Health › Re: Men Are Shockingly Ignorant About The Workings Of A Woman's Body (photos) by bmdmix14: 11:18am On May 13, 2022 |
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Music/Radio › Re: Everyone Just Ignores Me Cuz I Do Foreign Beats by bmdmix14: 9:58am On May 13, 2022 |
Fcmb2022: Tell dat to your girlfriend who is so cheap to fall for a person like u. u guys didn't even respond to ops content. Hi |
Celebrities › Re: Nkechi Blessings: I Don't Wear Pad Or Pant, I Insert Cotton Wool For My Period by bmdmix14: 9:43am On May 13, 2022 |
Shey Dem dey promote one up cuming movi ni abi kini |
Romance › Re: My Cheating Is About To End My Marriage by bmdmix14: 8:05am On May 13, 2022 |
Cassahav: I am a fortysomething man in a long-term relationship – nearly 20 years – and have two children. For the past 10 years my partner has been having short-term lovers. These were clandestine, but more recently she has stopped hiding, called our relationship “open”, and currently has a lover who I do know about. But this “open relationship” can only be one-sided, because she is jealous and suspicious while I am basically not polyamorous. So why stay together? We get on, communicate well (other than the no-go zone of her other love life), rarely argue, are bonded by bringing up our children and are financially tied together.
However, the years of suppressing my emotions – of jealousy, rejection, insecurity, being lied to – have left me broken. Sex (which we still occasionally do have) has become stressed: if I don’t perform enthusiastically, it will justify her seeking other lovers. Also, I am expected to remain sexually attracted to her, which gets more difficult when I know she’s been with someone else recently. We had frank talks when she offered to end her extramarital affairs and be monogamous with me – or plan how we might separate without affecting our children. We were both very upset, as we are very much still in love, and wish the sex side of our relationship wasn’t such a terrible mess.
But it has occurred to me that I am emotionally and sexually broken after this past decade. If I was single again – or my partner was to become monogamous with me again – I don’t think I would be a viable person to be in a relationship with. How do I start to repair myself, inside or outside this relationship?
Any advice would be cool. shes getting bleeped openly n u wondering why u feeling down U deserve flogging |
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Crime › Re: Police Officer That Shot At A Lady In A Viral Video Few Months Ago Has Died(vid) by bmdmix14: 7:54am On May 13, 2022 |
foxxydude: Killed by unknown gunmen he couldn't flex his power with a rival when carry gun shey |
Crime › Re: Man Turns To Half Cow After Cheating With A Married woman. by bmdmix14: 7:52am On May 13, 2022 |
Lol i dey wait for unicorn video |
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Travel › Re: Your Help With This Thing Is Urgently Needed!!! by bmdmix14: 10:41pm On May 12, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Actor Gbenga Richard Is Dead by bmdmix14: 10:34pm On May 12, 2022 |
Hollybratt: Even though i don't know him, may his soul rest in peace  hide ur self. |
Fashion › Re: Check Out Men's Beauty Contest In 1919 When Six Packs Didn't Matter(photo) by bmdmix14: 9:10pm On May 12, 2022 |
JoyousFurnitire: Oh truly they covered their belly buttons. Could it be that they agreed belly buttons is one part of the body that don't add to beauties? yup that what the article is all about |
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Fashion › Re: Check Out Men's Beauty Contest In 1919 When Six Packs Didn't Matter(photo) by bmdmix14: 8:23pm On May 12, 2022 |
I doubt
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Crime › Re: Woman Arrested In Ondo For Stabbing Ex-Boyfriend During Fight Over Her New Lover by bmdmix14: 8:12pm On May 12, 2022*. Modified: 9:53am On May 13, 2022 |
While u were receiving beating, ur new bf was looking? |
Sports › Re: FG Suspends Basketball In Nigeria For Two Years by bmdmix14: 7:46pm On May 12, 2022 |
Fool u wen u tenure dey end next yr |
Education › Re: RIP To The Students We Lost During This ASUU Strike Period by bmdmix14: 11:49am On May 12, 2022 |
robinso01: From what he wrote, he's not prophesying that students will die, he said lost students. It means somone must have died before he wrote it. I don't think he's assuming, but probably wrote that from what he experienced. i should have quoted him cause he made a rewrite |
Education › Re: RIP To The Students We Lost During This ASUU Strike Period by bmdmix14: 11:17am On May 12, 2022 |
robinso01: Don't just conclude like that. You don't know if he lost a schoolmate/coursemate.
I see no need for you to curse him. conclude really with the rubbish he is posting. Imagine me saying a minute silent for those who will die this week. Guy does that make sense? |
Politics › Re: Breaking News by bmdmix14: 9:05am On May 12, 2022 |
Wats breaking news here |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Peter Obi Rescuing Secondary School Girls Last Year Resurface Onlin by bmdmix14: 9:02am On May 12, 2022 |
Na obi now tinubu media influences money don finish |
Education › Re: RIP To The Students We Lost During This ASUU Strike Period by bmdmix14: 9:01am On May 12, 2022 |
U just assume people died, but u can't assume dey are all safe.
A minute of silent to ur incoming death. |
Romance › Re: Update On My Earlier Thread by bmdmix14: 8:46am On May 12, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: A Mob Action Witnessed In Lagos: 2 Armed Robbers Burnt To Death (Graphic Photos) by bmdmix14: 8:45am On May 12, 2022 |
Damn |
Politics › Re: 2023: Is Lai Mohammed Contesting For Any Political Position? by bmdmix14: 7:36am On May 12, 2022 |
aspabay: What's your problem if he decides to take a back seat and res rest from lying shey. E no easy |
Politics › Re: 2023: Is Lai Mohammed Contesting For Any Political Position? by bmdmix14: 7:33am On May 12, 2022 |
Minister of liars |
Romance › Re: Update On My Earlier Thread by bmdmix14: 6:49am On May 12, 2022 |
MeghaneMorgane: Sequel to the earlier thread I made, I’ll like to update you all on the situation of things after almost 4 months.
You can find the previous thread here https://www.nairaland.com/6412383/like-guy-much-need-not#98998847
We met up, tried to start a relationship, but it didn’t work because we found out that we see life differently and want different things out of life. let us start a relationship, msg me |
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Romance › Re: Man Sends New Wife Back To Her Father’s House For Lying About Being A Virgin by bmdmix14: 11:36pm On May 11, 2022 |
N her plan was what again  |
Music/Radio › Re: What's Ur Favourite Song? by bmdmix14: 8:50pm On May 11, 2022 |
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Contact me lets work
Mine all 90% of Eminem songs |
Music/Radio › Re: Please Help Guy's With Sites I Can Download Country Music For Free From by bmdmix14: 8:48pm On May 11, 2022 |
Use Google
Type download country music |
Music/Radio › Re: Please Help Guy's With Sites I Can Download Country Music For Free From by bmdmix14: 8:47pm On May 11, 2022 |
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Music/Radio › Re: Portable Finally Changes His Hairstyle In Dubai (video) by bmdmix14: 8:47pm On May 11, 2022 |
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Music/Radio › Re: It Is A Pity ....most People Do Not Mind The Lyrics Of Zazu Song by bmdmix14: 8:46pm On May 11, 2022 |
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Contact me lets work |