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Family / Re: My Parents Destroyed My Life In Guise Of Love, I'm Now Depressed Daily by Blue86(m): 7:33pm On Sep 13, 2022
Just two months with the King of kings, and He will show you what you were made for.

I am speaking of Jesus Christ.

You are still young.

Do not waste your youth, seek the Lord.
Ablemed:
I'll like to make my story short as possible without much introduction tho. And also a lesson parents/ new couples should learn from my ordeal, Pls read to the end.

Alright So I'm the only male born of my parent among 4 girls, i also happen to be the last born at it. my problem started when growing up, cause my parent aged bfr getting a Male child which was my Dad and his parent cravings, I was pampered when growing up such that my parents would never watch me do stressful things, dictate when I go out and who I moved out with (My mum's own was even worse cause when growing up, if I want to go out, she'll always send me back inside) even during secondary school they had to get a school very close to our house. my sisters were only the ones that would go to mum's shop and make sales while mum would either stay with me at home or if I eventually go the shop sef I'll always sit and just watch. Literally, I'll say I was denied the right to be exposed to lotta things and real issues about life. And cause I was not the sociable type cause I'll literally stay at home, watch movies, eat and my movements limited, I was exposed to pornography and masturbation at a very young age and I battled that bad habit thr my University days (Did I say my Parents also dictated the University I went to cause it was close to our House to and any small riot in school then the next hour they'll come and pick me back home till every thing dies down)

So guys over time, I've grown to be this boring guy who is shy, timid, suffering from low self esteem and can't give vibe even when gisting with my fellow guys, in which most of them just relegate me to this small boy level. Did I also say I've never had a Girlfriend all my life cause the truth is ion always know what to say or how to maintain talking vibe. At first I decide not to care and just always console myself with I was created like that and just continue my boring life, it has now gotten to the point I'm not rated in anything at all, most people just make friends with me cause of what they can gain from me, I'm not even good in anything, I can't speak clearly, I'm kinda literally mentally dumb and ion see me useful for anyone or anything, perhaps maybe God only, No business sense, no work skill or experience, no trade experiences to

I'm currently a Corp member serving and before then I rebelled against my parent cause they wanted to dictate the state I serve which is our state of residence so I go to my ppa from home but I told them No and even got to a fight to my Dad cause of this issue and we din speak for like 2weeks, he eventually called me and we settled. But the issue now is guys I've got less than two months left for my POP for service and you don't expect me to return home useless to my parent house again?? Tho sincerely thr my service year, I din touch my allowee so I've saved up to 270k so far. the issue is ask me what I want to do with the money? I've got no idea, what business sense or idea? Nothing is coming to my head, infact I don't know. The funny thing is, my roommate is exactly my opposite, very outspoken, bold, full of vibe and bring back different female friends each day, this guy is not really financially buoyant but you see girls cook and travel all the way to give him for us to eat. I just wish I was like him, i wish i had the vibe embarassed

I'm 24years now and at this age, no idea bout my future, bout life, I can't even relate with people, I'm just so sad, depressed and frustrated. At the moment the only job coming to my head is the military cause I served in a military barrack cause I choose it myself but most of the junior officers are trashing my interest by telling me not to waste my time say I no go survive am with my nature, that military needs tough people and endurance bla bla and on the other hand, my mum is saying Never she'll never allow me join the military not over her dead body and she's bout recruiting my Dad to and Sincerely I'm frustrated and my depression have taken another turn that over the past weeks I've been thinking suicide and it's getting really high, I say I should type this here bfr the worse happen cause if I can't be useful for myself what really is the point living??

Please this advice is to parent and intending parent/couples, pls and pls expose ur children to life, don't over pamper your kids, work on them to make them sociable and outspoken, I swear you'll be doing them a great favour. For me I thought my parent loved me, I thought they were trying to protect me but they've put me in a deep mess I have to face alone and just I pray I get the opportunity to make things right with me embarassed

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Crime / Re: PnB Rock Shot Dead By Robber In Los Angeles Restaurant by Blue86(m): 7:21pm On Sep 13, 2022
BLM, you heard Blacks.
BLM.

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Religion / Simple Easy English Word " Repentance" by Blue86(m): 5:50pm On Sep 12, 2022
Repentance.

An English word that is now a beginning of misunderstanding in the body of Christ.

What is repentance?
Reversal of decision, that is the act of reconsidering.

The reversal of decision or act of reconsidering is what we do on a daily, it is just that we don't just say repentance, but the action implies it.

For instance, if you are one who is into eating dogs, then you made a decision not to, that act itself is repentance.

If you are racist against the orients due to the society you grew up in, and then you reconsidered being racist against them, that in itself is repentance.

It is not one special word that is hard to understand, except you are confused by the power working in the air.

Now I have heard some new crop of doctrine saying believers aren't to repent.

Come on.
You mean they should keep living the way they did before they encountered Christ.

If you say, "No they shouldn't."
That decision not to live in the way of their former life is what is called repentance.

And when an unbeliever who believes in serving themselves, in worshipping men, worshipping animals, Satan, idols, and other lords etc, decides to stop and turn to Jesus, it is called repentance.

When you who is addicted to drinking a bottle of coke, decides to stop, and go from taking coke to drinking healthy herbs and teas, it is called repentance from coke drinking addiction.

Therefore believers, if you are still cool living that nasty life, repent, and Christ will give you life ( strength to stop living that nasty life).

2 Peter 3 vs 9.
Ephesians 5 vs 14

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Romance / Re: Girls Have Made Me Grow To What I Wanna Be A Rough Player by Blue86(m): 3:46pm On Sep 11, 2022
Brother.

If you were following the leading of the Lord Jesus, you won't be thinking of hooking up with a hoe, but getting to fulfilling your destiny ordained from heaven.

Now you want to turn over rogue and injure yourself.

Walk humbly with the Lord.
And you will be amazed how you will use your time and money for heavenly ventures.
Miravik900:
I was played badly by a hook up girl, a very young girl which I took a liking for,,,, she behaved like a wife material this really awed me that I losed my guard for her..... became very free with her she stayed 3 days in my house gave me sex anytime I want it, cook, clean my house very neatly only to found out when she left, that she absconded with all my clothes worth more than 200k my wrist watch my power bank I was awestruck when I noticed on the 2nd day of her absence tried calling her she refused picking my calls that’s when it dawned on me that I have been played she toyed with my emotions and now I’m going to do the same to those bit*ches out there,I’m a vocalno ready to explode.... girls should be ready as I’m molding my self to turn to a full time player hearts will be broken and tears will be shed. My new girlfriend will be the first example
Religion / The Society Have The Christian Faith To Be Grateful For. by Blue86(m): 11:14am On Sep 11, 2022
It is only in the Christian faith that the prospect of one man one wife came out.

No other faith ; in other faiths, the number depends on how many you can handle and care for.

But the faith of Christ Jesus, it is one man and one wife.

Now everyone is after that.

Respect our faith.
Religion / Re: Anglican Priest, Rev. Ogbuchukwu Lotanna, Resigns, Forms Polygamous Movement by Blue86(m): 11:10am On Sep 11, 2022
This is the devil
Family / Re: Help! My Wife Doesn't Want To See My Best Friend In Our Apartment Again by Blue86(m): 6:27pm On Sep 10, 2022
Chai.

I think you are a Christian, right?

Now go to Proverbs 26 : 20 and Proverbs 20 : 19.

If you discard those scripts above given.
Then you fulfill the biblical definition of a simp.
Domipraiz:
Good evening to you all. I don't know if this is the right place to drop this.

Am a married man. I lived in the same compound with my best friend sister. We Just moved into the neighborhood not too long (11 months ago). My friend's sister is also married with kids.

Let me go straight to the point, ever since we moved into the compound this woman has been disturbing my wife with gossip. She's a full house wife while my wife is running a M.sc programme but due to ASUU strike, she has being at home. This woman will come to my wife and talk bad things about everyone living in the neighborhood including those living in our compound. Most funny thing about her is that once she leave our apartment, she's moving into the next apartment.

My wife and I have studied her very well that most time we try to avoid, ignore or resist her from coming to our house but to no avail.
Not that I can't warn her to stop coming but am trying to avoid issues that will arise between me and my friend and also her husband.

She was keeping malice with another woman (Mrs Adelaku) in our compound because the woman ignored her totally as a result of her gossip.

Last two weeks Mrs Adelaku came to our apartment to invite my wife to her brother's wedding and as a result of that she thinks my wife is getting closer to that woman.

Yesterday she came to our house and confronted my wife of gossiping with the other woman (Mrs Adelaku) about her. That when neighbors are trying to settle issues between her and Mrs Adelaku that she quoted my wife. She accused my wife of telling Mrs Adelaku everything she has being telling her. And also tell my wife not to confront Mrs Adelaku.

But my wife went to Mrs Adelaku that same day to confront her but she swear with the bible and everything she has that she never tell her anything related to that. That perphers she and my wife are not a gist partner if not for the wedding invitation that she brought.

With anger, my wife went back to this woman (my friend sister) and tell her what the woman said. She later apologies to my wife that it was a trick. That she just wants to know their discussing that when she came with the wedding I.V she discovered that the woman (Mrs Adelaku) stayed a little bit longer in our apartment.

Ever since my wife has developed so much hatred for her/ her husband and even my friend that she doesn't want to see anyone of them again in our apartment.

Am so sorry for the long story, am not to good in this. Kindly bear with me.

What can I do in this situation? Matured mind please, thanks.
Religion / The One Who Heals by Blue86(m): 6:15pm On Sep 10, 2022
I know what it means to be sick.
And no good parent will wish it upon his children, nor pets.

If you know to take your children, spouse, parents, pets to the hospital when they are sick, then God ( who is good ), viewed by you, who you profess to be Love, doesn't desire you to be in health?

Don't be a hypocrite.

If it is not God's will for you to be well, then stay home when sick, to be in God's will.
Or else you are transgressing.

If healing isn't His will, then :
1. God wouldn't be termed Jehovah Rapha. Remember God is the one who was , who is, and is to come ; the I AM not I was.
2. He wouldn't have said in Psalms that He heals and forgives.
3. He wouldn't have sent His son to heal while on earth
4. He wouldn't have let His stripes be an avenue for healing, after His sufferings.
5. He wouldn't have given His own gifts of healing to go heal
6. He wouldn't have said pray for another when you are sick.
7. He wouldn't have said call on the elders in the church, when you are sick to be anointed with oil in the name of Jesus to be healed, and if you have done anything vile, you will be forgiven.

The problem is :
1. People have arose in the body teaching God is not in the supernatural healing business anymore.
Tell me what will you do, when the doctors you rely on so much, tell you that your case is beyond science.
Will you now resort to the death bed, you who limit your salvation?
2. People place a wall, and close their hands.
We do that all the time, whether we agree or not.
We do.
For instance, when you reject a matter, you put your wall up.
When you accept a matter, you place your walls down, and open your hands to it.
When you believe God desires to heal you now and today, you place your walls down.
When you receive the healing provided by Christ Jesus into your heart, contemplating on it, you stretch your hands to grasp.

1 Peter 2 : 24
Religion / Re: Jesus Was Wrong, There Is No Mustard Tree by Blue86(m): 7:00am On Sep 10, 2022
Salvadora Perisica aka mustard seed, have 40 varieties.
Of which one of the varieties, the growth ranges from 6 feet, and others, 20 feet and above.

I know many won't do their research, but concur with whatever villifies the bible.

And also, when our dear Lord mentioned it as the smallest of all seeds, He was analysing it to the Isrealites then. Because it was the smallest of the seeds they knew.

He couldn't have been telling them about plants that have so microseeds because they couldn't grab it.
People that don't even know that TV or radio or a light bulb could be evented.
Or would term demonic airplane.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Queen Elizabeth II Dies, Aged 96 by Blue86(m): 6:47pm On Sep 08, 2022
Now, it's time for a King.
Religion / Continuation On The Blood by Blue86(m): 6:31pm On Sep 08, 2022
Continuing from the prophecy, " Plead the blood of Jesus ; who heals.", today, I will settle on the one who heals.

When the Lord became flesh, and got anointed with the Holy Ghost to minister to humanity, healing was a prerogative.
Not mental and emotional illness only, but all forms of sicknesses and diseases among the people.
Matthew 9 : 35
Matthew 8 : 16 - 17

It was said that a great multitude came TO HEAR HIM HIM, AND TO BE HEALED OF THEIR DISEASES.
Luke 6 : 17

Now that He has gone back to His glory, and worked salvation for men, suddenly you(Christian) now deem Him impotent and not willing to do anything.

When we should be grounded in living in health, and ministering healing to the unbelieving, we are now building back again the foundation of God wanting us to be healed.

Change your mindset.

In Jesus's days, the ones who needed healing that couldn't be done through science, got it, when they came to Him in expectation that He could.
The woman with blood flow, said if she could just touch the helm of His garment, she will be healed.

The problem today is :
1. Many do not believe Jesus is the same in healing business today
2. They trust in science to solve all their problems, [ which it can't because science is not the Almighty ].
3. They do not come to Him in faith, for many were healed by faith in Him.
4. They are unforgiving in heart.
5. They ask to fulfill their works of the flesh. It is pathetic. But it is true.

The just shall live by faith.
And faith comes by hearing the word of God.
And the word of God says that Jesus is the same yesterday, today, and ......
And faith is, whatever you desire, when you pray, BELIEVE YOU RECEIVE THEM, and you shall have THEM.
Family / Re: I Am Sad Now by Blue86(m): 6:17pm On Sep 07, 2022
God should change his mind, or God should give you your right?
Diligent1:

I am praying to God to change his mind for better.
Thank you for the advice.

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Religion / The Blood by Blue86(m): 6:07pm On Sep 07, 2022
TONGUE AND INTERPRETATION
Plead the blood of Jesus ; who heals.

What does it mean to plead?
To plead is a legal term used in the court of law, before a judge, to speak for yourself against your adversary.

I have heard some say that you don't plead the blood of Jesus, it is not under your jurisdiction.
Because they said that doesn't make them false preachers or false brethren.
It means they just got it wrong.

Last time I checked, God is the Judge of all.
So if God be a Judge.
Definitely, a court must be.
For Revelation to say, that the saints will overcome the devil by the blood of the lamb, gives us room to use the blood before God in the court of Heaven against whatever the adversary ( the devil) is on our neck for.

The blood was shed for us.
But the blood is not to be abused by us, as an avenue to keep doing wrong.
Or your claim won't leave a record.


Hebrews 10 : 26 - 30
Hebrews 10 : 29
Revelation 12 : 11
Hebrews 12 : 23
Ephesians 6 : 12, 18
Religion / The Blood by Blue86(m): 6:00pm On Sep 07, 2022
TONGUE AND INTERPRETATION
Plead the blood of Jesus ; who heals.

What does it mean to plead?
To plead is a legal term used in the court of law, before a judge, to speak for yourself against your adversary.

I have heard some say that you don't plead the blood of Jesus, it is not under your jurisdiction.
Because they said that doesn't make them false preachers or false brethren.
It means they just got it wrong.

Last time I checked, God is the Judge of all.
So if God be a Judge.
Definitely, a court must be.
For Revelation to say, that the saints will overcome the devil by the blood of the lamb, gives us room to use the blood before God in the court of Heaven against whatever the adversary ( the devil) is on our neck for.

The blood was shed for us.
But the blood is not to be abused by us, as an avenue to keep doing wrong.
Or your claim won't leave a record.


Hebrews 10 : 26 - 30
Hebrews 10 : 29
Revelation 12 : 11
Hebrews 12 : 23
Ephesians 6 : 12, 18
Family / Re: I Am Sad Now by Blue86(m): 1:47pm On Sep 07, 2022
There is something God the judge said in the bible.

He said the bosses should give the ones who work for them their due, or else when the ones who work for them cry to Him, for lack of payment from their bosses, He will avenge them.


Action : Approach the court room of heaven in Jesus name, and cry to God on how your boss is treating you, and tell Him to work on that matter based on what He had said.

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Romance / Re: This Is What Made Me Loose Interest In Going To Church by Blue86(m): 1:01pm On Sep 06, 2022
Op, please go to the church that took care of you and your gal with her baby, and wed her there.

Though I know, you have that realized the step you made with your gal was wrong.
Know that the Church makes mistakes, and man makes mistakes.

Please go to church. The second one.

A church left you, and another one held you.
This enough should give you hope.
You were helped when you needed it, even though you messed up.
Romance / Re: I'm Attracted To Older Women. Am I Normal At All? by Blue86(m): 7:31pm On Sep 05, 2022
You are not a normal. It is a wrong fad from the States, under the inspiration of the prince of the air over that state.

Break it.
RichProminent:
I'm 19-yr-old but I'm sexually attracted to older women at their late 30s, 40s or even 50s for those that still maintain and look decent.


I hardly have an erection for girls at my age range, am I normal? I'm in a grave fear because this seems unsual.

cc: VictorUSA
Romance / Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Blue86(m): 5:30pm On Sep 05, 2022
Sir, na trouble you jam.

Havemercylord:
Hello everyone, I am 34 years old and I am here to get honest advice from experienced people.

My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April, 2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, I have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?
Religion / Re: Can Someone Translate these Nightmare For Me Please? by Blue86(m): 12:50pm On Sep 04, 2022
It is your sickness.

Don't count it.
HomoSapiien:
In the space of 5 days now, I’ve had similar nightmares twice.

Thing is, I lost my Dad last year July after just a day illness. He was a nice man and one of the most cool headed man I’ve ever seen. Very family oriented and have this equal love for all of us that are his kids. He had great love for his relatives too even despite most of his siblings always having one or too ish with him. Still yet he loved them.

So this past days, I’ve been seeing him.

The first dream went like, he can back home, and everyone was wowing. Then I asked him where he went to all these while, and he said, he traveled and went to find what he’ll use in feeding us. I was really so happy until I woke up to reality.

I actually don’t take dreams serious, so I didn’t even bat an eye or tell anyone about it.

Then again, yesterday night I had another dream. Had a dream that he died in their family house where he was given birth to (although he didn’t die there in real life) and people including an imam was trying to pray on his body. The prayer was about to start when some people just came and packed his body to the main road. We couldn’t follow them but everyone was murmuring and asking what was happening. I could not hear what they were murmuring about until I heard a loud noise from the road that he was taking too. And then I tried to move to see where the noise was coming from until I saw him again, managing to walk down the stares beside our family house. More like someone breathe life back into him. I was scared and happy at the same time until I woke up to reality around 12:30AM.

I don’t know why I keep having these sorts of dreams, maybe because I’m a bit ill, because I hardly dream. Last night I had to take sleeping pill.
Religion / Re: I Blasphem Against The Holy Ghost And I Can't Repent Again by Blue86(m): 12:39pm On Sep 04, 2022
Actually those who are guilty of blaspheming the Holy Ghost are those who really were intimate with Him, knew Him experientially, and then turned and went to vilify Him.

In your case, you aren't guilty.

Just return to God, and He will your backsliding.

Be patient, and He will heal you
ThankGodFriday:
I was once a born again Christian
I was suffering from depression so I became an atheist because God don't want to heal me, I suffered a lot from depression, I blasphemed against God and the Holy Ghost, to I have come back to God but I can't repent again, when ever I try to repent I can't feel the spirit of God in me.
Don't mind my English
I used to enjoy weed but not anymore
Religion / Re: Pastor Kumuyi: How I Quit Schooling Because My Father Disgraced Me by Blue86(m): 12:24pm On Sep 04, 2022
Amen.
OLAADEGBU:


We thank God for his life. smiley

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Religion / Re: Should I Be Worried Seeing Dead People In My Dreams by Blue86(m): 10:54am On Sep 03, 2022
Seeing dead people in the dream according to your context is an invitation to be among their clique.

And to be among their clique, you also have to leave this world.

So it is not a good one.

And if you do nothing about it, you are saying it is okay to be with them.
Michelle70:
Time is just 4:19
I dreamt 3times this night, all about dead people.

Education / Re: Bingham University Student Bullied, Flogged By Fellow Student by Blue86(m): 10:51am On Sep 03, 2022
If that can happen, then cultism is not absent.

All dark acts thrive in secrecy.
Bring them to light, and they lose power.

That's why they are called works of darkness.

It is not secret cult for a reason.
Bring the cult to light to higher authorities with swords of judgement, and see them humble.

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Romance / Re: Body Odour And Mouth Odour Is Killing Me , I Need Help by Blue86(m): 6:55am On Aug 30, 2022
For body odour, go and buy Gillette -High performance- odour elimination -Sport Triumph -
roll on.

For mouth, go get a very soft toothbrush, with small teeth, and Darbur medicated red toothpaste. And brush two times daily. And make sure you try to Google up water by washing your throat.
Barrister026:
I can start talking in a room filled with people, before minutes people will start trying to hold their nose. I Know it's from me, A friend always buy tomtom and give me one whenever I'm with him...it took me a long time before I got the message. Same with my body odor, I try as much to bath twice a day but whenever I sweat.i can perceive my own aroma which is not friendly.
I don't know if it's a spiritual thing, because I can't have a girlfriend for years now because of this so I opt for prostitutes, call girls And so front.
I have tried using baking soda and several toothpaste.. still same result.
This has really got a hold on my self esteem, I need help.
Romance / Re: This Is Becoming A Problem(i Need Your Advice) by Blue86(m): 7:43pm On Aug 29, 2022
Actually, it is within his rights. But you can still tell the landlord
udofia234:



Sorry I cannot afford that for now! I want to know if its right to bring this to the knowledge of the Land Lord

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Family / Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Blue86(m): 3:21pm On Aug 29, 2022
Wisdom is profitable to direct. I don't want to say they aren't wise, if they are thinking that which you are insinuating.

Let me just leave it there.

Let the man take charge.
jaszplus12:

If you know women enough you will understand that the MIL may have started feeling jealousy and thinking maybe her daughter and husband will show more love to godmother! Or may even think godmother will make passes at hubby as wife is still healing!
So, she has decided to barge in!
If not common sense should have prevailed!

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Romance / Re: This Is Becoming A Problem(i Need Your Advice) by Blue86(m): 3:10pm On Aug 29, 2022
Pack , if you can.
udofia234:
Good afternoon! I'm a Christian and also a committed worker, I have a very serious issue that might make me commit sin!
I live in a room and palor self contain and the house is build in a way that the other room and palor is built together with mine, that is if I say anything in my palor or room the will hear! My neighbour is a single like me , but he is giving me big nightmare. Every night he brings different girls home, and when I'm preparing to sleep that is when they start having sex, this girl will moan loudly that even if I cover my ears with my hand I can still hear it, not even that alone the knacking sound is so irritating to me, sometimes to avoid me lusting in my mind I try praying, but it won't work cause my system is not in that prayer, guys to the extent that when I sleep I dream of them having sex, many times at night.
I approached the guy to complain but he said its not my room and my girl now! he even said that when ever I pray he gets more motivation! imagine! When ever this girl come around and the guy is not in cos she has a spare key to the guys house , the girl always dresses immorally (most times without pant and bra, she wears see through cloth)and I notice that once I see that I have erection. I tried not to think on this but every time I'm alone even after prayer my mind will start rehearsing this pictures, I can't help it anymore! i told one of my pastors he said i should fast but still in that process this atrocities is still going on, i couldn't end the fast when my mind is polluted .I wish to pack out of the house but the place is one of the best houses in my area! I don't even have the cash to get another, so I'm thinking of reporting him to the Landlord. pls help me.
Family / Re: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by Blue86(m): 3:05pm On Aug 29, 2022
Common sense is for the mother who lives a street or so away to return back to where she came from, for the god mother who is from another state entirely to move on Wednesday.

You guys are not treating that God mother right.

It is situations like this that makes people not to be bothered about caring for others because of insensitivity in not appreciating their efforts.

You go and tell your mother inlaw yourself, man of the house.
And let your wife's blah blah land in the bin.

You are the one to set the house in order.

You are the leader.

In this case, there is no wisdom from her.

Let mama leave her kaya in the house, go back.and come back thursday.

UncleDaddy2017:
My wife recently put to bed our first child. While at the hospital, it's been my wife's godmother who travelled down from another state specifically to be with my wife. Infact, she came straight to the hospital and she has been the one sleeping there with her at night. While I stay with her by day. When am at the hospital to relieve her, she goes to our house to sleep.

My wife's mom and my mom (both live few streets away from ours) do come to the hospital during the day ... So fast forward to yesterday Sunday.

My mother-in-law told my wife she will come after church... Hours after church closed we still didn't see her. Only for her to show up with a big traveling bag. And she knew quite well that my wife's godmother put up at our house.

My house is a one bedroom apartment.

When she came, I asked my wife that now that her mom is here, how will all of us sleep in this house as my wife, our baby and the godmother will sleep in the room, while I stay in the sitting room. She became angry and said they will all stay in the room. But that if I don't want her mom to stay in the house, she will just tell her to go away.

So I told her that the proper thing to do is tell her mom to wait till Wednesday when the godmother lives, then she can come. Besides her house is only few streets away. She can be coming during the day and go back home.

So this night now, the mom has bathed and has gone to stay in the room. The godmother who's now feeling sleepy, had to stay in the living room as she can't go to the room bc her mom is there. Me on the other hand, can't sleep in the living room bc her godmother is in the sitting room.... So I sat at the veranda until 11pm. The cloth I had on was the one I wore since morning. I can't go to the room to change as the mom is there. Neither the living room bc the other woman is there.

My wife later came to me outside and was annoyed that I dont welcome her mother in my house.

Do you think I'm wrong to have told my wife to tell her to wait till Wednesday before she comes?

NB: my mother inlaw and I, live like mother and son until she came yesterday Sunday.

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Romance / Re: Please Advice Me On What To Do With This Girl ! by Blue86(m): 10:58am On Aug 29, 2022
Did your phone skip the " Meaning " part?
Vinnie2000:


SHUT YOUR MOUTH and let the OP be.

If u were so busy with your time, making money,

Wat are doing on Nairaland 10am on a Monday morning?
Romance / Re: Please Advice Me On What To Do With This Girl ! by Blue86(m): 10:19am On Aug 29, 2022
Time is money.
If you spend it on things that don't profit.

You will end up poor and wretched all your life.

Meaning : If you use your time for the things of the flesh, you end up as nothing.
SalisuJasper:
I meet a girl not long and we became good friends. shes so free to discuss anything with me on what is going on in her life and most especially her love life and all. i dont want to bore u with epistles. we do normally go out to drink and have fun and she love spirit drinks allot.

There was a time we went out and we had a little romance. she sat down on my leg and with tight cuddling.

So fast forward to lask week and something really strange happened. It was on a sunday evening and we both request we both go have some drink, so we got to the store and bought big smirnoff spirit drink and some other energy drinks to mix it.

We went to an uncompleted building and we started drinking and gisting till we both got drunk. it was already getting dark and from no angle we started cuddling aggressively again and it was the first time she will kiss me and i also sucked her boobs real good. And also she gave me a Mouth Gig right there. But we didnt have sex because she just said she want to leave probably she remembered we are just friends.

Now the problem is, ever since that night she started avoiding me and don't even reply my chat. i always try to talk to her but she will say she want to be left alone, i really dont undetstand what is going on and i am just confused why she could act this way.

How can the second party be angry because of what we are both involved in, its just strange to me.

Please can someone share more light for better understanding.
Romance / Re: I Am A Man Trapped In A Woman's Body by Blue86(m): 10:13am On Aug 29, 2022
A man to embrace feminity, and let go masculinity, is a disgrace and an abomination , , to both the earth and biosphere.
Mutant001:
you are the one that is lost completely
It is obvious you are the one that needs mental rehabilitation

I support the OP completely

You have allowed religious dogma to brainwash you and make you look stupid
There are certain things that need logic and critical thinking not bringing religion into this

Let's say you should be free from your masculinity with prayers and flogging for 1month maybe you will leave your masculinity and embrace feminity

Rubbish!!!
Romance / Re: I Am A Man Trapped In A Woman's Body by Blue86(m): 9:25am On Aug 29, 2022
Actually, a person thinking he is a woman in man's body or a man in a woman's is lost.
And have serious mental correction to undergo.

Don't you think?

The Kingdom of Christ is the way.

And you know what?

Your getting freed from that error is just a text away.

So if you really want to be freed
Text me, and ama pray with you.
And you will see clearly.

Apexter0001:
you are a stupid idiotic slowpoke whose brain is less than that of a mosquito cheesy

You are so daft that you will forever remain a slave to ignorance and Stupidity grin

I think you should emancipate yourself from sterotypes and see the clearer picture with a clear eyes and a sound mind, numbskull cheesy

If you keep thredding in this lost path with no destination, you will burn to ashes and not even your ashes would be seen by anyone, mark my words

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