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What do u think u know about inter racial marriages ? Clearly u haven't gone outside the Nigerian border except through ur tv. I've dated a German and an American randomly and those two would go any length to please a man. They aren't as self centered as some people before doing chores

BloomingDale:
You guys do most of the housework, cooking, laundry etc when married to white women. Stop the double standards. African women are not your mules.

Obviously desperation to be noticed and mentioned would make u say anything ni matter how irrelevant. Is seun paying people for comments now

BloomingDale:
Husbands should also take care of the cooking, laundry, looking after the kids, house work etc so there won’t be need for maids. You can’t expect your wife to carry all that burden.

She don dey testify between when and when? When she hasn't been formally acknowledged by world record itself and there's a Kenya on her back already with another indian itching to reclaim the record again. Aunty better be calming down

Which particular recorder can I download from playstore that will send all voice recording to email?

yrhuhfy113:
It is simple.... VISIT HER.... add your finger print to her fingerprint unlock list.... OR get her phone and download a recorder.... there are several on playstore and appstore...

but carefully look for the one that SENDS THE VOICE RECORDINGS to EMAIL automatically.... then install it.... and use a DUMMY EMAIL that doesn't bear your name... so she won't code it is you.

That's all, every day check that email and you will hear the calls she made.


Another way is to ha3k her entire phone so you get EVERY THING, call logs, email, bank alert, sms, whatsapp, instagram, new passwords, screenshots and you can even activate her location anytime to monitor her, you can also activate her camera anytime.... IT IS TOTALLY REMOTE

How do I get voice records of phone calls.im going through hell right now

yrhuhfy113:
WOW....

Your wife is not under a spell, and you did NOTHING wrong.

what is happening is called LIFE. People's mind change when they see a better life or better people.... what is popularly known as THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE effect.

sadly they do not know that THE GRASS IS ONLY ACTUALLY GREENER WHERE IT IS WATERED. Your wife doesn't want to SUFFER with you anymore, she is wishing she was always in lagos so that she could have married someone better.... This is common when people migrate from sub-urban areas to metropolitan cities like lagos. kindly understand that its NORMAL... it is HUMAN NATURE.

I know it hurts and its not easy BUT you need to handle this matter with wisdom. Can you send someone to check on your wife's activities to be sure she is not cheating or over religious and some randy prophet is not confusing her?

Now once you have established that NO MAN is entertaining your wife... then you need to find areas in lagos according to your budget. There are places in lagos where you can pay monthly rent of between 7-11k . And there are places in lagos as high as 230k monthly... so you need not worry yourself... you can relocate to lagos based on your budget... also you need to check yourself spiritually, what could be the cause of your downward turn in business... check and solve it.

NEXT, you need to skill up sir, your current business may tie you down in the east if you do not expand your abilities mentally. THERE IS A MAJOR OPPORTUNITY SIR IN THIS ISSUE, the good news about it is that, it gives you room to reinvent yourself and grow. So don't let your wife and her mother mess up your mind sir, detach and work on yourself.... if you can learn soft skills using a laptop, it will help. If you can change your appearance and style physically, it can also help, YOU NEED TO PACKAGE YOURSELF PROGRESSIVELY.

YOU WILL COME OUT OF THIS SITUATIONS FAR BETTER SIR, but for now, for the sake of the children, this is the little wisdom you need sir to save your home. PLS VISIT LAGOS OFTEN... it is a sacrifice you will have to pay.... TRY TO MONITOR YOUR WIFE.... you can do this by cloning her whatsapp and reading all her chats or spying on her phone, so that from the east you can read all her messages, chats, get voice record of her phone calls....IT IS NECESSARY... these days, you can not just let your spouse go without some form of tracking or remote accountability .... else they will lie to your face and hurt you, then you will feel bad. So I hope these few points will help you know where to start from and what to do

Lol this is where we'll see y'all show face. When it pinches you the most

Jennyclay:
What makes you believe that getting married to a virgin would guarantee you happiness and peace of mind

Even you, are you a virgin?? You this cheap randy man!! If truly she’s everything you wanted in a lady, you won’t even reason her past.

Oga you’re a randy man!! You just want to have your way than dump her later. We know your type!! Shior!!!

Guy if u proceed to force and marry that one u say is just busy,u go regret am. U see that ugly one that gives u vibes , if she's not wayward go for her,if she's wayward,cast her aside. All that she's busy excuse that you're singing to justify that one wey no get time for u is because u love her and love isn't enough right now because the matter on ground pass u. U have a child consider that one ,if the mama good,marry her else if u cast a good woman that lovesu, u call ugly and no vibes aside,karma go teach u o. I know wetin I dey talk and it would be too late for u because that one wey dey give u vibes now and u dey look down on,if u force to marry and make things work with that one wey no get ur time and things doesn't work out between u two which there's a high chance it won't,don't ask me how I know, that one u rejected today might accept u back tomorrow but will show u hell in the future. Use ur head this time,because that's what the situation requires. Reason the child the most. And keep it in mind a happy ruler of a town is better than a sad king of a kingdom

RealSolution001:
But because the one I love does not give me enough time, I can't totally use that to say she doesn't love me. She has a shop which she has to open and stay till 8/9pm before she closes. After then, she needs get to her house and tidy one or two things and before she's done with all of that, it might be late for her to still come see me. Another is she might be tired and needs rest

Bia if that's u beside the venza,let me just paste my acct details jejely. Mouth can describe what I'm going thru right now jare

Kholiwe:
They are more sane than you and will live a better life than you as well.

Nothing like family,boss man. Enjoy them every seconds you're with them. I'm currently with family eating free food but each time I keep missing my babe food wey no dey get enuf oil. I tease her alot about it. God I miss that stubborn arrogant and caring woman so much

Obavoh:
Don’t mind the teddy bear. My second son is attached to him. We have already adopted him as part of the family

How so

damosade:
Na 500k I used for my wedding.

Carry mouth. There's a dog guarding my new compound and I can't dare go out to buy recharge card.

post=122976104:
DOGS : A MAN'S BEST FRIEND.

Awwwwww
Awwwwww
Isn't She just too cute?

If puppies could talk, we would never even try to make human friends!!


A dog will be your best friend no matter what.
Even if your human friends aren’t.
You may have many best friends but your dog only has one.



We see people that eat dogs and rabbits as cannibals.
No Cap!
How can people eat something so cute?

#NotAllAnimalsAreForConsumption.

Some of us @ were there LIVE and DIRECT.

It was fun galore.
All manner of cute, brilliant and beautiful dogs.

Dogs : A man's best friend.


We love Dogs

wahala for who never taste real wealth. Smh poverty mentality

yrhuhfy113:
wealth can cheat karma.

Which account? My opay or gtb or mintyn account or sportybet acct

Ode ti soro.

Na ur type wey fit renounce birthright for porridge

Zonefree:
God bless the policewoman.


Please let us swallow our pride and accept that the future is female.

Smh. Go back to school

TUANKU:
You're really dumb and ignorant. This one thinks mental challenges must be madness.

It's u who needs to seat and even buckle up with ur misappropriation and misuse of English. What shows above he's mentally challenged,someone who willifully killed another? He knew what he was doing so how does mental challenge come in? He's damnn sane and he acted on frustration and anger not mental challenged. Don't u get angry or fruastrated? And by that can we say you're mentally challenged because u get angry and fraustrated? Nigerians and their emotional judgements

TUANKU:
Oga you need to have a seat. Emotionally tipsy is not a medical condition, am talking of mental health challenges you're talking of emotions, the man is clearly unhinged.

Mentally unstable or emotionally tipsy? Learn to use the write qualifications. It's necessary to be a good judge

TUANKU:
Sad.
There's a lot of mentally unstable people around us daily.
General health care services barely dey available not to talk of mental health institutions.

Story

DonroxyII:
Only For Power Men Every other Men Shall Fall !

Women aren't worth a tiny scratch of blood. History till today has always shown

JerySmalls:
Funny thing is the girl would get another guy and dump the guy that is now disfigured for life!

Na man dey do man!

Nice one. People have traded their dignity for pleasure and money.

sport betting prediction. I can't believe I'm counting this as a skill but sometimes I amaze myself with my predictions. I've predixted 1.50 odds for over 25 days no loss this month. My sport balance is currently 40k from the #10 I started with. Staked d 40k expecting 60k today


Does that count as a skill at all?

Pls which northern states can I easily find such women

EgwunsoDOTcom:
I can't believe all these fools above are condemning the guy for seeking greener pasture elsewhere.. Wicked people really dey this world

* OP.. If you have something left with you like 100k, you can just start a little business, trust me with prayers, you'll sure pass this phase of life. Flavour was deported if you know that, he even said in one of his songs. (Ups and Downs are part of life)

* If you're koboless, you can start with a security work or look for a teaching job, at least that's the easiest job to find now in Nigeria. From there, you can try out other bigger stuffs.

* Then, If you want to live a peaceful life free from competition and egocentric nonsense, just go to the North and settle in one village there, trust me, you will live longer and more healthier than your siblings in the South or anywhere else in the country.. [/b]Their women don't care if you have one pair of slippers, most of them don't even have sef [b].

But if you like Bugatti lifestyle (asin, you love to Buga), then stay in the South and start slave_hustling, then pray depression won't finish you off.. Because you will keep comparing others to yourself till you give up the ghost.

All is not lost bro.. At least you have a story to tell your kids.

Sure

correctguy101:
Depends.

But we can boldly say this: With the number of unstable blockheads out there, it's best they just abstain. Many folks don't know how to multitask..

They'll probably start hating on their spouses because of one unsure gig outside... SMH

Ironic enough. The only way to maintain peace with a woman and her bullssshit in the home is to seek distraction or comfort outside d home

Save urself and don't apply. I know him and I've worked with him. Unless u want him to shorten ur lifespan with slavery and toxicity

Babakolanut:
Bold steps sir,pls what is the progress report on the project now and where is the farm located? Update me on whatsapp +2349034612092

Toxicity and intolerance is already reeling and showing out of u even before u employ someone . Is this how you'll be talking and responding to criticism or convos when u hire anyone. I know who u are In person. Nobody should apply for this maadman job,he has other monikers for luring people into his trap. I've worked with him and I can tell u he's a devil incarnate who ministers in a church

GreenFarmsNG:
As usual and the negativity continues. Since you have the passwords to my account, give the exact figures of the thousands of correspondence received. Talkative. Don't go and face your life.

why take it so fast and personal like your second name is "children of hate" ?

Houstency:
We know this decision wasn't a reactionary one as opposed to that of your feeble minded president Nigeria has got, simply because his post was deleted. Also, Russia have got alternative for most of those companies, which one have your country produced and how supportive have your government been towards them?

Russian president uses Russian medicare, his kids if any, attend Russian school. That's how to gain control over foreign companies. Where does Buhari visit for medicare and which schools does his kids attend? How are they beneficial to Nigeria and do they pay taxes or have branches in Nigeria. Also since he has banned twitter, he should proudly join Nairaland and disseminate official government information on Nairaland just like American presidents proudly use and promote Twitter, Facebook and other American social media companies. Only hypocritical useless people would defend every nonsense from him.

see pain oo. Did the guy bring complains to ur doorstep? So desperate woman

Rokiat:
His self hating green card wanting asss would be best to answer that question.

Sometimes black men really be out here embarrassing themselves. How can you settled for a pale old wrinkled azz woman when there are so many beautiful black queens out there? Foolishness in high places.

If I marry today,I will get myself a gf Something I never imagined before because u naija women have made urself unbearable to live with and treat with dignity. Been treated right too much easily intoxicates you guys like alcohol and misbehave. No matter how much u rant,we will alwaybe be above u psychologically and let u think you're smart

obembet:
Nonsense, which gender cheat pass? So 90% of married men have girlfriend, and yet Thier wife never kill them or send them out. If you can't tolerate it, then don't do it.

Those are who I'm talking about

sacajawea:
We are talking if Immediate family ooh
Mother father, brother, sister

Deceit and betrayal. I sold off 80% of my assets just to get involved in a business deal with them only to realize that it never existed when one of them chose to snitch to me after she didn't get a fair cut. Now I'm financially back to square one. Looking for who to lend me 100k to buy a scooter to be able to be able to do my new job well and get back on my feet