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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 5:16am On Dec 15, 2020
Seyzcham91:
you are right jawe! relationships are overrated. since i stoped dating or calling a girl, ask a girl out or invited girl over my life has been in a real PEACE OF MIND

Alaye are you sure, do you mean you are not also the type that dispose all his life savings to pekus cool shocked
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 5:19am On Dec 15, 2020
Frustrated007:
I'm happy men are waking up.
There's a silent war brewing cheesy
So you too you want our girls to remain single for life Abi, Does marriage under the act allowed marrying four wives? shocked shocked
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 5:21am On Dec 15, 2020
XshegzzyeeiX:

I stopped doing relationship with girls.
Friends with benefits is what I plugged into full time.
If she catches feelings, I bounce immediately and move to the next FWB.
What is this fwb abeg
Re: Relationships are Overrated by KenBen217: 5:22am On Dec 15, 2020
TemmyT002:


A lot of men just want sex. No real love.

because alot of men understand there ain't nothing like real love. what does real love even mean?? get the definition,then search around and see that it doesn't exist.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nairaboi(m): 6:48am On Dec 15, 2020
Deejay1000:
different strokes for different folks.
we actually need each other (my opinion).
women are back bone of men, even when its hard to find the one who truly loves you these days.


btw you wanna go into importation of goods from china beep me up in my signature
Back bone as how? God no give you spinal cord?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by ojuu4u(m): 7:27am On Dec 15, 2020
Hassanmaye:

He will never try it na them go back screen they kneel down and beg women, do you think he can use sex doll? If only women know the power they have over men ...


No amount of masturbation, sex doll, can match having sex with girl, most especially the girl you love.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Deejay1000(m): 7:46am On Dec 15, 2020
Nairaboi:

Back bone as how? God no give you spinal cord?
back bone as in support.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Deejay1000(m): 7:47am On Dec 15, 2020
IkeGod221:

Yes boss I am interested in the importation stuff bro
click on my signature bossman.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Xyzkwenu(f): 8:56am On Dec 15, 2020
Hassanmaye:

Stop scaring me abeg, I don't care about my girlfriend past record I just love her, nothing can stop by God Elijah

What you know about her is less than 10%.
If you live with her under the same roof, you will know another 10%.
If you Investigate her close friend you will know another 10%.
If you investigate her parents you will know another 10%


You will never know her because of lies and cover up.
Just call her and ask her to tell you about herself in full.

Has she committed abortion before
Was she raped before
Was she molested as a kid
Who disvirgined her
Will she support you with her money
Was she circumcised
Does she have other sex partners

Etc etc etc

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Seyzcham91(m): 10:29am On Dec 15, 2020
haha ! you no serious grin

for the past months i never toast, call any girl to come visit me or dey chat any girl up sef cuz las las na my pocket and account go sweat am

but e get one babe wey dey carry pussy come meet me for house steady sha even though i no dey call her to come she sha go show up be like e gbadun my dick so na her pussy dey help me release stress for months now
Hassanmaye:

Alaye are you sure, do you mean you are not also the type that dispose all his life savings to pekus cool shocked

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Evolutionlove: 10:57am On Dec 15, 2020
EXLOVER:
There comes a time in a man's life when you will feel so lonely and incomplete, you will have a beautiful apartment, cars and a steady income, then you will know you are missing something. That is you need a family. You need someone to go home to.


Now you won't understand cause you don't have what it takes to have a family, when that time comes you will understand.

For now keep and 4ucking around. Time will tell, I pray God answers all your prayers.

Story Story Story.......

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Evolutionlove: 11:00am On Dec 15, 2020
Xyzkwenu:


What you know about her is less than 10%.
If you live with her under the same roof, you will know another 10%.
If you Investigate her close friend you will know another 10%.
If you investigate her parents you will know another 10%


You will never know her because of lies and cover up.
Just call her and ask her to tell you about herself in full.

Has she committed abortion before
Was she raped before
Was she molested as a kid
Who disvirgined her
Will she support you with her money
Was she circumcised
Does she have other sex partners

Etc etc etc


You have a lot of an Idle Time at your disposal. This Is absolute waste of time advising a blockhead.....
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Evolutionlove: 12:11pm On Dec 15, 2020
ojuu4u:



Average Nigeria man or average niraland urchins?

One things that every gender must knw is that, what belongs to street must surely go back to street.


A street guy or street girl is not compactible with non street ones,

If the two dear to married because of certain factors, outside compatibility, the relationship is heading to doom


This Is the only sensible thing I've seen you post since the creation of Adam......
Re: Relationships are Overrated by ojuu4u(m): 12:42pm On Dec 15, 2020
Evolutionlove:



This Is the only sensible thing I've seen you post since the creation of Adam......


Because senseless runs in ur family, look at ur dad is most stupid person from Creation.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by professore(m): 1:34pm On Dec 15, 2020
Zzor:
lmao he understands why i said he should send me pm, black mentality has taken over you all. mtchew
you understand better anyways, I wish you all the best zzor, I'm sorry for all the things I said. I'm so sorry.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Blackpearlxx(f): 2:52pm On Dec 15, 2020
Goldmaxx:
nobody is marrying you old hag!
indeed...you know your mama is the old hag here
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Xyzkwenu(f): 3:00pm On Dec 15, 2020
Many people have free rent, free food, free water, free electricity, free transportation, free hair styling, free house-help, free security, free subscription (TV, internet, phone), free clothing, free medical bills, free vacations, free education, etc etc and they nag, insult, quarrel and fight if their demands are not met.

Entitlement mentality is a state of mind in which an individual comes to believe that privileges are rights, and that they are to be expected as a matter of course.

Simply put: approaching relationships with a strict requirement and expectation of having all your needs met by your partner is so, so wrong. Thinking that sleeping with a guy or being in a relationship with him automatically entitles you to his money is wrong. It does not work that way. If you believe that, how then are you different from a prostitute who exchanges her body for money? The issue of entitlement to money in relationships has been further explained in this instructive piece here.

Having said that, we should add that entitlement in relationships is a mental thing so there can be an error in evaluating it from a superficial perspective.

It is simple: there are things that can be expected in relationships and if you are harping on those and demanding them as a right, you cannot be wrong. You are in fact, entitled to things like faithfulness, honesty, communication and someone who actually makes the effort to make things work. In a way, this can be called a healthy entitlement mentality.

If, on the other hand, things that should be seen as privileges are being seen as rights, the mentality becomes flawed.


This is where guys come in. Relating to sex in a relationship [not marriage] as a right is wrong. If a girl chooses to give it, it is a privilege.

Same goes with the entitlement to a woman’s culinary skills. Whether dating or married, having a woman make meals for you is [arguably] a privilege. Why? Because anyone can and should cook, especially in modern families where both partner work and pitch in with the same effort all round. And more importantly, as said here in this piece, because cooking is not, and should no longer be seen as an inherently-feminine skill.

In all, for relationships and marriages to be different and less resentful than the marriages of older generations, a better balance needs to be found and struck between what to feel entitled to, and what to be thankful for in a relationship.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 5:56pm On Dec 15, 2020
professore:
you understand better anyways, I wish you all the best zzor, I'm sorry for all the things I said. I'm so sorry.
No problems, we are cool.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by EXLOVER(m): 9:21pm On Dec 15, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Story Story Story.......
once upon a time.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Evolutionlove: 10:58pm On Dec 15, 2020
ojuu4u:



Because senseless runs in my family, look at my useless and bastavrd dad. He Is the most worthless, senseless and most stupid person from Creation.

Hehe lol e pain am lol......gringrin grin

Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 4:20pm On Dec 16, 2020
dalass:


You're right... They will be forming Rambo here , be grovelling before a lady grin
Lol grin grin Even me I beg behind screen, forget all this alpha trash for online,

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 4:22pm On Dec 16, 2020
EXLOVER:
FWB(Friends With Benefits)
Thank you I will never be confused again no be everything person go know
Re: Relationships are Overrated by dalass(f): 5:14pm On Dec 16, 2020
Hassanmaye:

Lol grin grin Even me I beg behind screen, forget all this alpha trash for online,

Lol! grin grin grin grin

People looking at me like... shocked. You made me laugh grin

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 7:49pm On Dec 16, 2020
dalass:


Lol! grin grin grin grin

People looking at me like... shocked. You made me laugh grin
You think all this kings forming big boys all the governors don't beg their wives go and investigate.
The power of women is in the other room, women who understand that rule the world

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by dalass(f): 7:54pm On Dec 16, 2020
Hassanmaye:

You think all this kings forming big boys all the governors don't beg their wives go and investigate.
The power of women is in the other room, women who understand that rule the world

Your plain manner of speech was refreshingly hilarious...

Yes. You're right... Thanks for telling it as it is... Many are just hypocrites.. Unfortunately some guys will now copy their lies... Strong people don't need to hide behind anything, they tell it as it is and are appreciated for it
Re: Relationships are Overrated by samsard(m): 6:18am On Dec 17, 2020
Zzor:
lmao he understands why i said he should send me pm, black mentality has taken over you all. mtchew
Like there are a lot of white males willing to endure an African woman's ways.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Yamiriflathead: 6:24am On Dec 17, 2020
Deejay1000:

back bone as in support.

SIMP PERSONIFIED

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Yamiriflathead: 6:28am On Dec 17, 2020
professore:
you understand better anyways, I wish you all the best zzor, I'm sorry for all the things I said. I'm so sorry.

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