₦airaland Forum

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Like in India, theyve that deep extended family ish going on for them.

I don't think this would work in this case

valentineuwakwe:
let me ask you first, is their any law that forbids one from staying in the same compound with his parent and get married? to me I hv never seen and dis is none..as long as its not in the same apartment, no problem...if it suites the couple to stay in the compound, better...it's Ida personal choice and besides he told you he is not yet bouyant. .....he should be lucky its a different apartment in the same compound...

I personally don't agree to this. But he is weighing this option anyway

xynerise:
He should start from a room apartment

The lady wouldn't go with him. She want something better... That's the issue here!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Too many monitoring eyes. Such is normal in many societies though

Normal? How??

xynerise:
Poor decision. You don't borrow to rent an apartment when your income won't fetch you money for next rent

His income should be able to but he doesn't has a budget for it and can't afford beyond what I initially stated at the moment

tosyne2much:
Why would a man comfortably harbour his wife in his parents house and see nothing wrong in it? Some things don't just seem right even though it's not stated in the law

Even without being married, there was a point I was no longer feeling comfortable staying under the roof of my parents. I will rather leave my father's duplex and live with my wife in a one room apartment

That wife isn't willing to live with you in that one room apartment and you really do love her. What Do You Do?

amokeme:
Is or is not?

She's not ready to drop a dime

JoyceMeyersFan:
Ask her what exactly? Nigerians and their system of making simple things appear complex. Why make a point u can't explain.

Look sharing a man's name is a pride to a woman

xynerise:
You said he is not buoyant enough and you still wants him to find a means to move out, to where exactly, under the bridge?

Suit his Lady's standard?

How much did she contribute?
He should better rent to his own standard and not to impress someone who didnt assist

The guy wan go borrow money ni o

amokeme:
To me it's wrong.. when it gets to a certain age, a man is suppose to be on his own, doesn't matter if is just one room, be independent.

And as for the bold, I'm really not understanding I mean, I do but I don't get why that is always an issue. If she has a standard, she should help contribute towards the said standard.

The guy said he can only afford like a room self con but the lady feels its small and she is even ready to drop a single penny...
And you know you ladies know how to get a man to do your wish especially when he's in love....

JoyceMeyersFan:
And of what use is Sharing a man's name?

no insult intended but ask your mum she'd tell you

ubunja:
lol bobo, there is formula with human sexuality that once you get it its like a key that opens all mysteries and makes everything clear as day.

make I just sabi like you this game.

I have a friend who is getting married soon but still lives with his parents. Although, he stays separately in another apartment but still in that same building. He said he isn't buoyant enough to rent an apartment that suit his Lady's standards.

So is it okay for him to get married in his parents house or he should just find a means to move out?

ubunja:
marriage=financial support financially independent women=less interested in marriage

you sure do have a calling in "womanology".

JoyceMeyersFan:
Hope they know they are the ones who will
`become pregnant and old
`have a lot of emotions with no one to share with because men aren't interested in emotional talks
`not make any major decision, career-business-personal, without first considering the home and kids, while the man is carefree, focusing on his dreams and pursuing it with all he has got.
`take care of the home and kids with no one appreciating and the man expecting to be appreciated because it appears he is the one slaving for the family.
`ask for money you won't spend on yourself but on the home, while you have lots of needs that you can't mention
`get blamed when the man cheats, when he doesn't have money to give his relations
`get blamed when there are no kids, when the kids are misbehaving or not well kept
`YOU CAN ADD YOURS

It's simple! "They get to share the man's name".

Maychang:
I wish we had to pay heavily for every thread we create.

I really think so too

vybzkartel:
In one of our chats
She said I look like a female (woman)

I did not ask her what she really meant

BBut have been thinking about it

What could she mean?

Please are we the one that said you look like a woman ni? abi you are not man enough to ask her what she meant then you can ask the gods why you look like a Sissy

AuroraB:
Is this some kind of punk

The man sperm is highly nutritious and rich in fibre.

If you can lick your husband sperm and enjoy it, I see no reason why you shouldn't be able to eat a food prepared with sperm.

Y'ALL SHOULD CONSUME SPERM ESPECIALLY THE FEMALE. IT IS GOOD FOR THE BODY.

julietene:
Hmm...as you go school reach?

Greedy and cunning people often fall victim of Fraud

Is it by force to serve this zoo called Nigeria in the first place

He is beautiful

O-L-O-S-H-O!!

amani63:
RIP to those that have die

If you don't know what this people pass through each day to keep you protected don't talk rubbish about them or criticize their efforts

God bless Nigeria Army
Long life NA

Are you okay?
Who did they protect?

Mhiztamurtala:
instead of praying u are putting blame on someone.. I pray u be the next victim.. #fool!!

wish you same

akeentech:
EAST AFRICANS DO NOT HAVE ANYTHING MEANINGFUL TO CONTRIBUTE TO AFRICA DEVELOPMENT

Does Nigeria has anything meaningful to contribute??

only in Uganda

E no go beta for Buhari and all the APC caucus

The couple looks good together

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MhizAJ:
Too long

This piece is not even up to 2000 words and you can't read it... If it is that thing now you wouldn't say it's too long or too big...I know you'll handle it well...

op, how old are you