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Pets / Re: What Is The Actual Danger Of In-breeding? Should I do it? by BoiledHead(m): 9:13am On Sep 16, 2017
I think you should not do it. Personally, I heard that dog incest is bad no matter what. If you are looking for those traits, I think you can get another male or female to mate your female or male offspring. The thing will still be there only it may be diluted. I don't think you can keep the exact traits 100% In one family for life.

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Romance / Re: I'm Feeling So Lonely Even In My Relationship... I Want To Comit Suicide by BoiledHead(m): 6:04pm On Aug 25, 2017
sheycrown:
Hey BoiledHead, first of you need to get the suicide thoughts out of your mind. I'm sure your girlfriend does not even know about all these issues, why don't you speak with her??....Above all, you need a friend. I've realized that the place of a friend is not the same thing as that of a lover. Don't know if you reply pms. I would send you one now....Let's be friends.

Thanks my email of nairaland isn't working...
Romance / Re: I'm Feeling So Lonely Even In My Relationship... I Want To Comit Suicide by BoiledHead(m): 6:03pm On Aug 25, 2017
CorGier:


There is a darkness that hovers over all men, an emptiness that never goes away, we are slaves to the demons that haunt us. Love and sex, spirituality and prayers, drugs and weed, gambling and alcohol are all temporary distractions - a mere respite from our troubled/restless minds. In the end, we are all alone.

That said, how does running moving away to a hole somewhere save you from YOU? True happiness comes from within, and you, Sir, are not at peace with yourself. Life owes you nothing, and like you've found out the hard way; a woman's love and affection guarantees nothing. Women are biologically programmed to bear your offsprings and not for "connecting and sharing." They just ain't built that way.
Heck, even our own mothers grew up to never really "get" us much less some girl.
All you need bro is you, love you. Go out there, get a hobby - hit the gym, lift, eat right, set up new goals, spend more time with family (family is all you need, really), live life with little or zero expectations from people, most especially women. Be a better you, be your own soulmate nigur.

Keep your head up, better days await you! Peace.


Thank you so much bro.. I'm a little eased now as I understand what you said. I'll give it a try.
Romance / Re: I'm Feeling So Lonely Even In My Relationship... I Want To Comit Suicide by BoiledHead(m): 9:12am On Aug 25, 2017
popefuse:
If you really want to commit suicide then what are yoy waiting for?. What you want is help, that is what you should say.

help me please
Romance / Re: I'm Feeling So Lonely Even In My Relationship... I Want To Comit Suicide by BoiledHead(m): 9:05am On Aug 25, 2017
SmellingAnus:
Learn how to enjoy yourself alone... The biggest company I could ever have is with myself... Infact, I once told someone ... I could stay alone in portharcourt for one year without another human and still be happy, no doubt I may once in a while feel lonely, but that will be like 10% .... Bro... Enjoy being alone... Maybe my upbringing played a part in this but it's cool... Above all... Remain open minded, be willing to learn new things/principles with regards to relationship... There are many folks that will gladly trade places with you... Infact if this is your only problem, you don't have one, you are the problem and not them.... The earlier you realize it, the better for you...

Thanks man but you know you said 1 year.. I have been alone technically my whole life.. sad

But I'll try what you said. God bless smiley
Romance / Re: I'm Feeling So Lonely Even In My Relationship... I Want To Comit Suicide by BoiledHead(m): 8:55am On Aug 25, 2017
Dudeweedlmao:
You have a good live mate.

But please feel free to commit suicide you ungrateful fu#k.

Yup.. A good life with no one to talk to isn't a good life. Trust me I can give you all the money but if I take away companionship and friendship from you, you'd understand.

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Romance / Re: I'm Feeling So Lonely Even In My Relationship... I Want To Comit Suicide by BoiledHead(m): 8:54am On Aug 25, 2017
Stevengerd:
So because yo lonely, you wanna commit sucide. Bro I Support you atleast we we reduce gradually. infact we are too much in dis country.

Yes I do.. Lonely since was born.. Can't help it. My uncle died and NO ONE ATTENDED THE BURIAL EXCEPT NUCLEAR FAMILY MEMBERS BECAUSE WE ARE BLOODY LONELY IN OUR FAMILY. NOW TELL ME HOW TO DEAL WITH THAT!!
Romance / Re: I'm Feeling So Lonely Even In My Relationship... I Want To Comit Suicide by BoiledHead(m): 8:52am On Aug 25, 2017
Synzu:
Rest well, bruh. smiley

Thanks Bro. .Think suicide is the way forward because since I was born I can't boast of a friend. It's such a shame. If I fall sick now, there is nobody to call except my girlfriend. Imagine that. What if I'm in a dire situation who do I call. Do you get it?

Even God gave Adam a partner because He knows we can't survive alone. It's been years and decades for God sake.. I can't continue. .

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Romance / Re: I'm Feeling So Lonely Even In My Relationship... I Want To Comit Suicide by BoiledHead(m): 8:50am On Aug 25, 2017
delishpot:
So, if you die today, what opportunity do you have to make your tomorrow better? ABI you no know say Na only life fit bring positive change? You don't see any dead body wey achieve great feats before? Na the achievement we make when alive naim matter o. Better forget this pity party you throwing and look for something positive to fill your time. Go learn tailoring or some other craft if you don't have what to do.

I think I have more of a job than you do obviously. I think you missed the part where I said, I have a business. I own a business enterprise. So I've passed that. Im not broke. I'm comfortable financially. Learn to read
Romance / I'm Feeling So Lonely Even In My Relationship... I Want To Comit Suicide by BoiledHead(m): 8:31am On Aug 25, 2017
Growing my family believed in nobility and honor. My father never let us meet girls neither did he let my sisters meet boys. He always told us that we were different and how out of this world we were. So many bullsh!t he told us and even used force to ensure we obey. As a result, I had no friends let alone female friends to even talk of a girlfriend.

All my high school holidays I spent at home alone because I had no friend to visit neither did I have a friend to visit me. My brothers were in the university, my sisters were with our aunt who trained them in many stuff so they would be 'Powerful Women' in future. So it was just me.

I went to the university, I had no friends. No one knew me. No girlfriend still. I had no one to share my problems with. I had to 'Google' my problems. About 3 years out of the university, I met a girl in the club which I visited. I do not visit clubs to party (party with who sef) but I visit to pick runs girls. Please don't judge me.. No friends... No girlfriend... At least I will get laid. I won't be Virgin undecided. I loved her and she ditched me after all my work in her life. Hell I'm I destined to be alone

So I met another girl at a company. she approached me first. We exchange numbers and got talking. We fell in love and so on.. It has been 10 months since I have been with this girl..

There is a problem now. I don't talk to her. I don't share things with her so much because I'm not used to it. I'm used to keeping secrets. If I take decisions without involving her and it backfires, maybe it goes south she will get angry saying I never share problems with her. Now it is affecting our relationship. Again, she isn't counsellor of the year.. Little things I tell her, she doesn't offer me any counsel or advice.. She will just say 'ok' or tell me to pray... Or just like tell me to do it.. Which isn't good enough. Sometimes I expect her to tell me NO and 'Don't do it'. Not always saying Ok and Yes when it isn't. So I don't waste my time sharing things with her.

She feels she isn't involved.. I feel I am alone and with no one.. We both made a mistake few weeks ago because she didn't throw me a bone... What is the point of a relationship? If I will do all the thinking and solving? Yes I'm the man but please fvck it.. I'm not in a relationship for breeding like most men (seX and children).. When I'm not a dog. I want to be with someone and no longer be alone.. And being with someone is beyond having sex and making babies.. It's about connecting and sharing.. telling each other what's necessary.. reprimanding each other and maybe judging each other if necessary.. So we don't live like we are alone.

But I guess my case is different. Yes I get the good food she cooks and the hot sex and corporate swag(she is a CEO in a company like that).. But that isn't enough for me. I told her to quit her job and walk with me. She agreed but I'm still thinking what difference it will make because I plan to go far.. Maybe out of the country to some quiet and lonely place. Will she make any difference?

I'm just confused and sad.. Don't know what to do. Should I just walk away from everything including her and murder myself? Or I stay with her in this country and try to adapt to loneliness? Or should i walk away with her and hope for the best?

All my life has been on beer and liquor and prostitutes because I am damn lonely!!! I have no one to keep me company. No one to take me off the Internet and Google or Porn. Back then daddy will punish me for watching porn. Telling me I had a bright future. Hell my future is here but what do I get? I have a house in my name.. A car in my name.. A business in my name.. A CEO girlfriend. . So yes I am OKAY!! My future is damn bright! BUT LONELY! cry

Sorry I bored you and forgive my foul language. My girlfriend influenced me. I wonder how she is still having a job with her use of language especially the f word.

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Pets / Re: Eskimo Puppies Available For Booking by BoiledHead(m): 4:58am On Aug 17, 2017
Andyblaze:
Ekuke

Foolish

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Pets / Re: Male GSD Mix Going Very Cheap. by BoiledHead(m): 7:16pm On Aug 16, 2017
How much?
Pets / Re: Looking For A Female German Shepherd To Cross With Mine. by BoiledHead(m): 5:58pm On Aug 16, 2017
Bros, no offense but your dog isn't a GSD. Even if it is, it is a mixed GSD not a pure GSD.

This dog i see is far from GSD.

GSD DOES NOT HAVE A WHITE MUZZLE OR WHITE NECK! EXCEPT THE PURE WHITE GSD

Even the coat markings does not look like that of a GSD. Its far from GSD bros.
Pets / Re: 3 Years Old Gallant Male Boerboel For Sale......... by BoiledHead(m): 3:41am On May 23, 2017
He looks Lean

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Pets / Re: I Just Got My First Pet. How Can I Train Him In Becoming A Beast? by BoiledHead(m): 3:35am On May 23, 2017
Greene66:


@bolded. Thank you!
So you see its not just me. It's a #Fact. If you want a beast then you have to become a beast yourself. Don't treat a dog the usual pet loving way and expect a beast. No! Many don't even know the meaning of beast. I'm not forcing you but it is the truth. For your cause

Isn't there a more better way to accomplish this? I have kids in my compound though I expect the dog to know them.
Pets / Re: I Just Got My First Pet. How Can I Train Him In Becoming A Beast? by BoiledHead(m): 3:27am On May 23, 2017
arcbay:


Please send me your address, i'll like to pay you a visit! And before then, send us pictures of your bests please

U never can be so sure. Anger is different from territorial defense. Most dogs in Nigeria home we call aggressive are just defending territory. But an Angry beast. No be territory ooo. Na person he wan kill. So don't go anywhere. It's not worth the risk. Don't risk your life to prove a point on nairaland. Lol it doesn't matter. Even me I'm not going with that advise as we have kids here but it doesn't mean it wont work or something.

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Pets / Re: I Just Got My First Pet. How Can I Train Him In Becoming A Beast? by BoiledHead(m): 3:24am On May 23, 2017
Lol I really appreciate everyone on this. I shared with my friends and they told me about the dog trainers. However, from what my colleagues who have dogs told me, they said what is similar on this thread. And I can see it in their dogs.

I thank you all. I will be posting pics of my boy later.

@Greene66 oga u want to kill me and my dog abi sad
But it's what people around me are suggesting sha.
Pets / I Just Got My First Pet. How Can I Train Him In Becoming A Beast? by BoiledHead(m): 5:23pm On May 21, 2017
I just purchased my first pet today which is a 5 weeks old German Shepherd. Full pedigree. Though he(a male) has a short coat not the usual long furry ones we see on TV and on the streets. He is also a straight back.

I want him to become a beast that would be feared by anyone who enters by compound either invited or uninvited let alone come to my door. sad

What should I do? He is sleeping now. Would vaccinate him tomorrow.

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Religion / Re: In Need Of Powerful Spiritual Power And Ability by BoiledHead(m): 5:19pm On May 21, 2017
RoyalBoutique:


You just insulted your overlord and saviour Prophet Muhammad SAW ... (still wonder what SAW means, don't have time to Google it)

I will report you to the league of Islamic scholars.

I'm not a Muslim. I don't know why you take me as Muslim. I'm not a pervert. I don't fancy virgins or sex. I have much more better work to do than that so screw the Muhammad.
Religion / Re: In Need Of Powerful Spiritual Power And Ability by BoiledHead(m): 5:26pm On May 14, 2017
RoyalBoutique:
Accept Prophet Muhammad in your life.

You will get little girls for free.

I'm not a pervert
Religion / Re: In Need Of Powerful Spiritual Power And Ability by BoiledHead(m): 12:08pm On May 01, 2017
FellaL:


and if I don't?

You better not give yourself unnecessary headache.

You don't have work. Today is Monday.

Jobless dude.
Religion / Re: In Need Of Powerful Spiritual Power And Ability by BoiledHead(m): 6:54am On May 01, 2017
Greene66:


Afraid of incision and you want to do Ise? Bros u neva ready. Although it may not require that but you have to take the step first.

Sent you a pm
Religion / Re: In Need Of Powerful Spiritual Power And Ability by BoiledHead(m): 6:49am On May 01, 2017
FellaL:
LOOL. Humans need help

This man you better leave this thread.
Religion / Re: In Need Of Powerful Spiritual Power And Ability by BoiledHead(m): 6:47am On May 01, 2017
Greene66:
Op,

Where are you located?

I can assist you but know that it isn't a small thing. Teleportation is a very powerful work not a small thing.

I'm in Lagos. Mushin area. Someone told me that I would have to receive some incisions on my body. I'm scared of that
Religion / In Need Of Powerful Spiritual Power And Ability by BoiledHead(m): 6:28am On May 01, 2017
I am in need of a powerful and very potent spiritual power(Ise) that can allow me to Disappear and Appear anywhere and anytime.

Any potent Spiritualist or Babalawo in the house, please comment here so I can know the details.

Also I need ability at which if I touch somebody, whatever I want for that person will manifest.
Romance / Re: Lets Have Fun!! BE Sincere – How Did You Save Your Bae’s Number On Your Phone? by BoiledHead(m): 6:29am On Mar 16, 2017
I save it with her name.

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Romance / Re: Infidelity And Making A Successful Marriage. A Dangerous Gamble! by BoiledHead(m): 7:41pm On Mar 12, 2017
Bro you make sense.

Anyhow we wan look am. That's the truth up there. But what I'll say is that we should try our best to make our partners happy so they don't cheat on us. We can't stop them but we try. Nice one
Family / Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by BoiledHead(m): 8:36am On Mar 11, 2017
Strahovski1:
Tell her to proceed on the divorce. Infact, help her pay the bills of the law suit

Guy ar u 4 real?

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Family / My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by BoiledHead(m): 8:33am On Mar 11, 2017
My sister is about to put an end to her marriage in a very dangerous way. What happened?

She caught her husband sex chatting on whatsapp. She didn't even catch him physically sexing but chatting and she wants to put an end. Their son would be celebrating his 5 years birthday soon and is this the gift they wish to give the young chap?

I have tried my best to talk to her but I have no idea on how to go about this afterall, I'm single. She was like "what do you know about marriage?". The husband on the other hand hasn't taken my calls and he angrily left the house since 3 days.

Big bros and sis In the house, what advice can I give to my sister?

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Romance / I Almost Gave A Soldiers Wife A Dirty Slap by BoiledHead(m): 11:18am On Dec 13, 2016
Thank God for me o.

This December shocked

One woman (all those 'my husband-my husband' women) just double crossed me along Ikeja today. If I wasnt sharp I would have broken my headlamp on the side covet.

I was so angry that I overtook her and blocked her. Came down and pulled her out of the car. She was arguing speaking English and I raised my hand to land a dirty slap. Then I noticed the car plate number is

NA-XX-XX in green color with Army on top. cry

Immediately I said, "it is well. Just drive normal. Thanks"

And I left . God save me sha
Romance / Re: Would You ? by BoiledHead(m): 11:10am On Dec 13, 2016
The moment my gf and I concluded that we would be getting married I told her to move in with me effective immediately.

She told her dad and the dad refused. She also refused. Then I told the dad

"This is Nigeria. We are Nigerians. I cannot marry a person that when I am in Lagos she could be in Abuja fvcking another guy. If she is still babe or side chick no wahala. But fiancee? No way! It's not by force"

And the dad said it's okay on the condition that he can visit at anytime.

We are living together. I'm well aware of her movements as she is aware of mine. Not that she would be living somewhere else and I would be saying "I'm getting married soon" meanwhile she dey club or one guys house. undecided

Although some of my guys were saying that it's wrong that I'm caging her and all sorts. And I said

"It's not by force. My marriage, my rules" grin

Thank God I'm not broke sha. If I'm broke I wonder who would listen to my rules shocked

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Romance / What Is Your Favorite Love Making Position?why? by BoiledHead(m): 9:43am On Oct 05, 2016
Let's discuss..

what is your ravorite sex-position? and state your reasons.

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