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Smoothbabykong:
Hi guys,
I need your honest opinions about my relationship.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite a while but I don't know what is happening at the moment.

The problem is this, we both live in the UK. We have made plans to get married and we have plans to start up a business in Nigeria. The truth is that she kept some money with me and I used it to sort some debts out but was planning to give the money back to her when she is ready to leave for Nieria.

What really happened was that there was a certain money given to me by another to help him send down to Nigeria. Out of trust, I told another friend of mine to handle the transaction but unfortunately it all went sideways. So I had to use the money with me to sort the debt out while I recover the other from my other friend.

My girlfriend has been asking me for the money and I lied to her that it's in my account but there has been sort of a problem with it which she believed. The day she was suppose to go to Nigeria, she still asked about it and she told me if I was busy my friend (she knows the guy) can pick up the money for her because she needs to sort some things out enroute to Nigeria. I called my friend and told him to lie to her that the money is with him and I will know what to tell her till I can recover the money from him.

Later that day, she called me and was crying that I betrayed her. She told me everything that happened to her money which means my friend must have told her. She hung up. I tried calling my friend, he has blocked me. Lots of things were through my mind. Dont know what to do. She sent me a few messages and blocked me on both WhatsApp and via calls. When she got to Nigeria that same day, she unblocked me. She told me I have to pay and I said yes I will. I admitted I lied and I tried to explain to her why I lied. Its been a week. I have tried apologizing twice. She read it and ignored me. I told her send me the account she wants the payment. She didn't reply. Fortunately I have her brother's account number and sent her 70 percent of her money and I sent her the receipt too. I only managed to get that amount after selling my car off with a few gadgets and electronics in my house.

I don't know whether to just forget about her or to wait till when she is ready to talk.

She has done outrageous things in past which I have overlooked also. I have even resulted maybe she has another person with in Nigeria and I should just move on.

Thanks for your opinions

The President, Major General Muhammadu Buhari (retd.), has joined family and friends in congratulating the Minister of Information and Culture, Lai Mohammed on his 70th birthday.

Buhari hailed Mohammed “on the milestone, heralded by many years of diligent service to the country, working as a lawyer and businessman, before getting into politics where he served as Chief of Staff in Lagos State, and National Publicity Secretary of the All Progressives Congress.”

This is as he noted the sacrifices and contributions of the minister in “raising formidable information machinery that went a long way in bringing change in the country.”

This was contained in a statement signed by the Special Adviser to the President on Media and Publicity, Femi Adesina on Friday.

According to the statement, “The President believes Mohammed works assiduously to create understanding and enhance the image of the country by bridging the gaps in information, commending his ingenuity, resilience and emotional intelligence.

“President Buhari joins members of Federal Executive Council, All Progressives Congress and the media industry in wishing the Minister of Information good health, strength and longer life.”

KingLarry04:
Hmm, let me comment my reserve

AN Abia State chieftain of the Peoples Democratic Party, Dr. Isaac Nkole, has cautioned the party against re-admitting the Senate Chief Whip, Senator Uzor Kalu.

This call came on the heels of a visit by a high-powered PDP delegation led by the incoming National Secretary of the party, Senator Samuel Anyanwu, at his Aso-Villa, Abuja home.

Nkole alleged that Kalu, “Is in a desperate move to return to the PDP having discovered that his days in the All Progressives Congress, are numbered.”

The PDP chieftain alleged that the Senate Whip has been reaching out to key party stakeholders at both the state and at the national levels, begging them to allow him return to the party.

He, however, said Sen. Kalu’s return to PDP “is not in the best interest of the party.”

Nkole advised the leadership of PDP both in Abia and at the national level to be careful not to allow the senator to return to the party “because his return will destroy PDP”.

Earlier, a delegation of newly elected members of the National Working Committee of the PDP who paid a courtesy call on Kalu, in his Abuja residence within the precincts of Aso Rock, urged him to make an informed choice regarding the 2023 general election.

Nonpartisan1:
Thunder Fire DJswitch and all her ipob Terrorists supporters.

Lusola15:
It doesn't matter how long the truth will come out

Awkabigboy:
How do spouses whose partners live abroad cope sexually?

I have a neighbour, her spouse is in Europe and came back after 5 straight years to see the wife and the kids this year.

How do they do this? Are they really faithful to themselves?

Memberclub:
If he wins the champions league with that PSG team. He's winning another ballon d'or 100%

barragan:
There are thousands of youths there with smart phones and sharp cameras, how come we can't have a single footage showing soldiers "carting" away dead bodies? Na lie go kill una las las.

NGpatriot:
Do you know the reason why the panel dash her N10 million awoof taxpayers money?

Let me xplain.

She gave the panel their main 9 deaths story, she played a video showing one individual who never testified or placed under oath to tell the truth.

The individual said he saw 11 dead people on a military truck, he said he was dumped in the truck by accident and he really wasn't dead, but he later escaped after counting 11 dead people on the truck, this is the hearsay video she played before the panel.

The panel then gave her awoof money which was against the aw, this in itself rendered the whole report inadmissible, the person in the video did not testify, was not under oath to tell the truth and the person that played the video did was not a petitioner or a witness.

That corrupt panel messed up on so many levels, they should be held responsible for the unfortunate outcome.