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ChildOfDoom:
It's been 3 months without gambling. From july to september ending. Miraculous! I should be happy for my progress, but I am not. 6 years of bet9ja addiction, has already destroyed me beyond repair. If you see me now, i look unkempt. I hardly take care of my body and health. My body deserves to suffer for my years of foolishness. I am always distraught and disillusioned. I will let you in on reasons why I will never forgive myself....

Bola146:
firstly how old are you? Na by force She told you her mind already!!!! Please don't come back to nairaland that a lady disappointed you because your mumu is really annoying.

Tunadexy:
We just started being together not quite long ago. About 6 months ago. Initially, when we started, she would sometimes be moody. So I asked her one day why she was moody and she told me about a guy in her school she loves very well but it seems the guy doesn't love her. She was the one forcing herself on the guy. And the guy is one gentle guy. She would almost cry then but I'll console her not to and we got along. I was initially thinking I should step back because that guy could be a budding threat. As we continued, we got more intimate that we started making out. And we both enjoyed it. So recently, I stopped talking to her and she had more time to talk to that guy. After a while, we spoke and she was like since I didn't care about her, she wanted to be too. She was actually angry at me but I was thinking she already moved on without me until we made out again. But the other guy isn't that sexually oriented guy. He's cool. My concern now is if I should still go after her or just leave her because she might later follow the guy. Her birthday is coming soon and I want to surprise her but I'm skeptical about it. I don't want to be like a fool. But I seriously love her but I'm not sure if she loves me but I know she loves that guy. She also doesnt talk about the guy in my presence anymore ( maybe she doesn't want me to be jealous, I don't know). Moderator pls help move to front page. Thanks

Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?

Roman3304:
Good morning house, my guy told me his girlfriend asked him when he will start his future and he does not know what to answer her.. he need answers and suggestions.

Premiumwriter:
Except you have been f*ckin regularly for some time, if not most girls will never agree when you ask straight forward.

Just invite her come your house. Discuss with her normally as you would.

When it's been a few minutes of her adjusting and becoming more comfortable and free, then try to make a move.

Try sit close to her. I found asking a girl to come sit close to you or in between your legs easier to seduce them than to actually stand up and go and sit close to them.

So if she's sitting far from you and she's already comfortable being in your house, just ask her to come sit close. A simple 'come and sit here' is often enough.

When she's sitting close, try and touch her. Keep nervousness out of your hand. I don't talk feelings much, but 'you're pretty' and other shitty comments often do wonders.

She'll surely resist. It's girls. That's how they roll. Try and stop. Dont talk for a few minutes just sit for a while and then resume the talk in lower tones, making her to laugh a lil and tease her and then resume.

Jst on and off. They tend to guide their legs very well, so start with the hand as in the finger part. Move to arms and then breast.

Stomach is sensitive to them like an embarrassment, so don't go lower quickly. But sometimes you jst gotta go.

If she doesn't obey you asin come sit close to you, then just keep quite for a while. The essence of keeping quiet if they don't comply is to give them time to make up their mind and showing that you are not desperate to please them.

Sha people are different. So try and read the situation at every point. Also, try touching her not inappropriately but try touching her even while you are gusting normally.

Another way to know if she really want to f*ck you is to wait for a long time. Most times will start telling you they want to go. Some go just tell you say 'I'll be leaving in 10, 20, 30 minutes from now" or "I'll soon be going o" while still looking at you with a changed tone.

That's to let you know that you need to make a move. Sometimes, this will not happen.

In all, Dont forget, no go pull pants sharp sharp. Just start from the top.

They won't agree to kiss you soon. Most girls are like that. Don't ask them to kiss you first. Just start kissing the neck or hand. I like that intertwining our hands, then raise and kiss it while she's looking before going for the neck and then leaving the hand, brushing it up the arm and then branching to the boobs.

Press them for sometime before pulling the arm of the dress down a lil. No mouth kiss even till this point unless she tilts her head.

virginprincess:
Stop asking foolish question, if want sex from her then marry her.

Nooria:
I hear my fellow girls saying how nice men especially are to them.
why is mine different?

dollytino4real:
I represent 26, happy independence day to us!

ZIINI:
Evening guy's how has been your day so far
So on this thread I'll be highlighting some major reasons and factors as to why you should fear women.
Pardon my english just try to focus more on the thread
Wanna use this privilege to thank everyone that plead on my behalf to the moderator I say a big thank you to each and everyone of you. I really appreciate it.
OK so back to the major reason why I opened this thread this thread is basically on women and we gonna be looking at some major reasons why we should fear this creatures called women,mind you I didn't open this thread to bash,abuse or bodyshame women just sat down and I gathered some concrete reasons as to why we should fear them.
To me women are a gift to humanity and on the other hand they're destruction to humanity.
Even in the Bible I can't remember that verse to back up this content but its clearly written also in the Bible that we should fear women I don't know if it's also written in the Qur'an but my muslim brothers you can go along with us.
Now judging from the Bible there are many reasons why you should fear women.
Let's take Eve for example the first woman.
Reading the Bible we get to know that they were not together when the incident happened she wander off to somewhere else and coming back with some shitty apple giving the innocent man to eat instead of her eating the apple all alone and facing the punishment and consequences all by herself she dragged the innocent man to her punishment.
This is the first reason why you should fear women.
A commanding general of Nebuchadnezzar Holofernes was killed by a woman
Making it the second reason why you should fear women
OK we've seen two factors in the Bible let now check out some other factors in our new world
A minister of finance or petroleum I think embezzled a certain amount of money that can cater for a total number of children going to about 75m children without anything been done to her another reason why you should fear women
A wife of a very well known actor in the USA got into an entanglement with a small boy her son's age fuçking cougar
fear women.
If you're conversant with history very well in foreign countries women are used as spy during war to spy another nations to know the weakness of that country
Fear women, there are so many reasons I'll love to list but typing can really be boring sometimes.now let's go back to the Bible again and see some other factors
Remember Samson he died through a woman
Remember Joseph his master's wife forcefully asked him to have intercourse with her but he declined the offer running out leaving his coat in the room
Come to think of it had it been God didn't have plans for his life do you think his story will ever exist in the Bible ?
He went to prison for the crime he didn't commit if the king didn't have a nightmare and that slave in the prison didn't remember him what will be the poor boy's fate? So he will die in prison while the Kings wife keep enjoying her life as queen . fear women
Remember Jezebel she killed an innocent man cause of his beautiful vineyard fear women
Back to our new world here I think it was last week or so I was reading a thread and a girl said she want a Virgin as her husband although am not concerned about anyone's right or choice but the question is this girl in particular there's a 50 50 chance that she's not a Virgin and she want a Virgin man to be her husband why are women so cruel? I see girls calling guy's here broke ass and whereas a church rat is way more richer than some of them. Fear women
I'll stop here but kindly take my advice and make use of it I know some will come here and say he's asking us to fear women or to stay far from them he has forgotten that his mother is also a woman
My mother is not excluded am talking to women generally you people are very fierce and mean
If you're a guy and after reading this you still don't find this thread useful or you didn't yield to my advice then you're own your own have said mine.fear women cause E get why

czarr:
Girls are like water they take the shape of the vibe of their environment and the individual they are attracted to or want to be involved with.
That means girls are different people at different places and can have different personalities to different men(people)...because women are conformist by nature.

Women ask how you got their numbers so they won't break character....what if you got their number from someone she respects at her church and she is a runs girl....she has to know so she would not think you are a client and then her reputation at church is at stake.

What are your thoughts?

czarr:
Girls are like water they take the shape of the vibe of their environment and the individual they are attracted to or want to be involved with.
That means girls are different people at different places and can have different personalities to different men(people)...because women are conformist by nature.

Women ask how you got their numbers so they won't break character....what if you got their number from someone she respects at her church and she is a runs girl....she has to know so she would not think you are a client and then her reputation at church is at stake.

What are your thoughts?

Shugavee:
so if I dey find husband na for Nairaland wey ode like you full I go cm find am ?