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cococandy:
Well then do get a nanny who will also give birth to the child and nurse it to survival. Maybe the grandmother might even be the one to have the babies (the world is strange enough). There’s only so much those kinds of people can contribute when they are not the actual birth mothers. Stop minimizing women’s part in building the family just because of internalized misogyny.

Your best bet is to not have a family at all. As long as you decide to build a family, your partner is part of your success because without him or her, your family can’t stand and if your family can’t stand, your business will encounter set backs or maybe even failure .

Just don’t marry and dedicate your life to the business, that way you won’t have anyone who contributed to your well-being and success. And you won’t have anyone entitled to the dividends of those contributions. Simple

I am not against marriage but my issue is the western world punishing men financially-(most times) for marrying.

She can be the laziest woman in the world and the only hard thing she did was push out a baby. she is already entitled to half of your wealth and more.

She can complain about u working and not spending time with her but the government will want to pay her from ur sweat regardless

i never even mention child support

cococandy:
How will she not have anything to do with the house or business? Do you people even really think about all this before posting?
If your wife is not available to take care of your home and kids, do you think you can be successful doing all of that by yourself?
I just want to understand why y’all are so comfortable dismissing women’s contributions to the family progress

i can get a nanny or help for that abeg

Worse case there are grandmothers

For business me and my friend want to start bizness we are contributing money and ideas wetin concern wife in that. she has no investment watsoever-mental or financial

Rayjnr:
Their not "there"

english teacher u dey mark my comment

MajesticKris:
A country Ran by a Woman, QUEEN!. what do you expect!!!

Once you bring an ordinary woman' from 9ja tO THE UK , automatically she becomes a QUEEN!! N untochable *

They have upper HAND THERE"

Its not just UK even America.

Its the West

you can buy a house for 1million dollars and police can kick u out if your wife calls for one or no reason.

Even though she didnt spend one penny in buying the house.

To an african man its stupidity but in western world its there way.

mentored:
Football and medical field you say


Your comment comes with little or no research and full of emotions.


It will be HIGHLY RISKY to argue 'intelligently' with you

speaking from experience as well having worked in the uk before i japa from there. i also japa from naija too and more eager than that guy

Look if you work in the western world you might get paid to pay ur bills and have some savings if you live a simple life.

If you have a business that is making money maybe

Im happy with my situation today thank God.

IT too pays well in the UK but with remote working if your good ur good.

like i said earlier na the person life. dont take advice from strangers on the internet.

or take it with a grain of salt

Justcash:
Why did Nigeria create and emphasise on the existence of a SOUTH SOUTH region without WEST WEST, NORTH NORTH and EAST EAST regions?

South South is a nigerian engrish


American call it South Central

British call is South

vickydevoka:
Mexico plays better than Columbia and Chile

chile is world cup quarter finalist the last 3 world cups mexico has not crossed 2nd round.

Chile won south america nations cup back to back twice

cant argue with facts

kenzysmith:
Nigeria need a world class coach in person of Luis van gaal or Fabio capello or maxillano allegri to reach the quarter finals of the world cup. We have 4 inform strikers on ground, ihenacho, oshimen onachu and simi nwAnkwo, we the second best defensive mild fielder in world football in person of ndidi, we now have a world class golie in person of Maduka okoye, we have two creators as number 10 in person of Ademola lukman and Eberechi eze if only they would say yes though adema look likely . sanusi is gradually developing to be one of the best full back in Europe, put any players in the mixed of this players they will shock the world with the right formation

U know how much these coach collect as salary?


Na u wan pay them

Ordinary Rohr u are owing him 6months salary


Everybody wants the most latest car or fastest car but can u afford it is the question

Racoon:
Hope the Super Eagles will be able to best Mexico because they are a strong football house in South America.

mexico is not in south america they play concacaf which is north america.

Mexico have been stuck in 2nd round for the past 6 world cups


This is a good friendly however they should be playing the likes of Colombia, Chile who are quarterfinalists most times

If nigeria aim is quarterfinal they should be playing Holland, Spain Colombia , Germany, Chile, Uruguay etc

iamdapsyj:
Your comment is the most indepth on this matter. Very apt.

you lack persperctive.

A cleaner is a cleaner

A director in a civil service if they do a good job can make change but most directors want to steal money.

U nor fit steal money as cleaner.

All those cleaner job inthe UK are meant for secondary school kids or poverty ppl.

U will find someone with BSc/MSc doing cleaner.

it makes sense if its a student job but after that e no make sense at all.

Ninokingz1:
A cleaner doing a full time job in UK is paid better than a Director in Federal Civil Service.

But if his reasons for leaving Nigeria is because all his friends are in UK then it’s not a good one. On the aspect of being lonely might be true depending on the part of UK he’s planning to stay. (But don’t forget white babes the rush Nigerians o, lol).

For there’s nothing special in UK might also be true but don’t forget that nothing too special is in Nigeria too. At least, you will see usefulness of being a human in UK.

For career wise, as an IT personal that guy will get a better Job that will pay him nothing less than £60k p|a all he has to do is doing a little upgrade courses here.

Finally even if he ends up as an Care Assistant, at the end of every month, he goes home with nothing less than a million naira after Tax and 500k savings after monthly expenses.

So, how many Jobs in Nigeria can guarantee you that?

false

a cleaner in UK is still a cleaner

How much value is the cleaner adding to society.

You ppl and ur poverty mentality.

My guy went to UK to do masters back in the day, after doing masters the only steady job he could get was menial work. he could not survive corporate world they were firing him left and right.

Spending all that money to do masters and UK corporate world is tough espeically with heavy naija accent.

The guy abandon his menial work and came back to naija.
He don build house now all the other foilks in the UK still dey do their menial job.

Is that life?

Nigeriais bad we know but remeber we all die eventually.

Everybody wan go abroad hussle come back come die for naija

Unless u are a footballer or in medical field UK is a waste of time and life

kktbm:
Good dey guys..... I was discussing with a friend of mine. He wants to move out of the country(uk) but his parents are trying to cajole him to stay ( he’s from a well to do family and they are financially capable)

His plan is after nysc he would go for masters and find his way.

He is 21 and currently serving (he’s field is IT)
But the issue is that his parent are trying to fine tune his head to stay (he’s the last born)

Their excuse is that
1) you would do menial jobs there
2) there is nothing there
3) even if you get a good job there, it’s difficult to rise as a black man
4) you will be lonely

Their main bone of contention is that there is nothing there.
Note: his dad and 4 other siblings out of 5 studied in the uk tho.

My friend doesn’t even want to stay atall, most of his friend are in the uk, he doesn’t have friends in Nigeria except a few. He doesn’t like going out because he said his mind is not in Nigeria. If you see him ehn you will know that he’s depressed. All he wants is to move to the uk.

He’s not even a badboy he doesn’t smoke, drink
He’s not a womanizer

(2 of his siblings have been in the UK SINCE early 2000’s and are already citizens)

The dad also isn’t saying he should not go, but after service, he should get a job first probably with Goverment (due to job security because his dad retired with the government) then work 2-3 years before going for his master.

His point his that he wants to go now that the funds and everything is intact. What if something should happen in future nko?

My advice for him his to leave immediately after service after all he has siblings who are in their early 40’s there to put him through and also a lot of family friends there

What would you advice

nothing dey UK except he wan go enjoy or groove but u say hes not that type. IT all work can be done remotely and boys are making million dollar deals from naija.

People in UK miss naija every second and ppl in naija want to japa.

UK is good for long vacation especially when money dey.

But to work and hussle as a black man, u are just like an aboki from niger rep

the choice is urs eventually cos na ur life

obembet:
Lukaku will be a good signing for Chelsea at all cost. Even at 150M, let Halland Man United.

mynd44

Lukaku going back to chelsea go get as it be, chelsea sold him to everton for 20million or so now they his price is 120-150M, talk about bad business. eating your vomit. Lukaku is at his peak now after this he go turn to ighalo- China /USA or Saudi

Lukaku used to be an teenage player for Chelsea for 3yrs before they sent him on loan to west brom and everton before selling him to everton.

he and victor moses were in chelsea reserves and bench in 2011

Jack005:
The dullard has always been a curse to Nigeria and Nigerians at large.

If dullard can scam millions of nigerians.

What does that tell u about nigerians.

I never ever voted for Buhari in any on his 4/5 campaigns.

Johanthan was better than buhari

but nigerians apply sentiments more than brain

If no be becos of Abramovich, Chelsea and Arsenal no be mate at all. i started watching premiership in 1991/1992.

With the very 1st season that blackburn won and the 2nd season Man united won the league last minute after newcastle was leading from Day 1 the league. that time Alan Shearer ,David ginola etc were regining.


Chelsea no get mouth at all, they were onthe same level as Fulham. In fact Fulham and Chelsea as per London clubs dey drag rivarly.


Go check head to head

Arsenal vs Chelsea don play maybe 120 games in total with Arsenal winning 80 of them. you can do the % of that and do the maths.

If no be condition wey make Crayfish bend and the stupid owners of arsenal. Both of them no dey the same category

Cyberterror:
The great USA the largest producer of crude oil in the world suffering fuel scarcity.

no scarity maybe in one state.

One thing oyinbo suffer from is anxiety which causes panic.

They panic too much and do follow follow.

jerrybone:
https://investmentcable.com/exposed-how-hadiza-bala-breached-npa-rules-exempted-dangote-from-statutory-charges/

Dem don bribe the woman be dat

Babatindan:
She be dangote babe?

na elrufai family

Shes was not qualified one bit to be in that position

Na yahoo boys EFCC go dey chase up and down but see Big thief now dem quiet

Just imagine an oyinbo /chinese man saying the same

- Nothing God cannot do i just became a nigerian citizen"


is it possible

If u make football money i dont see what u are doing in Europe after u retire

Viridis:
Guy please where is Guendozi that guy is an excellent player.
Arsenal should not kill his career

he is on loan with herta berlin in bundesliga.

He had disciplinary issues with Unai Emery and Arterta.


Arsenal will sell him if Artterta is still coach next season

Minimum 25Million$

MrKennyD:
I'll make this short and snappy - I'm not in the best state of mind right now, so pardon my error(s) (if any).

Good day everyone,

I have been dating my GF for 3 years now; however, in March this year, we had several misunderstandings and she told me we should break up. I went to her place and asked her if she meant what she said, and she replied YES.

I was so down emotionally, and somehow later that day I found myself with a random girl in the neighborhood. We actually made out (with protection tho), and this is looking to be the BIGGEST MISTAKE of my life.

Later that day, I got a call from bae around 7pm and she said she wanted to come over to my place. I was shocked, cos i thought we were never going to come back; well, I actually told her i've had s*x with another girl, and she bursted on the phone - obviously, she was disappointed and angry, but it had happened.

Few days later, she called back and she has forgiven me and we should continue dating again. I was happy that we were back; however, we couldn't see each other until recently. When she came, as usual, we tried making out, but I couldn't get erected before her - I have never experienced such a thing before.

She was angry, saying I still had feeling for the girl I had a fling with; but honestly, I don't have any iota of feeling for that girl (the one i flinged with). This is now causing a serious issue between our two; I don't have an explanation to this, and YES, I still love this girl (my bae).

All the while we've been dating, I had never been with another woman (left for that day after she broke up with me). Please, what could be the cause of this?

PS: I was able to reach the girl (the one I flinged with), and I have pleaded to her to please undo anything she did on me, but she said she's innocent.

I'm planning to visit the hospital, but I'm just scared for no reason - knowing the extent some ladies go with all these kayamata and products being sold on social media.

Please, can anyone help me out please? I still love this my GF, she has done much for me, I've done much for her too - though that's not the main point here.

I already accepted my act as *Cheating* on my GF, but she literally told me she was never coming back to me. Now, both of us are trying to see if there's a way to get me treated without visiting the hospital, since I never had any health challenge(s) to date.

Your contributions are highly welcomed,
Thanks.

This erection loss could be a blessing in disguise

You could be suffering from some more serious cardiovascular dieases such as hbp, future heart problems or diabetes that can lead to heart,kidney, liver damage.

Go to your hospital for them to check your blood.


Naija men go they drink Alomo, Kolaq , Orijin etc when the penis weakness is just the first sign .



Human body is like a car, it will give you minor warning signals and if you dont act fast e go turn to big problem or death.

Na why ppl just dey die like fowl for naija.

A stiitch in time saves 9 as them tell us for primary school

No be only Coke and FAnta dey cos diabetes it could be Garri or Pounded Yam sef, if consumed in high amout becasue the body converts them all to glucose

Islie:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/04/gridlock-sanwo-olu-looks-on-as-trucks-take-over-apapa/

Na wetin dangote go turn Lekki into

Dangote singelhandedly destroyed Apapa Wharf road.

All these malams go drive truck with industrial goods park am ontop bridge, ontop road

How e no go spoil

BRidge that was designed for dynamic /moving load.

Make bridge no fail for naija e go killl plenty

Odewaleadesoye:
https://punchng.com/breaking-internet-fraud-efcc-arrests-instagram-comedian-pankeeroy/

EFCC go dey chase all this small boys, them Buhari ,Ganduje and co dem go close eye.

We know the BIG theives are in government but no arrests until they become opposition to Buhari and his misgovernace

oyatainer:
What are you saying exactly, one can lose the count of how many stars Ferguson hijacked from other teams in Premier league. The truth is that when Man United were buying, you can't even drag with them because they are stronger than others and their names is even another attraction on its own. The only difference is that there was no inflation that time. Money had value unlike now.

Ferguson used a team of mainly academy products to win 95-96 premierleague that team later on went to win Champions league in 99. The y overturned Newcastle on the last day to win the title .Back then New castle was strong.

most of those academy players turned into global stars that won man uni all those titles that make them popular today.

The core of the team

beckhma giggs scholes etc.

if u were not born in 95 u can google

All in all this was an attempt to money grab.

La Liga is not making enough tv money to sustain Real Madrid and Barca compared to premier league

Real Madrid is in heavy debt and they want to use this super league to escape their debt.

The fault is of their own making.

Real Madrid is a wasteful club if u ask me

They have longer throat and want the best regardless of price.

Hazard is on the bench collecting 416000$ per week not playing

Luka modric, tony kroos above 250000$ per week now they want to add mbappe. how dem no go bankrupt.

Vlyrics:
It is a fact, every fans want Haaland in their team right now but where will team get 100m + from. Then there is agent fees plus salary. Go and check list of clubs in debt, Totheham also took a loan of 175m, Google it. Barca new president is planning to borrow another 300m to invest in the team. While Uefa is eating and getting fat without making any significant impact in these clubs. Common salary cap and transfer value cap, it cannot make. If you can't pay more then help to spend less, this is common economics.

Thats is the game of football and the business. Competition and qualification by merit, its like Lesotho crying to qualify for afcon when they came last in qualifying

Leeds, Newcastle Blackburn used to be reigning in premiership, they bought wrongly and couldnt win the titles.

Nobody is guaranteed top 4, when i started watching soccer Man city was as useless as Sheffield united. infact they got relegated now they are on top.


According to Arsene wenger the money coming into football from tv is sufficient, Real Madrid and Barca paying the highest amount in salary- or have the highest wage bill for any club in the world. how can they then not run into debt. the higest paid coach is in la liga. TV money is not following into Laliga like premiership because of low competition.

Messi wanted to leave Barca , MAn city and PSG were ready to buy but they refused selling now they are crying.

Madrid is paying Gareth Bale 600000K $ per week and he was on the bench for 2 seasons.


Thats y ppl praise Alex Feguson and say he is the greatest coach because he was able to raise academy players and turn them into world beaters.

Thats what Ajax did when they won champions league.

Real Mdarid and Juventus they like finished product or top quality but it cost money

thorpido:
What was the idea in the first place?
The football competitions were becoming too much for players in the first place.

The whole idea was pushed by the american owners of man u liverpool and arsena, to create nba and nfl like leagues no relegation no promootion.

Also Real MAdrid and Barca are in heavy debt of their own doing - over paying players and nobody watches Laliga.

this superleague was to guarantee them 4bn$ sothey can buy haaland and neymar

sulaak:
The question you should be asking is what has Nigeria been doing over the 60 years of independence, OBJ opened NNPC in 1977, Buhari was its first GMD/Chairman, 44 years later, Buhari is the Federal Minister of Petroleum resources, yet NNPC can't explore, extract or refine oil and gas and has to depend on IOC's that have been milking the country dry since 1957.

Is the problem with IOC or the incompetence Nigerian ruling class? The Saudi ARAMCO is now valued at $2 trillion, while NNPC has always operated at a loss, Nigeria is in no position to ignore the threat of the IOCs especially if they lack the competence to manage the resources themselves

Thank u

i was telling some one that NNPC should be like shell or exxon mobil by now

but they rather be lazy and only collect tax . Same Buhari and his ppl. they put rilwan lukman there for years, they allocated oil bloc to themselves and friends and sold this to chinese or some other ppl

even china sinopec is exploring and china dont have onshore oil

Chuksaluta:
It amazes me how someone without an idea of how things works confidently and authoritatively write this up, only to show their emptiness.

lekki1444

I am laughing at his naivety,

Lasat 2 elections i shout and write tire make dem no vote this bad luck man..nigerians no hear..always applying sentiments to everything

which countries will bring oil for Nigeria to refine lol? the same ppl nigerians and western countries pushing for
Buhari dem don abandon am now.


Maybe Niger Republic or Benin but definitely not western or european countries.

that Dangote refining best bet is to focus on providing n refined crude Nigeria and
dangote always likes monopoly after a while his fellow northerners will ban fuel importation so that any PMS will have to come from him.

jus like cement etc

helinues:
No, it's because it's no longer business as usual...

No free money like before..

Opportunity for local investors to up their games

Modified: Wailers have seen news to somersault on.. Na this kind of news they massage their ego.

Hiss!!!

They are looking at more environmental friendly energy sources. Oil is going to be a thing of the past in 10-20 years.

just start to imagine a future with electric cars and hydrogen driven cars.


hydrogen fission can produce the same energy as oil .
and hydrogen can be manufactured or sucked out of the air

post=100817359:
Pessimist everywhere

the guy no lie look at abuja stadium built some few years ago. already dilapidated