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RomanceRe: 8 Reasons Why Short Girls Make The Best Girlfriends by blackmann(m): 10:23pm On Aug 22, 2017
Short girls dey vex oh. I once dated one short sexy looking girl back in my undergrad days. Very feisty little thing. Any small thing she go scatter ground. Very assertive too. Very crazy under the sheets. Till date I still wonder why we broke up.
RomanceRe: See A Black Woman Dancing Stark Naked For Money (this Is So Shameful) by blackmann(m): 3:38pm On Feb 28, 2017
Nice tits though.
FamilyRe: I Don't Feel Attracted To My Wife Anymore by blackmann(m): 8:13pm On Oct 18, 2016
herbie27:
Yeah!, it's an option but when you're married you don't just see Divorce as a way out of your problems, you surmount them for love, and kids if you have any. Cheating on once spouse is a heartless thing to do.
In this case, i don't see divorce as an option. So he divorces the wife, does it change the fact that money's an issue? Does it make him have a better job? Does divorce bring food to the table? It is just a tough phase every young family goes through, and with dedication, hard work, and prayers, he'll make it through. Live and luxury are not ready made. They are things that need to be earned. Blessed is a man who struggles to bring food, clothing, and shelter to his wife and kids, even if he goes hungry and shirtless himself. I know of someone who drives UBER so he can supplement what he earns so his family can live comfortably. Op should just tough it out. When the cash starts to flow he'll appreciate his hard work more and he and his wife would look at these times and laugh.
FamilyRe: I Don't Feel Attracted To My Wife Anymore by blackmann(m): 7:55pm On Oct 18, 2016
ItsQuinn:
I dont care if he cheats on me, cheating is normal....and I can't force him to not divorce me if he's willing to, that's his choice and he's free to make that choice smiley
You don't care if your "husband" cheats on you? What alternate universe do you live in? It's pretty obvious you're not married.
FamilyRe: I Don't Feel Attracted To My Wife Anymore by blackmann(m): 7:44pm On Oct 18, 2016
herbie27:
He is married madam!, you're advising him to either get a Divorce with 3 kids, cheat on the wife or Tolerate her.

Marriage is for better and for worse...So there shouldn't be room for cheating and getting a divorce over an issue that can be fixed, he's facing challenges(worse), therefore he should endure and things will change for the better once he has a stable income.
Ko ju bee naa lo(e no pass that). Running away from your problems instead of facing them and tackling them shows you you're not a man. Any good husband and father worth his salt and name will do anything to make ends meet for his family. Sleeping outside or divorce will only make the matter worse.

@itsQuinn, i doubt if you are married, but if you were, would you want your husband to cheat on you or divorce you just because things are quite rough? How would you feel if you were in the wife's shoes?
FamilyRe: I Don't Feel Attracted To My Wife Anymore by blackmann(m): 7:26pm On Oct 18, 2016
Ujoan:
Nah wah ooh, I really need to learn people's history before 'advising'

https://www.nairaland.com/1230609/should-take-back#14830107

Poster, this your post happened in 2013 abi? How then have you been married for 5 yearshuh
Have you ever taken out some time to wonder if the said story wasn't what happened at that particular moment? Because OP posted it in 2013 doesn't mean it happened in 2013. i remember that story very well and i know OP was narrating it then "after the fact". I may be wrong but i surely don't doubt this story to be false.
CelebritiesRe: Bolaji Ogunmola: "I Don’t Have Sex And I Will Remain So For A While" by blackmann(m): 2:54am On Sep 25, 2016
Really? you don't like sex? In that case I don't think I will like to lose my 9 1/2 -inch black trouser python in-between those two massive flotation devices on your chest.
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LiteratureDoes Anyone Know The Title Of This Novel? by blackmann(op): 8:53pm On Apr 13, 2016
Hello Nairalanders of the literature section. i really need you folks' help if you can render it. There's this particular novel i read back in the university. I can't remember the exact title, but I know it has to do with "Comanche" in the title. I don't know if any of you have read it, but here's a brief summary of the book in mention -

There was a young boy (for the sake of this narration I'll call him Bo) who was captured by native indians(Comanches) at a very young age. I can't remember exactly, but I think his parents were massacred and he was taken as a slave. He grew up with these people as they moved around from place to place. I think he grew up being trained as a warrior or so but he was quite poor. Then the status of a man was measured by the number of horses he owned. Bo didn't own any horse.

As time went on, everyone began to accept him as one of them. He took part in many battles and gained the respect of many of his fellow young warriors, but they all knew he was a slave. Along the line when he "became of age", he was free to choose a wife. Unfortunately for him, the lovely girl he wanted was already being courted by others. Even though the girl liked him, her father could not accept his "bride price" (in form of a donkey) because other people were towing along well bred horses for the father. She was finally married off to a rich native who had so many horses and numerous wives.

Bo took it in faith and decided to live on his life. Sadly for him though, the girl was really being maltreated by her husband. Several times she pleaded with Bo to rescue her. Bo didn't know what to do and talked to his friend about it. There had been a rumor circulating around for years of a particular stable with so many majestic wild horses (the horses of Tafila or something, I can't really remember the name). Everyone had hoped to own such majestic creatures, but no one knew where the place was nor how to steal them. many of those who were rumored to have tried were either killed or not heard from again. Bo and his friend decided that if they could just find the place and probably steal the horses, maybe he had a chance to "buy" the girl from the man. They both set out in search of the fabled stable.

Luckily for them, they did find the rumored stable of wild horses. The myth was true. Bo and his friend were able to steal the horses (a large number of them) and they were able to lead them back to his clan. Everyone was impressed by their sizes and beauty. The girl's husband even inquired how he could buy the horses from him. Bo told him his demands. He was to free the girl. He also threatened to deal with him if he ever touched her again. The man agreed and the boy sold the horses to him, but only after keeping a number for himself, his friend, and a beautiful pony for his now new wife.

I don't remember what happened afterwards, but after a long day, he finally went back to his tepee where he lived and slept. Upon reaching there, he saw a column of smoke coming out of the top and upon entering, he found the girl of his dreams cooking. The girl stood up and began to shed tears of joy and relief. Bo just silently took her in his arms and the novel ended there.

I would be very grateful if any of you could tell me the name of this novel if you have read it. I'm seriously in need of this book again.

Thanks y'all.
CrimeRe: PHOTOS: Nigerian Indicted For Fraud And Money Laundering In The U.S by blackmann(m): 1:01pm On Mar 27, 2016
ojnnaco:
Hehehehehehehe. even in diaspora they are still representing . Block is truly thicker than water
Block bi ti bawo? Its blood is thicker than water, not block oh grin grin

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