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Her ( your little sister) idea of going to the Navy,and from there into tertiary institution is a bomb.

Let her opt for that.
And any that wants to help her, help her out in this decision, and connect her, and let her be helped from there.

Transformation not conformation.

Transformation into Christ.
And not conformation into the image of worldly celebrities, or worldly patterns.

They shouldn't change you.
You should influence them, if you can.

You will be judged for not speaking the truth.

Presenting your bodies a living holy sacrifice is a service that God is in very need of.

Don't listen to the teaching of whatever you do with your body doesn't affect your spirit.
God said your body should be kept pure for Him.
And any one who defiles it , will be destroyed.

Pull down the strongholds the works of the flesh have over you by what Christ done for mankind on the Cross, and prayers, with right fellowshipping.
Evil association corrupts good manners.
( A little leaven leavens the lump.)

Romans 12 : 1 - 2.

My sister, the problem and the solution begins with you.

THE PROBLEM : You have this mindset that if you chase her out, in the future, when she may be makes it more than you and you need her help, she will remember you in her good book.

Trust me my dear, if she doesn't care about you now, do you think she would want to see you when she's made?Seeing her by this character she is projecting?

Secondly, you want her out. But you don't want her to get out without having an ill will against you.
You want to be sly.
Honesty is good.


SOLUTION : Involve authority, your landlord , police, and give her days to vacate.
She will.
Do not mind if she will be malicious in thoughts against you, when she is made, so you think.
Because she will never remember you when she is made.
Trust me on that.

sync:
Dear Nairalanders,
I’m in a dilemma and need your advice
There’s this friend of mine who out of the blue contacted me last year October asking for a favor to come stay at my place a couple of days since she had an interview in Abuja. I allowed in her without hesitation since I thought it was just going to be a few days. Fortunately, she got the job.

When she got the job in October, she asked me to pls allow her stay for two months before getting her place. My people, it’s been five months already and she’s still not making any moves to get her own place.

The problem really is I am currently jobless. She doesn’t contribute anything to the house. I am responsible for our feeding, gas, electricity, everything! And I do not have money. The little money I have is from my generous elder sister who has been my helper since I lost my job. Weekends she sleeps all through while I clean the house. I also do all the cooking. She doesn’t cook.

I am a light sleeper so I get up at any slight movement. This lady gets up between 3 to 4 times every night to use the restroom thus keeping me awake all through the night. This really has a toll on me. During the day she goes to the restroom between 14 to 16 times. She doesn’t contribute to buy foodstuff but she eats 4 times a day

What have I gotten myself into. Please how do I politely ask her to leave without hurting her feelings and savaging the relationship I use to have with her. I am tired, depressed and jobless!

Many forget that the words of God are light ( they dispel darkness).
It was by reading the book of Isaiah that a woman who was into idolatry came to Christ Jesus.

Many forget that the words of God are medicine.
It was through it a woman who was with a low I.Q had an elevated I.Q.

These people mentioned above stayed with the word for a protracted time, and came out strong.

If you could spend half the time you do with the psychiatrist on the word consistently, you would come out with a testimony.

But rather, you get yourself drugged down with capsules that made your mind more foggy ; made you more sleepy and obese.
And in a worst case scenario, put more devils in.

If you are having issues with having a sound mind for normal decision making, why don't you grab Proverbs, and feed on it for 30 days, morning and night.
Or grab the book of Psalms, or Ecclesiastes or Ephesians or Colossians, and feed on it for 30 days.
And see if that disorder that is making you act like a human being without no good judgmental skills won't clear off.

Because it is written, receive with meekness the engrafted word which is able to save your souls.

When you think the words of God are beneath you, that it can't help you out, you are proud not meek.
Look in the scriptures for the words of God that addresses the situations you need attended to.
And you will come out with a testimony.

And look, it is without money.
Just your time and heart.
Amen.

The book of James 1 : 21.

Job, the wealthiest man in his environ before the calamity ; lost all for the sake of a test, to see if he would let go his right attitude.

Consider this man Job who lost ;
1. His children in a day
2. His wealth and source of it, in a day OR
3. His health to painful wounds from the crown to his feet's sole

Consider this man, despite all that he went through, he did not throw himself into an ocean ; he didn't take poison to end his life ; he didn't hang himself ; he didn't fall on a spear.

You didn't have it tough as Job, yet SUICIDE wasn't an option.
But you Christian, for a boy friend or girl friend breaking your heart, you write a cowardly note of love to whoever cares, and end your life.
For failure, you hang yourself, and blame it on mental illnesses.
For whatever , you go on a rampage and shoot people dead.

See, Christians tell yourselves the truth,and tell your brethren the truth.

It is because truth is no longer told as it should that's why there are casualties, left, right , and centre.

Whatever tough situation you are in, use that opportunity to run and stick to the Lord.
Think on that!

JOB.

Enos, which was the son of Seth, which was the son of Adam, which was the son of God.
Luke 3 : 38

Adam didn't come to be by sexual intercourse.
He came to be by the breath of the Highest.
And became a living soul, from whom all living soul came into existence.

Jesus, the son of God wasn't of sexual intercourse.
He was the direct product of the God's Spirit.

A man born out of sexual intercourse isn't in the program of God to give life to all.
Adam the father of all living dead, wasn't a product of sexual intercourse.
Neither is the one, who should give life to all who are dead be a product of sexual intercourse.
For He is the Last Adam, to give life to all dead men, who became dead through the First Adam.

I am speaking to the unbelieving ones; get this last Adam - Christ Jesus.
To be reborn.
And feed from this last Adam to keep on living.
For He gave a parable of Himself as a tree, and the ones who feed from Him, the branches.
And when a branch decides to get its source from anything else than the tree, it becomes dead.

Yes, I saw vision of a pale skinned lady reporting.
And in the background, a flood raging.

Heheheheheh.

Any one who knows the Lord experiences realities of Jesus being with them and in them.

Only people who don't know Him, go against the experiential knowledge of Christ, and then back it up with their misunderstood bits of the scripture.

People who say that Christ is not concerned about marriage.
People who are in favour of transgenderism.
And many other stupid things etc.

You talk too much.
And what you say don't even make sense.
Has any one told you that?

I know they have.

Kobojunkie:
Again, You have never in fact read John 8 vs 31 - 36 where Jesus Christ explains that the only way to be set free from bondage to sin, for those who are born-again is through serious self-discipline and self control coupled with submission and obedience of His teachings and commandments ? He said you can never become a Son of God otherwise meaning all those who are born-again yet fail to achieve that status are destined for am end in eternal damnation.

Why do you, in your blatant ignorance of God's Truth, beat your chest boldly as you like to deceive and delude your fellow men into what could be an end in eternal damnation? I never understand that of you religious folks.

I know you must talk. If your Jesus didn't come to free people of their addictions, to make Himself known in a personal way to people, to solve marital problems, to give clear cut directions prophetically, then your Jesus is a dead paper stamped one.

A paper talk talk, no reality.
That's tantamount to a graven image that can't manifest Himself.

So therefore, you are dead.
And you don't know Him.
Go and know Him.

Kobojunkie:
Again, You have never in fact read John 8 vs 31 - 36 where Jesus Christ explains that the only way to be set free from bondage to sin, for those who are born-again is through serious self-discipline and self control coupled with submission and obedience of His teachings and commandments ? He said you can never become a Son of God otherwise meaning all those who are born-again yet fail to achieve that status are destined for am end in eternal damnation.

Why do you, in your blatant ignorance of God's Truth, beat your chest boldly as you like to deceive and delude your fellow men into what could be an end in eternal damnation? I never understand that of you religious folks.

" Refuse to be bitter ; it will tarnish your image"

Your image is after Christ Jesus.
And bitterness will defile it.
Do not give room to bitterness.

Stay away from those who make you bitter.
Let go of whatever previous offence committed against you.
And having a problem with letting go of bitterness?
Go to the word of His grace - concerning the blood of the Christ shed, and use that testimony in prayers to pull down that stronghold of bitterness.


Because bitterness will hinder your prayers from being answered.
Bitterness will give room to demons to work in you.
Bitterness will defile you, and your garments.
Those who are clothed with white unstained garments gets to be with the Lord.

Hebrews 12 : 15
Revelation 3 : 4

Go and know the Lord joor. You don't know him. Stop making a fool of yourself for longer. You are empty.

Kobojunkie:
Again, You have never in fact read John 8 vs 31 - 36 where Jesus Christ explains that the only way to be set free from bondage to sin, for those who are born-again is through serious self-discipline and self control coupled with submission and obedience of His teachings and commandments ? He said you can never become a Son of God otherwise meaning all those who are born-again yet fail to achieve that status are destined for am end in eternal damnation.

Why do you, in your blatant ignorance of God's Truth, beat your chest boldly as you like to deceive and delude your fellow men into what could be an end in eternal damnation? I never understand that of you religious folks.

Abegiii. Go and know the Lord. You don't.
Empty barrel makes the most noise.
You don't know Him.
You spew trash.

Kobojunkie:
Again, You have never in fact read John 8 vs 31 - 36 where Jesus Christ explains that the only way to be set free from bondage to sin, for those who are born-again is through serious self-discipline and self control coupled with submission and obedience of His teachings and commandments ? He said you can never become a Son of God otherwise meaning all those who are born-again yet fail to achieve that status are destined for am end in eternal damnation.

Why do you, in your blatant ignorance of God's Truth, beat your chest boldly as you like to deceive and delude your fellow men into what could be an end in eternal damnation? I never understand that of you religious folks.

Go and know the Lord. You don't. You are dead.

Kobojunkie:
You have never in fact read John 8 vs 31 - 36 where Jesus Christ explains that the only way to be set free from bondage to sin, for those who are born-again is through serious self-discipline and self control coupled with submission and obedience of His teachings and commandments ? He said you can never become a Son of God otherwise meaning all those who are born-again yet fail to achieve that status are destined for am end in eternal damnation.

Why do you, in your blatant ignorance of God's Truth, beat your chest boldly as you like to deceive and delude your fellow men into what could be an end in eternal damnation? I never understand that of you religious folks.

Then if you are inside Jesus as you said, you would know that freedom from the bondage of sin is what He does. Na head knowledge you get. And even with your head knowledge, you are still not in accuracy. Go and know the Lord.

Kobojunkie:
I can see that your knowledge of Him is indeed born from the many lies you have fed from the mouths of your pastors and mogs and not from actually reading through the Gospels to know Truth from lies.

Again, Jesus Christ came to give those who are weary and Heavy laden and looking for a lighter yoke and Burden to exchange it for- Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30. A person who is mentally weak is not that kind of person neither is anyone who is not ready to let go of the world and his lustful pleasures..

Death is for those outside of Jesus Christ. Those inside of Jesus Christ risk eternal damnation, a fate worse than death.

God give you light, in Jesus name.

c0ckNballs:
jesus did not come! he abstained and never came why else you think no babies from him?? [size=18pt][/size] Do your research!! [size=8pt][/size] (feeling a bit offenssi)

Hahaha.

Your knowledge of Jesus and who He is is dark.

I guess I am not the only one telling you this.

This is death.

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to folks using the name of Jesus Christ abeg!

Jesus Christ did not come to save folks from masturbation. He came instead to redeem them from the curse of God on them from His Old Law of Moses.

2. Jesus Christ did not come to take the place of parents in teaching their kids self-control, nor did he come to take the place of a doctor and psychiatrist in the lives or the people.

Jesus came to save people from sins, and destroy the works of the devil in people's lives.

He came to help those who need help.
Those who are addicted to drugs and co, and needs help.
For He is the Christ, the saviour of men!

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ did not come to free people from lack of self control. Please stop painting him in terrible light abeg.

Read a story of an employee , who got fired for masturbating heavily.
Not once.
Caught via CCTV.

This man was unemployed for months.
Got one.
Masturbated heavily in the kitchen.

And you think you who masturbate is not in bondage.

You are self servicing yourself, spilling strength, embarrassing yourself and body ; and you think you are living large.

Do not be deceived.

You need to be freed if you are in to masturbation.
May you not masturbate in your office, thinking you have closed the door, till you realize you didn't, and all don see u.

Be delivered in Jesus Christ.

Read a story of an employee , who got fired for masturbating heavily.
Not once.
Caught via CCTV.

This man was unemployed for months.
Got one.
Masturbated heavily in the kitchen.

And you think you who masturbate is not in bondage.

You are self servicing yourself, spilling strength, embarrassing yourself and body ; and you think you are living large.

Do not be deceived.

You need to be freed if you are in to masturbation.
May you not masturbate in your office, thinking you have closed the door, till you realize you didn't, and all don see u.

Be delivered in Jesus Christ.

Read a story of an employee , who got fired for masturbating heavily.
Not once.
Caught via CCTV.

This man was unemployed for months.
Got one.
Masturbated heavily in the kitchen.

And you think you who masturbate is not in bondage.

You are self servicing yourself, spilling strength, embarrassing yourself and body ; and you think you are living large.

Do not be deceived.

You need to be freed if you are in to masturbation.
May you not masturbate in your office, thinking you have closed the door, till you realize you didn't, and all don see u.

Be delivered in Jesus Christ.

And also the overall final aftermath of the presidential race, I have said in the political forum of Nairaland. It is all there.
Notice, I said , overall final aftermath.

waice6571:
This is a public forum and I wouldn't want to get involved in political permutations that may not add any good thing to us as nation.

In 2015, I was shouting and behaving like I am related to Goodluck Jonathan or like I have something to benefit directly from his government. I was praying every night and fasting and also talking to people not to vote for Buhari but the response I got from my people is "we will vote for him (Buhari) and if he didn't do well we will pray to God to remove him". My only reason for doing that is my revelations that I had about the outcome of voting for Buhari which is clearly evident now.

God told me clearly that, 2015 election was a triumph of darkness in Nigeria and Nigerians have decided their fate.

2019, though against my personal opinion, I campaigned for Atiku with the hope that.... maybe the evil can be averted midway but lo and behold.... It is very easy to give a Baboon a glass of water but almost impossible to retrieve your glass from him.

2023, I am wiser than years past and I will never come out openly to support any politician again because, nothing good will happen except the people stand in the gap for the land.

I believe very soon God almighty will raise people like Daniel and Nehinmaih for the land. I strongly believe that people like Gideon will arise... Men of Issachar with the unusual understanding of times and seasons will arise for Nigeria.

This is a time to pray unto God for the land like never before... Not a time for claiming spiritual superiority over other people's faith. My spirit is crying 😭....

May God help us all.

Ok. It is well. In 2019, when I saw that people were expecting Atiku to show up in a public place, and he didn't. That's when I knew he wasn't going to be the president.

waice6571:
This is a public forum and I wouldn't want to get involved in political permutations that may not add any good thing to us as nation.

In 2015, I was shouting and behaving like I am related to Goodluck Jonathan or like I have something to benefit directly from his government. I was praying every night and fasting and also talking to people not to vote for Buhari but the response I got from my people is "we will vote for him (Buhari) and if he didn't do well we will pray to God to remove him". My only reason for doing that is my revelations that I had about the outcome of voting for Buhari which is clearly evident now.

God told me clearly that, 2015 election was a triumph of darkness in Nigeria and Nigerians have decided their fate.

2019, though against my personal opinion, I campaigned for Atiku with the hope that.... maybe the evil can be averted midway but lo and behold.... It is very easy to give a Baboon a glass of water but almost impossible to retrieve your glass from him.

2023, I am wiser than years past and I will never come out openly to support any politician again because, nothing good will happen except the people stand in the gap for the land.

I believe very soon God almighty will raise people like Daniel and Nehinmaih for the land. I strongly believe that people like Gideon will arise... Men of Issachar with the unusual understanding of times and seasons will arise for Nigeria.

This is a time to pray unto God for the land like never before... Not a time for claiming spiritual superiority over other people's faith. My spirit is crying 😭....

May God help us all.

You are welcome sir

Babashifawu:
Thank you @Blue86 🙏

Despite what anyone or anybody says about your revelation, it is legit. Who was that person you saw, that if he entered, Naija' situation go be hell?

Let me see if it tallies with what I have.

Since you can attest to the fact that your life showed no improvement with them fair skinned ones, why don't you heed the counsel and avoid anything intimate with them?
Shun sexual immorality, and be serious with a black skinned gal.
A dark skinned gal with pink lips or a dark skinned gal with dark lips.

Babashifawu:
Thank you for your contribution @Toneypen247. Honestly, things have been somehow o. I have actually been dating fair ladies all these years 0 and things are looking more like a journey of 1 month is now taking 1 year to achieve. That’s part of the reason i even went for prayers sef.

If you are a hoe, and you are reading this.
Please forsake that lifestyle and follow Jesus.
Let Him, who is the Christ, carve out a future for you.

For He has plans for you.
Good plans , and a bright future.
Only if, you forsake all that trash, and follow Him!!

I will never leave you, nor forsake you, can be seen in Psalms 37 : 32 - 33.

In there, it says the wicked watches the righteous.
Do you know the kingdom of Satan ( from the spiritual world) knows those who are phony?
Do you know they know the false preacher preaching for gain, and for their ideologies?
Do you know they know the ones that are against their policies?

The ones that are against the kingdom of Satan in deeds, them they seek to slay.

But, Christ Jesus will not leave that righteous one in their power.
~ I will never leave you ~

Nor will Christ condemn that righteous one when judged by the enemy.
~ I will not forsake you ~

The phony Christian, the carnal Christian, the one called woke, those the devil and his agents use to perpetrate and further their policies.
Those ones can be discarded at will by the devil.
Unless they repent.
1 John 5 : 18

Follow the Lord I say.
Walk with the Lord.

Wisdom Feed

Be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage means if you got stuck in an entanglement, it is because you let it.

I saw the full comprehensive story of a man who got murdered by his romantic girl friend.
And from the onset of their relationship, she had been physically abusive.
And the guy, still foolishly hung on to her, till his life finally got snuffed out.

The Bible is given to us to be wise.
Tell me where did you see in the scriptures that Sarah got mad with Abraham, and threw a flagon of water at him?
Where did you see that Adam and Eve had an argument, and Eve took a huge rock, and hurled it at Adam?
Where did you Bathseba, took a huge piece of metal, and flung it at David, because of a disagreement?

Now, if you couldn't find it in their lives, why do you hold on to people who showed physical aggression towards you?

Where is the wisdom of the Bible in that?

That was how I warned a woman to not in any way co - habit with the man she was with, till she saw hell, and got her leg fractured as a result.
It was then, her eyes opened.


What is with this trend of co- habiting with a male you are not married to, but romantically involved with?

Don't you know that sex outside the marriage contract is sin?
And that marriage is a legal pact?
Which is honourable, and the bed undefiled.
But fornicators and adulterers will be judged by God.

Keep yourselves wise.
Keep yourselves pure.

Galatians 5 : 1
Hebrews 13 : 4
Galatians 5 : 19, 21

Wisdom Feed

Be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage means if you got stuck in an entanglement, it is because you let it.

I saw the full comprehensive story of a man who got murdered by his romantic girl friend.
And from the onset of their relationship, she had been physically abusive.
And the guy, still foolishly hung on to her, till his life finally got snuffed out.

The Bible is given to us to be wise.
Tell me where did you see in the scriptures that Sarah got mad with Abraham, and threw a flagon of water at him?
Where did you see that Adam and Eve had an argument, and Eve took a huge rock, and hurled it at Adam?
Where did you Bathseba, took a huge piece of metal, and flung it at David, because of a disagreement?

Now, if you couldn't find it in their lives, why do you hold on to people who showed physical aggression towards you?

Where is the wisdom of the Bible in that?

That was how I warned a woman to not in any way co - habit with the man she was with, till she saw hell, and got her leg fractured as a result.
It was then, her eyes opened.


What is with this trend of co- habiting with a male you are not married to, but romantically involved with?

Don't you know that sex outside the marriage contract is sin?
And that marriage is a legal pact?
Which is honourable, and the bed undefiled.
But fornicators and adulterers will be judged by God.

Keep yourselves wise.
Keep yourselves pure.

Galatians 5 : 1
Hebrews 13 : 4
Galatians 5 : 19, 21

Go back to the drawing board.

Fornicators and adulterers shall be judged by God.

Take the lead by setting things straight, and mandating her to follow suite.

Why destroy your marriage by western ideologies from the kingdom of darkness.

The peace I say , it must have given thee, is the right of access to more than a wife.

And that itself is no peace.

And I hope you people didn't tender your PVC for the 3k and mandatory attendance?

What I have learnt.

Scamming, manipulating, deceit, emotional oppression, simping, a life without living for Christ, never, ever pays.

This little time you have left, prioritize the love of Christ Jesus.