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Malory:
Then he should stop giving her any amount at all until her brain reset

Pocohantas, Donbachi, Raalsalghul, Ibechris, UnusualEmissary, Acidosis, ZIMDRILL, GboyegaD, Truthsayer009, BluntCrazeMan, LadySarah, Vyolet, NoToPile, Cloven22, Mariangeles, Cococandy, HannyAD, Munzy14, Kobojunkie, DonroxyII.

Good morning.
Please post for me and hide my id.

I got married since 2019, and by the grace of God, my family is been blessed with a handsome baby boy, who's about 1-and-half years now, I also live with my wife's nephew, a boy of 9 years now.

For the past 2 years I haven't enjoyed the marriage, even though I do my best to make it work. I give my wife 50k every month for food items only. Light bill, loma bill, security bill, filling of our 6 kg cylinder is not included in that 50k, I take care of all those ones whenever it's due to pay for them. I also buy bags of rice once it finished, it's also not included in the 50k

The issue here is that before 18th of every month she will start demanding for extra money, I pleaded with her to manage it because I just started business last year January 2021, and the business have not gain a strong stand, and I take out 50k there to feed the family monthly.

She also working - a good work for that matter, and I give her 1k everyday for transport.

This morning been Sunday 20th March, she demanded for another money, then I asked her what happened to the 50k I gave her on the 1st of this month, she started saying a whole lot of rubbish with her mouth, that I should go to the market myself and see how costly things are. That any time I transfer that 50k to her account, that she will transfer it back to my account.

I called her “my sweet wife, why can't you be appreciative to God that your husband gives you 50k every month? That there are other women out there suffering for what she and the children will eat, hawking under the hot sun everyday”.

Sorry for the long epistle.
Please advise me, In which area have I offended my wife, which made her to treat my little earning that way?

Today I am a high-blood-pressure patient. Taking drugs every morning and night. Please advice me, what will I do again to keep my family going.

Yilma:
Today at Miracle Junction Ifite Awka
Some gunmen and Vigilante service had a gun battle.

Others escaped while this particular guy was caught and Lynched.

SlyDev:
Vision 2070 Biafra scam

Kingnelson9:
So simple...no big big talks

PrinceOfLagos:
Matured men

No unnecessary money wasting and stupid parades as witnessed here in Lagos

Nice one

I congratulate the outgoing governor , chief Willie obiano for a successful tenure.

I also congratulate the incoming governor , the prof himself, Chukwuma Charles Soludo and I wish him a successful tenure .

May your reign as the governor of Anambra bring peace and more progress to the already blessed state.

I wish you well sir

Sean006:
Vision 2070, and we are in 2022... Nigerian politicians will never make heaven

NATIONAL POPULATION COMMISSION

PRESS RELEASE

PRESIDENT BUHARI LAUNCHES REVISED NATIONAL POPULATION POLICY AND INAUGURATES NATIONAL COUNCIL ON POPULATION MANAGEMENT

His Excellency, President Muhammad Buhari, GCFR will officially launch the Revised National Policy on Population for Sustainable Development (NPP) and inaugurate the National Council on Population Management (NCPM) on Thursday, 3rd February, 2022 at the Council Chamber of the State House.

The Revised National Policy on Population for Sustainable Development (NPP), which was approved by the Federal Executive Council (FEC) on 9th June 2021, is a comprehensive document that addresses all population and development concerns with an overarching goal to improve the quality of life and standard of living of the people of Nigeria.

The main thrust of the policy is to reduce the population growth rate and accelerate demographic transition for the realization of the Demographic dividend. It is a strategic tool guiding the implementation of national development plans.

The implementation of the policy is premised on an institutional framework that is clearly defined in the policy with the NCPM as the apex organ. The Council is chaired by the President with the Vice President as the Deputy Chairman. Heads of relevant government Ministries, Agencies and Departments (MDAs) will serve as members of the Council.

The National Population Commission is the coordinating agency of the National Population Policy charged with the responsibility of ensuring collaboration and synergy across sectoral lines and monitoring the implementation of the population policy.

Principal Officers of the National Assembly, Ministers and Heads of MDAs, prominent Traditional Rulers, Ambassadors, Captains of Industries and Representatives of development agencies are expected to grace the event.

Isiaka Yahaya, PhD
Acting Director, Public Affairs Department
For: Chairman
2nd February, 2022

pocohantas:
The problem is not what the upkeep money should be used for, the problem is they are not working as a team.

I work from 8am to 4pm.
I get paid N50k at my work place.
I do make little money from office too, but it is very little compared to my main monthly pay.
I have three kids, two girls 10 & 7, and a boy 3.
I made sure I give her N40k every month for the house upkeep and feeding, so that I can use the remaining N10k and any other thing I make above it to pay the bills which include electric power, gas, tv, and to save up for the house-rent..
..
On the other hand, my wife is a full time business woman.
She leaves house by 8am and gets back by 9pm some times.
(The kids and the house-maid are the ones who see to the cooking and buying of the things we need in the house)
My wife definitely makes far more money than me every month.
She doesn't tell me the amount she makes, but I know, because when she tells me about her daily sales I marvel and rejoice with her at the amount of sales she is making.
One time, I tried to put the margins of her sales and her expenses together for one month, and I discovered that she makes a gain of up to N150k in her business every month.
I don't know what she does with it anyway.
..
Now, with almost all may salary already in her hands, and with her own profits too, she still wants me to pay for making the hair for the kids (the girls), and she wants them to be making their hair once in two weeks or maximum three weeks, and I didn't agree to that. She should be the one who takes care of that, if not, they should go on low-cut haircut styles for the moment.
I take care of the kids when they fall sick, or at worst, when there is any emergency in the house.
But she wants us to be going outings at least once in two months or once in three months.
I don't buy the idea, because I prefer buying some small chop-chop things for her and the kids every once in a while.
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There are some other many unwarranted expenses which she said that shouldn't be done from the Money For Upkeep.
And I am no more find it funny any longer.
And we had been having slight quarrellings over these minor expenses from time to time.
..
Please my people, help me.
What and what are the expenses which the Upkeep-Money should cater for, and which ones are not supposed to be settled with the Upkeep-Money??

adecz:
Only N30bn or $50m to become
biggest shareholder in a bank like
First Bank.

Does biggest shareholder make him
a controlling shareholder❓☹️

adolfHitler1934:
That is her life,her choice. That is what gives her joy....she's not working for money but satisfying her inner soul.

Poor people like you always reason thru their anus

helinues:
Electronic transition is important if we want the results to be announced early.

Electronic accreditation should be dropped cos that will slow the process of the election. Network will Bleep up in some areas Sha ni

sageb:
She is married and she have children also.

Flyingngel:
Check this.

above2811:
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Points of correction, she's in Oxford uni, studying.