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Well I'm glad they decided to tone down their election cough enthusiasm.

I don't think already tense atmosphere needs added violence, quite the contrary, regardless of who the violent clowns are and why they're thinking it would be good.

They rock and more power to them.
Also, a girl able so sit in through the pain of tattoos? One, r multiple? A badass.

Looks they finally got dragged as deserved.
I hope they rot in hell, no paradise for kafirun like them.

I don't think self-objectification is possible. Objectification, as a concept, is something someone else does to a person, not a thing person do dey demself.

Subtle racism, I'd see in Disney. There's documentation for it with how the drawing evolved.

Subtle mind control because gestures? Nah. How's it so subtle if everyone even remotely into conspiracies points it out?

74... Pft not even Ala herself woulda want me that age, let alone a wife.

All da lists of NL on how-to's-society woulda make cool book if collected.

I bet it'd sell as good as one dem American books.

R.I.P. to that poor man.

She being patronized is a wrong thing.
But no 'scuse to kill someone, none to then roast them, that's way beyond the sick of words and wrong attitudes.

But I'm glad it was pointed out.

I got a movie ticket which sweet, we argue which movie's d worst all d time, she won this round, I'm not whining.

@LeStylo, spot on brother. Thank you for saying.

Yeah and when the soldiers ask proper equipment and support they're executed like those units of 111 SF divison recently.

I'm fearing for our army.

C'mon ppl, what a tragedy
R.I.P. to the Dead.

casualobserver1:
My guy we don't need SJWs in Nigeria o. SJWs are against any form of personal responsibility. According to SJWs a girl that goes off and gets drunk only to get raped bears no responsibility for her predicament. These are people that will say that fat people that overeat are not responsible for their health problems. If they enter Naija now, they will say that Nigeria's people are not responsible in any way for our underdevelopment, and will go and blame colonialists or something equally stupid.

First off, the girl's story has K Leg. So she went somewhere and got raped, didn't talk and stayed there ALL DAY? All lies. She went to that guys place, the guy probably seduced her then threw her out leading to the infantile "I hate you" DP. The fact is that OP is a mumu guy that has been caring for the girl since but doesn't have any sense (see the whole we have been friends for long) and the girl is using this to manipulate him. The next thing she will hear is that after the rape, she doesn't like sex at all so he shouldn't ask her or aproach her with that in mind. Being a born maga, he will swallow the story and stay there.

Prejudice and propaganda but alright, you have addressed me in depth and in politeness and I'm going to return that even if we don't have similar starting position and I can already see we probably won't have any similar ending position to our talks either, as you seem to come from different mindset and experience - and that is nothing one can well argue with, because it's your life, jus as my stance comes from mine and our lives b different.

I wouldn't say anything of social movements is against personal responsibility. The contrary; about looking who is responsible for what level of harm and to whom, where the problems start, how they develop, and what can be dealt to keep them to a minimum. That's urging responsibility, and not avoiding it.

If a person gets robbed, are they to be faulted for them robbery? Of course they're not. The robber is to be blamed for robbing them. That they did something risky like holding expensive items on display may be something to tell them to not do the next time, but that still doesn't move the responsibility off the robber, because in an ideal case, people should be free to move through any space they please to without losing what is rightfully theirs.

And rape isn't a crime like that. Rape is a crime that has long term devastating effects on every facet of a person's life. There's enough research to prove that, if nothing else; if someone believes that or not doesn't factor into this, it's simply a fact, not an opinion.

And it's perfectly possible (back to the original story we're talking here) to stay somewhere even when not alright there. (Ever heard of Stockholm syndrome? Basically that was a situation in Sweden a while back where hostages defended their kidnappers and cooperated with them instead of the rescue forces that came for them, and then that happening any time got named ba the Stockholm group. Talks about people's tendency to be with people that hurt them, even hurt them a lot, because of other factors mattering. It's a super common and big deal thing, and never having to do with people being 'simply stupid' or anything.)

It's also totally common to not like sex after one's violently sexually assaulted. That wouldn't be a lie. That wouldn't be for manipulating that guy. That's simply how some people react to violence done against them. Again. Well documented and well making sense in the context of what happened to them.

casualobserver1:
White knight sighted. Which victim blaming BS is this one talking. When did Social Justice Warriors reach Naija sef. Abeg park well joor.

Bro victim blamin is anythin sayin about why she be lyin about the rape. Or 'we don't know the story'. Or... All it.
SJWs are obvs needed in Naija stiiiill, and in Naija too.

Hero, yess.

More like him.

Aaall those victim blaming douches on this thread, ooo.
There isn't a single way victims of anything act.

OP: Ask her what she need. Don't press her for details. Be kind with her, and don't end on her just cus of what someone else did to her. Don't be THAT guy.

I dunno, she got better pidgin than me an it's a nice thing 2 see someone tryna learn culture dey ain't from? But I also see it, 9jan girls gettin praise nowhere for sharin food an sharin fashion an sharin this an that nd gettin only hate 4 it? So totally not gonna hate on da sistah dat came with da objection, she got a valid point, she no hatin' OyinboPrincess r anyone, she tire w the hypocrisy, a different thing.

And hey, we understand each other, imma leave all de 'how da fwck ya talk' to messed up whites.

cococandy:
I tire o. And I asked him politely too.

I so know, e-thugs who think they be all hip b so tiring.
Hang in there sistah, Im with ya. I'll keep hopin all our rage makes his comp splode with time.

mars123:
Is there a possibility that the Nigerians on facebook and twitter think differently from the Nigerians not on facebook and twitter?i disagree with Mr indomie brain.

Well yeah sure? Different site got different readers nd different voters up.

I may not agree w him but he's thinking it through. I appreciate thinking folk.

@OyinboPrincess, thank for share.

valicious1:
No I can't

Thanks a lot

Ohh other creepy fucker who thinks he can get away with it.
Your only luck is ya in Nigeria honestly. Everywhere else this would be stalking and harassment and ownership of illegally acquired personal data of another person (because she didn't put them up for you and asked you to delete them.) and a bunch of cybercrimes.

May Amadioha and Sango both strike you on your way out.

So damn ouch. C'fucking mon, it should be prosecutable as mutilation, spine injuries altogether don't heal that well to restore full functionality.

The cartoons were mocking... on another hand these rules are outlined for Muslims, people of other faiths are entitled to do as they please to do.

That said, no one should die for mocking Islam. I'm 100 percent sure murder is more haraam than mocking the Prophet (pbuh).

username792:
Thanks dude, *e-hug*

I don't do hugs much RL but (e-hug) back.

username792:
Sorry folks, I was looking for my boots to go and have a talk with coogar in the pigsty.
i only found the yellow ones, and I hate yellow
Also having to decipher pig talk was hard as hell

Color of the sun, I'm totally with you, asshole doesn't deserve your boots.

coogar:
someone tell this dyke that i am not interested in what she's selling.

go play elsewhere, fück off!

You're cracking me up more and more.
I want to see your insults, like all of them, because so far it's nothing original. U do better than that, brotha. Or is it you really can't?

Well, true. You can't. Loss of time and space.

coogar:
can you scram now, shëmale?

Lol, it's so amusing your mind is soo small you can't comprehend even the notion that not all people agree about your bullshit. So, what do you plan to achieve here, exactly?

coogar:
alternate accounts?
you think everyone is like you? better go sort your identity crisis. you are a woman posting as a man and you think some of us are genetically retardêd as yourself not to spot this.

since you brought your jobless self to NL, you have attacked virtually all the males on this section one way or the other. was your anüs fingerëd by your uncle to hate men like you do? i dunno why you sewage vermins think NL is the place to vent out the frustration of the horrors you suffered in your childhood.

anuofia!

This cracked me up, genetically retarded, suure. What much yo know bout genetics? Primary grade or ya got through with more?

And indeed, I don't know why sewage vermins think that, here's yo mirror to look into.

coogar:
hahaha
you must have been born with testiclës floating in your brain. fück outta here abeg and go & play with your sissies.

My sissies don't need alternate accounts to like everything I type right after I type it as you seem to be doing.

coogar:
why did she deactivate if she wasn't humiliated? and if she must seek vengeance, let her come at me with her true identity - then i would know who i am dealing with.

i would humiliate her over & over again no matter how many times she tries. this is 2015 - zero tolerance for douchebaggry and that includes you as well.

Maybe because she was done dealing with a creepy can of worms that's you.

And, oh, anything about douchebaggery, says the douchebag.