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Antyxx:
Redpillers, avoid this thread

Just wondering how people break up?

Im in the middle of breakup now but i don't even know how to go ahead. It started this morning, The guy blocked me though,that's the only reason im not communicating with him

I keep checking my phone if he will message me,i keep blocking and unblocking.

I funningly wishing he's not in pains and happy even though im the one that is hurt and the breakup would hurt,and wishing he meets a good person that would make him happy, even though my chances of getting that is 1%

In all honesty, im tired of the relationship because he doesnt make me happy and only cares about himself since more than 5years we have been together, and no plan for US,and would always say all sorts of abuses to me,with excuses upon excuses why he cant marry or hasnt marry

Anyways,i know I will be happier single than being with him, i just need to be strong but its very difficult after not upto 4hours of breaking up.
Whenever we break up,im the one that usually beg him back, maybe because i hv never broken up with someone before

We started dating when i was 22, im now 30years and breaking up with him. I know I will accept him back if he comes back,but I pray he doesnt, I also told his friend to tell him not to unblock me and he should introduce a good girl to him. All his friend said was hmmnn, I always know the guy is a hypocrite, he once told him the reason i complain about something is because I have seen another man, I dont even keep friends(Male or Female),or go out,maybe na for my dream I go dey see men

Goodbye my love,i will miss you

Redpillers,pls do not comment

Martinez39s:
Ubunja really tried a lot and he earned all the respect he has. At a time, and for a long while, Ubunja was the face of the red pill on nairaland. Even the creator of this thread, GLYCOLYSISS, was once somewhat of a blue pill fellow on nairaland some years back; he slowly became redpilled around the time of Ubunja's miseducations and the time of others, myself included.

The time I really gained hoped that anyone can be saved was when a certain nwaezeemannuel (the former Ozo of nairaland) became a redpiller and started sympathising with us. Good old days for those that can remember.

Rozross:
You shall heal. God will surely heal you soon

Save1soul:
Dear Nairaland family, help with your observations.

Some months ago, I asked my woman is post my pictures on social media, though to me that was just a joke. She said the next picture of me she will upload will be our pre wedding pictures, and truely since then she has never uploaded my pics. And i do post her picture time to time.

Last week, she posted a picture of my former friend, with the caption that she misses him. I call him former friend because this guy, did everything to get us separated, he even went to the extent of trying to link her up with rich guys and always jokingly tell her to dump me.

This girl is a virgin though and I am her first guy. I am just playing around just to know the kind of girl I have been trusting for long.

thebosstrevor1:
I have noticed that the meaning of love in this part of the world is all about suffering.

If you really love someone, you must suffer with the person, even if the suffering leads to your death.

If you correct someone harshly, that means you truely love the person.

If you really love someone, you must be ready to take the person excessive behavior, even if the person behavior will negatively affect your well being.

It seems most Nigerians have been programmed to see true love as only suffering with someone till you die.

Tickles001:
Didn't you know our colonial masters had (mostly nonconsensual)sex and impregnated lots of our women in the past. I believe that's how it got in the African gene pool.

pocohantas:
Drag the werey anyhow you want. I have even forgotten he exists, yet the trash somehow thinks that I, Pocohantas, would hide behind an alternate to quote him. Say I dey fear a nonexisting element abi wetin?

You come online to deride women with reckless abandon and think the woman who saddled us with a filth like you, should be respected?

You must be mad!

Regex:
I want to back this up with a true life story.

I met a friend, an Aussie in London, he had a girlfriend, a Scottish, my Aussie friend had just left his previous relationship due to reasons not known to me, then he met his Scottish girl. Well from pictures this let herself go and all not going into details...

Thing is, my Aussie friend lost his dad in December, and from what he told me, he had sex with his girl during that time of mourning his dad (so he thought).

Long story short, this guys in police station and being investigated by the police for rape. He was in a sexless relationship because at a time the vibes of sex died in the relationship. At least he never had sex with his girl from the time I knew him till now he is in trouble.


The problem is not him being accused a rapist, the problem is that he can never be employed again in UK, and he's lost his job. I myself can't even be seen with him nor have any communication with because of the kind of job I do.


In the end, it's not worth it.

DaniWhizbang:
16. If she's from a poor background and has known struggle all her life, avoid.

kelspinall:
gal em go knack emotions enter her head em go dey use silly talk talk wey enta..em forget say that format don cast..men no longer talk too much before getting her where she pose to