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Lol hoes aint shit.... a trial split was all it took but whata my own dunno what the husband's doing at the moment

Lol in this era theres hardly anything like two of us.. its all a game of self gratification

moscow406:
My question is, how sure are you that there are just two?
You don't know anything

Madam I can cancel it if it irritates my mind or aches my stomach and did he make any sense in trying to justify infidelity from the psychological angle.. bullshii from beginning to the end..its people like them that will say nothing is right or wrong in life but will be ready to invoke the traditional gods if someone steals the phone they aare managing

Riele:
It's not like i'm poking my nose in your word cancelling occupation .

Just that you quoted a comment that i was mentioned in .

Here's my point , you shouldn't cancel people's opinion just because you don't agree with them .

Rubbish[s][/s][quote author=IAmStrange post=85104299]OK, realistically speaking, I think your idea is somewhat faulty.

"If you like someone enough, there'll be no room for number two" is somewhat faulty

We are humans, we have heart and the heart has feelings. The heart has been fashioned in such a way that it reacts to whatever it is exposed to depending on what it feels about that thing. The heart has no control, when it is exposed to something, naturally, it reacts.

That's one of the reasons why we were created with a brain. The brain/mind due its power to distinguish what's right from wrong or what's good or bad, is the one that we then use to control, tame and discipline our heart desires.

So what you said is somewhat faulty because the fact that she loves you doesn't mean she can't love somebody else. She has a heart and if that heart sees in another person what it desires, it will definitely be drawn to that person. it is now left for the owner of that heart to control the heart desires and discipline it from going overboard or to extreme.

So basically what I'm saying is your girlfriend can have feelings for you and still have for someone else. It's now left to her to decide with her mind which one of you she wants and then use her mind to control the heart to stick to her choice and not look elsewhere.

So you giving up on her should depend on how far she went with the other guy to discover if she seems to have made her choice between you two or maybe, she has even chosen to have you two (you know that levels now ).

So what really transpired between them during their "meeting"? Did the guy just ask her out and that was it? Did they just talk? Or they have taken it to the level of which she took it with you of which gives you the impressions that she wants something serious (relationship) with the other guy?

If it's just that they met and talked or the guy just asked her out? That's something that's almost inevitable so that shouldn't be enough reason to break up

But if they have taken it serious, I'm not going to advise you on what to do... But if I were you, I'll run...

I personally cannot stand someone I love sharing her love, affection and commitment between me and some other guy. I'll just leave in peace.

Well, that's me. perhaps I'm wrong. maybe if I had experience of relationships, maybe i would know better to know that's wrong.

But as I am now, that would be my choice.

All the same, I advise you to use your sense and open your eyes. I repeat use your sense on your judgement

Meanwhile I don't want to see that Riele girl on this page If you come across this thread, just skip. Go and wash plates for your mummy.

If I see you here, na serious spanking [/[s][/s]quote]

pity these women at ur own peril..using a mans pocket to judge criteria for relationship... those days i used to interfere when fellow niggas are beating their babes were long time.. quote author=CHoccolaTE post=85118151]

Likewise millionaires can become richer every day. Have you taken a closer look at the Nigerian economy? Do you know how hard it is for people to break out of poverty through legit means?
Yet you want women to stay with poor men that will control them and boss them around.

If I ask you to choose between a broke woman and a financially independent woman I am sure we both know what your answer will be.[/quote]

Well the woman is more stupid and the guy wiser..how can she be giving him 70% of her income. .which stupid love is that when shes not planning for herself with what she has..she asked for her own doom. . Damn bitchhes on nairaland be looking for stupid excuses to justify shiit..I was once broke and there was no way I could ever accept a dime from my girlfriend ..no matter how broke anyone can be..it should be not been able to provide for their partner but themselves only

victorian:
As in ehn?

The lady has been the one taking care of her husband, hoping one day he will land a job. But job is not forthcoming . So she was like OK, my husband this is what I made today, assuming it's 100k, take 70k while I keep 30k.
That's how she's been running the home.
No-one suspected she's the one taking care of the home. And do u know the guy was always sleeping, she will. Leave him at-home, go hustle, she will come back at night still see him at the position she left him on the bed chatting. He will then say he's hungry o.

Most times she complains, she takes the kids to day care, come home tired and he will expect her to cook. She will still cook. But lo and behold ,he has other plans. He's gone.

Later men will say women don't hustle, women are lazy!

Really?

Anyways such men dont suceed in life, no matter where they run away to and no. Matter how much they steal from their trusting partner.

Marry a broke jobless man at your own peril!

Sigh. I really need matured people like this around me

IAmStrange:
Hmmm!

I've always been an advocate of this method...

Work hard until you are financially capable to cater for a family. Build your character until you become a personage that can qualify as a potential good husband, father and in law...

And then look for a good woman... try all possible means to know her and everything you need to know about her to decide if she's right for you... Engage her and marry her!

All these love, dating, boyfriend and girlfriend issues, most times, are "robbing" tactics...

And it falls on both sides...

many times, the females do it to "rob" the males of their money...

while on the other hand, the males do it to "rob" the female of their vagina.

Na the two genders dey suffer that "scam" they call relationship.

Well, as for the first issue, I don't know how the spending process goes.. is she the one that asks or you are the one that's just too generous and you give her without her asking or because you think she needs it and will likely ask?

If You are the one that's just too generous, then you limit your generosity. That will not only help you save more but will also be giving her message that she should adjust her expectations from you.

If she's the one that asks, Oga, limit what you give her and reject some of her requests.

It's during trying or difficult times that we know true friends. It may be when you start limiting your spending on her that you will know if she truly loves you or not.

As for the second issue... What your girlfriend did is a sign of what may happen or might have happened if the matter becomes more complicated than that.

Someone who easily gives in to seeking attention elsewhere when the two of you are not talking? That's dangerous.

I'm not saying that it will happen for sure but it's dangerous.

Have you not heard stories of women who had misunderstanding with their spouses and then they sought solace in another man until that other man capitalised on her emotional state and slept with her?

There were even cases where it did not happen once. The first time it happened, the woman began to enjoy the "company" of that other man and they ended up having sex several or many more times.

And in a marriage, misunderstandings will most likely happen every now and then. It's not something that can easily be avoided. So if it happens at a time when there's another man in the picture, only God knows where it'll eventually end.

It doesn't certainly define her but your girlfriend seems to have such weakness.

Therefore, I'm asking you now - not to just break up with her - but to use your sense and open your eyes very well. Try as much as possible to study her and ask wise people for advise concerning her so you will not have problems in your marriage.

By the way, Imes is coming

Even 2pac 5 bullets were from diverse areas hips and close to the head but thia woman own ehn? Chai??

Nemesis0147:
2pac sister ;D2pac sister

I weak o

Ilovebigboobs:
Congrats...buh she's ugly

Damn!!!

Its simply because selling gala and drinks in sw traffic is more lucrative than owning a shop at thier side ..even babies would know

Simplyleo:
They are attacking their leaders both within and outside so they can do their job. But why do they prefer being in sw and north instead home where they have forced their leaders to work?

Im talking with a sense of business..power..vengeance and most of all survival. .. oh ok let me go business way alone. ..she lost her fitness to be in the company the moment she turned an applicant out because HES AN EX AND IN THE NAME OF VENGANNCE. . She lost credibility by that action or should he still let her stay becuase of her input? Capish?

openmine:
Its none of the guy's business whether she gets a better offer in the future and decides to leave the company!
Whether she leaves or stays has zero effect esp as the owner of the company as long as her overall inputs are yielding the required dividends for the company!
There is absolutely nothing gained from retribution...remember that!

Ur advice is justlike rearing a baby snake because it's a baby..when the gets a better offer in future than the one u gave her regardless of the amount of harmful intent she had on u..u will never forget that smirk and arrogance on her face when shes ready to leave

openmine:
i would rather leave her in that position....That's the matured thing to do!
No time for retribution!
Let her guilt make her humble!
Next time,she won't look down on any one!

Having her sacked isnt evil.u will only be sacking her for professional misconduct. .she rejected an applicant because hes an ex even if he may contribute more to the corporate growth..


Then u go in and drink a bottle of krest in private. ..he who laughs last laughs best..u arent evil but just enjoying ur naturally deserved entitlement from God. #neverwasteit

Kingosytex:


I will pay her in her own coins. You see dear, in life some times you have to pay back evil with evil.

even the Bible says "the measure you give is the measure you take"

Because of one million .. may the devil never catch to me in my life

U seriously have time to argur an ignorant person

powerhouse3:
I stated my mind ,but here you are calling me gullible,when ambode evict that priest from government quarter ,I believe its was because of his maid?

Ranting off point and with misquotations. .u obviously know nothing about real power moddafucker.u think power is all about attending meetings and giving orders?? U still have a long way to go

Xisnin:
You are one gullible fellow and misogynistic.
The wife does not attend state meetings nor council.
Neither is she a member of the governing board.
Yet, this Dada wants us to believe that she is in charge as if he shares the same bedroom with them.

Why not advise all public office holders to divorce their wives so they can be successful?

This is calamity. This is just when entrepreneurship would be appreciated

pocohantas:
SUFFERHEAD marketer. Get very comfortable shoes and socks, you will need it.

You are a variant of contract staff. Salary range between N(20,000-50,000). Maybe some banks pay more. Hardly ever seen one/any.

-Your job function is retail marketing, drive savings deposits and e-banking channels. I doubt DSAs do risk assets, though they can ask you to bring any you see, for the sake of the branch paying you salary.

-You will have number of accounts target. Daily/weekly/monthly. You will also have deposit targets. Something like, 3accts a day, 15/week, 60/month. 5-10m deposit a month. You mustn't do all, 50% and above can keep you afloat.

- You might be lucky to get someone that will give you huge deposits which would make you earn big in commissions. If not, you have to start from the scratch to mobilize deposits. You go waka ehn, all the market people go know you.

- You get your pay (and commissions), leave allowance, pension, christmas rice/groundnut oil. Not so sure of their package, but nothing special.

- You'll be restricted on types of accts to open. Leave some for the bigger people (core staff).

- You will grow to be a very angry somebody when you see the bank employing core staff that are your mates and some your junior. You can't escape this feeling of anger o.

- You will start showing your anger, nagging over the poor treatment and sometimes acts of rebellion/insubordination.

- Maybe you will be an extraordinary DSA and your bank will try to convert you. It is not because they like you too much, paying you as a core staff is cheaper than your commission at that point.


I understand the country is hard, but if I have to be a banker- core staff or nothing. Know what you are getting into. E hard o.

Have a nice day.

Jobless shi miscreanting online always.go get a proper occupied life offline. Always knew u arent worth answering

Bigcowhorn:
You must be a nuisance first then I e-murder you next. You should know that by now abi I never free you since you shut up?

No let me vex for you oooo!

Shut up idiota whats ur own in carrying burden for the writer or are u are gateman? Oh I forgot. Shes one of ur demented goons

Bigcowhorn:
Are you OK? Why make this comment to the owner of the thread?

U just can't help being a nuisance to everyone

Bigcowhorn:
Lol, I made that comment this morning to Ilamina trying to bring her trouble-hole of a thread alive again after many weeks. You should have quoted the comment in full instead of the part you liked. Nice trick, I owe you now

You can use all your monikers to come and beat me if you don't like it.


BlueAir come and carry your wife ooo. This new moniker has made her rather disrespectful.

Indeed love is in the eye of the beholdef ..he waged war cos this wor wor sexworker cheated on him. ..I dont care how beautiful a woman is but theres a limit I can stoop low

Bullshii.where did u learn that most men love tattos but havent gone for it cos its costly? Anyway anything to justify ur shiit

vikkimimi:
piercings does not mean a girl is loose or an OLOSHO as you call it, it's all about taste and fashion, and other times out of curiosity....same way most guys love to have tattoos, but tattoos seem costlier than having multiple piercings that's why most guys haven't gone for it.

A girl can have multiple piercings and still be more ethical than a girl without one.

Hes always frustrated and ready to be frustrated. .not to mention mentally retarded

OgaBuhari:
dude is just jobless.
too bad despite all his efforts those girls still wouldn't grant him what he needs.
Las Las na frustration go end his case.

Lol I thought I was tge only one who notices his ass licking for women by attacking comments with hopes od achieving cheap favor..unfortunately for him im making progress offline than hes expecting me to pay him attention ..he just wouldn't believe hes just entertainment for me qhen im bored.u shouldn't take his foolish drama serious

OgaBuhari:
asslicker despite all these asslicking just to please her with ulterior intentions, she Still won't give in to your advances. Ordinary face u no go see. Las Las u will join the misogynist on nairaland and also exclaimed how naija girls are useless hoes.
Nonsense

It means shes growing old lonely without him .. and he should just divorce his wife for her to live at the fullest

Who read this trash

OgaBuhari:

The day magu said yahoo boys are fit foreemployment is the day I affirmed magu is sick upstairs..they should oust the bastard out and replace him with someone more professional. .fuvcker

Its dangerous to let Nigerians know u are wealthy and influential. Look at how much expectant beggars there are on nairaland both male and female alik..crooning money or visa..saying will they eat inspiration. ..I indeed believe it that Nigeria is a dying and failed state

These people will always try to justify their madness. I know them

Yeye dey smell. .she should be in jail fot a while if it's a hoax ...what happened to her going to jail for a long time?

People like this will always be quick to blame government for poor socio national development without looking at themselves

TooNoisy:
This is surely a police case and someone has to go to jail for this. Witnesses have come out to support the story, so the accused should be immediately arrested. The case should go to court and someone needs to go to jail.

If he is found guilty, then he should be in jail for a very long time and if this happens to be a hoax, she should be in jail for a while.

Nice place.would be nice to take a beautiful dream woman to..but no way im wasting my money and time in taking these fake ass gold diggers around me tossuch a place