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My friend shutbur tired mouth and carry ur diary to america.u no know the difference between naija and us

MelaninSkinGirl:
Married men and mortality
A major survey of 127,545 American adults found that married men are healthier than men who were never married or whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood. Men who have marital partners also live longer than men without spouses; men who marry after age 25 get more protection than those who tie the knot at a younger age, and the longer a man stays married, the greater his survival advantage over his unmarried peers. But is marriage itself responsible for better health and longer life?

Although it's hard to be sure, marriage seems to deserve at least part of the credit. Some have argued that self-selection would skew the results if healthy men are more likely to marry than men with health problems. But research shows the reverse is true: unhealthy men actually marry earlier, are less likely to divorce, and are more likely to remarry following divorce or bereavement than healthy men.

Another potential factor is loneliness; is the institution of marriage linked to better health, or is it simply a question of living with another person? Although studies vary, the answer seems to be a little of both. People living with unmarried partners tend to fare better than those living alone, but men living with their wives have the best health of all.

Numerous studies conducted over the past 150 years suggest that marriage is good for health. More recently, scientists have begun to understand why married men enjoy better health than their single, divorced, and widowed peers. But before we turn to the why, let's look at how marriage affects specific diseases, including America's leading killers, cardiovascular disease and cancer.

https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health

Sure u got a point on that..but some points from that woman can't be judged by that man Sha.

olumzzz:
Exactly what I'm saying. What gives you 100% assurance that she is saying the truth?
We really need to learn to calm down.

Guy ,the man has nothing to defend even if he appears,what kind of responsible or sensible man will allow his wife bear so much fuuucking damn bills and still won't respect her in everywhere or at least act considerate during their quarrel times? Where's the self respect on the man side?? He's just a lazy over indulged egoistic crook..if she decides not to bear those bills,the societal joke is on him..look at all the worthless advice by most ladies on this forum and compare this selfless jewel wife to the kind of women on this forum? Can u say she doesn't deserve praise? What vex me most is the petrol part for car and gen,,I buy petrol alot for my gen and I know how much money it's consumes.talkless of other bills the woman I bearing

olumzzz:
People like you are the problem of this awa kontiri.
How can you pass judgement based on only one side's story.
You should encourage them to go to a forum where both parties can be heard like Pastor or Professional counseling.
Not assuming all one party says is the whole truth.

maybe she's underage sha.u can't know on a faceless forum

midehill:
Can u jes imagine ha statement. I wanted to lambast ha but had to control myself

U get time to answer people like them are easy to come across,they get frustrated and desperate in middle 30s as a single woman,even eye younger men who comes across them

midehill:
Lady mind ur speech...not all men are the same

Including ur father right? Anyway,it's obvious you don't have a marriage with 4 kids and staying with a man u once loved so it's easy for u to give time bomb advices.. classic reason and example why women shouldnt involve their friends In their marriage matters

kestolove95:
Divorce d modafucka nd move on with ur life, get a young guy as a sec toy...no time men are stupeed

The only sensible contribution from a woman on this thread.the others are just rubbin the sore and walk away without sensible solution.she has really made herself manipulated by the egoistic, irresponsible and loyal wife abusing man.she needs to start creating air for herself to breath as well as run the family alongside him..it's time he needs to start taking care of the house 60 bloody damn 40.. I hate incapable men.. the moment she mentioned she was the one fueling gen and car,,I adjudged him OLORIBURUKU ,so he comes back daily to watch TV comfortably or drive the car?? After going out to work and live the easy life .the lady really took her sluggishness for opening leg to produce 4 kids too.a real prove of her own error.if u want to have 4 kids for a man,it's not that kinda man .that man is really taking advantage of her and taking taking her for daily cruises

veave:
Hian.

Wetin I go talk go pain you o. But na the truth I go tell you. Madam, right now I can't tell you to start with 50% so I will say 20%.

Thank God there is covid and I pray your job doesn't get affected. As soon as you resume, the second day you get to work tell him there has been a 40% reduction from your salary due to low inflow of cash. You need to save at least 20% of your salary. This money no Matter if the roof is falling down you're not to touch it. Na your back up money be that. The other 20% is for your upkeep. You and your kids should survive on the remaining 50% because you'd definitely pay tithe. It's because he knows you always have a back up plan that is why he is relaxed and allowing you foot all the bills.
No this kain thing make me say I no go marry "brother" when I dey small. Most of them are lazy and are dreamers. They expect manner to fall from heaven after their praying and fasting forgetting Paul had a handiwork that sustained him all through his life hence he didn't have to beg and depend on anyone. I no dey like this kind jist. He's not even appreciative of his supportive wife. I know women who use all their money to buy shoes, clothes and the latest asoebi, their husbands dare not say pim because they'd even take his own and join.

Youre seriously answering the jobless idiot

Bola146:
Ondo men, come and here what one of you did
Not all Ondo men are bad, yes

This man should not turn stupid ooo people who should run to hospital should not run to church and infect numerous at a stand

Now that it and reached 5k qnd going to the 6k u requested by mouth,I hope your life is now better.idiott of the year

Shezkid01:
Yet to be and won’t be
You’re just a stupid man.. with 3,912 active cases
Go and fight with Ncdc bcuz I said what I see
More than 6k active cases in the north alone

I mumu but I see I no mumu reach u.go back and read again.polytechnic graduate

Shezkid01:
Seems like you’re mad.. forgiveness for people who doesn’t practice social distancing or what
This religion issue will not drain your brain
.. Mumu boy

No.its hunger and lack of comfort.. I've seen the centres online and there's nothing Isolating about them.. the hunger complains everywhere are nothing to write about.are u aware that a high income man came out protesting that his abroad artivee daughter was been starved at the isolation centre? Gov is just imprisoning those peeps and starving them

Tissaia:
Fear of the unknown

Which kind stupid sweet the nyash be?was she crowned miss sweetest nyash? The moment I see some stories or request for advice on nairaland,I always know the kind of embarrassing men they are before I finish reading their story. The woman is just manipulating and toying with him like he's a toy.and this guy will claim gentle in nature instead of mumu in nature

idonhammer:
Pardon him,the babe yansh too sweet.

No offence but truthfully,YOU ARE STUPPPPPPPPPPIIIDDDDDDD. you caught her red handed and u let her use reverse psychology to get herself out of ur grabso after she refused to swear by the Bible,u still were blind and went ahead to propose.


This guy gat any brain at all??!!!

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

If ull not like to be one of the 5000, just pray silently to God for deliverance or forgiveness.so negative and pessimistic a thought


Anyway theres nothing those ones want to do that they cant do by phone or by paga

Shezkid01:
NCDC will record more than
5,000 cases in the next 2weeks

I know ure just consoling yourself aggressively

NextD18:
Just imagine! Even with the high rate of Coronavirus cases in their state.

Truth is; Lagos is arguably the state with the most insane, ignorant and careless people in the world. When it comes to civility, comportment and courteousness, 90% of Lagosians cannot cope in sane and calm cities like Abuja, PH, Owerri, Asaba and some Northern cities.

Very anyhow set of rascal people quick to form porsh hiding under the slogan "I dey Lag".

Smh! To an extent, people living in Onitsha and Aba are way more civilized, careful and comported than them when it comes to security and health.

I used to be told people grow wiser as they grow in age



.but now i know, experience is the best mentor

Women generally vs half brain

Madness

Good question for urself.the author merely chose an answer that is humorous and comprehendible for the children and u and ur low self esteemed peeps are ranting for nothing

oldtruth:
What is head used for? Tell us. Is it to nod ball alone? Or what is wrong with this people?

If u think it's comprehendible to teach the about brain in that level,what's hard about teaching them about skull? Oga u gat nothing to defend,u think u are posh or civilized by what u are trying to defend? Then be ready to defend that you don't wipe ur butt after using the toilet

femi4:
you want to teach them "skull" at that level (pry 1&2 ). Think!

Lol all for d gram. Brain drained naija peeps too go dey shake to go.not knowing to work there no be beans

I swear so op cannot see she wants to use him for self gratification? U guys can't last.ive seen this stories many times