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encryptjay:
Inspiration write-up I must say. Some of house have ideas and plans incubating in our brains but feel reluctant to go all out to materialise these ideas. We have to move out of our comfort zone to trigger some events.
@BoldWinner, you write pretty well.

Thank you. I'm glad you found it praiseworthy. @encryptjay

Xperience12:
Wow I got a call this morning and they were asking to confirm when I finished my NYSC. What does that mean

I think it means you did well. When are you finishing NYSC?

Many dreams have been trapped, caged and buried as a result of the popular line "I don't know how to go about it." It has limited a larger number of people from achieving success in their various fields. This article has been written to push you beyond this line to go ahead and take action based on whatever little information you currently have.

To begin with, I'll like to share this rarely acknowledged truth with you: no one knows exactly how they're gonna go about achieving anything big. Many successful people have simply stumbled upon opportunities because they were already in motion. Remember that "..already in motion!" Anyone who claims to know exactly how to be successful in achieving their ideas is most probably lying. People are in the dark.. but the few in motion will stumble upon their life changing opportunities.

Some of you tend to easily give up on achieving whatever wonderful ideas you've got simply because you think you don't know how to go about it. But the simple truth is that there's always a clue or a hint as regards something you can start in line with that idea.

The Wright brothers didn't have a clue as regards how they could invent the first successful manned flight. As a matter of fact, many people at that time thought it was impossible and even stupid to try something like that. These boys didn't know how to go about it faced with so much pessimism, but they went ahead to experiment and take action that helped them figure out exactly how.

They could've sat back and said "We'll like to invent the first manned flight, but we don't know how to go about it." Their time would've just ticked away and they'll probably have died unknown without making much impact. Thanks to them, the aeronautical industry has improved rapidly since their 12 seconds successful flight in 1902.

What about Thomas Edison who was the inventor of the first electric light bulb? History has it that this dude tried over 1000 times before he was successful in his invention. One thousand good times? I wonder how many of us would have had such patience which Edison had.

Did he know exactly how to go about it? Of course not! If he did, he would not have tried more than the first time. He would've gotten it right the first time! But he had no idea, but was willing to try given some clues which he had. Are you still having the mindset of knowing exactly how to do anything? Let's go over a few more examples.

Abraham Lincoln was one of the foremost and most instrumental American presidents. Legend has it that he failed at many things in his life time. He even contested for many elective positions and failed. You think this man with all his challenging experiences knew exactly how he was gonna become the president of America? You must note however that he was willing to try.

What about Nelson Mandela who was instrumental in the fight against apartheid and multicultural discrimination in South Africa? Do you think he knew exactly how he would be instrumental in achieving his vision even after spending 27 good years in prison? That's a question I'll leave you to answer.

In a post on Goalcast, Actress Taraji P. Henson shared her experience before she rose to stardom. She left for California at 26 years of age with only $700 in her pocket and her toddler. Some people thought she was crazy by taking that decision, but today, she's grateful she took that action.

There are many more examples that I could give, but I'll just stop at these few. What's the point of telling you about all these people? It's simply to let you know that you don't need to focus or dwell too much on figuring out exactly how you going to achieve anything. Because it's a big trap for the mind and you'll easily get stuck there without doing anything.

You should simply just find clues and take action. Action(being in motion) is really crucial. It's the only road that pushes you closer to whatever you want to achieve. The common thing among all these guys mentioned above is this: they were all willing to take important action and try out something(which may have looked impossible) in line with their vision. And that's why they were still able to achieve it.

They all acted on the little clues they had without trying to figure everything out first. Clues are everywhere.. Sometimes, they just come into your mind as hunches to act. Other times, you might get clues from discussion with other people. With the internet at our fingertips, there are billions of clues towards achieving anything. So clues that could inspire you into action are so free.

But you know why you've still not made much progress? It's because instead of acting on those clues, you allow your fears creep in and then you want to figure out the perfect(exact) way to achieve your vision. The whole point of this article is to let you know that there's no exact or perfect way which you can figure out. You're only wasting time.

Simply pick your clues and act on them. Try things out instead of being stuck on the idea zone. When I created this blog 2 years ago, I didn't know anything about blogging. I didn't know about formatting my posts to be search engine optimised, I didn't know about how to design my templates, buy a domain name, edit html and all that. I only had a clue back then and that was to create this blog on a free platform. So I went ahead to create this blog with all my ignorance and in the process, I've learnt a lot about blogging which I never knew. I've met with other experienced bloggers and there's a whole lot more for me to learn.

What if I had been stuck by the question: "I don't know how to go about blogging?" I may probably have never created this blog. You may not have been reading this today. I may never have had the opportunity to touch people's life for good through this blog. It might have just been one of those ideas in my head which I never acted upon. But this blog is here and I'm able to reach you because I wasn't stuck in figuring out everything about blogging first.

So that's the deal: Whatever you're passionate about doing, whatever ideas you've got in your head, whatever way you want to add some value to the world, simply go into it. Take any available clue and act on it. When you're into it, you'll be surprised at how you will begin to know whatever you need to know. You'll learn a lot in the process and you'll move closer to achieving that big idea.

I want you to be successful in your careers and never be stuck in the same zone in your life. And I hope this article inspires you to break out of that comfort(idea) zone into activity.

Until next time,

Break out, take a clue, act on it and keep winning!


Source: http://www.boldwinner.com/2017/12/if-you-ever-felt-like-you-dont-know-how.html

lol.. it's not that simple. A post that will go viral will still go viral irrespective of those rules above. I've come to learn that there are no rules when it comes to blogging. Make your own rules and just keep blogging.

Actually this is none of my business and I just booked this space for nothing.

It's up for rent though.

Oye0404:
Too many rules, what's gonna be is gonna be. No matter how careful u are, if a relationship won't work it won't .

There are no rules. With the right understanding and communication.. there will be no need for rules. You will act right.

Many go into relationships with the mindset of what they're gonna get out from it. This ain't really a bad mindset o. Humans are Basically motivated by what they will get from any venture(some may argue otherwise, but at the base of all our actions, there are expectations and motives). However these motives must also go with a deep reflection of what you can also do for the other party and that's where looking in the mirror comes in.

You want him/her to place you above every other thing, you must ask yourself whether you're also willing to do the same. No one will put you first if you've not shown a considerable level of care, interest and love towards them. It's not Hollywood, it's reality.


Breakups are common these days and people are falling in and out of relationships because they fail to look to look in the mirror. Whatever you expect from your partner, you should be willing to provide even more for that partner.

Love is really deeper than what most of us see it as these days. Love even transcends hate. With real love on our hearts for our beloved, we conquer all forms of conflict, fights or quarrels that may arise. If you form the habit of looking in the mirror, you will be able to really understand your partner and the motives behind his/her actions.

But then most of us aren't willing to look. We don't want to blame ourselves or try to understand why our partner may have been behaving differently. We simply just throw every fault at them and try to paint ourselves as right all the time. We even resort to applying certain wrong advices in order to create some form of desire or jealousy in the partner without even understanding why they're acting differently. It's like taking an injection for a sickness you're not even aware of. That will lead to catastrophe.

The starting point is to be really aware that we are not as perfect as we may think we are and our partners aren't gods either(they are humans liable to changing emotions and feelings). Therefore in order to build stronger relationships, we must always first try to get to the very root of any issues that may arise. We must never be quick to jump into conclusions, rather we should first try to blame ourselves instead of quickly blaming the other.

Because often times, we are the problem 90% of the time. It may be very difficult to see that because you've formed the unconscious habit of never accepting the blame of a bad relationship. You've always blamed it on the other, so it may be difficult to see that you are actually the problem. And the major reason why you may be the problem is simply because you've not tried to understand the root.

You have to be willing to go the extra mile and show genuine love and care to the one you love. The more you express that love, the more the love grows in the other and the more the other person will be willing to treat you exactly the same way. That's how it works. It's not a one sided affair.

It often happens that sometimes we may really be trying our best to show love to someone we care about and they don't even seem to care. This is dicey situation because it could hurt your feelings that this person doesn't appreciate your love. In this situation, you need to really ask yourself whether you sincerely love that person and they aren't committed to another relationship. If the answer is Yes to both, you should persist. Try to push harder and let this person know exactly how you feel about him/her.

Continue to show your love and care. Most times, they will eventually be overwhelmed by your sincere love and reciprocate eventually much more than you even expected. However, in rare cases after persistent efforts, some people will still not care to reciprocate. At this stage, you don't need to feel and about it. If you're really expecting them to reciprocate, you must drop the expectation and simply love them as a choice if you wish to continue loving them. You should never get desperate or obsessed though. Simply just love for the sake of loving and if they push you away, leave them and find someone else to share your love with.

It's our nature to love and be loved. And no situation should make you decide to stop showing love or reciprocating the love shown to you by others. Love makes life worth living and love never runs out. The more you share it, the more you receive it. When you're in a relationship, it's not about how much love you get. It's about your willingness to share your love as much as possible in it. Real love shouldn't really depend on how much love you're receiving from your partner. It should depend on how you're ready to keep giving knowing that whatever you give will eventually return a thousand fold.

If at any point in a relationship you no more feel the desire to share your love, the relationship has become unhealthy. But make sure that the unhealthiness wasn't simply as result of your partner's inability to fulfill some expectation of yours. That will be selfish. Let the only reason be that you no more genuinely feel the desire to share your love in that relationship.

The beginning and end of any relationship should be dependent on you and not necessarily on your partner. Let's think about this and build more loving relationships.


Source: http://www.boldwinner.com/2017/12/building-effective-love-relationships.html

Birthday Statue to be unveiled soon.

This world cup should be worth the hype for Nigeria o. Too much expectations from ordinary people who are tired of the current situation of things. Suffering and smiling.. The eagle squad better put more smiles on these faces come 2018. At least let the games unite our minds once again and inspire hope among us. Agitations will naturally subside.

lol.. What a joke..

But seriously, when a 68 year old is making the decisions for youths 15-35, I wonder what kind of decisions will be taken.

Youth leaders need to be matured youths who really knows what's currently up. The world keeps changing rapidly and it's only a youth who is passing through these changes that can understand the plight of other youths. 68-35 is 33 years gap..

Show never start. Crowd here is massive!

interesting. Some cities were centuries older than Nigeria. So in which countries were these cities then?

These guys were Legends that made history when the Super Eagles were setting the pace for African football. Those days when Nigeria didn't have to depend on permutations and combinations to qualify through group stages.

Today, I don't know what's up, but there's hope. As they recently paired us in same group with The Real Argentina(with Messi), Iceland and Croatia, I no know as e go be next year o.

Maybe new Nigerian football greats will be born.. But make dem no come dey miss empty net like Yakubu that year. I still believe we will make it through the group stages come FIFA 2018 in Russia.

Go Eagles!

And so what?

I don't know why some people derive joy from the downfall of other people.

ask yourself what is it inside of you that makes you happy when someone makes a mistake or loses something.

We all need to learn to root for the progress of other people and mind our businesses rather than derive joy seeing people make mistakes.

incredible!

4G at 1000?!


And I'm here struggling with airtel's slow network at 1.5G for 1k and downloads at 200kbps

I feel cheated.

Are you kidding me? How true is this info?

Everything is politics. I have nothing more to say.

What's up now? The question is simple. Sodium Chloride is not referred to an alloy even though it constitutes two elements just like alloys because an alloy is a mixture done under high temperatures and consists of at least one metal combining with another element. But sodium chloride is not formed by mixing under high temperatures. It is formed by chemical reactions. to separate alloys, you can do that using mechanical processes, but for sodium chloride, a compound, you separate it with chemical processes.

I also think that sodium chloride is formed by the reaction of an acid and alkali. Hence bonding of sodium and chlorine ions. But in the case of alloys.. the constituent elements do not react. They are just combined or mixed under high temperature to form the desired alloy. not by chemical reaction.

omenka:
Question.

Explain the reason why sodium chloride cannot be referred to as an alloy even though añ alloy is said to be a combination of two or more elements, one of which is a metal.

This is because sodium chloride cannot be broken down into it's constituent elements as in the case of an alloy.

The guy phone don off o

Lol.. This is very funny and creative. But then it could lead to the more dangerous pornography which some are very much addicted to.
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hmm.. Human beings.. They can be like God or the Devil. No one knows who is who. One must be very careful and pray.

I'm proud of Nigeria once again..

Super Eagles. What a strike from Ighalo!!

Gooooooooooooooal! Moses!

See how neat this Stadium is. Go Super Eagles!

P. S: I'm surprised at the number of people viewing the thread o. Over 500 users + 546 guests. About 1000+