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Have you ever felt like you don't fit in at all or that you are so different from other people around you? Do you feel down because you are not like them? Are you troubled because you are unique and what interests you seems not to appeal to others?

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Have you ever felt rejected? Do you feel like your case is different or you're under a spell of being rejected by everything you've ever wanted? Then hang on, I got news for you.

You may have applied for a lot of jobs, but none of them has offered you a job even after the countless tests and interviews. You may be looking for admission into a university, but you're rejected after every application.

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The way I'm seeing it.. Online business will really experience a massive boom in Nigeria this year alone. Internet is life nowadays.

Softorgasm:
lol thinking about what?
though its just a moniker.

Well..thinking about what you think I may be thinking.

Softorgasm:
True

Yeah, your moniker though.. got me thinking.

This is the kind of girl every sane man would desire. The one with a 'brain' and not just mere physical beauty. It's [url="http://www.boldwinner.com/2017/01/survival-of-smartest.html"]survival of the smartest.[/url]

YUNGLURD:
I cant agree less.Much familiarity breeds a contempt.

Exactly! Balance is always key.

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Love is not a cage where you put someone else and you don't even allow them to breathe without you. Some people have this idea of love and it doesn't really help them in their relationships.

If you really love someone, you should respect their freedom and personal space. Yes, the love should be there, but when you try to overdo certain things, it will tend to be boring and the love soon begins to fade away gradually.

Some people want to be always around the person they claim to love 24/7. But it is not possible to do that given the many responsibilities that they have and time taken by other daily activities. So lovers must come to terms with the fact that they can never be around their loved ones every second.

This is good. And in fact, can you imagine how you would feel if someone is always around you every time and everywhere? You will soon find the whole thing boring and sometimes you need your own space or you want to spend some time alone.

If your idea of loving someone is such that they cannot be happy living their lives when you are not close to them, then you should rethink this 'love.' Wanting to always stay around someone you love can even stem out of mistrust.

You may feel that once you're not there the person may go to someone else or cheat on you. Hence, if you can even mount a camera everywhere they go or set up a drone to follow them, well that would be nice so you can 'confirm' what they are doing.

But that is not love. You are restraining that person's freedom which is definitely not good. You must learn to trust the one you love. If they will cheat on you, they will still cheat anyway without your notice. So what's the point trying to even cage them?

It is difficult to trust another when you've been heartbroken many times, but we can't really accomplish much in matters of love without having a level of trust. Make out time for the one you love, but don't become so obsessed with them that you can't even let them live their normal lives.

A good partner will remain a good partner whether you're watching or not. There is no need wasting your time trying to stop them from 'misbehaving' through your watch. You can't see them 24 hours everyday. So have some trust and sometimes give your loved one some space.

When you respect the freedom of others, they feel it and they will love you more for it. If they decide to cheat and you find out, then fine, good riddance! It is better you found out what they're capable of doing given some space than try to live with a chameleon.

In allowing your partner some freedom, you will find out if they really love you or not. What is the point trying to force love on someone who doesn't love you by trying to cage them? Nothing. Given any small chance, they will cheat. But when your partner stays true to you even when you respect their freedom, then the love is genuine.

Think about it. Share your views through the comments section.

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Some of you may have become conditioned to easily accept certain statistics which tend to make you easily give up on your pursuits. For example someone says, "90% of the people who tried it have failed." "The available slots are for very few people" or even crazy ones like "Very few people become successful no matter how hard working they are."

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These guys are very good actors! After all the tussle, you see them still come together smiling even though it's fake or real. But here? What happens?

firstking01:
So, how many comments have you garner so far on this thread apart from mine who's just trying to help your ministry by keeping it alive and a few others ?...if only you understand how nairalanders esp on romance section hate "LaclickLabend" you won't come here to post have story and directing us to that your blog...again you LOSE big time

Hahaha.. keep making this thread stay active. Thanks anyway.. more people have visited from here.. credits to you!

firstking01:
Then you lose.

I never lose.. I only *wanted* it. Wasn't *forcing* you.. The options were open. You check it out or not. It doesn't change anything. I always win bro. Deal with it.

firstking01:
Bro, why not finish this wonderful thread you 've started??

Because I want you to check out the blog.

cooljoe:
Mehn life can be skewed wen ur broke or yet to achieve any or all of ur goals

Yeah, but nobody gives a damn.. You just got to keep your head up and make it..

SINZ:
True.

Matter of fact, your life has no meaning if you're broke

Good Point.. Money makes the world go round.

Guess what? The world doesn't want to know if you lost your mom or your dad at a young age. It doesn't care whether you were born in a poor or a rich background. It doesn't even want to know about the current problems and challenges which you presently face.

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TrapQueen77:



I love rap... But I don't do it.. I don't know how to flow

That's cute.

TrapQueen77:



One reason to be happy is when u know in PROSPERITY your Friends know You and in ADVERSITY u know your friends...

love the lines.. Do you rap?

Dedicating this article to everyone out there who still finds a way to stay happy despite the challenging situations they find themselves.

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Bluezy13:
Didn't click...



But I buy the idea.
Begging beclouds one's independent personality...inciting lack of confidence in one's self regarding a particular goal.


But begging depends...

Good thing that you didn't click.. didn't expect you to. And thumbs up for buying the idea.

SmellingAnus:
Very true... One of the laws I love must in the book "the 48 laws of power" is " despise the free lunch"... So much wisdom in this particular law....

Nice

This article is dedicated to all the motivated people out there who are willing to put in the required effort and work to get whatever they desire.

You should never beg for anything. Whenever you beg for anything, you simply say that you don't deserve it and you're depending on someone's mercy to give it to you.

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What do you want in your life right now? Is it money, a life partner, happiness, fame, cars, houses or anything else? Whatever it is that you want, understand that it is always out there. It is outside somewhere waiting for you.

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Cc: Lalasticlala, seun, mynd44 do the needful..

Are you currently unemployed or jobless? Are you just waiting for a company or firm to employ you so you can start earning something? Well, here's news for you: Go out there and start doing any little thing you can do.

Things have changed. There are many graduates today continuously turned out from various universities who graduate with the hope of getting a job and have met with little success.

Many people are having the mindset of getting jobs forgetting that there is no more equilibrium between job creators and job seekers. More people are seeking available jobs than the people who are creating these jobs.

If you have the mindset of getting a job, ask yourself how the jobs you're looking for were created. They were created by people like you who chose to think out of the box and start up something big.

We need more thinkers. People who are ready to tackle and provide solutions to existing problems around the globe. There are many problems to be solved in this world and that means that there are many opportunities to solve them through start ups.

Stop waiting idly for a white collar job. Think.. Take out time to think! There must be something you can do, no matter how little. There must be a problem you can solve. You have a talent which you need to use and create something in this world.

Don't complain about capital. If you can think and proffer solutions to any existing human problem, the fund you need will definitely find you. You must not wait for loans. You can do little jobs and save up money to start up your idea.

Don't ever feel helpless, trapped or sorry for yourself. You need to always be thinking and taking action based on the results of your thought. I think the reason why unemployment is a big problem is that most people have become too lazy to think.

They want it easy. They want the job to be offered to them on a platter of gold, so that they can sit in an office from 9-5 and do little, while expecting a steady salary at the end of every month.

Time is important as I said in a previous post. Even if you intend to still find a job, use your waiting time to engage in something that can fetch you some money. You don't need to wait for job offers in an idle state.

Wake up every morning and ask yourself what you can do or what you can offer to the world today. Stop hoping for jobs. Start doing something. Whatever it is. As long as it has the capacity to solve a problem, it is a good start. Just do something and stop sitting around doing nothing.

You're only jobless because you want to be jobless. There is always something you can do. Humble yourself, think and act. You will surely make headway. Stay active and never call yourself jobless!

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1. Learn to do more than the rest
You must be willing to do much more than necessary or what others consider normal. Winners don't just stop at where other people stop, they go the extra mile which is why they get extraordinary results. Many people are lazy and don't want to put in work. That's why few people are at the top. These few are the winners ready to do more than expected.

2. Be persistent, but not to a fault
A winner knows how to be persistent. He keeps pushing for whatever he wants without easily giving up. There are times of course when he quits. But he only quits when he knows he has tried his possible best. Else, he keeps on pushing for his goals. This obsession is what keeps him winning.

3.Place important value on your time
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I came across this story online which really made me think deeply about how we respond to failure and what it takes to be successful. Here it goes:

One night, a spider found a tree to spin its web on. It had worked all day to spin a big, strong web and decided to get some sleep. The next morning when it woke up, it saw that the web had been torn to pieces. The wind had blown so strongly at night.

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respect80:
When you read an interesting topic or article and you click the share button it helps your followers on NL who may not be online at that moment to read the article and comments as well which means you shared what you read with your followers probably if they are not online or didn't come across the topic so I don't think it's useless.

interesting!