Dawinlove:


Exactly what I saw on 6/10/2018
I saw shedding of blood
people unable to travel
I saw fire burning
I saw the old Nigeria as of independence and I saw the current Nigeria
Then God said, I am rescuing Nigeria
I saw a young man cleaning houses, cutting grasses, picking dirty to keep the country clean.. and that is the new Nigeria

Maybe the timeline was not revealed to you.
I'm still following this thread.

BluntNigerian:
INEC should endeavour to ensure that all the Collation Officers (both at the Wards, LGs, and States Levels of Collation) would also use the same devices which they are supposed to use in Electronically Transmitting their Collated Results to the next level of Collation, to also upload pictures of those same collated Results to the IREV Portal..
And thus, if it happens that such devices are not capable of scanning the collated results as well and uploading them to the IREV Portal; (that is, if the Collation Officers had to manually enter the collated values by themselves into their devices before transmitting), then in that case, they need to be furnished with an additional scanning device that can be used to scan the Collated Results, and upload them to the IREV Portal.

The importance of also having the Collated Results on the portal (AND NOT JUST ONLY THE POLLING-UNITS RESULTS) is for the results-checkers to also follow the discrepancies that may arise, and be able to pin-point at what exact stage the discrepancies started occuring.
Past experience of Results-checking on the IREV Portal have shown that there are always some level of discrepancies between the Results on the IREV Portal and the INEC Declared Final Results, and that such discrepancies are always very difficult to trace or to be identified..

(That is, the discrepancies between the total results gotten by adding the uploaded PU Results on the IREV Portal and the Results that were Officially declared by the INEC as final results cannot be traced properly, and the source of such discrepancies are always difficult to be pin-pointed..
But with the uploading of the collated results, Results-checking on the IREV Portal would be more fun,, and can aid in political analysis in future times.

INEC should endeavour to ensure that all the Collation Officers (both at the Wards, LGs, and States Levels of Collation) would also use the same devices which they are supposed to use in Electronically Transmitting their Collated Results to the next level of Collation, to also upload pictures of those same collated Results to the IREV Portal..
And thus, if it happens that such devices are not capable of scanning the collated results as well and uploading them to the IREV Portal; (that is, if the Collation Officers had to manually enter the collated values by themselves into their devices before transmitting), then in that case, they need to be furnished with an additional scanning device that can be used to scan the Collated Results, and upload them to the IREV Portal.

Same thing is happening to my computer

Lalasticlala,
Seun

Kobojunkie:
Why else would he be doing all he is doing then?

Wife dey work, him dey suffer and he has high BP yet he still manages to give her transportation money everyday in addition to practically footing every other bill.

He must have paid her bride price too. That would also explain why even as his health crumbles, he continues to stoke that "head of house" badge.

Chaaiii.!!

Cardealer2021:

I don't think she can put up with me now
Psychology I'm not ready to be a husband
And I'm not ready to Live in bondage now
Anyways thanks bro

It's well bro.
E go better lass lass..
I understand your conditions well well.
I once passed such psychological stage (although, mine was a little bit different in the sense that I wasn't expecting any baby at such stages of my life)

Chigold101:

You will be disappointed

I was disappointed a bit shaa, based on say the event was actually low-key.
But the event started trending heavily after they had finished everything and gone home.
The most-trending Governorship Swearing-In Ever.!!

Cardealer2021:

I will surely do that bro
Although I hate single Parenthood, but it's surely Bette than getting married due to infidelity of our Nigeria ladies

Since you're expecting your baby, and not planning to live with the mother, no wahalla.
Be sure to visit them often.
Make the mother happy everytime you visit, so that she would be looking forward to it.
Treat her well anytime she visits too.
With all these, she won't feed your baby with bad stories about you, and your cherished baby would grow to hate you.
Meanwhile, if you love the woman very much, bring her into the house and marry her.
It's better to continue enduring the problem and expenses of one sure woman, than to be secretly spending and enduring lots of half-baked cooked-up wahalla on many women.

ibechris:
This is the reason why many men die early in Nigeria.

A woman that is working is demanding for money after 50k.

This is hmmable and imagine how many men would just go and marry their enemy as wife.

The snag here is that,u guys didn't discuss about money in this marriage before u went ahead to consummate it.

Take it or leave it your wife is not helping at all.

Definitely, she's not helping.
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Meanwhile, let me not tell lies, but more than 80% of Nigerian Families/Spouses don't discuss their sources of income and how they would be spent, and the amount to be saved for future projects or emergencies.
All they know is: “The man brings the money we need, the wife goes to market and prepare them, and also do the house chores”.

Kobojunkie:
He probably does it so he can beat his chest that he he head of his family, right as he pops his hbp medication every morning and evening. Some folks are really vain like that.

As he takes his medication, he would be boasting??
Take am easy on the man naa

Cardealer2021:

With wetin I dey see about women I fear marriage pass another thing my heart too dey fragile I prefer make I dey on my own than to marry and get problem.
I nor want make dem pay me in my own coin (karma) ,
I'm actually expecting a baby the only reason I dey get hope to live

Ok..
So you dey fear Karma??
Well.
It doesn't exist.
What exists is this phrase: “What Goes Around Would Always Come Around”.

As for your “soon-to-arrive baby”, start now to love him/her already.
Pledge deep within yourself to take care of the baby with the of what you can afford (physically and non-physically).
Be sure to guide him/her right, so that he/she would never have any reason to fear for any type of Karma.

degamonn:
The other parts are not really my concern here neither do have advice in that respect.
My concern is somebody who is working and she requires 1k every day as transportation cost of which proceeds are not used to the benefit of your immediate family is what baffles me.
You do that for love right? clap for yourself

Be Calming Down Naa.

Mercychen:
Start handling the upkeep yourself. Don't give her a dime again.

Maybe she has friends she's trying to compete with or brag to about how much her mumu gives her for upkeep.

Maybe she's also saving part of it.

If truly the money is only for upkeep, then shes not prudent. Stop given her altogether.

Straight to the point.
Thanks

Goldbw122:
Well before you marry her, I know that you it was manageable because the country was easy before but now the country is a more complex situation now, we are at war in a silent way, 50k will not be enough to take care of family a month trust me, she is not doing any job, so how will she cope.. and everything rely on you.. so there is a problem, so you need to fix the problem by telling her to start a job or do something like a trade.. and make something good..

She's a working lady.
Read the post well..
She just wanted to frustrate the man.
Just in a bid to make him realise that N50K is not enough any longer.
Rather than her to use a better approach for communicating such, or to cut down on the type of food, or her methods of buying food-stuffs

Cardealer2021:

I eat alot ,
Moreover I'm a bachelor 95% of food I eat are not cooked by me ( eatery), Transport and girls wahala contribute to it also

You sure say you wan marry this year or next year so?

Kajaard:


Exactly. That Iyaebe is something else

I hardly take her comments serious anymore once I realised she is just joking around. I have realized most of these ladies that antagonize guys are quite smart but just make those annoying posts to piss us off

They enjoy it.
They enjoy the fun of watching you guys express your anger online with extreme frustration.
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Smart Introverted people
That's what they do most.

chatinent:


No bi everybody dey carry ashawo, bro.

Tell him

Kobojunkie:
Husband and wife no be master and slave relationship. The man ought to sit together with his wife at the table, with paper and pencil in hand to plot out exactly how much it costs to feed the family regularly, and this should take place every month so they are in sync. Apart from feeding, the man should make certain his wife is aware of how much he pays each month for light bill, gas etc.

Also, he claims his wife works as well but how much did they both agree would be her contribution as far as upkeep of what is after all her own family?

Inost African families, the men usually tend to bear the whole burden without communicating with the wife, until he is just about to break down.
Then he would start seeking for help outside the family, even without letting the wife know.

Kajaard:


Haaaa, this from you?

I am impressed. No vex for the previous attacks

So, both of you are friends now, sheey??
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Have you ever seen Iyaebe dropped reasonable comments? Yes..
She does..
And once you see such comments, you would just realise that she had been catching cruise all these while.

Malory:
Since she doesn't appreciate the one he is giving her then let him stop

Agreeded.!!

Cardealer2021:
The truth is that with Nigeria current economy 50k(less than a $100) can't sustain a family of four, make the husband reason am
*She will buy food stuff
*Transport
*Snacks for the kids and miscellaneous on her own side.
Let the man make it like 70k at least.

Even me single guy with no responsibility spend more than that a week sometimes not to talk of family of 4

What type of food have you been feeding yourself with, that you consume more than N50,000 every week just on feeding?

chatinent:
I don't understand what you'll take on after we advise you but if I were in your shoes, I'll sit her down and talk sense into her.
No petting!
No sweet names!


It's a legit: “let this be the first and last time you talk to me in that way. And here is how it is going to be: you are going to be using N30k each month to cook for the next six months until you learn to manage. Most families feed with N7k weekly on food for more than three persons and you are making me look stupid giving you N50k with some other sums for misc for just you, the baby, and I...when I also provide money so bulk purchasea? I warn you, don't angry me and you've been banned from requesting additional money from me till further notice!”

Chhaaiii.!!
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This one sounds like Bombb.!!

harizonal123:
She thinks u can do far better than that.

With which income??
Or abi she no dey see how her husband's business had been moving on with her own koro-koro eyes?

Malory:
Then he should stop giving her any amount at all until her brain reset

My exact thoughts..
Although it would be very harsh of him

Please,, this is something similar to something that I had posted earlier here.
Here is another person's experience on the same issue.
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Please read through and drop your comments..

Pocohantas, Donbachi, Raalsalghul, Ibechris, UnusualEmissary, Acidosis, ZIMDRILL, GboyegaD, Truthsayer009, BluntCrazeMan, LadySarah, Vyolet, NoToPile, Cloven22, Mariangeles, Cococandy, HannyAD, Munzy14, Kobojunkie, DonroxyII.

FROM MY INBOX.

Good morning.
Please post for me and hide my id.

I got married since 2019, and by the grace of God, my family is been blessed with a handsome baby boy, who's about 1-and-half years now, I also live with my wife's nephew, a boy of 9 years now.

For the past 2 years I haven't enjoyed the marriage, even though I do my best to make it work. I give my wife 50k every month for food items only. Light bill, loma bill, security bill, filling of our 6 kg cylinder is not included in that 50k, I take care of all those ones whenever it's due to pay for them. I also buy bags of rice once it finished, it's also not included in the 50k

The issue here is that before 18th of every month she will start demanding for extra money, I pleaded with her to manage it because I just started business last year January 2021, and the business have not gain a strong stand, and I take out 50k there to feed the family monthly.

She also working - a good work for that matter, and I give her 1k everyday for transport.

This morning been Sunday 20th March, she demanded for another money, then I asked her what happened to the 50k I gave her on the 1st of this month, she started saying a whole lot of rubbish with her mouth, that I should go to the market myself and see how costly things are. That any time I transfer that 50k to her account, that she will transfer it back to my account.

I called her “my sweet wife, why can't you be appreciative to God that your husband gives you 50k every month? That there are other women out there suffering for what she and the children will eat, hawking under the hot sun everyday”.

Sorry for the long epistle.
Please advise me, In which area have I offended my wife, which made her to treat my little earning that way?

Today I am a high-blood-pressure patient. Taking drugs every morning and night. Please advice me, what will I do again to keep my family going.

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Please He Needs Advice.

Mynd44

Lalasticlala,
Seun

Yilma:
Today at Miracle Junction Ifite Awka
Some gunmen and Vigilante service had a gun battle.

Others escaped while this particular guy was caught and Lynched.

Na Waaa

SlyDev:
Vision 2070 Biafra scam

Oga Rest Small Abeg

Kingnelson9:
So simple...no big big talks

Noise go happen on Thursday.