mecussey:
no need to date when u are not ready for marriage, u could just make female friends if u are curious to knw about women. However, ur bae is a les or he has another guy

No bro. She told me that she won't have sex with me unless she is my wife. She is not lesbian. She is straight. She doesnt even like women at all.

Dahkogrin007:

I knw truth hurts but u need Jesus all d same

Go and secure your salvation before coming to judge me. Holy guy on romance section by 12.16am

Mtcheew.. abeg make I see road

ZORO47:
So you smashing prostitutes? Does your GF do with other men??

Answer the question I asked. My activities are my responsibility not yours. Besides, I do not know whether or not my gf does anytin with other men. All i said is that she is the no sex before marriage type.

Don't derail my thread.

Dahkogrin007:
You need Jesus

Better respect yourself. Is that the answer to my question? Better park well

Any guy in a no sex relationship? How is it? My girlfriend since we started dating have never agreed to sex before marriage. Although she always play with herself but refuse me. One of the reasons why I patronise prostitutes. Even she knows i do.

So guys how do you cope?

firstking01:
The issue was too minor for her to go to that extend bro.

I think she is angry with me so any minor issues automatically escalates into a major one

firstking01:
Because of a mere disagreement over a series you were watching on teli, your gf gave you a 24hrs altumatum to appease her and make her change your mind ba?,,,if you do it you lack guts.

Boss pls tell what I can do. I have done what vinshu said this morning. And it seems she liked it. That's just want I want to know. That's why I posted it. What I'm. Seeing here is not why I created the thread.

jemype:
bro u need to change ur parade. Was in a similar fix where she got herself thinking she was the ultimate and all till i threatened to dump her. Men she sat up big

Bro, I only asked nairaland to tell me how I can make her stay. That's all I really want. I have no intentions of letting her go.

callMeAlpha:
you're obsess bro,..and dey hate it..yeah,u heard me right..better start preparing ur mind cos she's gone already, you're no longer the boss

I never took myself as the boss in the first place. I believe relationship is a partnership. There is no boss

callMeAlpha:
oga abeg watin be ur problem?,u dey find advice bt u no want take anyone

I asked for advice on what to do to make her stay not to let her go. What I'm getting isn't what I asked for

jemype:
how long have u been dating her?

Long enough

olac21:


Someone's taking you for granted and you're here saying you don't want to leave her!stay with her then and let her break your heart into pieces!good morning!

Nigerians. Let me worry about that. I ask for advice on what to do to make her stay. Only 2 people have answered that. Let me worry about the heart breaking.

Good morning

olac21:
Na you guys dey give these girls leverage to toy with your heart-bro do nothing let her leave she's made up her mind..she doesn't just love you any longer!free her!

Brother, it's hard for me to let her leave. I cannot do that. I want her to stay.

Femich18:
Abeg let her go and stop wasting your time

This isn't helpful

pacino26:
24 hrs the movie starring boiledhead and fried egg. Look it's a trick! Yes, when a woman is fed up there nothing you can do bout it. So it's either she's playing you to probably spice up the relationship by having do something to impress her and make her feel fly (which is romantic of course) or she's test running some premeditated acts on you geared towards establishing dominance. and get back to Port to tell her friends how she put you on a gentle precipice for 24hrs.

So you can either be Jack Bauer or Jack Nanny. If it's a threat you treat it as a threat you think it's a prank then play along and impress your lady. The most important thing now it's that you've to put on your thinking cap and be very rational!

How minutes to your countdown?

I really appreciate this. It appears to be a threat as she was very serious. And it did not appear to be a trick. It's not a chance I'm willing to take

pcguru1:


Well the truth is if a woman is going to leave you she will, better get used to the idea that anyone can leave. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you will end up with them, with that being said, just come to terms and just tell her how much you love and you will never want to see her leave you and some mumbo jumbo about she means the world to you and all that shit. She's your gf you know what's she's like just be honest and bare your soul, most of us are too miserable to give any decent advise anyway, I can't imagine myself convincing anyone because I don't think I can love anyone like that again. All the best yo sha don't commit suicide

Thanks bro.

jemype:
This aint relationship. This is dictatorship bro u need to know what u are doing cuz she is already putting the price tag of "weak" on u. Does she have a child for u? Then if not be numb about if nd jus wait. If she loves u she will come back if not she will go. Believe me there are a lot of fishes where they came from. Its not u that will hit menopause so live on bro.

Bro I cannot just sit and allow the lady I love to walk out the door and don't come back. I need advice on what to do to change her mind. What if she decides to leave? And don't come back? I don't care about menopause or whatever. I only care about my love being with me

Lytech:
Let her suit her self...
This act will keep repeating itself...
In the end,she might end up quitting even when it will hurt u the most..
Let her go...which am very sure she dare not

I love her. I don't know but I cannot risk letting her go. I was even planing proposing to her sef.

Vinshu:
Lol.

Answer these two questions:

1.) Are you a misogynist? Yes or No

2.) Are you in love with her or obsessed with her?

Don't answer. Those are rhetorical questions.

You should firstly, apologize to her for whatever motherfvcking crack you must have pulled to get her upset! Give her a chill pill such as a walk at dawn before sunrise and tell her what she wants to hear!

Then during the day, don't take her to lunch. Take lunch to her. That works much better. And don't look cheap. You could take it to her work place and at CoB, you drive her home.

And at dusk, take her for a walk again and tell her why you want her to stay! And apologize again. I.e repeat the activity at dawn. Tell her what she wants to hear.

Return here with results after 24 hours.

What is cob?

pcguru1:
Lol but you sef OP she's not your wife and you're shouting on her to cook for you. Good luck Jack Bauer

Bro it wasn't like that. I was angry and it was one time only

Please if you guys remember my former thread. I said my gf threaten to end our relationship because I shouted at her for not cooking for me.

This night again we were both watching a TV series and an argument ensued over the show and thats how she took it personal saying that I support the man because I'm also a misogynist that we are birds of the same feather and she told me that I am a wicked person. And all sorts of hurtful words.

She then said it's over between us that she would return to her place in Port-Harcourt first thing tomorrow morning. After much begging she has giving me 24 hours to make her reverse her decision and change her mind.

Please what can I do within 24 hours?

Lalasticlala help me

ibigbemiajax:
funny enough the marriage been get me visa american to be specific

Indeed and how has it worked out for you? The money you spent in the whole ceremony, the time, the travels and all someone could use that for something more productive.

Marriage is a scam pls.

johnson232:

because u have boiled the head u would have use in getting married...

Is marriage by force? You that you are married did it give you American visa? Or did you receive alert from your bank?

Mtcheew.

How would they know you are 30? Beside even if they know.. dem no fit force person. I am 49 and I'm single

Greene66:


Be deceicing yourself. You are broke. You are jobless.

Well, take a chill pill. You are not paid for this

kaziblake:
Thanks hun

Dare2differ

whogoscam:
How dare you call vinshu a racist? You that your gf bought you 12k glass and you still went to sleep with ashawo in ibadan and came to ask us if you have hiv aids? Check your profile. You cheated on her and now you want to cheat again.

Greene66:
This op is something else. KashyBaby of all. And remove the Indian guy from your post. You don't even have the balls to write his moniker. Scared kid

Silence is the best answer. ..

coolsix:

And again, remove the name vinshu from your post. Thou shalt not call her name in vain.

I pity you bro. Be worshipping her skin color. She doesnt even know what you look like and she doesn't care.

I don't know why she doesn't like me. She always support threads that are against me. Anyway, I think it would be great if she could partake in miss NL contest i would vote.

Amongst the foreigners on nairaland that I have seen their pix, KashyBaby is good and she isn't a racist unlike vinshu or the Indian guy.

+1 for KashyBaby.

Hadez:
I asked you people to upload boring Saturday but instead u are busy being perverts

Nobody is a pervert. When you dress and pose for the camera d way you did. It's a simple

"Come and fvck" situation .

Greene66:


Shut up. You that is begging your gf to give you glasses for 12k. The day we said you are the most jobless this just proves it. Where in his post did he ask her to reply his pm? Or ask her to lay with him? Start applying sense before you apply vaseline. It's your type that masturbate on pix of females here

I won't give you the satisfaction of engaging you

Hey op, don't push it.. she won't reply your pm let alone get you laid.