@OP You're a good woman with kind heart obviously.. probably why your late sugar daddy was so mad over you.

Please go ahead and help his family.. grace will find you and yours.

deavicky:
did she just start sleeping with man?. The man must have talk her into doing by proposing fake love ti her also may had taken advantage her age too. You realise that if the man had given birth at 19 the child would almost be her mate.

Hahahhaha...When a man married with kids proposes love to an adult woman who knows he's married?? thats what deception means to you??

So greed isnt the reason she decided to fvck a married man for gains...the money she was collecting out of greed ..was it fake too??

Anyway....wateva narrative rocks your boat

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

please help her

Please assist her as soon as possible, her condition is in a terrible one, being in Nigeria alone could be very frustrating, please assist her and she may know later. God bless u as you have humanity in you.

advanceDNA:


Hahahhaha...When a man married with kids proposes love to an adult woman who knows he's married?? thats what deception means to you??

So greed isnt the reason she decided to fvck a married man for gains...the money she was collecting out of greed ..was it fake too??

Anyway....wateva narrative rocks your boat

You've said it all.

Carcholce:
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You must have contributed to what killed him.
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Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Ask your husband, not internet strangers.

[quote author=Madampauline post=118150955]

She knows me well

The most important thing is the assistance you want to render to her.
Do it anonymously, so that she won’t say no.
You may reveal your identity later when she stabilises financially, after all the man is now late.

MALIGNANTGuest:
Nothing we no go see
Very soon people go begin get Ashawo in-law
Such as side chick in-law

Anyway, assist them
You were the wife that was never upgraded to second wife position. That's how I see it.
She may know and still appreciate you.
Women have 6 senses and not 5. You may think she wouldn't know, but she stands a chance of knowing as a woman.

MEMORY VERSE
Always ensure you make people you see everyday happy including your side chicks. Help doesn't usually come from siblings or relatives.
People should treasure every moment they share with you, be it an Ashawo.
Add value to people's lives. It pays

Even the BIBLE referenced how a prostitute assisted the children of Israelites spy Jericho.
Not to talk of an ordinary sidechick

Dats it...
Even an ashawo can give u a treat da would make u see her as an angel. And consequently fall in love.

Madampauline:


Yes she was aware of the affair and she was a good friend of my aunty

It doesn't matter, do it as lord leadeth but with a free mind. Render the help and see what God almighty will turn it into. God bless

Please help her anonymously, don't look at her present situation but look at it as an reciprocal obligation. For you to be aware of their preswnt predicaments there must be a reason. Thank you

PlayMaker14:
The only reasonable lady on this thread with a brilliant comment.


Weldone.

I don't understand the kind of help she wants to give. Build a house? Scholarships till PhD level for the kids? Monthly upkeep?.... bunch of wic.ked aunty and sidechick

Heathrow44:


women are women, ur wife is not ur mother, no matter how much u think she loves u, she's not ur mom, is only ur mom dats going t be ur ride or die, when shit hits d fan, just imagine urslf having a stage 2 cancer and ur losing ur hair uve sold everything for chemotherapy, let's see how long she's going t stay, let's see hw long she's going to be cleaning up after him, loving a woman is like a fading candle, u should expect everything and anything

mother love is first and only geinu love, others comes with thing attach to it, that why I drop my statement before.

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

I blame d man for wasting his funds in sponsoring a cheap hooe like you

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Everyone has a past, the most important is have you being redeemed? if yes. do as you are lead by the spirit of CHRIST

Rhassidy360:
Do first she go know later plssss

Rashidi , wa gbayi .. best advice so far ...

mariahAngel:


So, you together with her late husband caused her so much pain, and now you're looking to clear your conscience eekwa?

you women are evil

MALIGNANTGuest:

Heavenly Man,
What will you say of the case of a prostitute assisting the Israelites in spying JERICHO?

God can use anyone and anything to bring about His plan and purposes.

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

May his soul rest in peace.
Pls assist them unanimously if you are sure that she will reject your nice gesture.
Whatever ensure you help them pls.

May God bless you

This life eh! It is still not clear. This pass my imagination.

The man literally failed to secure the future of his family. Now, his former side chick wants to come to rescue after his demise. This is the type of man I will always curse for abandoning his personal project to complete another irrelevant project because of kpekus. It is well.

Madampauline:


She knows me well

If truly you really want to help them, then do it anonymously. Who know if you were raised for a time such as these.

jessylaurel:


I don't understand the kind of help she wants to give. Build a house? Scholarships till PhD level for the kids? Monthly upkeep?.... bunch of wic.ked aunty and sidechick

Maybe she wants to help erect a magnificent structure just like the way she was erecting someone's husband's dick way back.

When karma pays her an unscheduled visit, she should take it with her full chest.

You made a mistake you shouldn't have blocked the man as you reached Europe you try to send him some money I believe the man die because of the heart break anyway try and help them

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

All I know is that you are a good girl and is why you have a good life. Help them in whatever way you can. Be careful how you link up with her otherwise the money will get lost in transmission since the middlemen know you want to be anonymous. And be very very careful once again, help can easily become a nightmare. Just look for something decisive in one transaction that can help them for a long time to come. Cheers

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Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

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You were 19 when you met him, he was married with kids... Let's say his first child was 3 years old when you met him.

You moved to Europe few years later in 2011 - let's say you moved to Europe 5 years after meeting him... that means his first child will be 8 years old.

2022 is 11 years later, it means the first child will be 23 years old. A 23 year old male is already a man and there is high possibility that he is done with schooling.

Also a man that sponsored you abroad in 2011 cannot be extremely poor that he can't afford good education for his kid.


See your story is fabricated, e no make sense

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

u gave the innocent guy HIV that finally killed him

Carcholce:
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You must have contributed to what killed him.
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98% caused by the whoore

Please Help her and set her up in business.

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

1. Do it. In Christianity it's called restitution..

2. After restitution, also pray for God's forgiveness and mercy, since you are "happily married" now, so that the long sexy hands of Karma doesn't catch up with you.

Carcholce:


See what you did here, Women are very crafty. See the way you condemned the man and removed the OP from every faults. What will you teach your daughters?

At 19 She was more than matured to turn down the “married” man’s advances but She accepted to ruin his home, used him to travel abroad and eventually contributed to his death.

Yes, he is a dummy, Bastard and Hades shouldn't spare him, that is of he is in Hell, but we Christ is merciful, but should be given broom to sweep the whole heaven everyday!

See if it wasn't her, it will be someone else.

Use that redpill well in the circumstance coz you want to call the both of them but Na the man look for the OP!

So Sad for the woman and children what crime did dis woman commit... She only married a man who was foolish ..

Go ahead and assist her anonymously and when you see her progress you can let her know later. The purpose you met the husband maybe just for this reason in the next future like this days