Looking for ready-made. You can recreate her into whatever you want her to be if you have true love for her. If you don't, move along.

Besides, if you are irresponsible, you find irresponsible girls. An iresponsible girl would not want to have anything to do with a responsible guy it won't click. Because the difference is clear so check yourself first and be a real man not a nigga or gee. Then you find a real woman.

Places to find real women:

- Conferences
- Church meetings
- Societal CluBS such as Lions Club, Rotary Club etc..
- Mature Parties and Gatherings
- Banks
- Offices and Business places
- Responsible residential areas not 'street'
- Casinos
Etc

Places to find runs girls:

- Clubs
- Kid parties
- Eateries and cheap restaurants
- School environment
- Hostels
- Hotels
- Airports
- Street
Etc

So there is a difference. If you go to where 90% runs girl, you have to ensure she ends up as a woman of your taste. If you don't want to work much, then go for women not girls. If you go for girls, then be ready to make her a woman BY FORCE! Before she embarrass u in public where ur guy has fvck her before

DeeTus:
Lol, she probably left you like a shot for another man who deserved her love more.

Tell me, what really happened?

She didn't go to another person.

She didn't leave either.

Lol

Vinshu:
Are your financially okay?

Yes.

Vinshu:
What is your IQ level?

93

Who broke your heart? Why?

My gf. Notice I didn't call her ex. It's explanable. Though she may soon be ex.

Guys just use and dup them.. don't love.

Just enjoy their body and move

B

Trudiee:
its really sad..

from all you typed, you showed love.. and made this girl a better person, inwardly and outwardly.

but eh, i smell a rat. that girl still loves you. she quit drugs and that life because of you, she asks for forgiveness when she offends you.

the first poster could be right. her dad would not have gotten involved if he didnt say something to her. or maybe he didn't say anything. maybe someone else said something.

so let me get this straigh.. she just up n left like that? no signs?

so sorry

She told me before she was going to meet her dad and I know. Coz the dad saw her on Facebook and got interest in her again after abandoning her for 4 years. After he had seen the fruit of my labor. He called her to just visit him.

I know. I even gave her money for transport. Only God knows what he told her. Where was he when I was working? When I don work finish.. make his ashawo daughter a human being.. he remember his daughter.

ikp120:


Bro cool down and take a bottle of chilled coke. I really hail you for being generous. You had her all these while because she needed your help and as you posted, her family were not in good terms with her. Now everything has changed, and she can now leave her normal life without depending on you. She now has a choice, which she never really had while she was with you because he that pays the bills pulls the strings. Bro money got her to you, but this time around you have to get her without money, because she doesn't need your money as she did before. You tried but it does not
work that way. She was desperate but now she is no longer that way. I have dated a girl like that in school. She had issues with her dad so he quit paying her bills, hence he started dating this guy who had the ability to pay bills. But I asked her out (she said she was single ) and we started dating. Then I dug into her phone and found out that she had a bf at home. I felt bad, but didn't burst out. I stopped calling her. She sensed the distance and confronted me. She told me that she had no one, that the guy I saw in her chat was a guy that was taking good care of her. He bought her an Infinix note phone of 40k+. She said she still loved him. So I advised her to stay with him. While we remained friends.

Bro you did well, but you have to know that things have changed. She can make her choice now.

No you are still wrong.

This is a girl that clearly told me she never needed my money when I asked her the question. A girl that told me several times how much she wanted her future to revolve around me. A girl that went as far as telling her grandma and mum she has found a soul mate she is happy with and both mum and grandma got to.know.me. what are we talking about?

If she never loved me she won't have done all those things. I know she loved me. Anything she did she always sought after my advice on that thing. It's more than what you think. The only major thing I know I bought for her was her phone(50k) and a teddy bear. Nothing more. So how much is that? A girl that sees millionaires even richer than me everyday in club that she goes? Before she finally met me and decided to "huslte"? Why didn't she follow them? Even my friend told me same.thing.

I have tested her secretly and she passed my tests. She would even come home to tell me guys that made passes at her with their SUV and Cars. I don't expect you to understand.

Even when she told me she won't come back with me she cried as she said it. So your point is baseless. What hurt me most is the fact that she just decided to leave me without warning. Although she begged me she would come back to me but come back when? Only God knows the things she would be doing in that Lagos that may be unholy. I was at peace when she was with me and my eyes on her. Not when she is far that is why I ended it.

You talk of her family reuniting.. they did not reunite when she was on the streets? Even the mum appreciated me but the dad did not. The dad that divorce and marry another woman? That one is a dad? He forgot his daught er for years.. then one day he saw her on Facebook. Her pics she posed with me in a flight. He remember he has a daughter. Useless man.

When she was a Slut he did not know he had a daughter. Abeg talk truth where truth dey

You sound just like the father...

I tried to cage her? are you for real?

A girl who was begging me to take her to my place? If you were in my shoes would u just leave such a girl on her own so she can go back to those things behind your back?

A girl that even the grandma ask if I want to marry her. I did not tell her not to go to school. I did not tie her with rope.. everything she did was out of her own free will.

oh u wanted me to leave her to be free so that one night she would go to club I won't know?

Even her mum was ok with her staying with me.. so what are u saying? A girl with a past like her own needs close supervision. not to be left free like a normal girl until she has proven to change. Evan her friends who were cultists maltreated her.. she used my influence in then police to arrest them.. so I should leave her with cultists to live with?

don't b3 an ungrateful person. u sound like one

ikp120:
I am glad to hear that she finally found a way out!

**Dancing happily on the thread**

First of all, you tried to cage her like one of your property, which she was not.

Secondly, you feel that your spending on her gives you a right of way; bro remember you changed her life from being a prostitute to a better lady... There are only 2 classes of people that spending on gives you a right of way on: Prostitutes and your wife.

Thirdly, you even fought with the dad over her. Na wa o; but I understand though.

My advice:
First, quit being possessive. When you possess a lady, and she feels trapped, when she sees a way of escape, she will be gone faster than you can blink an eye. Even if you do heaven and earth for her, give her enough liberty.

Secondly, do your homework and get her phone and social media contacts. She really loves you, but her dad did a neat job and you were really possessive.

Thirdly, send her recharge card without letting her know it is you.

Fourthly, call her and talk with her like a friend.

Fifthly, schedule a meeting with her and apologise for the way you treated her that pissed her off. Remind her of how she made you a better person. Tell her that you have learnt your lessons.

PS:
I know you will be like "but I deserve better than that ". Bro you don't deserve nothing because she has a will of her own. She is no longer within your beck and call, therefore if you still want her, you have to switch mood and get her back, else forget about her and move on.

GOODLUCK!

I think you are the fool here...

what part of my post did I mention that I didn't confirm her health status? and if I patronise prostitutes it doesn't make me less of a man.

so get a life fool

CAPSLOCKED:

MY CONCLUSION BASED ON WHAT YOU JUST NARRATED IS THAT YOU'RE A REALLY F00LISH PERSON. I WONDER WHY YOU DIDN'T INCLUDE THAT IN YOUR ATTRIBUTES. IT SHOULD BE PRESENT EVEN IN YOUR CV.
THE WORD "F00LISH" CAME INTO EXISTENCE SPECIALLY BECAUSE OF YOU.

JUST LOOK AT THIS......



UNPROTECTED SEX WITH A PEDDLER? AND EVEN WENT ON TO PLAN MARRIAGE WITHOUT CONFIRMATION OF HER HEALTH STATUS?
NOW YOU'RE CRYING FOUL AND CALLING WOMEN ALL SORT OF NAMES, WHEN YOU'RE THE ONE WHO TOOK CHARGE AND CAUSED YOUR OWN MISFORTUNE...



BOILEDHEAD, YOU DULL.

Thanks.

You are right it's too late. I was so angry I and the dad ended in a fight and I left with anger and heartbreak.

So its over.

Vinshu:
Too long but let me take my time to read since I have secured the FTC Spot. Would modify after reading and summarise for others.

Summary:-

Alright guys. Here is the summary. He found a first time potential Slut on the street on his usual street time outs. And fell in love with the little girl because she was young and he was her first client. She fell in love first and they have had a wonderful relationship thus far. He changed her life from a drug addicted hoe to a responsible woman. And he felt his days on the streets looking for sluts for a night stand are over.

Suddenly she leaves for Lagos to see her father without packing anything along with hope of coming back to him and she never comes back! He is heartbroken. That's the summary.

My Opinion:-

I feel your pain. what you mentioned you didn't provide full details. When she rejected your offer to take her back, did she give a reason? If she did, can you share? Who knows she may still love you but family stuff you know.

I'm a woman and I know women more than you do. If she intended to leave for good, she won't go without her things. She would take all. For her to leave without them means she actually intended to return.

The dad talking to you means the dad was involved. Maybe he brainwashed her or told her something or did something that made her stay. If he didn't, he won't talk to you. It's not his concern. I suspect the dad either held her down for one reason she may or may not have told you because you didn't care to ask maybe out of anger. I get it. Try to hear her out and give her time. If she is yours she would come back. And believe me, for a woman to fall in love with you FIRST, and have unprotected sex with you the first time meeting you. it's genuine. That's too much even for a player at that age. The love is real.

But I would say "move on"!. Because I can imagine what you would have done at her place when you delivered her things. Whatever you did if out of anger would have spoiled things. So no hope. Unless you stayed cool which I doubt you did. Coz if you're cool, you wont post this yet.

dharay99:

I don't read long crap, Neeeeeeeexxxxxxxt...

Use a laptop. It's not long. Your phone is too small that's why it appears long. It's not my fault

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madridguy:
Some guys wicked pass serpent. If tomorrow now the lady in question pour him acid or stab him to death people will be blaming the innocent lady.
My fear for woman will not even allow me to act funny. I pray the guy escape justice sha

Retar.d

madamoflife:


Must u comment if u have notin to say mechionu

Shut up

I agree with this.

I know men that do this and their relationship is booming.

brightalo1010:
dick sucker ,na my mb and will use it the way I chose to. if ladies misbehavior here is paining you then you have yourself to be blame,because there behaviors here doesn't affect my earnings.

You must be a big fool.

That girl you are asslicking wont fvck you. If that's what you are thinking. Lame ass punk.

brightalo1010:
Who do we have here

Asslicker.

Instead of your to focus on the thread na to quote woman and go off topic sure pass for you. It's your type that make nl ladies misbehave

lola024:


lmao

I like your pix. . Feel like fvcking

strahovski3:
You suck.

Post the full thread. Or I visit your site and copy and paste here killing your dream for cheap hoaxed traffic

Wicked. This guy

ephemm:


You're to young to focus on the things which grab your attention now, pay may attention to your academics for now. Your English is poor!

See how you made a fool out of yourself

I am a Graduate. B.sc Economics (University of Ibadan). I'm currently into Real Estate and Micro Finance.

Get a life young man. You are the one who needs to go back to the drawing board @embolden

Laveda:
Too early, go back to sleep.

Shut up if you have nothing to say.

So this funny girlfriend of mine misbehaved. I was so pissed. Though she apologized and begged my forgiveness. I forgave her..

Few days later she said that she expected me to beat her that day she messed up. We were having sex as she said it so I didn't really comment on it just told her I lover her

Really?

It's not to deceive anybody.

It's just that the ring use to disturb when finger!ng. Ladies that carry marriage for head then let them wear it

Strahovski1 where are you? Your attention is needed.

Unapapadeycraze how far boss? We need your attention.

Jadekitana your attention is needed.

Where are the trolls of this forum?

Anyway most of dem trolls are contesting for Mr Nairaland. lol

alobright17:
What if you go to e.g calabar after there u now enter Abia and the ladies you meet in Abia are also from Calabar but based in Abia,how will you rate them since they're from the same state but based in different states?

Nice question.

We would be able to differentiate them. We would go to areas filled with indigenous people.

Lol sex is the main thing. That sex

What kind of font is that? I can barely read that.