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see ibinabo's face like wht i dunno
he has given them kola
its expected

emusmith:
From your post, I sense sincerity and care.
Maybe, he isn't used to it.
Give him some time...know when he is happy then try some of 'em when necessary o...You sound cool... Don't change! Be yourself! Cheers!

thanks,but i've already moved on
still think of him atimes sha....
bt am moving to smtn better

micronut:
Lol....your boyfriend was once like that you know...

lol...fortunately i dun av any

emusmith:
I still believe this is possible.
Some ladies exist that could do this. Yes! I don't know if they're on NairaLand sha but I know they're alive somewhere.
You can call them Love Doctors. They are the ones R.Kelly was referring to when he sang that song titled, "WHEN A WOMAN LOVES"

Guys, if you find such ones, you'll be walking on the streets smiling. People will be like, Is this man mad? Yes! You're madly in love with your wife.

Follow me as I highlight Seven Sweet Extras A Wife Does For Her Husband

NOTE: This is not applicable to all males/ females.


1. Cutting his toenails.

She notices your toenails growing so long and you know, some men don't care about "little things" like that. She does it for him. At that moment, she is in charge of his heart! She is 50% sure of getting whatever she wants. DON'T MAKE THAT YOUR AIM.


2. Jumping and Playing on his back

Stop being an adult all of a sudden! Play and leap on his back.
One of many things a man loves but much familiarity and 'over maturity' won't let him know how to even spew it out of his mouth is this.
She better not be robust, lol...Even if she's robust, the man can still manage it...



3. Feeding him

This is especially when he is not too strong... Even when he is sound, doing it brings flavour to your relationship and give him the butterfly feeling. No matter how "ajekpako" he is, he loves it. He loves the feeling. Give it to him. Put the garri in his mouth. That's how to take a man's heart. Not by dragging rights!


4. Helping him knot his tye

This may look foreign, but No! It is not meant for the first five months of your marriage only. Some ladies came to me to teach them how to knot a tie- they want to be doing this for their husband.
It's fun and it shows love!

5. Massaging his laps and legs

Sometimes, your man returns from early morning road work or even from work. You see him complaining of how his laps are so heavy. Give him a massage. Massage his laps, legs and toes, if possible.


6. Constantly Packaging
Food in his food flask to work.

My friend's aunty does this. He packs for the children and the husband too. The husband so much talk about her in the office, other men get intimidated and employed the scheme, lol! This man loves his wife! They are not soooo wealthy...She works o. The man comes from work every day to get a glass of juice first, then bathroom and food...TV and bed. The man too will perform well on bed by force na...

7. Welcoming him with a peck from work as she takes his suit.

If it is good for the goose then it is good for the gander. It is not just a "White People" thing. It is a practice that could change your husband's treatment of you.


He loves you whether you do these things or not BUT when you train yourself to do them, he will not only love you, He will LIKE you.

LIKING someone is admiring the person.
He may love you just for peace to reign and the law demands it.
But for him to really really really LIKE you, you have to somehow go out of your way to do some LITTLE EXTRAs to HELPing him better.


DON'T SAY YOU CAN'T TRY THIS FOR A NIGERIAN MAN. It is a lie! Love has no language. It is the language you give it that it assumes. Love is universal. If it works for that white lady, it will work for you because we are the same.

Have a nice day.

ok maybe a girlfriend shouldnt be doing all that
cuz i tried all that wt my ex nd he'll always say im too clingy
like....even wn we rarely spend time wt each other
nothing dey enter him eye
i just had to move on cuz i deserve to be appreciated

kika23:
Swag?? What's swagg??

he meant style
dress nd fashion sense
grown arsse ladies dont do
swag...

and those guys sleeping on dat small matress will come outside to chyke woman #pathetic

jeez...such cutie wasted

crazysaint:
I thought this man is a priest? I dont understand why priest nowadays jumping into politics. Can he tell were GEJ is wrong? So because he is meek and gentle, that mean any person in the name of priest can emerge from nowhere and say is mind without facing any consequences. GEJ, realy tried just that some people are too daft to know. Now everyone is saying BUHARI should go, accepted! Still in that your mouth you will say buhari regime is the worst regime of government i hav ever come accross. God save us.

tufia...u will use ur own mouth to attest dht buhari's tenure is better

all thanks to etcetra.....
buh lets see hw long she can hold upto ds

Ghostlady:
i dont av to be sure cos am not cheap.....i have respect for myself...

na so
na dem talk pass

must he always cross his lanky legs??

only wish they remember the poor masses in their paradise

sharp lady

stupid liar

sorry sir
uv just lost it

nacosprof:
What are you?
Saying the actual true is very bitter in from some ladies sights
No matter what I will still keep saying my actuality becoz I know the true God sent one will soon find me in due time
God never sleep because his presence reign in me

lol...plz dnt tke it personal
jus joking

does she really need to beg for votes??
if she's confident abt his works
she wont be doing dht

00kris88:
u can call me dat again

broke man

Mrsfaithhh:
I lov dis guy

me too

00kris88:
All these poor poor girls dat have poor poor fadas sha...

relate ur comment wt d topic
broke man

Prexxy1:
they are caring.

until they have enough money
so they can ditch the chick
pu-lea-se

i need role models like ds
in my life. . .my children
must nt suffer ijn...amen

shakaTheZulu:
BUHARI is a terrorist
Apc is BOKOHARAM
Tinubu is a bastard
Osinbajo is a vagabond
Gej till 2019

so now,what does ds
rubbish write up
have to do with the dpo??
u need help

neily:
You can say anything u like. It has become obvious to everybody that GEJ will remain the president of this great nation till 2019. Better take the fact now. Because God Almighty in heaven has already endorsed him, the witches have no choice but to accept the will of God.

..religious fanaticism
what does God almighty have
to do with nigerian politics??
Gej or Gmb
be concerned about how
issues are tackled and
job creation for the youths
rather than this bias judgement
obviously based on religion
or
take a chill pill....thank u

B4UIWAZ:
I'm a virgin

me too

ramalot:
What does albinism have to do with race?

racists discriminate anyway

Bibol:
Place of primary assignment

thanks

Aprime:
Huh? Almost got me.
Title should read; Two masquerade taking a sefie.

lol....dhts too harsh

hardywaltz:
We shall vote for GEJ the way u and other women voted for Sarah Jubril in PDP 2011 convention where she scored one vote and in her words "my one vote shall hunt Nigerian Women".
Just help ur husband pack his etibo, wukoh and Fedora hats.

lol....funny u