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Nairaland GeneralWhat Can I Use To For Pit Toilet to Reduce The Smell by Bms4real(op):
Good morning nairaland.


Please what can one use for pit toilet that is full and smell.
Christianity EtcHis There Hausa Christian In Nigeria by Bms4real(op):
I have a misunderstanding with someone today tell him me there is no Hausa christian in Nigeria. I told him Hausa christian they. This one wanted to beat me for saying Hausa christian they naija
RomanceRe: Policeman Attacks Rivers Lady With Burning Stove For Rejecting His Proposal by Bms4real(m): 8:21am On Jan 21, 2022
All the police officer thinking they are untouchable. Now see his life outside.
They should send him back to the street...
PoliticsRe: Rivers VAT Not For Abuja People, I Don’t Care If Heaven Falls, Wike Warns by Bms4real(m): 2:57pm On Sep 08, 2021
Like for wike. Share for buhari

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PoliticsRe: Internally Generated Revenue Compared To Federal Allocation Of States 2020 by Bms4real(m): 2:48pm On Sep 08, 2021
All this money. They will still embezzling it

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TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija Tega: I Have Spoken To My Husband & We Are Good by Bms4real(m): 2:20pm On Sep 07, 2021
If am your husband. Your own don finish for my side.


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Nairaland GeneralRe: Help: Where Can I Change Ghana Cedis In Nigeria. by Bms4real(op): 12:45am On Jul 26, 2021
What is BDC
Nairaland GeneralRe: Help: Where Can I Change Ghana Cedis In Nigeria. by Bms4real(op): 7:10pm On Jul 25, 2021
Am from osun state please.. if anyone have an idea. Please share with me
Nairaland GeneralHelp: Where Can I Change Ghana Cedis In Nigeria. by Bms4real(op): 7:04pm On Jul 25, 2021
Please I was giving 21,000 Ghana cedis.. I want to change it to naira. Please where can I do that.. help please
SportsRe: Ekiti FA Board Members/Chairman Sent To Jail (Video) by Bms4real(m): 9:59pm On Jul 15, 2021
If that can be applied to all politicians... Nigeria would have been a better place.. this will serve the right.
Nairaland General20 Signs She’s The Woman You Should Marry by Bms4real(op): 6:59am On Jul 03, 2021
1. You find her extraordinary.
“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” – Proverbs 31:10 (NIV)

In other words, there is something in her that you treasure her more than anyone and anything in this world. It can be an extraordinary kindness, love, or great character. Remember that it should be something that lasts more than a precious gem – something from within, not without – something about her wholeness, not only a cover. Hence, it cannot only be physical beauty since it fades with the passage of time.

2. She is someone you can trust.
“Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.” – Proverbs 31:11 (NIV)

If you want to have peace of mind and prevent yourself from always being jealous, dubious and insecure, find someone who will give you security, honesty, and full confidence

3. She is harmless and she brings good things to your life.
“She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.” – Proverbs 31:11-12 (NIV)

A good wife is someone who will make you a better man. She will inspire you to be happy and healthy, physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

4. She takes care of your family and home.
“She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.” – Proverbs 31:13-15 (NIV)

In other words, she is just like your loving and caring mother.

5. She is practical and knows how to manage things.
“She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings, she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. ” – Proverbs 31:16-19 (NIV)

We, the guys, will surrender our income to our wives. Hence, choose someone who will handle it properly, not squander it recklessly. It’s also good to have a practical wife who doesn’t only rely fully on your own money but also strives to provide something for her family out of her own efforts. You don’t like to marry someone who will make you a sugar daddy, do you?

6. She is kind and generous.
“She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.” – Proverbs 31:20 (NIV)

Marry a woman who is kind to the poor so that your family will be blessed. A wife who will look down on your poor relatives and friends will only create enemies and may not give your family peace, security, and true prosperity.

7. She is caring and protective.
“When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. – Proverbs 31:21-22 (NIV)

Your wife will be in charge of your home. That means she will have to protect you and your children from illness and other unhealthy situations. She also has to protect herself to continue her duties as a wife and as a mom. So do you like to have a wife who just doesn’t care?

8. She is a strong and honorable woman.
“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” – Proverbs 31:25 (NIV)

A wife who has a strong conviction and maintains great principles in life will bring honor and glory to your home.

9. She is wise and reliable.
“She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.” – Proverbs 31:26 (NIV)

Your wife, the mother of your children will serve as the guiding light in your home. If you want to raise children with a brighter tomorrow, find a woman who has wisdom and insight into the future.

10. She is not lazy.
“She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.” – Proverbs 31:27 (NIV)

Sloth means being lazy and not giving care. It’s one of the negative characteristics of a partner that can be destructive to your home and family. If you like your family to survive life’s unending challenges, have a wife who’s a woman of action, not a slothful one.

11. She is righteous and praiseworthy.
“Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:” – Proverbs 31:28 (NIV)

Do not just look for a girl who always posts “feeling blessed” on her Facebook status, but someone whose family and friends are feeling blessed to have her in their lives.

Take note that a blessing is not something you declare or announce. It is something that God gives you because of your righteousness. “The LORD’s curse is on the house of the wicked, but he blesses the home of the righteous.” – Proverbs 3:33 (NIV)

12. She always strives to be better.
“Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” – Proverbs 31:29 (NIV)

An ideal wife is someone who will do good things, not just because other men’s wives do them too, but because they are the right things to do. She surpasses other women, not because she competes with them, but because she competes with herself and tries to improve every day a little bit more.

13. She avoids things that are disgraceful.
“A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones. – Proverbs 12:4 (NIV)

Who likes a wicked and scandalous wife? Now, who likes a wife whose words and actions are those that we can be proud of? Of course, we like the latter.

14. She is not ill-tempered and quarrelsome.
“Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. – Proverbs 25:24 (NIV)

A bad-tempered and irritable wife will always make your house noisy, chaotic, and stressful, not only for you but also for your children, not to mention it’s also disgusting to your neighbors.

15. She cares for your future.
“Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.” – Proverbs 19:14 (NIV)

How do you know if your girlfriend is one sent by God? She acts with care for your future. If your girl doesn’t care what will happen to you in the future, if she doesn’t care if you lose your job or ruin your studies, or if she doesn’t care if you will lose your health or life, then you should do a lot of ponderings.

16. She respects you.
“However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” – Ephesians 5:33 (NIV)

Respect begets respect. There must be mutual respect between a husband and a wife. Thus, marry a girl whom you do not only respect but also respects you in return.

17. She fulfills her duties and responsibilities as a wife.
“The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.” – 1 Corinthians 7:3 (NIV)

A husband and wife have mutual duties and responsibilities to each other, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically. If one doesn’t fulfill his or her duties, the marriage becomes imbalanced and may come to an end.

18. She is loyal and faithful to you.
“The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife.” – 1 Corinthians 7:4 (NIV)

One of the top reasons why couples fight is the disobedience of the verse above. Some women don’t like their partners to prevent them from wearing sexy dresses, which makes men angry and cause them to have a fight. Without surrendering each one’s authority over their own body, jealousy and insecurities will only arise.

Therefore, marry a woman who’s ready to grant you the right over her own body. If she truly loves you, then she is more willing to give you security and peace of mind. Of course, you should also give her the authority over your body to be fair.

19. She follows your righteous lead.
“Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.” – Ephesians 5:22-23 (NIV)

One of the most difficult instructions from the Bible a woman could follow is to be submissive to her husband. Nowadays, some women don’t like to be led by men as they think that the modern way is to do the opposite. Somehow, we cannot blame them due to the history of men who have misled their wives rather than lead them the right way. But the Bible is clear that the wives should submit to their own husbands.

To have a peaceful and happy marriage life, you should first make yourself a man who’s worthy to lead a woman. After that, you can already find a wife who can submit herself to you as her husband. If despite your worthiness your girl doesn’t follow you but maintains her ego and pride, then that’s a sign that she’s not the one. Besides, love is not proud, isn’t it?

20. She is God-fearing.
“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” – Proverbs 31:30 (NIV)

Finally, find a woman who’s God-fearing, simply because, if she has fear and respect in God, then she will humbly and faithfully follow all the guides above which are all beneficial to you, to her, to your future children, and future family.

I hope that this article will serve as a guide for single guys in finding the right woman to be their wife. And of course, I’m also hoping that single women or even married ones can also get some ideas from this article on how they can make themselves a better wife for their husband. Remember that the purpose of this article is not to judge or dump anyone, but to assess ourselves, find opportunities for personal development, influence our loved ones to improve, and ensure a better life for our future.

Your choice lies in your own hands

Jobs/VacanciesFacebook Login Problem by Bms4real(op): 2:44pm On Jun 24, 2021
I don't know what happening to Facebook since morning. My account was log out and I was unable to login for many hours. Am I the only one with this palaver... Headache
CrimeRe: 10-Year-Old Girl Killed During Reprisal Cult Clash In Osun (Graphic Photo) by Bms4real(m): 1:32pm On Jun 11, 2021
This country is a joke. Innocent soul . Oga oh. May God expose them inshallah
Foreign AffairsRe: Sierra Leonean Safety Officer Fights Back After A Chinese Miner Attacked Him by Bms4real(m): 1:29pm On Jun 11, 2021
He don give am. What he want..... We muve African... This people think say we no get sence. Donkey
RomanceRe: Guys, What's The Most Brutal Rejection You Have Ever Received From A Lady? by Bms4real(m): 1:46pm On May 11, 2021
I can even remember... Lot of rejection and lot of ladies have gree me. So I don't count the lost. We muve
HealthRe: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Bms4real(m): 3:06pm On May 08, 2021
I can suggest a place for you. But is a mountain in osogbo osun state. They are trying there. Ori oke eyebiokin in osogbo.... That mountain is under CAC church... You can try that place... God will heal then in Jesus name AMEN
TV/MoviesRe: 8 Hollywood Movies That Spoke About Nigeria by Bms4real(m): 9:13pm On May 03, 2021
all this movie did not say something good about nigeria.. boko haram. aje
AgricultureRe: Instead Of Yahoo Yahoo, I Go Farm by Bms4real(op): 7:31pm On May 03, 2021
SportsHD:
loll mumu, I tell you sey i dey do fraud? There are jobs that are paying better than fraud.
hmmmm oode. who know what you up to.... yes you are right. lot of job out there that pay more than fraud
AgricultureRe: Instead Of Yahoo Yahoo, I Go Farm by Bms4real(op): 11:41am On May 03, 2021
SportsHD:
if dem tell you sey yahoo easy, na scam. .
keep up the good work sir. And keep a kalashnikov for the cows.
the day they gbabu you send you go kirikiri... you start cry like a baby. I will be the first to comment when your story come to front page in nairaland
AgricultureRe: Instead Of Yahoo Yahoo, I Go Farm by Bms4real(op): 4:02pm On May 01, 2021
What of fulanis ? They are making life difficult for farmers . They are making life very diffult for me. I go in the morning then in the evening to see if they going to come. That how AV been doing since oh
AgricultureRe: Instead Of Yahoo Yahoo, I Go Farm by Bms4real(op): 3:54pm On May 01, 2021
Bms4real:
if government can give us job. yahoo yahoo is a no for me.. I want straight to farm... see my maize farm

AgricultureInstead Of Yahoo Yahoo, I Go Farm by Bms4real(op): 3:51pm On May 01, 2021
if government can give us job. yahoo yahoo is a no for me.. I want straight to farm... see my maize farm

RomanceRe: The Madam At The Top by Bms4real(m): 8:30pm On Apr 22, 2021
more man
RomanceRe: Do I Connect With Him On Social Media? by Bms4real(m): 5:50pm On Apr 22, 2021
shot your short.. when talking to him don't be to soft..
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)12 Top Clubs Will Form A Breakway European Super League by Bms4real(op): 12:47am On Apr 19, 2021
Late on Sunday night, 12 teams confirmed they intend to join the Super League as founders. The Premier League’s ‘Big Six’ - Arsenal, Chelsea, Liverpool, Man City, Manchester United and Tottenham - will be joined by Real Madrid, Barcelona, Atletico Madrid, Juventus, Inter Milan and AC Milan in founding the new competition.

The Premier League had said it “condemns any proposal that attacks the principles of open competition and sporting merit” following reports that six of its clubs were supporting a European Super League.

The developments occurred on the eve of a new-look 36-team Champions League being discussed by Uefa on Monday.

Uefa has warned clubs that they face being banned from domestic and international competitions if they set up a rival to the Champions League.
Boris Johnson: European Super League proposals ‘very damaging for football... clubs must answer to their fans’
Boris Johnson: European Super League proposals ‘very damaging for football... clubs must answer to their fans’
In a joint statement with Spanish, English and Italian leagues and federations, Uefa said it will consider “all measures”, including the courts and bans from domestic leagues, in opposition to plans for a breakaway competition.

The proposals met fierce criticism from the worlds of sport and politics. Prime Minister Boris Johnson, London Mayor Sadiq Khan and President of France Emmanuel Macron all condemned the plans before the proposals were confirmed, while Gary Neville launched a scathing attack of the clubs involved and called for Man United, Arsenal and Liverpool to be relegated as punishment for their involvement.
HealthRe: What Is The Most Embarrassing Moment You Had With A Nurse/Doctor? by Bms4real(m):
there was a time I feel down in my hostel.. around 10.30pm . I was rush to one hospital close to campus. I wake up the third day. I open my eye to see what happen to me. everyone in my hostel was there look at me. the funny part was I find out that am using camular rubber to peace.... one big nurse enter say you don wake up.. I say what. you they call yourself man abi you they cry when I want to put rubber for your thing Infront on everyone. I feel embarrassed.. I spend 15 Days there b4 I was discharge. we later become friend and give me her friend wey be nurse to they wire.. she use to joke with me Wie did you get it.. I they always feel embarrassed with that question.. thank God I did her time without number b4 I graduate... she like a god mother to me now. bcus we still see one in a while...
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Sympathises With Niger Republic Over Killing Of 137 People by Bms4real(m): 7:43am On Mar 24, 2021
since buhari bastard is from niger... why would he not do that .... � ... animal president.
CelebritiesSee The Complete List Of 2021 Headies Awards Nominees Below. by Bms4real(op): 1:39am On Feb 22, 2021
NEXT RATED 1. OMAH LAY – Winner 2. BELLA SHMURDA 3. OXLADE 4. TEMS
BEST R&B SINGLE
UNDER THE SKY – PRAIZ DUDUKE – SIMI MAD – SARZ & WURLD BAD INFLUENCE – OMAH LAY TATTOO – FIREBOY DML – Winner DANGEROUS LOVE – TIWA SAVAGE PRODUCER OF THE YEAR
1.PHEELZ – ‘BILLIONAIRE’ BY TENI – Winner 2.SPAX – ‘AWAY’ BY OXLADE 3.KEL P – ‘PULL UP’ BY BURNA BOY 4.SARZ – ‘MAD’ BY SARZ & WURLD
BEST RAP ALBUM.
1.GOD’S ENGINEERING – AQ – Winner 2.ILLY CHAPO X – ILLBLISS 3.YPSZN2 – PSYCHO YP 4.CULT! – PAYBAC IBORO 5.THE ERIGMA II – ERIGGA
Best Alternative Album
1.YELLOW – BRYMO 2.LUCID – ASA 3.THE LIGHT – BEZ 4.PIONEERS – DRB LASGIDI 5.ROOTS – THE CAVEMEN – Winner
BEST POP ALBUM
1.APOLLO – FIREBOY DML – Winner 2.AFRICAN GIANT – BURNA BOY 3.A GOOD TIME – DAVIDO 4.WOMAN OF STEEL – YEMI ALADE 5.AFRO POP VOL. 1 – ADEKUNLE GOLD
BEST RECORDING OF THE YEAR
1.OZYMANDIAS – BRYMO – Winner 2.SMILE – WIZKID FEAT. HER 3.WONDERFUL – BURNA BOY 4.DREAMER – FIREBOY DML 5.GHOST TOWN – WURLD
Songwriter of the Year Award
Duduke – Simi – Winner
Best R&B Album
Fireboy DML – Tears, laughter and Goosebumps – Winner
Best Music Video
1. ELI – FIREBOY BY CLARENCE PETERS 2.1 MILLI – DAVIDO BY DIRECTOR K – Winner 3.SMILE – WIZKID BY MEJI ALABI 4.BILLIONAIRE – TENI BY TG OMORI 5.SHEKERE – YEMI ALADE BY OVIE ETSEYATSE
African Artiste Recognition
1.MASTER KG – Winner 2.KUAMI EUGENE 3.SAUTI SOL 4.SHAATA WALE 5.STONEBWOY
Best Collaboration
1.KNOW YOU – LADIPOE FEAT. SIMI – Winner 2.NOBODY – DJ NEPTUNE FEAT. JOEBOY & MR. EAZI 3.SWEET IN THE MIDDLE – DAVIDO FEAT. NAIRA MARLEY, ZLATAN & WURLD 4.DON’T CALL ME BACK – JOEBOY FEAT. MAYORKUN 5.TOTORI – ID CABASA FEAT. WIZKID & OLAMIDE 6.GET THE INFO – PHYNO FT PHENOM AND FALZ
Best Rap Single
1.OGB4IG – REMINISCE 2.SHUT UP – BLAQBONEZ 3.COUNTRY – ILLBLISS – Winner 4.GET THE INFO – PHYNO, FALZ & PHENOM 5.BOP DADDY – FALZ FEAT. MS. BANKS
Best Vocal Performance (Male)
WURLD – GHOST TOWN 2.CHIKE – FORGIVE 3.PRAIZ – UNDER THE SKY – Winner 4.COHBAMS – PLENTI 5.NONSO AMADI – WHAT MAKES YOU SURE 6.JOHNNY DRILLE – COUNT ON YOU
Best Vocal Performance (Female)
1.SIMI – NO LONGER BENEFICIAL 2.LINDSEY ABUDEI – ONE ON THE OUTSIDE 3.NINIOLA – ADDICTED – Winner 4.J-DESS – CHI EFO 5.YEMI ALADE – LAI LAI 6.IMANSE – AJALA
Headies Revelation
1.VICTOR AD 2.FIREBOY DML – Fireboy DML 3.JOEBOY 4.TENI 5.REMA 6.CHIKE
LYRICIST ON THE ROLL
1. AQ – EUNICE 2.BLAQBONEZ – DEFINE RAP 2 3.MI ABAGA – TRINITY 4.ILLBLISS – COUNTRY – Winner 5. PHENOM – GET THE INFO 6. PHYNO – SPEAK LIFE
BEST STREET-HOP ARTISTE
1.NAIRA MARLEY & YOUNG JOHN – MAFO 2.MAYORKUN – GENG – Winner 3.REMINISCE FEAT. OLAMIDE & NAIRA MARLEY – INSTAGRAM 4.RUDEBOY – AUDIO MONEY 5.IVD & ZLATAN – BOLANLE 6.OLAMIDE – PAWON
ALBUM OF THE YEAR
1.AFRICAN GIANT – BURNA BOY 2.APOLLO – FIREBOY DML 3.AFRO POP VOL. 1 – ADEKUNLE GOLD 4.YELLOW – BRYMO 5.BOO OF THE BOOLESS – CHIKE
HEADIES’ VIEWER’S CHOICE
1.DAVIDO 2.OMAH LAY 3.BURNA BOY 4.FALZ 5.FIREBOY DML 6.MAYORKUN 7. DJ NEPTUNE 8. WIZKID – Winner
ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
1.OLAKIRA 2.ALPHA P 3.JAMOPYPER 4.ZINOLEESKY 5.BAD BOY TIMZ – Winner
SONG OF THE YEAR
1.FEM – DAVIDO 2.NOBODY – DJ NEPTUNE FEAT. JOEBOY & MR. EAZI 3.JORO – WIZKID – Winner 4.MAFO – NAIRA MARLEY 5.DUDUKE – SIMI
BEST POP SINGLE
1.BILLIONAIRE – TENI 2.NOBODY – DJ NEPTUNE FEAT. JOEBOY & MR. EAZI – Winner 3.LADY – REMA 4.FEM – DAVIDO 5.JORO – WIZKID 6.SKELETUN – TEKNO
BEST ‘ALTERNATIVE’ SONG
1.CORNER – LADY DONLY FEAT. VANJESS & THE CAVEMEN 2.I WONDER – MOELOGO – Winner 3.BITTER – DEENA ADE 4.ANITA – THE CAVEMEN 5.MONEY DEVOTION – GBASKY 6.GOD SAVE THE QUEEN – OLU
Headies Hall of Fame
Chief Ebenezer Obey King Sunny Ade
Nairaland GeneralRe: Woman,Zainab Claims She Was Impregnated By Gust Of Wind by Bms4real(op): 1:47pm On Feb 19, 2021
Bms4real:
Many women might not be aware of this, but there is a science behind the patch that appears on the female pant after its worn.

A scientist took to twitter to explain how the acidic discharge from the body could cause the fabric of the underwear to bleach and therefor leaving a patch behind - you can see the tweet below.

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