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Blessamaka:
My post might be lengthy but I'll try my best to be brief but please read to the end.

I'm in my early twenties (20's) and currently a student in one of the prestigious university in Nigeria. Before I got admission, I usually help my mum to sell onions in Ajegunle market aka boundary market in Lagos State.
Ever since schools were shut down due to the pandemic I've been scared of helping my mum because of the despicable rules or laws guiding the business which i might not be able to keep to it thereby putting my mum in trouble and that's the only means of survival for me and mum for now.
My mum belongs to a group of people that sells same product and they are usually referred to as Union and the leaders are the one dishing out those annoying laws.
Examples of such laws are:
1. You don't buy more than the quantity of goods apportioned to you else you will be fined and suspended from selling but the so called leaders go contrary to these laws
2. They tell you when to buy goods i.e before buying new goods, you sell your old goods for 7days not minding if the quantity apportioned to you is enough or not. My self as a case study, we were apportioned 3 bags of onions and I sell 3 bags in 3 days so me and my mum would stay at home for 4days before going to buy new goods.
3. They tell you when to start selling which is 10:00am everyday excluding Sunday and this law was before the pandemic
4. They tell you how to sell i.e the size of onions you are to sell for a particular amount as if they borrowed you money or they are the one giving you money always to buy goods.

And many more of these unimaginable laws. Right now I confused! I don't know the best way to go about this and I really do wish to start selling because I'm broke and I've so many responsibilities to care for financially.
I need legal help, advice on how to go about this until I get something else to do or probably a work or a different business.

The reason for going into business is to make profit and save for rainy days but the reverse seems to be the case here.

Lalasticlala please help me move to front page to get more reviews in regard to this

DenreleDave:
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DenreleDave:
U cud have mention better people, not imelda

Abeg let better people like sixfeetbelle come n talk jare. Better people like missraine69, imalma

Those are better people

elveco:
The fact remains that the lady in question is not yet ready for marriage. Still under parental influence, and her parents are not helping matters either. She needs to break free from parental influence first.

Dear OP, parting ways is not the best option for now, its not an easy path. It might disorganize you, leaving you with no chance if recovery.

Are you a Christian? If yes, DM let's talk.

Thank you

missimelda01:
Bread and Ewa agoyin seems to be the most popular food in Lagos state, enjoyed by both the rich and poor.. most people like it because it's very filling , funny enough I don't like it because it's a heavy meal.. I like to keep space for other goodies




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IvarDboneless:
Hello friends..I greet all of una.

please I need more insight on this from our matured and experience couple's in the house.

I am planning on divorcing my wife and we have a baby together (she will be a year and 3months this month) and she's threatening to have custody of the baby and I want to go pick her up and take her to my mum but I am a little bit confused so please I need more insight on this....

NB: after our marriage things got worst for me and I had to move her to her parent house after she declined going to our own house reason because she feels more at home in her parent house (that's what she said) but once in a while she visits our own house. we finally finished our own building with furnishing and i insisted she move to my parents after complaining Everytime about money and things not so well at her own parents( she's the last child of 7children 4 girls 3boys and she is the only one married and they all still stay at home, with there parent, the girls) but she always find one excuse or the order not to go stay at my parents..my mum is a very kind woman and she always want to help in her own way but I still don't know why she can't leave her parent house..well this is not the reason am divorcing her anyway bexause this is just a tip of the iceberg..she believes she is a feminist and can not be told what to do anytime we have an argument...well don't want to bore you all with everything have been going through...
just more insight about the heading above please..kids please stay away matured minds only..thanks

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Uwillsucceed:
Five Warning Signs of Mental Illness

The health quotient referring to the brain and thinking process, as well as emotional and behavioral reactions, is usually associated with mental health.

The person who behaves feels, and thinks appropriately without engaging in any disorder or misbalance of feelings, emotions, and behavior is called a mentally healthy person.

The proper proportion of thoughts feeling and emotions are being represented by good mental health.

On the other hand, the presence of any disorder or out the ratio of the mixture of thoughts feeling and emotions make the mental health questionable (2018).

Types of mental illness

1. Anxiety
2. Panic Disorders.
Read more from source:...https://mentalhealthmonths.net/blog/five-warning-signs-of-mental-illness/

Steady259:
So due to the effect of the lockdown, we possibly could not go to the cinema to watch movies and do other intresting stuff, so our home tv and gadget became our friends like never before, so lets share our movie experience during the lockdown. Which movies intrigued you.....maybe some of us will tell you our favorite part.


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4teeron:
I ALWAYS TRY TO MAKE MY BAE SEE THE FORESIGHTS IN IDEAS SHARED WITH HER TO GROW HER BIZ BUT SHE SLUGGISH ABOUT IT AND THE IDEAS DIED OFF BUT DURING THAT PERIOD I SHARED WITH HER I MAKE SURE I DO WITH OTHER PARTIES, SOME WORK OUT GOOD FOR THEM AND SOME DON'T.
WHAT CAN I DO MORE TO MAKE HER SEE REASON WHY SHE NEED TO GRAB IDEAS SHARED INSTEAD OF LETTING DIED OFF WITHOUT UTILIZING IT?
THIS HAD BEEN AN ISSUE BETWEEN US FOR LONG WE FOUGHT SEVERALLY ABOUT IT, I LATER STOP AND LET HER BE WHEN I NOTICE I GO EXTREME WHENEVER I GET UPSET ABOUT IT. I DECIDED TO FACE MY BIZ AND SHARE WITH PEOPLE WHO CAN VALUE MY IDEAS.

MasterNeegho:
How far can you cope with a long distance relationship? I need your views on this.

soulbroken761:
I'm extremely introverted. It has always affected my relationships with people; family, colleagues, and lovers. I've not been in a real relationship before because of my communication issues. So I thought at 24 years, I need to learn how to be in relationship if I get a good guy. My female classmates are married or engaged and I felt left behind
I met my guy and started staying days in his house at a go. I thought it was for the best. He is a good guy even though very broke. Honestly I put myself in this situation.
We would make out but because I was a virgin, coupled with the fact that I have extremely low sex drive, I always told him to stop when it gets to that point. Even his finger hurt like crazy. It caused little quarells but he always told me he would never force it because he loves me.
So this afternoon we were making out as usual and he started touching me down there. It was so dry and it hurt like crazy, as if the skin was peeling off. I think the fan contributed to the dry ess. Anyway I begged him to stop but he wouldn't and I was almost crying. He started trying to force his dickk in but it didn't enter. All the while, I was begging him while trying not to attract neighbors. It got so painful that I bit his arm very hard and that was when he stopped.

He was very very angry, asking what I did that for. I told him he put me through a lot of pain. He went out and came back at night. I saw he was still angry so I slept in the living room, trying to be understanding and not piss him off further. He came and lovingly moved me to the bedroom. I thought all was well and dozed off.

Only to feel my mouth being gagged all of a sudden. I was still confused because I never expected such a thing. He said he had been thinking of what to do to me for biting him. He put clothes in my mouth and tied my mouth very tight, bound my arms together at the back, forced my legs open. I was crying and begging not to let it be like that but he slapped my face.

He grabbed oil and poured it and began forcing his dick inside until it entered and he rapedd me. I just waited helplessly for it to be over. I bled so much. I cried in the bathroom and came out to leave. He started begging, saying he loves me, etc.

I wanted to WhatsApp my dad to tell him something terrible just happened to me but my heart broke when I saw his picture. My parents really tried.

I just wanted to pour out my feelings in this post. I already know it was my fault even though I feel robbed. I would have given it to him if he had been patient. I hope to get over it soon. Typing with tears. I will shamefully get something at the pharmacy in the morning so that I don't get pregnant

Investorsci:
Good day nairaianders.

i ve come to realize that there are no genuine business online anymore.

i only come across scammers that want to reap off your money.

is there anyone earning online with prooff sholud come and prove me wrong.

waiting for serious comment.

koladini:
Hello nairalanders.

I have the website Reddevilscorner.com for sale available with an AdSense account.

Site already has social media presence. I just don't have time for it anymore and would rather focus on my other websites.

Price is 80k. Only serious buyers please. 08135695575 on WhatsApp. Thanks.

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toyinaremu:
"Mama T, he is so caring, he attends to my needs when I'm in need, he is not jealous but the only thing is that he is married. I don’t want to loose him, he is God sent to help me through this financial hard time." She expressed.

Really? I know financial issues can be frustrating. The problem many times is that we love the key holder than the key owner.

Philippians 4:19 said, 'And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.' God owns the key to prosperity and yes He has placed the key in the hands of some persons who are not necessarily men.

If He will use men to help you, they demand sex from you. If He will use a married man for you, his wife will know about it.

Will a helper from God involve in a sexual act with you? Never!

If he's helping you out financially and you compensate him with your body, he is not God-sent and you're not in love, you're in lust. No more, no less!

This article is for both the male and the female but I'll lay more emphasis on women and it is not to condemn anyone.

Being desperate about having what isn't yours all in the name of love is lust. That man who tells you he's in love with you and wants to take care of you is only acting in lust.

How can he love you when he's married to his wife? Tell him to go and take care of himself because you have a Father that has your utmost care at hand.

My sister, once you fall for their 'I love you' and open up your laps which was originally meant for a great man and you allow that man to devour you; that's the end of the love and remember, it is also a sin. He sees you as a sex object.

Hear me, a married man will not and will never leave his wife for you, you are nothing to him than a plaything and peradventure you're caught in the act, who suffers the shame and guilt? You!

Forgive me if I'm harsh but ladies need to wake up from this mess and see themselves as the princess and great women God created them to be.

Strive to earn a living and don't be perching around another woman's husband. Can you allow same if it were you? Stop giving the devil an opportunity to destroy your destiny.

Another thing is when you say no to them, say no to their gifts too. Taking their gifts, to them means you will consider them soon even when you know you will never do such!

Do not loiter around sin.

God saved me some years back. I was comfortably loitering around sin, collecting everything I can but will not open up. I was acting like a smart girl but the day someone got to know; before they waited to hear I never opened up my laps ehn, I had suffered embarrassment. Please don’t be a reason another woman cannot sleep in her house because you are a prayer point for her.

And to the men that won't help without sexual exchange, I pray it won't be too late before you repent. You will give an account of the wealth that was entrusted to your care because you obtained it by unmerited favor, and you're abusing it.
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Among the great things to add to a resume, do not add a home breaker to it. Give the man some sense to return to his home to take care of it, his home needs the love more than you.

My darling sisters, you are too precious to be forgotten like Dinah in the Bible. It is not too late to make amends, you can correct it now.

Remember, lust leads to sex and sex before or outside marriage kills, but it's only Jesus that saves.

Keep off! It is a deadly zone.

blackpanthar:
You missed the most important point.... ACCOUNTABILITY

Having someone of the same sex that you can report yourself to, whenever the urges comes BEFORE you act on it. The person can talk you out of it or wait it out with you.

Sexual impulses are sticky... If you stay with them alone.... It will most likely lead to sinful actions

Missimelda01, come and contribute pls.

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9gerian:
Preliminary results from government lab experiments show that the coronavirus does not survive long in high temperatures and high humidity, and is quickly destroyed by sunlight, providing evidence from controlled tests of what scientists believed — but had not yet proved — to be true.

A briefing on the preliminary results, marked for official use only and obtained by Yahoo News, offers hope that summertime may offer conditions less hospitable for the virus, though experts caution it will by no means eliminate, or even necessarily decrease, new cases of COVID-19, the disease caused by the coronavirus. The results, however, do add an important piece of knowledge that the White House’s science advisers have been seeking as they scramble to respond to the spreading pandemic.

The study found that the risk of “transmission from surfaces outdoors is lower during daylight” and under higher temperature and humidity conditions. “Sunlight destroys the virus quickly,” reads the briefing.

While that may provide some good news about the outlook for outdoor activities, the Department of Homeland Security briefing on the results cautions that enclosed areas with low humidity, such as airplane cabins, “may require additional care to minimize risk of transmission.”


https://news.yahoo.com/sunlight-destroys-coronavirus-very-quickly-new-government-tests-find-but-experts-say-pandemic-could-still-last-through-summer-200745675.html?.tsrc=daily_mail&uh_test=1_04

Notatribalist:
Hi guys..

My Girl just broke up with me..Of course everyone would expect me to be hurt,but the
reality is that I am not hurt.

Here is the secret guys..before you go into a relationship make sure she has some flaws physical you can always capitalize on in case a situation like mine arises..

As for my girl(now ex) she has small breast,and I like big breast so I just used that to console myself, am I am very lively as if nothing happen,life goes on..

Guys take my advise serious o,real heartbreak non be joke oo.

missimelda01:
Happy Easter to you all.
I'm doing a market survey for a new business I plan to start and I would really appreciate if you give your honest opinions.

Would you buy a bowl of fresh soup during the weekend to store in your fridge?

How much can you budget for a bowl of soup?

Which soup would be your most preferred?

How long after the order can you wait for it to be delivered?

Would you prefer swallow to be sold with the soup?

It would really mean alot if this post is not ignored.
Please note that the pictures are not mine.

DaCharis2016:
Hello great NLers.

How can one build an ecommerce app like jiji. What will it cost me to develop such app and run it in terms of resources, operations and mgt knowledge.

Kindly share ur knowledge with me as I'm conceiving a great idea that will help people from anywhere.

Thanks