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SecretSpy666:
Greetings Nairalanders,
I want to seek for you peoples opinions regarding my family challenges.

I'm from a broken home. My parents divorced when I was a child of two years. I'm the only child from their union. My father and mother abandoned me and remarried to other spouse each. I passed through hell growing up with relatives who insulted me with all kinds of names and I was treated like a slave to their own children.

Because of public outcry about my dehumanizing treatment, my father came to village and took me to the city. It was from fry pan to fire experience as my father's new wife was maltreating me. At a point, my father asked me to leave his house that since my arrival, he don't have peace with his wife.

I packed to the house of a relative and work in a block industry to help myself. Most times, I slept in a CAC church close to the relative house as the two-room apartment is not enough for his family. My mother never care if I was alive. She never call me nor reply to letter I sent through someone to her. I continued working in the block industry and started a part time programme. I completed the part time programme and did my NYSC and master degree. I got a job with University of Ado Ekiti with the help of a course mate, managing myself now and surprisingly my mother and father started calling me often.

Both of them have 6 children each with their respective second spouse. Mother want his son to come and live with me, I refused and my father too have been requesting for financial assistance which I also refused. I don't want to have anything to do with both of them. My father's daughter recently called me to help her with school fees, I bluntly told her to ask her mother what she did to me and caught the call. Since then, she never call.

I'm alone and have just two friends. I don't have family. All of them calling now are just looking for what to get from me, not that they care about me. My mother never call me once to ask about my welfare even when I sent my phone number to her through her relative. I wrote WAEC, completed degree course before she started calling me and it is only to request for one thing or other. I'm planning to get married without telling them and build a separate family.

See this life Hard, the main reason they contact you is because of Financial gain like you said, see i will advice you to forgive them but distant yourself from them, I'm facing a similar thing too, but you need to realize that because someone gave birth to you doesn't mean they are worthy to be called a Father or a Mother, they don't deserve such title from you, also you can help their kids if you have the power too, but don't allow anyone to come and stay with you, this Life is hard o

Nackzy:
Hello Nairalanders,

Please my dog has a lot of Bugs on the Body, Please what can i use to remove the bugs, they are sucking blood from the Dog, thereby not allowing the Dog to Grow as it suppose to, From sad experience i don't want to use Sniper or all those chemicals, cos that was what killed my friends Dog.

I need something mild but effective...
Thanks, don't mine my errors

Let me just advice you,if you read this sha, don't use any powder or spray on your dog because if it gets to any wound it will affect it and can lead to death, so i therefore recommend you take it to a vet, there is this injection i gave my dog, i can't remember the name because its long, but yu can ask thos people selling dog food or vet, or just google for the injection online..

ednut1:
With all his grand slams he doesn't still look like a great. Doesn't have that nadal and federer personality. He is one tough mofo sha

Wetin this one sabi, DJ is their great ,do your research, Nigerians go just open mouth gba talk rubbish

sinaj:
Love letter and when my senior cut my skirt because it was too tight.

Lol, because you so beautiful

dview001:
Lol ....go to unilorin , you'll know stress in uniben is child's play.

Is it the same secondary school?
Unilorin no dey stressful abeg, Uniben,oau, UI all this one's na baba

ProfAmaben:
I love China's progress but they should steer clear of the US. The US can obliterate China in one fell swoop.

Chinko, don't start what you can't finish.

Yu be fool, yu too dey watch too much film,baba China fit stand USA anytime anywhere anyday, na USA dey fear cus China get Data on USA , USA no get DATA on china

Honestly, sister please don't try to marry him, first thing ,you marry the man who respect you if he doesn't show you respect and keep on comparing you with other girls.. plss don't

Why one person go get 7 children haha, kilode wetin he dey Bleep, why he cum dey get 7 children in this Nigeria

I don't understand people's comment, most of yall are ignorant, Anti terrorists police also can be sent on a rescue mission when needed if they are the closest squad to the area, so stop shouting police rescue soldiers, most of yu don't know there are different departments in all force

SirMichael1:
Abeg who be this neko Williams guy? Never heard of him. From the junior team?

Yeah, try and watch more of Liverpool matches, the guy has started most of all our FA nd carling cups

DEEBOZZ:
I'm not a prophet but mark my word,
Liverpool would lose tonight game.

Yes you are just a noise maker, wasted sperm

pafo:
Same Liverpool who supported Suarez in the racist row with Evra? That Liverpool? They can keep their kneeling in their pockets.

You are a fool, stop bringing in issues that has already been settled... read up on things we all make mistake....

https://www.goal.com/en-ng/news/patrice-evra-manchester-united-liverpool-luis-suarez-racism/1526730o9meqz1mriu6yyz1fw4

lablonclacla:
Lol......the editing has distorted the pictures. No doubt OAU has some of the most beautiful architectural buildings but due to lack of maintenance, they are becoming shadows of themselves. Most haven't been painted for decades. Reason is why UI and UNILAG are far ahead.

Take for example no hostel in UNILAG or UI can ever be this bad and unkempt like these ones in the first two pictures. Now compare this to the worst hostel in unilag Enijoku from the last two pictures and see what i am talking about.

Modified: Heard most of the hostels have been renovated and are now habitable. A good one i must admit. I will appreciate if i can get pictures of the new look.

Clearly its been long you have seen OAU hostels, better than Unilag and UI hostel combine..

Gwagone:
Good one

but Monkeys are not humans

Almost all the drugs we use are tested with rat and monkeys, we posses like 80 DNA with monkeys
See you just need to learn, its glaring you don't know all this

[quote author=Gerano post=86294510][/quote]Ode, he was almost outside the 18 yard box...fool

Mishael42019:
Hahahah

I pity black people if the white started by constructing death trap like this the world would have been in dark age by now


I spit on this project

I spit on the school that accept such evil

I spit on black r***

I spit on Africa

God bless America

Ode ni e, God bless America, what do you know about America, you think America gives a Bleep about you, black Ape, i don't think you will make it in life, its people like you that i wish bokoharam has killed years ago, Kudos to the guy jare, he deserves some accolades

Kingrexyl:
Obembet you are a guy with big dick disguising as a female, don't worry you will be exposed soon.

Lol, its obvious jare...

Galaticos444:
one champions league trophy in 13yrs,no premiership trophy in more than 25yrs is it wot u call serial winners?

Thats not what he is saying oga, wonder when you will stop thinking like a slowpoke, don't carry this stupidity to 2020 oo...serial winner, he didn't mention titles, and no one is talking about history here

I logged into my bet9ja account today , tried to book some games, but noticed i can't do anything on it.,who else is experiencing the same issue?

Open, mouth to talk rubbish, people wey do trouser talk say na man dem do am for, later dey do am for women too, soo why are Pastors saying things dey are not really sure about