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Family / Re: Witchcraft Or Life Just Happened?? by Blackpearlxx(f): 7:21am On Jan 02, 2023
Kobojunkie:
God says that all those who follow Him will no longer work for bread that perishes — no jobs, no career, no property, etc. — so why are you telling Him he needs God when clearly what he needs is to learn skills to help him prosper in the way of the world and its commerce instead? undecided

This new year please try to refrain from using the name of God in justifying any of the claims you made until you have brushed up on the teachings and commandments of God at least. undecided
first of I’m a girl and as I already said I just graduated and even during all my school years I have always had something doing and not fully dependent on my dad ..and you missed the part where I said I still try to cater for some of my siblings the little way I can
Family / Re: Witchcraft Or Life Just Happened?? by Blackpearlxx(f): 7:16am On Jan 02, 2023
AuntyAmope:
Have ever had weird dreams? Currently or in the past? Awkward body language? Think before you respond
weird dreams yes..in the past..awkward body language?how do you mean
Family / Re: Witchcraft Or Life Just Happened?? by Blackpearlxx(f): 7:13am On Jan 02, 2023
sisisioge:
Hmmmm...I dont believe in witchcraft like that. Why not look at your upbringing compared to your step siblings.

You said your mom was the cool type. Was she always quick to allow you guys have your ways instead of being strick about teaching you values and survival? Eg, I don't want to do homework o, ok. I dont want to go to the market o, ok. She does the chores for you and your siblings and didnt teach you how to be self sufficient and economically gainful. These things have a way of coming back to bite children in their adulthood.

The other woman might have been stricter with her kids and taught them self sufficiency. After all, you all got the same formal educational exposure, so?

Anyways, dont over stress now, it is never too late. Look around for a life coach to help you understand yourself/life and how best to forge ahead. It is well with you and yours.
my dad was in the military and is a detactor,a very strict one at that..my mom never had any formal education,she married my dad at 16..she never worked or had a job,values yes she taught us that alot..but how to be economically gainful she never experienced all that let alone teaching us.my mom passed at 70 and all through her years of living was from house to church back and forth as my dad had already put a rule of nobody going anywhere even going to the market or visiting friends.
Family / Re: Witchcraft Or Life Just Happened?? by Blackpearlxx(f): 7:02am On Jan 02, 2023
superCleanworks:


you are holding on to God and buying curse breakers? this says a whole lot.
when you’re in my shoes you’d know life is not black and white

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Family / Re: Witchcraft Or Life Just Happened?? by Blackpearlxx(f): 7:01am On Jan 02, 2023
Exmilitant:
Ask your father about the deity/deities he onced worshipped before turning to Christ.
Learn about them, pour libations to them, appease them, beg them for forgiveness and neglect over the years, promise to serve them forever and watch your life turn for good.

After getting what you want, run to Christ grin grin
like I already said,before I was born he had already turned to Christ..I know the names of the deities as he talks about it ..because his dad was a native doctor so I’m familiar with the names…I have never seen or had access to any of all that
Family / Re: Witchcraft Or Life Just Happened?? by Blackpearlxx(f): 6:58am On Jan 02, 2023
Wawelexy:
My brother, you need God, he's the only one who could save you, don't allow nairaland atheist make you believe there's nothing like spiritualism, bro it's so real, they would frustrate your life.. but God can deliver you from them if you allow him...
I’m a girl
Family / Re: Witchcraft Or Life Just Happened?? by Blackpearlxx(f): 6:57am On Jan 02, 2023
dawnomike:
You have a purpose... Don't get swayed.
Keep praying and always hope for the best. And stop wasting money on curse breakers
thanks
Family / Witchcraft Or Life Just Happened?? by Blackpearlxx(f): 4:01pm On Jan 01, 2023
[b][/b]I need your honest opinions

I’m from a very large polygamous home,my dad was into tradition and everyone in the family before he turned to Christ and now a pastor,my dad was very wealthy in his time..and trained everyone to university level about 22 of us even extended family members,but he is now old school fame..but he is still very comfortable as he acquired a lot of properties in his time.

I was born pretty late as all my siblings are way older than I am,my mom was the first wife,painfully she passed a year ago.You all know the drama that you see happen in a polygamous home right,everything and much much more has happened right from when I was little up until now,I’m 24,my mom was the peaceful one so you can imagine.

My first brother from my mom who is the overall senior was shot years ago by ugm..long story short..my own siblings from my mom don’t do well for themselves at all,these are pple I’m their late 30s to 50s..but every others from my step mom’s are doing very well for themselves,i sometimes still carter for some of the needs of my own siblings in any little way I can and feel so sad most of the time as I never had or remember bonding with my siblings and feel I have a burden to make things right.

The problem now is I feel so very different from everyone in my family,I have always felt I was going to bring change to whatever is going on in my mother’s side..as hard as it is I don’t want to believe it’s anything fetish..like nothing works for us even my siblings that are married are still not doing well..my dad has supported them in different ways even trying to take them abroad nothing works ..even my relationships don’t work....friendships don’t either.

I have held on to God ..even my siblings still nothing.I have spent alot of money to purchase those curse breakers they sell online still nothing.On my end I have been fine and just living..not up until I just graduated..it has been from frypan to fire things have gone so bad.I really don’t know what to do sometimes I feel very suicidal..but I know I have a purpose.

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Family / Re: Aderonke Sikirat Anifowose Missing After Observing Juma'at In Ikorodu Lagos by Blackpearlxx(f): 12:27pm On Jan 09, 2021
DontBullshitMe:
And so?
you must be a very useless person

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Celebrities / Re: Davido Jets Out Of Nigeria For Christmas Without Fiancée, Chioma by Blackpearlxx(f): 5:21pm On Dec 25, 2020
Made4naijalove:
DMW Records boss, Davido Adeleke has stepped out of the country on his private jet to celebrate Christmas without his family.

This is coming following the singer’s show in Jamaica that is cancelled as a result of the Covid-19 second-wave outbreak. Usually, the festive periods is a peak season for musicians as they go about performing at different shows unlike in this 2020 of a pandemic outbreak.

In a video shared by Davido on his Instagram, the singer could be heard saying the name catchphrase he invented ‘Tule’ while boarding the aircraft.

Watch video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x5IyAbrJExk
Lier.... with your fake news...somebody that’s going to awls Abeokuta for a show...
Properties / Re: Destiny’s Shop: Angry Landlord Destroys Tenant’s Salon Over Unpaid Rent In Lekki by Blackpearlxx(f): 2:04pm On Dec 19, 2020
modsAREuselesss:
bro na naija u dey, them don shoot plenty like that and nothing happen. u think say na europe u dey.? may una continue to dey claim right anyhow na.
please shut up...must yo disgrace your self
Romance / Re: Relationships are Overrated by Blackpearlxx(f): 2:52pm On Dec 15, 2020
Goldmaxx:
nobody is marrying you old hag!
indeed...you know your mama is the old hag here
Romance / Re: Relationships are Overrated by Blackpearlxx(f): 3:36pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman
remain single then ....broke man

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Education / Re: Chisom Chukwuneke Talking About Chronic Myeliod Leukemia Before Her Death: Video by Blackpearlxx(f): 12:53pm On Dec 13, 2020
MrDrey:
Video Of 17 Year Old Best WAEC Student, Chisom Chukwuneke Before Her Death



https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/11/late-chisom-chukwuneke-talks-about-her-ailment-chronic-myeliod-leukemia/amp/
Rest on darling ❤️
Romance / Re: Some Of Us Men Are Worse Than Women . And I Am One Of The Bad Eggs by Blackpearlxx(f): 4:55pm On Dec 04, 2020
virginprincess:
Seriously, i really pity girls who open their legs for men like this, look at the rubbish he is typing with prideundecided, chai good girls like me have suffered, anyway your headline is very correct, but your write up is trash.
you can imagine...even after taking her virginity...the day she finds out and decide to walk away they would be quick to run their smelling mouths to label girls gold diggers..it’s the woman that raised him I’m ashamed of
Romance / Re: Some Of Us Men Are Worse Than Women . And I Am One Of The Bad Eggs by Blackpearlxx(f): 4:50pm On Dec 04, 2020
planetx13:
My brother, Don't feel any remorse.... You have done nothing wrong.....The only woman you owe that loyalty you are talking about is your wife...and she must have to earn it, it's not a right.....
NEVER NEVER ever think you know a woman well enough to decide whether she is faithful or not... That specie can hide their characters for a life time....
Live your life, protect yourself and when the right time comes, show loyalty to the person that deserves it....

Ciao
can you listen to your self...your soul is bitter
Politics / Re: I Scolded My Girlfriend For Doing This, Did I Do Wrong by Blackpearlxx(f): 3:40pm On Dec 03, 2020
AlexBells:

I did not physically assault her, and I have no intention to, but when I called her and told her she shouldn't have called my family that way, she retaliated you know actions and reactions are equals and opposite, is it right for to call my family and tell them, that's the question
if girls come y’all’s way to eat your money and not care about you..you’d be quick to come here and label girls as gold diggers...smh

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Politics / Re: I Scolded My Girlfriend For Doing This, Did I Do Wrong by Blackpearlxx(f): 3:38pm On Dec 03, 2020
AlexBells:

I couldn't think on really being hard on her as I thought okay maybe she did it out of care but then it my privacy, my family and my life, so but it was on the phone so I couldn't be physical even if I wanted
if you wanted “wow a lot of y’all really do not have shame...you must be a bad breed for avoiding your family this much...so I don’t blame you
Politics / Re: I Scolded My Girlfriend For Doing This, Did I Do Wrong by Blackpearlxx(f): 3:36pm On Dec 03, 2020
Yahksbiz:
And you didn't slap her, my did and I almost break up with her
your iq is very low

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Politics / Re: I Scolded My Girlfriend For Doing This, Did I Do Wrong by Blackpearlxx(f): 3:34pm On Dec 03, 2020
AlexBells:
Sometimes ago, I was exposed to really loud Noise While Working with some Sound Samples as I'm into music Stuff, after that I got this funny feeling in my ear, it was a little painful.

So I told my girlfriend when she called, honestly she been supportive and all of that but after telling her that I feel a little strange feeling in my ear, after our talks, she called my elder Sister and told her how I'm sick and all of that, that she should check on me cause I been in my room for some times.

After my sister came in my room asking what's wrong with me, it was just a damn noise exposure, she said if I should need medical attention, I said nothing to worry about, but being a kind of private individual I felt so terrible and it all looked like my girlfriend is a snitch.

Long story shot, I picked my phone called her and gave her really stern warning telling her before she discuss my personal issue I told her with my family or anyone else she must get approval from me, well I'm a little hot tempered guy and all I expected was for her to say I'm sorry it won't happen again but she tried to defend her actions, well I'm thankful she's far away and it was over the phone.

I reminded her when she was sick and I was aware, i could have just picked up my phone and call her elder sister, well it snowballed into an outburst but I made myself clear, next time she tried such play on my privacy, it may end terribly.

It a long time gone now but how would you react if it were you.
youre still very childish...how old are you by the way?

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Romance / Re: Is It Ok To Miss Your Ex As A Married Person by Blackpearlxx(f): 10:28am On Dec 03, 2020
Ghengiskhan:
I have been married for 4 years plus, never cheated or anything close but sometimes I think about my ex girlfriends wonder how they are doing and even think about what if. I have 3 in particular that always come to my mind occasionally.
PS I am happy with my marriage and my wife knows about all 3 I'm talking about. Just want to know if there are people like me and what they think about it
it is normal...to feel that way..you can never completely erase people from your mind.as far as you ain’t thinking bad thoughts..your marriage is safe.xx

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Romance / Re: . by Blackpearlxx(f): 10:24am On Dec 03, 2020
Charx122:


Hey babe got you a new ride for your birthday ..but only to be driven in NL...
thanks smileyif at all
Romance / Re: . by Blackpearlxx(f): 10:23am On Dec 03, 2020
holicupp:
happy birthday
thanks smiley smiley
Romance / Re: . by Blackpearlxx(f): 10:22am On Dec 03, 2020
Liposure:
Happy birthday dear. Long life and prosperity
thanks smiley smiley
Romance / Re: . by Blackpearlxx(f): 10:22am On Dec 03, 2020
TheOtherRoom:
happy birthday
thanks smiley
Celebrities / Re: Duncan Mighty: God Punish You If You Buy Car For Your Woman & Your Mother Treks by Blackpearlxx(f): 7:12am On Dec 03, 2020
I believe. But maybe you are right: if the sons were filled or nurtured with love, they would not forget their mothers simply because they found another woman.[/quote]this is the angle I’m looking at
Romance / Re: . by Blackpearlxx(f): 10:07pm On Dec 02, 2020
StacyO:



Which airways are you using,please??

Let me hold on firmly to my bible grin grin grin

you’d know by midnight
Romance / . by Blackpearlxx(f): 9:55pm On Dec 02, 2020
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Romance / Re: . by Blackpearlxx(f): 9:42pm On Dec 02, 2020
StacyO:


The cakes and the champagnes.

How do I get mine? grin
by 12am stand beside your window
Romance / Re: . by Blackpearlxx(f): 9:42pm On Dec 02, 2020
Dreyton36:


Lol

But it's d plain truth , I didn't make it known doesn't mean it's not true , besides that's what made me notice your post in the first place

So are we gonna flow on WhatsApp or not smiley
nah I’m good ..happy birthday in arias to you too drey. xx

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Romance / Re: . by Blackpearlxx(f): 9:27pm On Dec 02, 2020
RedPanthar:
You're pretty. Heaven bless my path too

Happy Birthday
thank you xx
Romance / Re: . by Blackpearlxx(f): 9:26pm On Dec 02, 2020
Dreyton36:


Me too...

But seems you don't bite then I think I'm cool except you truly bite
Let's roll birthday mate
Let's flow more on WhatsApp cuz i don't bite as well
how did we become birthday mate automatically cheesy

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