God1000: I don't know what some women really want, if a man is too good, they will start to misbehave and torment him
Her toxic behavior isn't good for your mental health and sanity, talk to her and if she refuses to change, then stop talking to her, don't eat her food as well, a sensible woman would realize her mistakes and adjust, don't die in silence.
To be in the same house with a woman, and not eating her food.??
The aroma of the food will continue to torture my hungry tummy..
Na to just leave the house for her (if it is a rented house),, or make her leave the house (if I built it by myself).
ScotHarvath: Sex is another issue, I always have to beg for it and when I raised the issue in anger she said I can be going to get it from other girls.
I really don’t think most Nigerian girls deserve or want a cool headed man. They will show you shege.
Thinking back and seeing only the things I did I can only can myself a fool. Helping with the chores, helping with the kids, revealing everything about my finances to her, standing up to her family for once admonishing her, spending too much time with her and trying to make her my everything.
Friends have taught me a lot in this life which I why I chose to avoid friends and focus on my wife and family but this woman is making those same guys I abandoned for her call me a fool.
If there’s an altercation, she turns on off the TV and sound system so the neighbors can hear everything.
Is it wrong to be a good man and want your wife to be your best friend.
If this marriage finally fails, the next woman I will date will see another version of me
You're not a good man oga.. And you don't have another version.
If this marriage fails (it had failed already sef),, try and see if you can be on your own for many years,, and truly learn more about yourself and about women without actually falling in love with, or even dating any of them.
ScotHarvath: I have been noticing this things for the past couple of months. She even said recently in a fight that I disgust her and she hated me, I wanted to call for a separation after hearing such strong words but she pleaded and I acquiesced.
We have two kids.
Yesterday which was Father’s Day, she woke up at 10 o clock, before she did, I had slept the house and prepared breakfast because I felt she needed to rest.
I went out to with my friends around 6pm and came back around 10pm and asked her to help make toast for dinner and she boldly told me to go the kitchen and make it myself.
I really blame myself for this situation now, I made myself to accessible to all. I barely keep friends. So I made her my best friend, tell her everything about my finances and all. I treat her as an equal.
Is it wrong to treat a Nigerian woman well this days?
Everybody is advising me to get a side chick but I’m not that kind of man, I’m not sneaky or crafty enough to maintain two relationships.
I have been told to stop spending time with her at home but I’m an introvert, I don’t like frolicking with other people unless it’s absolutely necessary and besides I work from home.
I have also been advised to treat her like a stranger in her house and not talk to her for days but once again I don’t want that kind of life. I feel truly trapped.
You said that you're an Introvert.??
Then truly become one. She's already treating you like a stranger.. THEN BECOME ONE..
helinues: Did you create this thread about Obidients or Apc supporters?
How come no one is accusing Pdp supporters of bullying others?
You lied.
Remember the time the PDP-Supporters were gaslighted with the term “wailing wailers”?? And they reclined into their cowardly shells.?? If they resisted the gaslighting those days, they would have been called bullies before now..
Now, Obidients couldn't be gaslighted, and they were called bullies?? No wahalla.
helinues: Because bullying is one mutual complaining from everyone about the Obidients.
Why are you shying away from that? Isn't that a fact?
See these photos below... You will see exactly what the APC Miscreants are doing..,, and still be the first to cry Foul..
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. Picture-1... Someone Reached Out to a supposedly APC Guy,, believing that he was reaching out to a normal human..,, but not knowing that he reached out to a usual Miscreant among the fold.
.. Picture-2.... The APC Miscreant referred to the soft words as “THREATS”..,, and started using all foul words to respond to the guy.
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And to some other APC Miscreants out there,, they would now agree that it was the guy who was bullying the APC Miscreant... AND THEY WILL CARRY IT TO THEIR WHATSAPP GROUPS..!!
Brenbentondiaz: So, "openly disagreeing" with someone is an attack on that person? You guys are always eager to prove people right that you're brainless. Lolz.
When Obidients openly and blatantly disagreed with some persons from other parties in the past,, you referred to it as ATTACK..
And when they match Insults with Insults,, you refer to it as “Being Toxic”.
Now,, they “attacked” their own principal,, and you're finding a sugarcoating for it.??
Blazebond: And with their behavior you can see how useless and hopeless the obidense are, anytime I see someone say he or she is obidense,i quickly shift far away from such persons because I know that they don't have brains anymore. I group obidients,buharist,Nazis, Marxist, Zionists,Bolsheviks etc in the same pot,all are groups of dangerous fools with the same mob mentality of "my.way or no other way",they have no mind of their own because they are zombies being manipulated by someone or groups of persons.
Odewaleadesoye: Popular media personality, Linda Ikeji has urged young women to aim for financial success rather than relying on men to meet their financial needs.
She noted that being rich isn’t the “birthright” of men alone.
The mother of one explained that she would rather strive for financial freedom than depend on a man.
On her Instagram page, Ikeji wrote:
She advised women to strive to be as rich or if possible, richer than their spouses.
remi4ever: This country!! Must you set-up panel for everything? isn't there a dedicated unit/department that solves or investigates cases like this one??
There is.. But they are not doing their work well.
That's why new panels are set for it, and got announced to the public. So that the people can think that something is being done about it. But that's the end of it.
greenermodels: If moderators doesn't do something about these APC online influencers lying and insulting everyone here,I would leave this forum for them.
This place had been massively corrupted with the APC Virus.. I don't think the mods can do anything again about it, because a good number of the mods themselves are also affected by the virus too. So, it won't be easy.
Gbadugbakun: You went out with your friend to the bar, you ordered for drinks, but before they brought the drinks, you went out to make a call. When you came back, your friend has already opened it for you and even poured it in the glass.
You asked him why he did that, he said the waiter wanted to use the opener for another customer so he said let him kuku open it for you.
You move the drink one side and order for another drink. Why you guys finished drinking, you paid for the drink he opened which you didn't drink along with the ones you drank.
When you get home you receive a WhatsApp from this supposed friend asking you what you see him as, that are you trying to say he was trying to poison you? You try to reply him but he has already blocked you on Whatsapp. You try to call him but it's showing busy meaning he has blocked your number as well.
Did I do something wrong. Why would you open a drink and pour it out for someone when he didn't ask you to do so?
He will stop being my friend. And there's nothing much about it.
EmmyMaestro: A Nigerian lady who identifies as @miss_arhaan has shared online what became of her face after she ate Catfish.
The lady who had no idea that she was allergic to the protein woke up with all her facial attributes swollen to a large extent.
According to her, she had an allergic reaction a day after consuming a catfish which resulted in her having a swollen face.
In the images she shared online, she showed off her face before and after she ate the meal which looked totally different.
In another picture, she was seen nursing and trying to contain the reaction by applying an unknown ointment on her face.
Some internet users who came across her post were left in disbelief as they found it hard to believe that Nigerians also have allergies.
Below are some of the comments;
@Innie023: Jesus. She almost turned to the catfish. Omo!!
@RespiratoryDafe: Allergy is one of those things we don’t talk about in Nigeria. Think about people in jail or called witches simply cos someone ate in their house, had allergy to something in the food, got anaphylaxis, and passed. On the brighter side of this, she knows not to eat catfish again
@HonestinaOfoha: Surely Not The Catfish, But One Particular Ingredient Used in Preparing The Fish, The Ingredient Might Contain a Particular Substance Extracted From Something You’re Actually Allergic To
@rosythrone: How many of us that still don’t know what we’re allergic to, that’s if we even have self??
chatinent: I recline to my seat as I keep reading all y'all negative thoughts you feel must happen to a man and a woman meeting forgetting that everyone cannot be you.
Bmaster: Wait first op. Too many explanation and evidence just to prove to Yoruba moslems that Peter obi is clear as against the allegations of obidients attacks is to what essence ?
Sorry but I mean what kinda phobia is this ? People you are not owing anything is whom you are trying to bring to a logical understanding? Nawa oo
If a Yoruba moslem like let him hit his or her head on a tarred road,mtcheww
It is very clear that the Obidients can attack anything. ((Including the so-called Peter-Obi himself..))
But wait ooo...
That I explained the topic too much,, is that one also one of your major problem in life too.??
raskymonojendor: I did not see any attack. They were just moving mad as usual. Zero idea of how politics work. Same Obi that will gladly join APC if they offered him a presidential ticket.
Ok..
He can try it. Maybe, by then, he go see another dimension of attack which is different from the one he got on the Democracy-Day.