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CondenseMilk:
Lagos kids, I fear Dem pass anything

why you fear them?

Anonymoususher:
My ex was an easy going lady. So calm and understanding.

Never does she have problem with people. But she was a sex addict.

That caused our problem because the moment I relocated 3 other guys banged her and she confessed that she couldn't hold it.

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Wow and she dey easy going?na wa make person fear woman oo.

Gudfadah:
Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.

She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?

As for me i like the decision of you getting an apartment for her outside and then live with the other 4 kids in ur own home,if she can’t accept her and everybody should be at peace then that decision is final as for me.

Go and sell the phone you’re using to type on here.

I am here for you,contact me privately will satisfy you 24/7.

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teamc:
Got married 2yrs ago and we have a beautiful daughter, she has this dream of studying in Canada and I support her dream.

Our immigration consultant recommend she apply alone to increase chances that i and our daughter can join her later.

Now visa is out and she will be travelling next month. I have read numerous stories about how women change when they travel out.

Should I be worried?

op share your immigration consultant please

Unyimekelvin:
There's this good neighbour of mine that I always associates with..we do talk, Play and do some stuff like that together...

She 38 and unmarried, she isn't in any relationship at all;we do ball together as neighbours sha just that!!!

Let's me cut it short, I'm tired of typing ...


Fast forward to this morning around 3::AM..i heard a knock at My door ..cos I was still awake, so i rushed down to check who was knocking behold it's was this neighbour of mine..she was on her night gown, looking so charming tho ... she asked me to open the door for her cos she's feeling too lonely in her apartment..i was like okay!!! Wait a minute I rush in to put on My pyjamas cos I was only on My short...

I later came back nd opened they door for her,she walked in majestically.. then I closed My door and follow her ...

She came in and sat on My bed without saying any shit!! I was like Aunty Dorathy is everything alright ??cos that's her name...she replied yes..

On my mind I knew all was not fine, might be she's just scard of sleeping alone in her apartment....

So I climb on My bed and lay down My Head and My body...she was just there staring at me.. without saying shit..so I got My blanket and gave it to her to used.... she rejected it and said there's something very important that wants to discuss with you ...i said okay go ahead... she lay down roll closed to me..... now My spirit was high but I held myself firmly cos she is not My equal..

They following conversation took place..
She: why are you always alone?? Cos I haven't seen any Lady in your house before...

I: I laughed out so hard before replying ...i said I was fine staying alone.

She: have you for once asked me why i chosed to be they way i am??

I: I reply how

She: I meant staying up to 38 unmarried..

I:::i was like ooh NO!!!
But why

She::: she said okay, i want to ask for a favour!!

I:::i said yes!!... go ahead

She::: promise me you not gonna fail me..

I::: i said yes...

She:: I have been having this in mind right from they day i knew you and I always feel bad telling you or asking you this...

I::i was like what's that??

She:: you are aware I'm 38 unmarried,No relationship and I'm afraid of Men cos I ave been through..a serious heartbreak � before.. you know, you are My neighbour, my friend nd they one I'm really closed to in this compound and i trust you ..

I'm getting old and i can't remain like this ...I need a favour from you and that's a child...i know this might sound weird to you but I'm really serious about it...i will be taking responsibility of everything, I will take care of you and the baby...i promise never to make you regret this favour you are about doing me....is not as if I want you to marry me,i want a child from you.. be it a male or female but if you give me both ...i will still appreciate it,if you chose to get married to me i will sponsor they marriage and i promise to build things together with you and defend you in anyway... I'm so desperate for this yeah! I know that was they reason i came by this time ..

I love you yeah! and I can't hide this anymore;i might be older than you but you made my taste... age is just a number..if you get married to me,even if you choosed to have a side chick out there i wasn't have any problem as far as you made me be among someone's mother...

I'm confused i haven't said anything till today and she's still distopping me ... what should I do now...�...she is beautiful tho but older than me..i loved her but they fear of her age hmmm... have you been through this before share your opinion ...

introduce me to her i am willing to give her what she wants,isn't it kids?i am here and free.Thanks in advance op

ibadan

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

please help her

can i contact you?

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