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GuestLog:
I wish his girlfriend was cheap. She wasn't, I'm experienced in breaking excuses & defences. You won't understand. There's very few women I cannot get.

SPOLO:
Abeg Bosses wey Sabi matter advice me on how to counter this.


I am not really the type that ask a lady out, i just make friends and take it beyond to dating level.

But recently i asked one out and she said she is gonna give me a reply and today she was like.... '' Can we just be a friends''?...


And i am not the type that do friends issh stuff is either you say yes or No.


Please what's the best response to this question ❓

kweensheba:
Many females have been found to have sagged breasts irrespective of the age difference or health status and some times marital status as well.

Sagging of breast is becoming more and more prominent and it will do us good to know why it is happening and what to do.

How do you know your breast has sagged you may ask?



When the tip of the nipple is found to be below where the breast is attached to your body then the breast has sagged and this can be checked by oneself at home to know your status.

Somes of the causes of breast sagging include:

Smoking and drinking.

Excessive wearing of bra ( more than 10-12 hours daily).

Exercise ( yes, don't be surprised that exercise is here. This one is particularly for those who are heavily endowed).

Using of wrong sized bras.

Lack of proper balanced diet (malnutrition).

After mentioning causes that we can control there are some that we might not easily be able to e.g

Heredity (probably in the gene).

Age (once you begin to age, so it will gradually sag).

Underlying health problems.

Proper maintenance and care of the breast (whole body too) should always be carried out.

Courtesy of Opera.com

KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.

The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".

But that is the truth!

Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos.
Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.

So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.

When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.

So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.

I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.

But in today's world, so many things have changed.

Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.

Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.

So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".

We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.

Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.

Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.

I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.

Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!

We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.

As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.

The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.

I am tired of typing.

To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.

In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.

Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.

They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.

Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;

1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).

2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).

3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).

4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".

5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.

This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?

This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.

When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!

Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.

Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.

According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".

In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.


Cheers!

Martinez39s:
Lol. Apply and stand a chance to win.

Offpoint:
It's corona season, nobody gives a fûck you or your fiance for now....

Both of you can go fûck yourselves till after this period.

Chidorx60:
Good evening nairalanders....what's your take on siblings of opposite sex living together off campus....it's a norm
throughout the few hostels I've lived in and been to....... personally I don't think it's advisable and I would never allow my own children cohabit like that unguided .....

So nairalanders what's your own opinion...Am I being too suspicious or is the possiblity of sexual attraction among siblings a vary uncommon occurrence.

Pls mode do well to push this to front page thanks in advance

tobodex:
Can i marry someone that I am older than with almost 18 years. The lady is 25 years


So is it proper to marry.

Thanks for the nice comments... No insult please

lavylilly:
Hello ROMACELANDER is been a while I posted here.

So this dude has been disturbing me since 2018 and I refuse to show him interest and even to consider his request. He didn't give up, he kept disturbing me like am the only lady in this planet earth and I was irritated by all this. He kills my battery with his call every blessed day, but i won't still take his calls, I kept treating him like a piece of trash.

At times he will buy stuffs for me and bring them to my house and I will shout at him and will reject them. I don't know why I was treating him like his not human being.

Earlier this year he confronted me wit one of his friend, asking me why am so.full of myself so I think he can't take care of me or what?? I felt guilty but didn't say anything to him. He still didn't GIVE UP. Am so scared to love again, my past relationships made me so.
COULD THIS BE TRUE LOVE?

Petyprincess:
I dnt believe someone obsessing over you is love!! If you dnt like the guy don't go for him!! Dnt be pressured to date him because of gifts nd other benefits!! I am in the same shoe as you bt i try alot to avoid him bt still he wnt let me be!! If you still afraid of getting into new relationship give yourself some space nd if he really worth it you can give him a try!! Above all FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!

Davash222:
No sane guy will consider a Nairaland girl for a date. Bunch of frustrated evening newspapers!

IBINDTOMYSELF:
This pains me to write; but my girlfriend is a dirty girl
Okay, this afternoon, I got a hotel room booked for usy, and can you believe she came from school, all sweaty and opened her legs to he bleeped? Her pussy stinks of rotten fish but Bleep ; she's the prettiest person I've ever seen. I'm tired of this dirty attitude, and want to discard her....

This is someone that'll use the toilet without wiping, and open her legs for sex. She's not conscious of her hygiene, and I'm bitter. I want to break up with her without hurting her
Any advice please?

Davash222:
"He has a nice ride and nice house"



Na that nice ride and house go kee you! Aside kpekus, what else can you offer a guy with a nice ride and house
There lies the answer to your question.

lavylilly:
Where are you spending your Christmas? Share with us with photo
Me: chilling on a LOW

milemimi93:
Uder 96 hours I have slept with 6 beautiful Nigerian ladies. What amazes me most is not how easily you get in bed with them but how low-price they are.

fairfora:
He's still dribbling towards the goal post ni . I raised same issue the last time here on NL when adesewa utomi her wife's news was raised here. I came under serious attacks that day. Make dem tell the world wetin dey do dem make dem get solution , na lie

Respect55:
How u Wan take go heaven like this