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AutosRe: Briefly Used 2015 Kia Cerato, Keyless With Original Custom Duty by Blessingedem80(f): 11:54am On Aug 08, 2022
2.5m?
Technology MarketRe: Cost To Repair My Lg 32 Inches Dead Back Light?... This Repairer Wants To Cheat by Blessingedem80(f): 9:26pm On Aug 03, 2022
Please I have a 65inches and it developed this purple blue tint. Any ideas what the fix should cost as well as contact?

Regards
TravelRe: 16 Dead, Five Injured In Lagos Auto Crash by Blessingedem80(f): 5:29pm On Aug 02, 2022
What's anyone doing out there by 3am when you are not on a trip outta town?
CelebritiesRe: “I Cooked For Him And Satisfied Him Properly In Bed, I Won’t Marry Again – Korra by Blessingedem80(f): 5:25pm On Aug 02, 2022
Methinks social media helped to tear apart a crack already in the marriage walls.
TV/MoviesRe: TV Broadcaster Rufai Oseni Threatens To Call The Governor On Cops by Blessingedem80(f): 5:21pm On Aug 02, 2022
Hmmm
BusinessRe: LIRS To Launch Whistle-blower Initiative by Blessingedem80(f): 5:20pm On Aug 02, 2022
I hope it would be truly anonymous?
CrimeRe: Video Shows Arise TV Broadcaster Rufai Oseni's Faceoff With Police Officers by Blessingedem80(f): 5:19pm On Aug 02, 2022
I like that he admitted his offense
PoliticsRe: 9 Nigerian Politicians Who Own Media Houses - Newspapers, TV & Radio Stations by Blessingedem80(f): 8:12am On Aug 02, 2022
No wonder The Nation always writes like someone having diarrhea.
FamilyRe: UK Baby , Househd And Kitchen Items Are Available For Sale by Blessingedem80(f): 2:32am On Jul 31, 2022
Picture and price of the electric kettle and microwave.

Also confirm they are working.
AutosRe: *clean Nigerian Used Kia Rio 2014.* First Body. by Blessingedem80(f): 6:24pm On Jul 29, 2022
Is there any fault i need to know about?

Can we do 1m cash ready...
RomanceRe: Could it be kayanmata, How Do I Get Over Her? by Blessingedem80(f): 1:48pm On Feb 04, 2022
Supremedrizzy:
I am in a very unpleasant situation right now, a situation I never envisaged ...

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.... I want to dump her first. She is in control of our relationship and I want to turn the tables. The spirit is willing but the heart is weak.

My fellow gees help me out please
By the time wahala starts...both spirit, soul and body will be willing…exercise some patience comrade!
EducationRe: Jerry Luck, The Pure Water Seller Paid A Visit To His Former Coursemates At EBSU by Blessingedem80(f): 8:43am On Feb 04, 2022
Success has many friends...

I wonder how many of these folks called him up to know why he didn't resume along with them for the semester.

This life!!!
EducationRe: Nairalanders Please Is It Filling Station Or Fueling Station? by Blessingedem80(f): 7:01am On Jan 19, 2022
2RUTHHURTS:
Service Station ✅
It is service station if there's a lube bay for oil change etc
AgricultureRe: Farm4Me: Frequently Asked Questions by Blessingedem80(f): 8:58am On Dec 15, 2021
Please who has update on this farming plan?
EducationRe: Has Anyone Gotten His Uniben Transcript? by Blessingedem80(f): 9:06am On Nov 28, 2021
The body requesting my transcript only provided and email address for it to be sent to. Please how do I go about this on the uniben application page?
EducationRe: Is There Anybody That Can Help With UNIBEN Transcript? by Blessingedem80(f): 9:05am On Nov 28, 2021
The body requesting my transcript only provided and email address for it to be sent to. Please how do I go about this on the uniben application page?
AutosRe: For Sale, First Body,ford Edge by Blessingedem80(f): 5:56am On Nov 24, 2021
Not yet registered and it has a plate number?
FamilyRe: Should I Move In With This Female Friend Of Mine On Lagos Island? by Blessingedem80(f): 10:38pm On Nov 23, 2021
Timekeeper:
Thanks for this... But kindly note Dt, if I am going from my place on mainland to island, it will cost me almost 1500 to 1600 to fro daily....


If I stay here in island, it will cost me at most 300 to 400 to fro daily
Do the cost benefit analysis of;

Scenario 1.

Stay on mainland with no payment for rent in your bros house and 1600daily

Scenario 2
Pay some rent for your female friend's place and 400 daily.

Let's assume other issues like distraction, time on the road etc won't be considered

Meanwhile the idea is keeping your eyes open while at it for better opportunities.
FamilyRe: Should I Move In With This Female Friend Of Mine On Lagos Island? by Blessingedem80(f): 5:08am On Nov 23, 2021
I don't know where on the mainland you are staying, but there are people who come to work from Mower/Ibafo, Ikorodu, Ayobo even the borderline of Ogun state to the Island on a daily basis.

You are just starting off your career path don't make distance an issue for you now. There are more things to worry about.

Operate from your current location but with a few suggestions:
1. Plan your daily commute to the best times that makes you punctual at work. Might require you leaving quite early.

2. Sample your options of commute, like using BRT for most parts.

3. Trace a favourable route, sometimes short distance or change of route instead of a long haul might help navigate around traffic prone areas.

4. Use your weekends well and make sure you don't miss out on other social aspects of life. Certainly weekdays for now won't be free for you at all.

4. While at your current job, give your best, seek other opportunities (there are many not until you get out there and talk to someone, keep your mind and eyes wide open)

5. Consider tagging along with a friend or buddy going your way before or after work. There are lots of people working on the island who pick passenger as part of the way to subsidize their fuelling cost. You would find them as you progress on the job. But be very contious of who you choose.

6. Finally on the choice of staying with the lady, it's not healthy and most likely could be a distraction for you and your job. I won't go further on this.

PS: While you work remember this unpopular line that helped me a lot...


"...Those who work more than they are paid would soon be paid more than they work."
PropertiesRe: Distress Sale In Ajao Estate by Blessingedem80(f): 5:31pm On Nov 10, 2021
Pics please
PropertiesRe: 3bedroom Bungalow For Sale At Ajah by Blessingedem80(f): 5:27pm On Nov 10, 2021
Pics please
BusinessRe: I Owe A Microfinance Bank 600k, They Threaten To Jail Me, I Need Your Advice! by Blessingedem80(f): 1:43pm On Oct 27, 2021
First and foremost, your issue started when you chose to change plans. You could have rejected the loan offer before disbursement. You had plans for 1.2m not 600k!

Secondly from your write-up it shows an attempt to run away if given the chance or advise on how to escape arrest, Who does that except a criminal! Even if you were to engage in menial or odd jobs you would be somehow on the way to close out on your debt.

Thirdly, why don't you consider refinancing your loan. There are financial establishments willing to buy over your loans, restructure payback in a more convenient manner. This way you can start afresh with the new salary to offset your debts. Mind you it might cost you more. But you have to man up and follow through.

Finally, erase from your mind how to evade your debts, trust me even if they don't catch up with you, forces of nature will work against you in a fierce and cruel way! While your debts are pending someone's job is likely on the line or heads have rolled for your sake!




OverCalculating:
Hi Everyone,

I took a loan from a Microfinance bank sometime in 2019. The loan was N600,000 and I was asked to pay back on a monthly basis for 8 months. I had actually requested for 1.2million naira loan to get an important tool/machine to enhance my business but I was only offered 600k. With 600k I could not afford to get the tool, so I diverted the money to another business. After repaying a portion of the loan for few months, the business failed and I could not afford to payback afterwards. The business was meat distribution to households and offices. It failed because of inadequate structure that gave way for customers to receive products but not pay back. Debt killed the business. I have been struggling to survive since then.

At a point, I called the company early this year, when I got a new job that I know the months of my repayment have elapsed but I am ready to start paying a percentage of my new salary, but they insisted I should pay in full since my repayment is overdue.

Recently, I have been getting several threats from the company asking me to make full payment or else the case will be reported to the police and I would be jailed for absconding with the company's money. I know I am indebted to them but I can't afford to refund all the loan now since I am only managing to live with a job that I am doing now which I earn 40k salary. My concern now is that I need clarifications from the legal practitioners, IT experts and public prosecutors in the house on the following:

1. Is this case truly a criminal case as they constantly remind me or is it a civil case?

2. Can the Police actually track my location to arrest me as they threaten? Please note that I use a small Nokia phone and I am in a remote area outside Lagos.

3.What is the worse thing that can happen; so I can get ready for it because I am not financially buoyant now to cough out 600k now.

Thank you all.
RomanceRe: Sad Thing I Witnessed Yesterday In A Bar Between A Man & His Girlfriend by Blessingedem80(f): 3:33pm On Oct 25, 2021
jaelz:
So yesterday wey be chilling day we all know as e dey be as joli fellows now, as a man wey no dey dull I went to this bar around Asokoro / AYA round about yesterday evening to chill and hang out with my cousin while watching football ⚽.

But something happened that damped my spirit yesterday, a private lower rank soldier that was wearing a track down and his army vest yesterday came into the bar with whom I supposed was his girlfriend and sat down next to us, he was very close to me in particular while the girl was sitted at the other end, what struck me was that he told the bar man to bring peppered chicken two plates but make his own to be just only pepper and onions and to cover the top properly with saviet paper so the girl doesn't notice, then he should bring one five alive and one table water for him because him no too hold money for pocket.

This really shook me because i was surprised as to why he could not just ask the girl to take something cheaper so the both of them could enjoy or even tell her outrightly that he doesn't have enough money on him so she should support him or so?

You see we guys atimes are the architects of our misfortunes because we always try to please and form big boys at the front of our women, I always tell people that a woman that you can't tell you are down financially or can't occasionally assist you with the bills is a total no for me any day any time.

Guys go through alot from Uber for the girls, to paying bills at the chilling spot, to trying to make her happy throughout the whole period you are out with her, to protecting her and finally paying her Uber back home it's just too much for me to handle believe you me and I feel it's totally wrong.


Cc: Lalasticlala, Prettythicksme Seun Onila Farano Mynd44 Lalasticlala
Eyewitness zukwanike before they slap your eyes and you no fit talk wetin your eyes see
RomanceRe: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Blessingedem80(f): 11:27am On Oct 25, 2021
Beaten before her momma and yet have anything to do with himhuh Ahh that family is damaged. Damn!!!
TravelRe: Nigerians In Sweden, How Is The Economy And Life Generally by Blessingedem80(f): 9:11pm On Oct 17, 2021
Teslason:
Thanks! Is it same link as the former?
You will find all you seek here:

[url]si.se[/url]

Good luck!
TravelRe: Nigerians In Sweden, How Is The Economy And Life Generally by Blessingedem80(f): 2:57pm On Oct 15, 2021
Teslason:
When will the scholarship be available again?
The eligible programs for SI scholarship for Global professionals will be out on the 1st of November.
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Blessingedem80(f): 4:04pm On Oct 11, 2021
Bunk bed in Surulere for sale
55k

Call/chat
07032597827

CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage Leaked Sextape Is A Publicity Stunt (see This) by Blessingedem80(f): 5:51pm On Oct 09, 2021
Isn't it now obvious that her yansh is the dirtiest yansh in the industry...? grin
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Blessingedem80(f): 5:14am On Oct 07, 2021
Creditalerts:
Pls I need advise is this LG TV original?
Would depend largely on where you are buying it from.

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