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For her to take her own life, and you are not the cause by a heart break?
Then it means :
1. Their must be a severe case of manipulation to commit suicide involved.
2. Her self respect has been soiled through waywardness in nudity, and risks being embarrassed.
3. She is pregnant for a relative or for someone very close, which you know or dear to you, as well.

Don't mind all the people saying you are insensitive.
A woman's strong back bone is her husband to be.
If she could commit suicide, with you still in her life, then something abominable has occurred.
Or she is under spell of manipulation to commit suicide.

Let's be wise guys.

For a man to give a lady his card to go withdraw 50k, means that he is able and has given her the go ahead.
No matter the amount wey dey in.
Even if it is 52k.

Now, a woman got no business checking the account balance to know if you have 51k to 60k, when you willingly gave her the go ahead to go withdraw 50k from your card.

She can only check, if the card is saying insufficient balance.
And you are not even sound, if you know you have 51k to 60k, and then give her the go ahead to go withdraw 50k, and come here and rant that she withdrew the whole amount she asked.

Don't listen to that guy. By now, with his first response, you should know he don't know what he is saying.

Pray for him, and peace unto him.

adspelite:
Go and create your own thread and teach your truth. The Holy Spirit God Himself, the very spirit of our Lord Jesus speaks to those who listen and obey him. If you follow the inspiration He ministered, you'll always have answers to prayers.

Besides God's word is true and there's no contradiction to it whether you read from Matthew or John it's all the same.

Pray for understanding of the word and invite the Holy Spirit to teach you expressly.

PEACE BE UNTO YOU

May be it is just me that is different in comprehending.

Until BAT becomes president, we will not give you but a sliced bread in water : This means that, as long as BAT is not your president, the FG will keep feeding you with a piece of sliced bread in water

Let this LGBTransgenderQP+ cray - cray, stay over with them.
Make e no come over here.

We are not dumping grounds for failed ideologies that their own people see as disgusting.
We are light bearers.

Nothing to kill yourself over.

Why be angry when the person who deem you not irresistible rejects you, when you yourself have rejected ones that you deem irresistible?

Do not allow anyone deceive you.
You will not irresistible to some people.

Move on with life.
And with maturity, that is if you listen, it is the ones who care that you should follow.

First of all, no one is going about killing any one who is about homosexuality.

And second, we have seen what the homosexual agenda has done to their perpetrators.

And secondly , you shot yourself in the foot attributing and placing in the same class homosexuality with human sacrifice and demon worhsip.

We don't want human sacrifice anymore in Africa, nor demon worshipping.
And with homosexuality that comes with it.

Richwallet:


One of the greatest lies is the homophobic lie. Africa still has active human sacrifice which is intrinsic to sex worship to demons. All pagans are sodomites. Why should the laws of Abraham govern Africa because all the Abrahamic faiths that bann Sodomy are not of Africa?

Jungle justice is not law! If you participate in killing of someone accused of being homosexual then you are wrong.

I am happy Africa is saying a big No to LGBTQ agenda that has confused the normal functioning personality of the minds of those engaged with it.

In Africa, we shine the torch and say no.

In Christ Jesus, there is no Greek or Jew.
But Christ is all, and in all.

Therefore for the ones in Christ, their business is not to take sides with a Jew, but sides with the truth.

Yes, we may address tyranny and terrorism, and solve issues.

But our business is not about earthly Jerusalem, which is in bondage with our children.
But heavenly Jerusalem, which is above , and free.

It is wrong.
And how much na flight ticket+ return, to come from that far country over to where you at, in a festive period?

And in response to having sex with your wife ; it doesn't weaken any spirit.
In fact if you don't honour her by starving of sex, you will have a problem.
Your prayers may not be answered.

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled.
Adulterers and whoremongers , God's gonna judge.

And nothing is to be refused, for it is sanctified with the word of God and prayer.

Please, do not let the junk from the west creep into your midst.

Men being emasculated, and trained to be feminine.
And women being trained to be masculine.

See, the west are waking up to see that such things are garbage.
Should you be a dumping ground of used and waste products of ideologies from the west?

Do not let it creep in.

Please, do not let the junk from the west creep into your midst.

Men being emasculated, and trained to be feminine.
And women being trained to be masculine.

See, the west are waking up to see that such things are garbage.
Should you be a dumping ground of used and waste products of ideologies from the west?

Do not let it creep in.

Let the Spirit of God lead you in all areas of life.
Marriage very essential an area.

Hmmm.

Men.

Please be wise, and be a man.

Women,
Please be wise, and be a woman.

Speaking of the men, because this issue concerns a man.

Never allow your masculinity and sense be replaced with mouka foam.

No be say I wan spoil market.
But Kai, una too dey bleach.

So so whitening.
So so mulatto.

Be secured in your own skin.
You are unique.

Kai.

You see this old Naira notes ; 500 them.
It will still come back to stay.

My own is , I hope you won't be like the brother who got a job, but ended masturbating heavily in the kitchen of his workplace.
Then got fired.
Because, your main problem now is not the pimples, but masturbation.

And Jesus can give you power to deal with it, making you self controlled.

And you are goodt to go.

I saw a former popular Nigerian actress, with the last letters A and O, preaching as an Evangelist.

1 Corinthians 7 : 19
Galatians 5 : 6
Galatians 6 : 15

0monnak0da:
Are you circumcised? Why?

My sister, I know Leviticus 15 : 19 - 23 is quoted to back up that you shouldn't enter the assembly.

But I have a good news for you.

According to Lev. 15: 19 - 23 , your church is very guilty and they have all sinned.
Because in that chapter, nothing was talked about congregation due to menstruation.

But let's highlight what they aimed at concerning menstruation

1. Whoever touches her will be unclean till evening.
Whoever ( the father, the mother, sisters, brothers, children, husband, dog, nephew)

2.Everything she lies on shall be unclean.
Everything she lies on such as couch at home, mat at home or friends house.

3. Everything she sits upon.
Ranging from the stool you used to do make up before coming to church.
From the chair you sat on outside.
The car seat you sat on.
The chairs in your house.

4. And anyone who touches what has touched her will be unclean.
From your siblings or relatives to the driver and fellow church sister are deemed unclean.

So you see, all that sit outside stuff is trash.
It doesn't hold water.
It didn't obey Leviticus.

But there is one testament, a new one, with new ordinances that is different from the old.
The New Testament in Christ that do not care if you are menstruating or not.
But allows you to enter the church and worship, and even prophesy, sealing you with His Holy Spirit.

Or did the Holy Spirit leave inside you because you began menstruating, and returned back when it stopped.
Abi, poopoo wey dey inside u with micro bacteria wey dey crawl for your body dey clean?

Will you enter church and fellowship with your creator wey die for you?

omolola100:
Good evening my brothers and sisters
There is something I still don't understand and I need a clear and better explanation.

I attend a white garment church and the doctrine does not allow us to sit with the congregation because of the stain, there is a place packaged for us to sit and the corner of the church....
The issue right now is that my menstruation started last week Sunday and I don't know why it hasn't stop till this present moment.
I'm just thinking if I should go to church tomorrow because I don't want to sit at the corner of the church tomorrow because people might be suspicious something is wrong with me.
I haven't seen anything about this in the scripture, I just want to know if it's a sin to sit with the congregation while on period...

Send me your Mtn number, let me send credit to you.

lanrei:
Pls dear Nairaland I need help just this once, im forced to voice out but I have no choice pls help me.

I don't know where you are, but Apostle Arome Osayi is graced with supernatural abilities in Jesus name for eye cases.

Your little sister's idea of enrolling in the navy is a very brilliant one.
Please let any one who wants to help, help her into getting into the navy.And from there she may enter into some institution to improve on her C.V.

VoidLife7:
Good day all,


Please i need your sincere input to this subject matter


I am from an average family of 6 living in Lagos. My father is a surveyor, while my mother a petty trader. My mother lost his younger brother's wife after child birth, through cesarian surgery.. My mum was the only female amongst 4 siblings, she was beseeched to look after the infant and her little brother. That was how my parents began nurturing these kids. I could recall vividly how my dad often supply the house with baby food so she could be properly fed. I saw how my dad and mum took turns at mid night looking after her. My dad lost his only sister four years after and he was given the responsibility to look after her last baby who was almost 2 years. I lost my dad 2015 when the little girl was 10, her brother 12 and the other child was just 8. My mum had 4 biological kids, 3 boys and a girl. The girl was the first child, happily married with kids. I have an elder brother and a younger brother. I was intermediate my brothers. Till date, these children acknowledged my parents as their biological parents. They never knew we aren't blood from same parents. We all had same surname. The little girl wrote her WAEC last year and cleared all her papers with distinctions and credit. She had the intention to study law or foreign languages.


I enrolled her in fashion designing immediately after her secondary school, as she had shown interest. It's less than a year she got enrolled and she's already sewing styles. She's heading to become a seamstress in the not too distant future. She also makes hair. Though not professional and she never learnt it.


My mum summoned me last month informing me she'd be giving my little sister out for marriage once she clocks 18 by May this year. She claimed i had been teaching in private school earning 30k monthly and my elder brother working in a factory earning 35k. We got bills to pay for ourselves and the kids. She asserted that the burden is already taken a toll on us. I and my elder brother are the ones supporting the family with accommodation, feeding, school fees et al. My mum claimed there was no money to pursue her education. We couldn't even afford to get her a sewing machine. The little girl suggested she get enlisted into the Nigeria navy or Immigration Service with her WAEC result, and also as a fashion designer. Perhaps, that could enable her pursue her law degree in subsequent time as an officer. My mum wasn't convince with her idea. She claimed there was no one to help her get enlisted successfully. She insisted in giving her out to a 43 years old divorces whose wife had abandoned with 3 kids. My mum was so ignorance enough to believed giving her out for marriage will help lessen our burden😭


I felt like giving my mum good hot slap having realised the reason i got summoned. I felt the burden is really weighing her down, making her think otherwise. I had kept my mum at arm length since then. Hopefully, that'd propel her have a change of mind. I sincerely got her plight though but that shouldn't be an option. She seems not to understand her decision would destroy the girl's life completely. She claimed it wasn't her fault. She sincerely wish we are capable of looking after the children, then she'd support her dreams and aspirations. She believed when there's no money, you shouldn't be found discussing anything that requires money. I've been so down ever since then. She claimed i i hadn't saved myself yet and i was worried saving someone else. She's my sister and i can't leave her behind. She never treated her badly for a day though and nobody knows she wasn't her biological child. If for instance, anyone come up tomorrow informing her or her siblings that my parents aren't their biological parents, they'd never pay attention to it. I was even threatening to report her to the family but she claimed the family can't do nothing. This little girl has good plans, dreams and aspirations but my mum wants to cut it short and shattered due to our challenges.


Please i need advice going forward. I really want to keep my family together🙏❤

Her ( your little sister) idea of going to the Navy,and from there into tertiary institution is a bomb.

Let her opt for that.
And any that wants to help her, help her out in this decision, and connect her, and let her be helped from there.

Transformation not conformation.

Transformation into Christ.
And not conformation into the image of worldly celebrities, or worldly patterns.

They shouldn't change you.
You should influence them, if you can.

You will be judged for not speaking the truth.

Presenting your bodies a living holy sacrifice is a service that God is in very need of.

Don't listen to the teaching of whatever you do with your body doesn't affect your spirit.
God said your body should be kept pure for Him.
And any one who defiles it , will be destroyed.

Pull down the strongholds the works of the flesh have over you by what Christ done for mankind on the Cross, and prayers, with right fellowshipping.
Evil association corrupts good manners.
( A little leaven leavens the lump.)

Romans 12 : 1 - 2.

My sister, the problem and the solution begins with you.

THE PROBLEM : You have this mindset that if you chase her out, in the future, when she may be makes it more than you and you need her help, she will remember you in her good book.

Trust me my dear, if she doesn't care about you now, do you think she would want to see you when she's made?Seeing her by this character she is projecting?

Secondly, you want her out. But you don't want her to get out without having an ill will against you.
You want to be sly.
Honesty is good.


SOLUTION : Involve authority, your landlord , police, and give her days to vacate.
She will.
Do not mind if she will be malicious in thoughts against you, when she is made, so you think.
Because she will never remember you when she is made.
Trust me on that.

sync:
Dear Nairalanders,
I’m in a dilemma and need your advice
There’s this friend of mine who out of the blue contacted me last year October asking for a favor to come stay at my place a couple of days since she had an interview in Abuja. I allowed in her without hesitation since I thought it was just going to be a few days. Fortunately, she got the job.

When she got the job in October, she asked me to pls allow her stay for two months before getting her place. My people, it’s been five months already and she’s still not making any moves to get her own place.

The problem really is I am currently jobless. She doesn’t contribute anything to the house. I am responsible for our feeding, gas, electricity, everything! And I do not have money. The little money I have is from my generous elder sister who has been my helper since I lost my job. Weekends she sleeps all through while I clean the house. I also do all the cooking. She doesn’t cook.

I am a light sleeper so I get up at any slight movement. This lady gets up between 3 to 4 times every night to use the restroom thus keeping me awake all through the night. This really has a toll on me. During the day she goes to the restroom between 14 to 16 times. She doesn’t contribute to buy foodstuff but she eats 4 times a day

What have I gotten myself into. Please how do I politely ask her to leave without hurting her feelings and savaging the relationship I use to have with her. I am tired, depressed and jobless!

Many forget that the words of God are light ( they dispel darkness).
It was by reading the book of Isaiah that a woman who was into idolatry came to Christ Jesus.

Many forget that the words of God are medicine.
It was through it a woman who was with a low I.Q had an elevated I.Q.

These people mentioned above stayed with the word for a protracted time, and came out strong.

If you could spend half the time you do with the psychiatrist on the word consistently, you would come out with a testimony.

But rather, you get yourself drugged down with capsules that made your mind more foggy ; made you more sleepy and obese.
And in a worst case scenario, put more devils in.

If you are having issues with having a sound mind for normal decision making, why don't you grab Proverbs, and feed on it for 30 days, morning and night.
Or grab the book of Psalms, or Ecclesiastes or Ephesians or Colossians, and feed on it for 30 days.
And see if that disorder that is making you act like a human being without no good judgmental skills won't clear off.

Because it is written, receive with meekness the engrafted word which is able to save your souls.

When you think the words of God are beneath you, that it can't help you out, you are proud not meek.
Look in the scriptures for the words of God that addresses the situations you need attended to.
And you will come out with a testimony.

And look, it is without money.
Just your time and heart.
Amen.

The book of James 1 : 21.

Job, the wealthiest man in his environ before the calamity ; lost all for the sake of a test, to see if he would let go his right attitude.

Consider this man Job who lost ;
1. His children in a day
2. His wealth and source of it, in a day OR
3. His health to painful wounds from the crown to his feet's sole

Consider this man, despite all that he went through, he did not throw himself into an ocean ; he didn't take poison to end his life ; he didn't hang himself ; he didn't fall on a spear.

You didn't have it tough as Job, yet SUICIDE wasn't an option.
But you Christian, for a boy friend or girl friend breaking your heart, you write a cowardly note of love to whoever cares, and end your life.
For failure, you hang yourself, and blame it on mental illnesses.
For whatever , you go on a rampage and shoot people dead.

See, Christians tell yourselves the truth,and tell your brethren the truth.

It is because truth is no longer told as it should that's why there are casualties, left, right , and centre.

Whatever tough situation you are in, use that opportunity to run and stick to the Lord.
Think on that!

JOB.

Enos, which was the son of Seth, which was the son of Adam, which was the son of God.
Luke 3 : 38

Adam didn't come to be by sexual intercourse.
He came to be by the breath of the Highest.
And became a living soul, from whom all living soul came into existence.

Jesus, the son of God wasn't of sexual intercourse.
He was the direct product of the God's Spirit.

A man born out of sexual intercourse isn't in the program of God to give life to all.
Adam the father of all living dead, wasn't a product of sexual intercourse.
Neither is the one, who should give life to all who are dead be a product of sexual intercourse.
For He is the Last Adam, to give life to all dead men, who became dead through the First Adam.

I am speaking to the unbelieving ones; get this last Adam - Christ Jesus.
To be reborn.
And feed from this last Adam to keep on living.
For He gave a parable of Himself as a tree, and the ones who feed from Him, the branches.
And when a branch decides to get its source from anything else than the tree, it becomes dead.

Yes, I saw vision of a pale skinned lady reporting.
And in the background, a flood raging.

Heheheheheh.

Any one who knows the Lord experiences realities of Jesus being with them and in them.

Only people who don't know Him, go against the experiential knowledge of Christ, and then back it up with their misunderstood bits of the scripture.

People who say that Christ is not concerned about marriage.
People who are in favour of transgenderism.
And many other stupid things etc.

You talk too much.
And what you say don't even make sense.
Has any one told you that?

I know they have.

Kobojunkie:
Again, You have never in fact read John 8 vs 31 - 36 where Jesus Christ explains that the only way to be set free from bondage to sin, for those who are born-again is through serious self-discipline and self control coupled with submission and obedience of His teachings and commandments ? He said you can never become a Son of God otherwise meaning all those who are born-again yet fail to achieve that status are destined for am end in eternal damnation.

Why do you, in your blatant ignorance of God's Truth, beat your chest boldly as you like to deceive and delude your fellow men into what could be an end in eternal damnation? I never understand that of you religious folks.