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Hi guys, site is running much better now.
If you have registered before, kindly go and login with the details (username and password) initially sent to your email! And complete your registration.
I think the registration I did was cancelled. But the initial username and password sent to me is working just fine now.

Wow.. This is serious, indeed registration isn't enabled anymore. Well, thank God I stayed awake till around 2am after watching Real Madrid VS Valencia game.

Just register again on the new page you're seeing.. I guess the old form is now invalid. Click on the drop down icon and find the "register" Button, then proceed. You'll get an email to verify your account. Verify it and log in to proceed. Good luck.

Op, this is what I think: http://www.boldwinner.com/2016/11/do-you-believe-whatever-will-be-will-be.html Thank me later.

I was inspired to write this article because of a friend who was contemplating suicide because she felt her Dad didn't love her. This was my response:


"Damn.. (name),


Please calm down. You can't kill yourself over anyone. It's not worth it. If your dad is really giving you some headache, distance yourself away from him and stop being too hard on yourself my dear. 


Please, many people out there care about you and they really love you. I care about you too. Else, I won't bother typing this stuff. 


Please, understand that many people love you and want you just the way you are. Moreover, you should love yourself above all else. 


If your Dad is really as terrible as you think, don't try too hard to please him. Just keep your distance from him and still keep in touch with those who really care about you. 


Because the truth is: It's his choice to care about you or not. It's his choice to love you or not. It's his choice to be nice to you or just be wicked. He has his choices. But his choices shouldn't matter to you because you have your own choices. 


You have the choice to keep your distance, respect and honor yourself. Thinking of committing suicide is cowardice. And don't You ever think along those lines again. It's a stupid thought. 


I know such a thought may have come as a way to get back to your dad and prove a point, but it's plain stupid because it won't change anything. Your dad won't probably cry and he may not even give a damn about it. So why think of hurting yourself through suicide. 


The best revenge will be to stay happy. it's a choice you must make. Whether dad loves you or hates you shouldn't matter to you. I mean, why should it bother bother you? 


It's their problem to love you or hate you. But you shouldn't depend on them loving or hating you to be a happy individual. Be happy by doing exactly what makes you happy and going for what you really want. 


Stop this feeling hurt and contemplating suicide. It means you're losing it. I don't want you to lose it. I want you to win it by making yourself happy and being happy even if your dad decides to not care or not love you. 


Be happy. and don't put your mind into it. Okay? I love you and many others out there really do. And your blog's great. Be happy for me and others who love you. Why commit suicide? It ain't worth it. Please."



I've decided to share my response with you guys in case there is anyone else who is thinking of taking his/her own life as a result of someone else's behavior or situation for that matter.


Bold winners understand that no matter the situation they face, whether it comes from another human being or a thing, there is always a way out of it. Suicide is the cowards way out.


No one should take his life over anyone or anything. It's absurd and it just goes to show that one is a loser. You're a winner. You were designed to win and triumph over every challenge that comes your way. You should face them and choose to be happy by making your own choices rather than put your fate IN the hands of another.


That someone doesn't behave in a particular way to you doesn't mean you should take your own life over that person. I mean, you're simply giving control to that person over your own life. Neither should the outcome of any venture move you to suicide. These things are not in control. As a bold winner, you're always in control. Your life is yours and you bloody own it!


So be in control of your life and let nothing control it for you. Live your life happy. And no matter what it is, just don't ever think of taking your own life because it's plain stupid and implies that you ultimately lost.


The joy of winning over challenges that seemed insurmountable is greater than anything else. Find that joy and keep winning. People love you, your success story is coming around pretty soon. Just hang on.



Source: http://www.boldwinner.com

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Chriswazo:
u are welcome bro, don't worry, u are not late for the party.

Thanks my man.

Wow. Page 288. I'm a latecomer. Turns out I'm going for batch A stream 1. Hope to make some new friends here. Who knows what NYSC has in stock for us?

Oshea4eva:
my problem now is that I'm a serving corp member in Benue state to pass out on Friday April 7th. and my interview is slated for Wednesday April 5th. I dunno if they'll allow me to take the test without having my discharge certificate.

Guy, go for the test. Explain to them. They will allow you. Make sure the certificate is ready soon after that in case if interview. Go get it

Great Job! Front Page things o. Let other Corpers learn.

AIG264:
99 percent of the people that watch porn, also masturbate.. true or false

Speak only for yourself bro. Your statistics are unfounded.

AnonyNymous:
Why would anyone want to break free from porn? Lol

The question is rhetoric.

acenazt:
Op Be Saying Break Free When Some Peeps Be Hugging It Like Family Values

lol..You crazy mehn!

No matter how much we pretend that pornography doesn't exist, the plain truth is: it does! And many more are addicted to it than we may assume.

Pornography has become so easily accessible these days over the internet. You may not even be searching for it before you come across it. It could come as a pop up on a website and few clicks out of sheer curiosity, you're roped in.

Porn has robbed many minds of their dreams and visions reducing them to people who think about nothing else but sex. How many times have you lost the motivation to do anything after viewing any form of pornography? My guess is: all the time!

This silent killer saps you of your energy, will power, focus, drive to succeed in life and your motivation. Many who are addicted to it feel helpless and that nothing can be done. They feel guilty and weak after viewing pornography. They know it's not good for them, they want to quit, but they can't stop.

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In today's society, some people try to appear too nice and overdo things in order to win the love, respect or admiration of other people. Ironically, it usually turns out that they get the opposite of what they want because they were trying to be too nice.

Think about this: Parents who keep on letting their kid have whatever he or she wants end up spoiling that kid no matter how generous they think they are. The kid grows up not knowing that some things are not good for him because the parents had not disciplined him properly. And why's that? They were trying to be too nice.

You own a pet and all the time your pet keeps on peeing in your living room. You don't want to punish that pet by using some strict training practices because you claim to love the pet and you're trying to be a nice pet owner. What happens? The pet goes on misbehaving and causing problems for you.

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joinnow:
Both

You can't be hot and cold at same time.

Diplomaticbeing:
@OP

It's unfortunate that 99 percent of the world population belong to the "don't" (opportunists) - either by omission or by commission.

Opportunism is evil and should never be mistaken for opportunity. The world need more altruists. I'm an altruist.

99% is too much.. There is no way to really tell how many the 'doers' or 'don'ters' are. The world simply needs more doers. Altruism is a noble philosophy.

The people who make up entire population of the world can be divided into two simple categories: those who do and those who don't. As a living human being you belong to one of these categories depending on your approach to life and the choices you make. Let's look into the two classes.

The class of "those who do," are confident, happy, determined and very successful people. They love to do things and take control of their lives. They don't necessarily have to depend on anybody or anything in order to achieve their goals.

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Congratulations if you fully understood the lecturer. How will his students even understand him?