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SimplyFacts:
Aunty Bola,

Tick, says the clock.......



From a caring brother.

Thanks my brother Happy New week

After all these what next May God help us

donbachi:
E dey sweet.but,dem must put salt and pepper over.

see me laughing seriously here

These cases of exs are too much abeg some relationship ended with mutual understanding and genotype, no fight, this life is not a war zone, if a relationship or marriage can't be built on trust, then end it!!!! Abi I hate suspicious and jealousy if she let her husband knows what is going on, no problem. As for me, if she is transparent with what she is doing with no suspicious, let her face her work. Me that is praying that one of my exs should remember me now and give me #500000 na transfer to my account

I must be there!!!

When I tried reaching her around 8pm (she's usually always reachable) and she didn't pick the call, the phone was later switched off ...I called her room mate and was told she's not at home



Only these are red flags!!!!!!



Like seriously.... trust my foot! She can't accept her man to have a dinner with a lady now, I know she will be jealous when she couldn't reach you in the night when you are not picking calls!!!! Do unto others as you want others to do unto you! Having a date with a married man intimacy with a married man and 30 minutes inside her apartment when it's not official? What are they doing?! Watching movies koburu oooo. Office talk or what? Why not be in the office and end there? She is a real cheat!!!! Irresponsible lady at that, so Wake up!!! Okay ooo let me keep quiet

Congratulations please take good care of your wife, best luck

The moment he wasn't picking calls from 6pm till 10am everyday, he would call by 11am to apologise that he slept off , sometimes he would say he didn't see any missed calls mo ya japa

#500

I can't even move closer to an angry friend not to talk of dating him. Anger that can lead to death or unrepairable damages She will definitely kill you one day, run now!!!!

Oniranu I pity your old age

donhils:
Get her arrested how? He just said the girl no longer works where she used to work, no longer lives where she lived, and no longer picks his calls. So how is she going to be arrested?

If you ask me, na who I go ask

Stupidquestions:
Akwa-Ibom...choi...that language and accent is like talking with hot yam in your mouth

na so

xtycool:
Life is not balance, while some good girls are looking for good man, with simple life styles, who flabouyant weeding help.

Abi now it's well

Are you sure there is nothing hidden more than that If no, get her arrested since you have the papers. Some people are just heartless

lilvicky68:
And they aren't picking up..
Omo I go knock like madman..if you no open two of us no go get peace..

O ga o

lilvicky68:
E be like say them never lock you outside before..

Phone is there to call now

CharisEleos:
God bless you.

You needed to hear the knock.

Pele

Twice is enough

TeamLeader:
Yea exactly. I've once lost a good girl too that's why I want my friend to date the girl

Let the lady decide on her own

don4real18:
Sometimes, when you are in love, you tend to miss these signs. Gladly, I'm moving on.

I understand congratulations once again

We did agree that we were going to have a small wedding, and the day of the introduction came, and I traveled with my family, spent a lot of money on hotel bills, etc. It did go well, and that was when it started.

She reneged on our agreement on the size of the wedding. She told me that she wanted to have her dream wedding although she had no money. I could not bring myself to spend so much on a wedding only to end up eating hand to mouth in my marriage. It became a back and forth argument. Her dad wanted it small, but her siblings wanted it big. My mum did try to advise her, but she felt my mum shouldn't have a say in her wedding being a supposed generation Z.



I did have to look for ways she would be happy without spending too much. Then the counseling issue came, and I was informed to come back to Abuja by her pastor. It was inconvenient, so I told her to recommend virtual counseling because I'm not ready to go and spend a lot staying there. She was mad at my response, saying that it was disrespectful, suggesting such to a supposed man of God, making it disrespectful to God[/b]



You ignored all the red flags!!!!! You both are incompatible like seriously. Just let her go if she can't abide with you as you are now she will find someone to spend lavishly with, you will find a better person, just be calm. Just go to church for thanksgiving, dance like and pray for better half of your choice A broken relationship is far better than broken marriage....

Don't start what you can't continue please

It's personal issue between you and God, giving is not to show. I love giving to poor people I see on the road though I'm not rich, but I don't like letting my left hand to know what I'm giving out. It's between me and God. Some people give but will always behave like nothing happened, they want God to reward them not men. There are many givers on nairaland that I have met personally, they prefer someone to do it for them so that people will not notice them, God bless and continue to provide for them. Those who doesn't give have their best reasons, you can't force them, never!

Wahala

If she is happy in the relationship, let her be but if the guy is still guessing and your padi is responsible, abeg pass her to him. I have seen a lot of things like that. Some guys ( male and female) are still regreting taking some people for granted in a relationship.

Please try to drink zobo with ginger, don't add sugar. It works well. Also try to bitter leaves with no salt