize that we are in the 21st century and there are other ways to show your strength without resorting to physical violence? That is actually a sign of weakness to most civilized people when you cannot control your barbaric urge to be violent.

This. And violence isn't strength. Violence is power used when strengths fail.
Lotta people need to stop confusing dems.

cococandy:
yea he's humble. That's cool about him

This. He has many faults but being boastful isn't one of them. And faults of whole system can't fall just on the President's head.

dinachi:
I understand your frustrations. . You need to defend that rotten puccy with your life so that you can get some tonight .
Lets talk when you manage to swim out from that atrociously rotten puccy with maggots paying you a special compliment while there.
Go get busy bro!

You're some lot obsessed with pussies

Yanno, like... guys that can't get any, because ladies having them wouldn't engage you.

Shut up about bodies of people you don't respect.

And geeet ooooout.

You misogynist scumbag, dinachi.

Her words have each a gold's value. Enough said.

You're not even ash because ash are the beloved ancestors that still have patience with your sorry ass and don't fry you alive.

dinachi:
Hey be smart! Remove your head from her a5s, you went in too deep.

Right, unlike you who can't even fathom some men are honored to be in company of intelligent sensitive women unlike abusive scum like you.

Edited to add: Next time you think of someone beating a woman, start seeing your mother, sister, wife, daughter.

But I'm not having hopes. The likes of you beat all the above.

@crackhaus:

Good gif choice: a white man don't care and would laugh bout this shit.

Well that puts things in perspective sha.

Hate to break it to you but white 'culture' will do s&it for you when you're in trouble. You really better start caring bout ye fellow BLACKS.

crackhaus:
First, you were interested in knowing what is more important to me - now, you're concerning yourself with the way some guys present themselves on this thread.
Aren't you seeing the correlation yet?

It's right there in your comment @bold, you're sick!

Go have the argument you long for with 5minsmadness, he's the one you're looking for - definitely not me.

Ain't got time for boys who are obsessed with what I find important or how I present myself...pathetic.

Bro you better read derailing for dummies, because you're doing it wrong.

Again: Agreeing with bleeped up s8it done while it's being done and not doing something against it when one CAN is putting one as guilty as the one who does it. The guilt may be different level. But it's still THERE.

And in fact this topic still isn't about criticizing you for YOU. It's about criticizing you for values and s8it you agree with that simply can't be condoned. That has nothing to do with some disliking you or persecutory complex you seem to be having whatsoever.

Get over yourself bro.
We're still talking about not having men like you get ANYONE an idea that torture and r&pe and mutilation of women of any age is right.

And you STILL say 'look at the OTHER guy'? Jeez. Bro this ain't about who us started this fuxkery but so it ain't CONTINUED.

I really don't think a lil girl laying somewhere in pain is effing curious WHO is it that caused that much hurt. At that point of pain? It doesn't fuc-ing MATTER. That it STOPS does.

dinachi:
Skank, I don't need to prove myself to you...
I abhor women who have no sense of decorum over their tongues.

Skank you such a lowlife if you say a thing like 'I abhor women' period.

Why should a woman censor her tongue? You so insecure piece of crap you can't HANDLE her WORDS without getting all upset? What kinda man are you?

That was amazingly written summary of the topic that's easy to digest, kudos to you for sharing & for writing skills brother.

cococandy:
Who is blackleopard?

Random nairalander with generally no patience for inhumane bullshit

Thank you, red101.

Honestly I'm pretty much seeing disconnect in the way some guys on this thread have presented themselves; there's that wanting to see themselves as 'good men' in the same time not even bothering to think of what is it that they're arguing for, torture of children, and when it's pointed out exactly as what it is outside of language they've been sugarcoating it in whole their lives they throw a fit and backpedal and accuse women present of a gender conspiracy against them and men present as irrational and crazy who have no right to speak up at all.

Misogyny at its finest show. Pretty sickening.

babadee1:
What I suggested he should do is what he just did today. War front doesn't necessarily mean actual theater of fighting.

That's true, yes. I tend to read war front as = front lines of combat.

Seeing what ya mean, then.

In agreement he should do direct action & not sabotage soldier's lives like all the mess with SF 111 for one, not gestures for popularity and press.

This ain't a post to talk politics propaganda at.

We're talking lives lost and health diseases and prevention, this derailing from issue na hand is a mess.

She a badass make sure you tell her.

& be there for her if dis comes back in nightmares and mess, ya?

Prayers 4 her & everybody's peace.

babadee1:
It's easy to commission structures. Has he ever visited the soldiers at the war front to encourage them even once? It's good to remember the dead but it's also important to remember the living, to boost their morale.

That's a fucking stupid idea. Him at the war front would immediately paint a target on himself and the troop he's with, he'd be a liability to them they need to take care of, and he'd be a problem, because he's not a combatant that'd take care of himself and by their own employment & honor codes they'd be *obliged* to ensure his security first and foremost, not theirs.

A, we're on a public forum,
B, human rights are everybody's concern,
C, Bleep your attempt at silencing me, try harder.

And yes, patriarchy & misogyny (which are something that men exhibit and have spread to communities & system of power to do it by respectively) are what moves those women to be abusers, at least in part. If you can't see how a system contributes to individual decisions, then you're really missing a big part of the picture.

One doesn't have to be holding a knife to be a killer; who profits from murder is as much if not more guilty.
Same deal here.

I can't believe it's more important to you @crackhaus who supports *mutilation and torture of baby girls.* than that that practice is done.

In fact, you yourself are evidence of red101 claim, assuming you're male. Just look at this thread: the person who's strongly arguing against the practice and providing well researched, educated, and humane views on it, *is a woman*, and from the tone of criticisim she is getting from doing so it's safe to assume that it's men objecting her views, eventually that it's women who have a lot of internalized misogyny to work through, a.k.a. under influence of men, therefore again, men deciding.

Plain logic and common sense.

red101:
Nigerian politics is just too comical. no other words for it. pure farce

This sha, burning truth. It's more relieving seen from that angle but otherwise it's so triste.

None of the listed 'benefits' are something that can't be achieved other way than harming a child's body and spirit.

It strikes me as peculiar people speak of 'chastity' where they mutilate sexuality of a baby child, people speak of 'holiness' when they do an act of torture, and people speak of 'respect' when they do something to their community's most vulnerable without any regard for that person's voice.

So looked solely at the language that's supposed to give reasons for the practice, it doesn't hold any reason and is contradictory on an abstract level.

That there are certain ebola streaks that *were* developed, tested and patented in the US (which *is* a fact, findable very much when one checks google docs not even that thoroughly) is still a faaaar way from saying they were implanted in human populations by the States, that it was done so deliberately, and that there is a concrete strategic purpose behind it.

That it wouldn't be surprising, and there's a history of that experimentation happening, are two facts. That it happened in this concrete case, or that it keeps happening as a primary modus operandi for this or that government, that's though needing lot more evidence than a simple conspiracy theory.

I hope his dick falls off and hands do too while he sits in jail to the rest of his life.

... Wait, that would be in a working justice system.

dhtml18:
The Child
- Abnormal children - all those down syndrome etc.

They not abnormal children tho. They're just babies with different chromosomes than those without it.
(Technical note, let's not call the sweethearts that.)

It's her body, she do what she needs do.

I get your concern tho, talk to her about it? Talk to family members that can talk to her if you can't yourself? Or maybe a trusted family friend that can open up a dialog should even that fail?

Like first, don't let it be eating up just you, man. I'm sure more people be having the same worries you are having and talkin dem out do good fi all.

I find it problematic b/c boundaries & it's different sort of contact than cheek kisses and the like which could get complicated if for the wrong reason/the kid not wanting them and the like. It's just more intimate a touch even when not meant to be in that interaction.

But then this question was for mothers and not fathers so maybe I shall shut my cakehole.

C'mon guys, we can do better dan this.

Let's not invoke Ogun for something petty as arguments on here and not invoke people's parents one way or another. M'sure y'all parents are just fine so like let's leave the argument.

iluvpomo:
tell me bros .... How is occasionally indulging in some recreational smoking considered an act of thugging??
I don't steal, I dont illegally engage in illicit activities and I make my honest contributions to society in earning my daily bread. I am not a saint for sure but the one thing I will not do is twist the truth. I stand by what I said in that previous thread . It was the harsh truth.
In the case of Mr. Eric Garner, I feel it was different and he was done in by the police. Justice was not served there. My opinion anyways.
PS: don't tell me you have never smoked a J b4??

I'm not calling your use of drugs thugging while we're at it; what I'm saying is I'm rather sure to majority society and white folk of it that would warrant the same label. I'm saying that being in the same situation with some racist cop, that guy sure wouldn't care for who smokes what from whose money, it'd be same grounds for harsh treatment and the real problem still not being whatever behaviors anyone does, but w way trigger happy cops.

I dunno man, may be just my 4 cents; I don't want to piss on dead brother's grave, wherever truth is about things, while there's cops getting away with killing that brother. What that person's biz was with their life ain't my biz, not excusing that murder tho still is. I ain't gonna go into 'who's the bad nigger here and who's da good one' cus it's exactly what I'm fuckin *sure* racist white shits want us to talk about while they kill people without remorse and without punishment.

Hence why I'm draggin it in two different threads, we're in da same boat here, to dem, we *all* black.

Yeah there may be even circulating weed as long as Americans don't hoard it all, Australians and Canadians I know of are sharing carin peoples...

iluvpomo:
We be burnin' not concernin' what nobody wanna say.
We be earnin' dollars turning 'cause we mind de pon we pay.
Some got gold and oil and diamonds - all we got is Mary J
Legalize it, time to recognise It

You be here with that, yet in other thread you call an innocent dead civvie a 'thug' for alleged shoplifting.

Who's the thug where

(Btw your weed, your bsns, I ain't nothing bout that. Pointing out the hypocrisy.)

What was the criteria for 'using'? How often? How much? What ocassion?

Think these all are important to consider, before we start about who's bigger nation of addicts an all.

macof:
Wrongs? What is wrong about agemo festival? That the idiotic religionist call idolatry
what is wrong with Ida'fa that the Christians preach against every Sunday...practising our own culture is not wrong because ur silly foreign religion says so?

I'm not in disagreement about that - traditions are important, sense making, wonderful and to be kept.
What I'm objecting is the notion 'if you don't like dis or dat, leave' and calling that bit unnecessary

He didn't, but apparently since you won't check the facts on it and listen only to what victim blaming white media got to tell you your choice.

But tell me: Can anyone say a person deserves to *die* for petty theft and attempt to escape, if that were the case Where the hell do you live?

macof:
It doesn't matter what nation, what time

Why can't people respect culture and tradition? If u hate ur culture you leave the land and denounce ur identity it's nt hard
And if it's that of other people, u let them be

Have you been there? It isn't that easy thing to do. Either leaving the land or denouncing an identity, leaving community. And saying, 'if you hate it just leave', that's xenophobia prime. People shouldn't have to be asked to leave *their homes* just because of their feelings / when spotting wrongs about their community / when not happy with the state of affairs.